Kingarthur21:

Chill...don't take the words of buffoons to heart. When you check our those who are rude and put others in real life they are mostly low lives,just smile,pick up the reasonable advice here and move on.

Thanks

Kingarthur21:

Alot of people get triggered by single moms,it seems SM haunts them.
Give an advice and leave instead of lurk around to insult the kid.

am not lurking around to insult the kid
Mind what you say
Ain't rude and saucy like some of Yu guys
Okay
Now Stay clear

We can now say categorically that nairaland is not the best place to get advices about relationships. Just look at people's comments.

I have my opinion but I believe you'd follow your heart

This Na correct baby mama , let the line move biko

Men dey street dey wait...

Kingarthur21:
how about single dads?do they deserve relationship and marriage?

single dads should stick to single mom.

They are in the same boat.

Franciscabless:
Am a single of mother of one , my baby is 1 year and 3 months , am in a new relationship with my new boyfriend who is not her father. We only start dating 2 months ago I love him so much , he also love me and my baby ,he is already asking me for sex. Am ready but am not sure if I should give to him with protection or I should wait a little bit more maybe 6 months , please I need advice should I give to him or wait a lot bit more?

Sweetie, don't give sex out to him thinking it is a sign of your love and affection. Respect yourself and your body. The fact that you are a single mother, should NEVER make you cheap.
Treat yourself like a queen, not just physically but also mentally.
Don't give it up until he pays your bride price.
If he genuinely love and cares for you, he should be able to wait till the wedding night.
Learn from your mistakes, dear.
I don't want you running back here, crying, that he got you pregnant and abandoned you. That's going to be disastrous and you gonna have two bastarrds to raise.
Don't feel unloved cause you have a kid out of wedlock. You're a lot of men's dream woman. Don't rush.

bigpicture001:


Bros take it easy.. ?

Hope ur not on weed

Do you want some? But nah kwale weed oo.

Preshieben:
am not lurking around to insult the kid
Mind what you say
Ain't rude and saucy like some of Yu guys
Okay
Now Stay clear

lol,the message was not for you....jeez.
I was telling you of the other scoundrel that called her kid a bastard. We are on the same boat

Your fear is you believe you have nothing else to offer apart from sex. This is a common phobia females have because it is true. Whether you choose to do the deed today, tomorrow, eight years from now or never, if you possess no other quality to interest him after the act he will leave. Many people get married and start families after having sex on their first night of meeting so your decision on when to consummate affections mean nothing.

Franciscabless:
Am a single of mother of one , my baby is 1 year and 3 months , am in a new relationship with my new boyfriend who is not her father. We only start dating 2 months ago I love him so much , he also love me and my baby ,he is already asking me for sex. Am ready but am not sure if I should give to him with protection or I should wait a little bit more maybe 6 months , please I need advice should I give to him or wait a lot bit more?

This word "love" is greatly abused

People who jump from one man/woman from time to time should not make use of the word.

Just say my "sex partner"

Franciscabless:

Ok thanks I will use protection, I’m still nursing my daughter, I hope having sex with my boyfriend will not affect her health ?

No it wont

scoundrel:
Your fear is you believe you have nothing else to offer apart from sex. This is a common phobia females have because it is true. Whether you choose to do the deed today, tomorrow, eight years from now or never, if you possess no other quality to interest him after the act he will leave. Many people get married and start families after having sex on their first night of meeting so your decision on when to consummate affections mean nothing.

U interest me with ur ideology

justnock:

Sweetie, don't give sex out to him thinking it is a sign of your love and affection. Respect yourself and your body. The fact that you are a single mother, should NEVER make you cheap.
Treat yourself like a queen, not just physically but also mentally.
Don't give it up until he pays your bride price.
If he genuinely love and cares for you, he should be able to wait till the wedding night.
Learn from your mistakes, dear.
I don't want you running back here, crying, that he got you pregnant and abandoned you. That's going to be disastrous and you gonna have two bastarrds to raise.
Don't feel unloved cause you have a kid out of wedlock. You're a lot of men's dream woman. Don't rush.

Hear advice!!!

The man should wait till wedding night for a woman who already has a child?

Waiting till wedding night is a language only for the Virgins

Kingarthur21:
lol,the message was not for you....jeez.
I was telling you of the other scoundrel that called her kid a bastard. We are on the same boat

lolz
Funny tho
Did I insult?
Let me apologize now

Omar09:


If this story is real, I'd recommend you use this sex as a weapon to get whatever you want from him. Don't fůck him for free... Make him bleed.

Pls use protection!

Wtf lady? Are fucking serious? Who broke your heart?

Omar09:


If this story is real, I'd recommend you use this sex as a weapon to get whatever you want from him. Don't fůck him for free... Make him bleed.

Pls use protection!

Special adviser on sex matters... You're a bad influence indeed

bonnyhope:


Hear advice!!!

The man should wait till wedding night for a woman who already has a child?

Waiting till wedding night is a language only for the Virgins

Like seriously?!
LOL just because she is NOT a virgin, doesn't mean she can't remain Celibate until her wedding night.
You're primitive in reasoning.

Ariza:
I no blame you, na the idiot wey wan fuvk single mother with a year and half baby I blame.

Bleed ko, kill ni.

Smile!

Franciscabless:


Thanks for calling my baby a bastard. All your life you will not hear a cry of a baby in your households, you will remain impotent all your life

The bible says pray for your enemy

Why cursing her

You know that this forum is full of under age

They talk any how

justnock:

Like seriously?!
LOL just because she is NOT a virgin, doesn't mean she can't remain Celibate until her wedding night.
You're primitive in reasoning.

Learn to use the right word

Logical in reasoning not primitive

Except the man is the weak type if not no reasonable adult man will take that condition

justnock:

Sweetie, don't give sex out to him thinking it is a sign of your love and affection. Respect yourself and your body. The fact that you are a single mother, should NEVER make you cheap.
Treat yourself like a queen, not just physically but also mentally.
Don't give it up until he pays your bride price.
If he genuinely love and cares for you, he should be able to wait till the wedding night.
Learn from your mistakes, dear.
I don't want you running back here, crying, that he got you pregnant and abandoned you. That's going to be disastrous and you gonna have two bastarrds to raise.
Don't feel unloved cause you have a kid out of wedlock. You're a lot of men's dream woman. Don't rush.

Ok thanks. To be frank with you I will not wait until he paid my pride price , am ready to have sex with me , am just tired of being Hot all the times , tired of mastubating , I love him and happy to do it with him. Was just asking if it’s the right time to do it now or wait more maybe like 6 months

Franciscabless:

Ok thanks. To be frank with you I will not wait until he paid my pride price , am ready to have sex with me , am just tired of being Hot all the times , tired of mastubating , I love him and happy to do it with him. Was just asking if it’s the right time to do it now or wait more maybe like 6 months

LOL you're damaged. No offense intended. Eeww

justnock:

LOL you're damaged. No offense intended. Eeww

Is not my fault that I have high sex drive nah

Work on d father of ur child for u nt to be single moda of 1 dozen

Franciscabless:

Is not my fault that I have high sex drive nah

You're lady, put your sex drive in check.

Franciscabless:


Thanks for calling my baby a bastard. All your life you will not hear a cry of a baby in your households, you will remain impotent all your life

Gettawt!!!

Your curse won't work on him, because you don't have a right to curse him for saying the truth.

Impotent ko, importation ni

bonnyhope:


Hear advice!!!

The man should wait till wedding night for a woman who already has a child?

Waiting till wedding night is a language only for the Virgins

Dont mind her i was just laughing reading that thing..u already have a kid for another man and me that wants to date u u are telling me to.wait till wedding night?u go old for there de expect wedding night..only virgins can pull that stunt,no be say u be virgin,no be say na just ur hymen don go and u are no longer a virgin but u don come be after1..and u even get mind to the talk wedding night?

Ariza:
Abeg open leg jare, if person become single mother of twenty nothing dey there.


Open am fast, abi make I help you?

it's these occasional masculine quotes of yours that makes me doubt if you're really a female

justnock:

Like seriously?!
LOL just because she is NOT a virgin, doesn't mean she can't remain Celibate until her wedding night.
You're primitive in reasoning.

If she doesn't fvck the guy, she'll fvck another guy.

Why?
Because she wants to fvck!