₦airaland Forum

lefulefu:
knowing the lady before u travelled that one is different nau.i am talking of guys abroad who hook up with naija ladies they havent meet before.such a lady wont be interested in u but intersted on how u can get her to europe .

The worst is those meeting through match making...It always end in tears.

lefulefu:
even if he was faithful and the wife told him she was tired of the marriage the courts will still force him to give his house and properties to his wife .see u have no chance with the western courts..the only chance u have is to hide some of the money and dont let them know u have money .

lol...When u see divorce cases piled up in that area eeh, u will get tired of women.


Well thank God for Nigeria...we are enjoying a lot here.

safarigirl:
I did not grow up in this manner you are describing. Not all of us knocked on neighbors doors or even have neighbors to knock on their doors.

I have always been a loner. I have acquaintances, not so much friends.

I don't ask strangers for things, in fact, I don't like to ask my own family for things.

Naija guys don't like me, I don't fit the profile of the kind of girls they prefer, I have given up on them. Dora Akunyili's daughter found a sound oyibo guy in this same Canada. You will tell me it is because she has name and a career or whatever, but she found someone. She could have waited for a Sound Naija guy, but maybe like me, Nigerian men did not fancy her because she did not fit the profile of what they wanted

People have different destinies, this doom and gloom some of you preach, there are so many others that will have a different story. My sister has planned two weddings within the last year, with Nigerian brides living in Canada, her ex recently got married in Canada, to a Nigerian woman based there.

I don't have a good story in Nigeria, it cannot get worse in Canada.

safari be optimistic and make urself approachable the right man will be all over u.....Here in Nigeria or elsewhere.

died off....I have tested both. The lady I am about pp loves me more, I can't marry someone I love more...don't make that mistake to avoid heart aches.[/quote]
U are right though not heart ache, u wont have time to go hustle for the daily bread.

died off....I have tested both. The lady I am about pp loves me more, I can't marry someone I love more...don't make that mistake to avoid heart aches.[/quote]
U are right though not heart ache, u wont have time to go hustle for the daily bread.

lefulefu:
aghh like tiger wood's wife that collected all his money and property .dude became broke after the divorce proceedings.

No pity for tiger woods.

He was busy bleeping anything under skirt.

No be every rain weh fall, man suppose fetch......

EVILFOREST:
May GOD and JESUS, bless you including AMADIOHA...
U are absolutely correct.
If a MAN escapes such, he is MADE for LIFE.
COME to the US and see those Ladies, looking for marriages to devour.
The Funny Thing is, they are Loaded with Cash too.
So if you are not CAREFUL, u sink...

MOST of them are here changing ESCALADE and RANGE ROVER JEEPS like wrapper meanwhile, they haven't pulled any member of their families from Nigeria.
Very Common among those NURSES who suddenly saw MONEY and started weeping, saying " Can I be this RICH"..... more terrible especially with those ones that suffered Unemployment/Poverty in Nigeria for too Long.

.... a NORMAL smart RICH GIRL from a humble home is OK.
Since she has never tasted poverty.

You will still meet such ladies in lagos or abuja...Living extravagant, but their family is dining with poverty...smh.

Many women, few wives.

eniolaamos7:
The wife did not actually love him and just used him as a stepping stone or perhaps Greed caused it.
Did he court with her? Or his family just arranged for a wife for him? I have had cases of the latter often times.

The lady used to be his childhood love...

It was that deep and changed his psychology.

His usual line is, every woman is Tiger...


This guy has series of investment here now, and his second wife isnt aware of up to 90%. He no longer trust women..

He said women for him since then is to have sex.


Dude has zero chill now.

Swiitdoll:
That’s very rare compared to the men. It’s higher with the men. I do think Nigerians in diaspora should just marry each other rather than crying about being used for visa at the end of it.

It is not easy..Nigerians never forget their route.


Many people return to marry..If u meet gold diggers then wahala go burst.

Prettiepearlz:
Enlightenment you say? I hear you. Not blackmailing anyone, its just the truth and you know it. Would you like to see your plight being discussed in the most condescending way on a "faceless forum"? While I get your point, I still feel its wrong, he was told such in strict confidence. Deep down Op is not enlightening, he is only catching fun with the responses. Besides lets stop making it seem like a woman is nothing without a man and there is nothing wrong with a young lady trying to go to a country to get a better life, The OP's post is discouraging that in my opinion. People go to Canada married and still end up divorced over there. There is no manual to this thing called life. You just have to live it the way you can.

Every story is for others to learn from other persons opinion.

You don't know the OP, nor the said lady, likewise I.


A woman can exist , but men need her, likewise she needs them.


When u make money, nature will happen...U will now need things u neglect.

Love life, family, kids and retirement to happy home.

Then, u realise, ur house, G-wagon, investments no longer please u.

Rather, a child to call u mom, a man to cuddle u and tell u take it easy.

People think money is everything...When u make it, u will realize its another paper.

Swiitdoll:
Yes, because the men usually dump them after getting a permanent stay for a white lady of being his girlfriend from back home. It’s so common that the home office has moved it from 5 years to 10 years just so the women can figure it out easily if it’s indeed a visa scam marriage lol

So what will you say about guys who returned here to pick wife, only for her to come and dump him for some white guys..

You make it sound like it happens to ladies alone.

Mind you my friend spent 35yrs in Baltimore and experienced such with his first wife.

gargoylern:
fc.uk off

Don't allow her blackmail you emotionally...

Prettiepearlz:
She probably had this discussion with you because she trusted you and didn't think you would use what she probably told you in confidence to create a thread on Nairaland. Think about it!

This is a faceless forum.

OP has to enlighten people using a real issue..Especially those hustling to enter Canada.

U really don't need to bring the emotional blackmailing.

Ishitinyourlife:
I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.

I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.

This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.

People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.

In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.

Advise me please.

Business before pleasure.

But, man must marry if he wants to. Keep observing her and run a proper background check on her. These ladies can put a up a Series ones the want you.

Remember few wives ,too many women.

Shine ya eye, business must be guided.

YoungLionken:
D. Trump's coming back as America's president. That's for sure!

hillary clinton will be the only one to come that closer to trump...Joe biden is surely a walk over for trump.

chop and clean mouth government.

ok

Oyindidi:
Or tuber of yam

na so

Crazychris:
That is not what the OP is saying, he actually meant pussified guys like you shouldn't yield to their girlfriends unrealistic demand for money, e.g putting her on a monthly salary

pucified got me lmao

Biingoo:
Send them to the villa during holiday... That was how I learnt mine

I doubt if it will work that way...Rather na to frustrate grandma and grandpa into speaking cut and join pigeon.....My cousins frustrated my grandma that year..

Local woman couldn't can..lmao

If parents are igbo, the kids will hear because its innate. Problem will be to speak..Which they will do as they grow older.

jericco1:
Yes oh

Thats weird..

jericco1:
Time to marry this girl

Do people borrow to marry?

Trump is the man of the year....

Real recognises real.

ProudlyAfarmer:
Lost Igbo Jew, wake up from your foolish sleep

little kid i didn't force u to stay indoors...Lmao

I understand your frustration.

America is still the world leader....A lot of things will unfold after this panDemic.

NextD18:
@Emboldened, you are correct.

If you see noodle wey dem use watery intention prepare, you go know. But if you see a watery product of mistake, you go still know.

Smh.....

When I read ur comments eeeh, It takes a smart person to see your subliminal messages.


You are observant though.

Akposy:
Rice and eja Kika stew inspired by Mariangeles.

It tasted like olden days food . Yummy

Awesome!.

local food is everything!...Looks like grandma type of stew.

Looking at the presentation All I can say is.....

Kingarthur21:
how about single dads?do they deserve relationship and marriage?

single dads should stick to single mom.

They are in the same boat.

Oyindidi:
That must be a stick

lmao...who goes abt putting stick on...

Yemialade:
Hello my fellow nsiraland members, j need your advice and I will be glad for the opinion each of you contribute
Am a fresh graduate and planning for my life so I started reading financial books to develop myself .my father saw me reading and was like are u preparing for exam that you will be reading, he told me that those financial book written is useless that am just wasting my time reading it.
This same father wants to control my financial life saying I must be a tailor by force. And I don't want that.he even threatened me to lesve his house if am angry.
please help me.

Economic situation is a big deal..Which is y it is common to see girls marry from school.

With full support from her parents.

I think your dad is telling u to get practical and start earning...You need to learn a skill...And make money.

Book worm no deh pay.

Acquire a skill before u frustrate him to grave on time please.

sex sex sex.... since morning oooohh!!!.


By the time we out of corona lockdown, pregnancy will be another rampant case.


To OP, no template for sex, how u wanted it is determined by mood, and the lady involved.

unscripted:
this people wet u dey see no resemble virus for your face? Virus dey hold virus?

. Mad ooh!