Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

Moji12:
My God are you for real? They even value animals over men. this is crazy.

BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

lefulefu:
hmm homebased naija women wey no get chill
bro its even better u just jejeli marry a woman dat is located where u staying cos afterall such a woman genuinly loves u but for u to come dey go naija to carry woman to come with u to europe thats a disaster in waiting.such a woman does not love u and is intersted in only getting to europe.as soon as she gets dere she will divorce u and take over ur properties .i always hear heart rendering stories of nigerian men going back to naija to collect home base wives then the women will divorce them and take over their house and move in their boyfriend into the house to be shagging them and she will even prevent u seeing ur own kids .there was one i read about one igbo man working as a security guard in atlanta and he went back to his village to marry homebased wife then brought her to atlanta.he trained her in nursing school then after everything the babe sharply divorce am then took over his house,his cars and prevented him from seeing his children then she invited her lover over the house to be shagging her.bros provoke one day took a gun and went to his former house and confronted her then he shot her then shot himself.the kids where in school when it happened and her lover was not around.at least a western woman might pity u small but if na homebased she will collect every of ur property and leave u whistling for ur share .

lefulefu:
so why are they not dating the white men dere

EVILFOREST:

I always pray I don't.
I hate seeing her cry.
When I underwent a Minimally invasive procedure in a Hospital, I watched and saw her she wept like never before.
I couldn't believe it even when I reassured her.
So, I pray not to hurt her.
Else naa CHEVRON go drill the well that ugly day.

jaxxy:


When u see a happy wife u know. Beyonce isn't out to fake it for people. She won't overreact bt u will know smtn is up.

She doesn't compromise her happiness to the point of faking it. She will stop certain familarisation with him. I know she's happy and yes based on events I support her choice. I have been a fan since she was in Destinys child. Lol

EVILFOREST:


She's exceptional.
U will not understand.
I know you are surprised that a LADY can be like this . [/i]

Toks2008:


There are exceptions though, especially if you already knew the lady long enough before you traveled but if you are already out of the country, its better you dont bring any lady over but if you must, make sure she has like 2 kids for you already and the kids are of age maybe at least 5years then take her to be with you.

Shebbi nah person wey buy house abroad dem dey take over his house...with two kids between you guys already, e go hard am to misbehave cos most guys don't have much interest in after 2..

fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

zexy2030:
let's dedicate a thread for lonely single ladies in Canada, island and generally in the diaspora, its faceless..its anonymous, except u put ur pic. no one knows u said it. Tell us how lonely u feel, a problem shared could receive plenty attention thereby tending to be solved.

Babatunde40:


Where did he post that he cheated on her? Nairalanders are good at forging lies without caring about the damages it will cause

HeavenlyCherub:


Live and live.. I think you were rejected by one

generationz:


I don't live in Canada.

BestAccessories:


My brother, not only in Canada, come and observe small in Nigeria.

If you have time, take time out to visit Lekki, Ikoyi or Victoria Island and you would see the height of loneliness (Guys & Babes). See beyond the big houses, the flashy cars and the rest. Look at the person living in the house or riding the big car.

I will however, not discourage anyone (male or female) from travelling for greener pasture or to earn more money as far as you can cope.

Making more money also comes with depression and it isn't everyone that know how to cope or manage the pressure that comes with having more money at your disposal. You have all the resources to make you comfortable but can't find true love.

You don't know if the babe or guy you are dating is dating you for your money or really love you. Making more money also comes with arrogance. You don't wanna take shit from anyone, because he earns good money and you also earn good money, so why should I take shit from you.

Until you reach certain level, you can't understand what it takes to survives there.

gargoylern:

$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

lefulefu:
so why are they not dating the white men dere

safarigirl:


I did not grow up in this manner you are describing. Not all of us knocked on neighbors doors or even have neighbors to knock on their doors.

I have always been a loner. I have acquaintances, not so much friends.

I don't ask strangers for things, in fact, I don't like to ask my own family for things.

Naija guys don't like me, I don't fit the profile of the kind of girls they prefer, I have given up on them. Dora Akunyili's daughter found a sound oyibo guy in this same Canada. You will tell me it is because she has name and a career or whatever, but she found someone. She could have waited for a Sound Naija guy, but maybe like me, Nigerian men did not fancy her because she did not fit the profile of what they wanted

People have different destinies, this doom and gloom some of you preach, there are so many others that will have a different story. My sister has planned two weddings within the last year, with Nigerian brides living in Canada, her ex recently got married in Canada, to a Nigerian woman based there.

I don't have a good story in Nigeria, it cannot get worse in Canada.

Oluwasegun700:
Tell her to send me a message on WhatsApp i live at the border of United state and Canada and I visit canada alot plus I'm single and searching too +13185989377

Mstick:
Instead of saying rubbish why don't you read his comment and see where he said it. You won't read rather you will run your dirty illiterate fingers to type trash.

Get the Bleep out of my mention if you can't read, FOOL.

MOnkeyBabe:
which white men? Fa slap you lool. Most aren't marriage minded like we AfRiCans.
I was and have been hooked on white men all my life. Had 3 DauGhteRs with them before I started dating a Nigerian AmeRiCan iBo a month aGO. The BlaCk Boy cares less. I just had to tell him I'm doing this because of eagerness of marriaGe. I am 23 btw

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

Positiveme2020:


That will be nice. Let me know when it is created.

lefulefu:
white guys dont find black women attractive? ..i dont believe that ...i think the black women in canada make themselves look unapprochable and dats why the white men are uneasy to hook up with them.imagine a lady always frowning her face can u approach such a lady? give a smile and be friendly and the guy will approach.like for example a white girl u always see them giving u a sweet smile letting u know they are available .

lefulefu:
ok and after marrying the village girl and carrying her overseas she will then show u pepper so whats the essense stressing urself marrying homebase .u carry her come yankee she will divorce u and take over ur house and all ur properties

GUYS SUCH IS REAL and SERIOUS.
I specifically found a Lady for my Uncle based in the US too.
We kept track of this Lady and I paid those who fed me with information and Facebook Pictures.
My MOM also Kept track, including my Sisters in
Nigeria.
Could you believe that my MOM saw the telltale signs of her being terrible. She called my UNCLE here and warned him but my uncle replied my MOM that, the Nigerian Lady will never be worse than the ones he had already met in the US.
My MOM wept and closed her mouth.

He visited Naija and made papers for her.
Could you believe that this NIGERIAN LADY who has never visited the US before landed in the US Airport of Washington Dulles where my uncle had already gone to pick her, connected with another Guy and left without my Uncle's notice.

My UNCLE got to the Airport with the hope that she will be waiting and needed directions not knowing that the JEZEBEL had linked up with a BF GUY.

My UNCLE waited for days, only to visit her FACEBOOK PAGE to see that she had uploaded a lot of pictures about her trip.

RIGHT there, he called DHS and USCIS and explained to them that he had brought in a JEZEBEL into the US..
Till today he vowed never to marry again.
Such a wealthy man.

yaki84:

Can we switch sides?


Me e beta make i be alone for Yankee with money than to be in the midst of 2million people without shishi

safarigirl:


I don't want a sex relationship.

This is the issue with most Nigerian men. A lot of you are wired to think relationships are about money and sex, the same applies to the women, and that probably contributes to why they can't find decent partners anywhere else

A lot of Nigerians have messed up ideas of a relationship

I don't want relationship for sex. I am open minded to anyone who has sense.