₦airaland Forum

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

Toks2008:
Don't you know that one the reasons young ladies cry of heartbreak is because they get involved with men too young to know what they really want?

Yes in some cases it is not about age but the truth is that age gap is a great factor.

A lady can be older than her man don't get me wrong and love is not about age but understanding and connection but nevertheless it is better for a young girl in her adult teens or early 20s to be with a man that is at least 8 or 10years older..
Why?

1. In most cases, the guy will adore her like a kid sis and will cope with her nastiness compared to a younger guy who is just about her age.

2. By the time the lady is in her mid 20s the guy is probably ready to take her home if she proves to be a good lady.

3. A 30 year old guy dating a 20 or 22year old lady will likely be stable enough financially, psychologically...to support the lady.

4. Ladies love to be pampered and they can get that easily from a guy who is quite older and not their peers that are probably still as childish as them.

5. Guys naturally get the kick when they know a girl is very younger than them and this spark will continue for a long time at least I am a testimony to this...

I can go on and on listing the benefits and guess what; the reason why ladies fall for married men easily is because married men are so mature mentally and they sure know how to take care of a woman and unfortunately ladies are wired to love a man that takes good care of them regardless of his marital status but the good thing is that girls experience same care from men who are considerably older than them.

My advise to adult teenage girls and those in their 20s is that they meticulously choose a guy who is at least 7 to 10years older or even more if they truly want to enjoy bliss.

This is my personal opinion and I think lalasticlala should consider this for front page so that young ladies can benefit from this no holds barr expose.
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Toks2008:
Perfect age gap. Infact i tell ladies to ensure they are about at least 8years younger than their guys if they can.

DownChelsea:
marriage is not “settling down”. And it is a point I believe you have gotten. You do not use the term “settle down” for people you know nothing about. Let people use it for themselves.

It is insulting to see a man for instance who is unmarried and rich, and then ask such a man “when are you settling down” like the man in question told you he is “unsettled”

However, it is equally foolish to assume that a woman who is married has “settled down” without knowing the details of her marital struggles or whether or not she even rushed into a marriage and is even struggling to cohabit, copulate or bear children.


You have to agree with me that generally, especially in our Nigerian society. Marriage is more of “getting ones hands dirty, getting busy, toiling and building a family,” than “settling down” which largely connotes a sense of relaxation that comes with a certain age or adulthood.



Marriage can be anything. But blindly or blatantly equating it to “settling down” especially when you’re not the married party in question, is outrightly stupid.

Davash222:
Na this kind talk dey vex Shekau. Expect attacks from BH this weekend.

Dear Shekau, abeg no mind Buratai, na old age dey worry him.

lonelydora:
Sometimes, I think Archaeologists are insane human beings.

DownChelsea:
the definition dey dictionary.

Being single doesn’t make a man/woman unsettled. Being married doesn’t make a man/woman settled. Saying marriage is “settling down” is bad language, it is stupid, and shallow

DownChelsea:
corrected

MARRIAGE IS NOT “SETTLING DOWN”

Amya:
He could eventually find love in Theresa but his motive for the show is more fame than anything else because his personality is already a babe magnet and he could get any girl he wants before the show... latching onto Theresa seems more like a game plan because he didn't settle down to really know her before declaring love and acting the perfect boyfriend. Red flag.

You see Ike big Brother? he mingled before settling for Mercy even though he knew her outside. That is more believable than meeting the only person you're older than and acting lovestruck...but we watch.

donem:
lol morning bro, nothing like inferiority complex this way believe me, nevertheless what ever rocks your boat, sail on man, top of the day to you, thank God its friday, enjoy your weekend.

chloroform:
The most foolish couple in that house is Obiebi. All thanks to Obi, forming mature couple.

Amya:
I'm not convinced on Iykeresa ship. Of course Theresa is already smitten like women are wont to do but I feel Iyke is simply acting a role of the perfect love partner.

Iyke is a handsome charismatic young man who I'm sure has no problem finding love outside the show. From my digging on his IG I found out he's a rich kid whose main earnings come from his dad's manufacturing biz. He also has other side gigs in entertainment which I'm sure isn't done particularly for the money. He contested for Mr Universe Nigeria two months ago and rolls with Uti's crowd. So one thing is obvious so far, he wants fame.

His entertainment friends probably hooks him up to this show to try out his luck in the fame department and he comes on board with his strategies. He latches on to the only girl he's older than *for believability) and never let's go.

Days into the show without knowing so much about the Babe, he's already 'acting' lovecrazed and making forever plans. I can't buy that. I'm of that belief that if something looks too good to be true, then it probably is. Their love story is too airbrushed and perfect. I call bullsh*t!

A girl can absolutely fall for a guy in a day and want to spend the rest of her life with him. A guy on the other hand can also move at that speed but while it's possible but rare, they'll be other clauses attached to that level of speed. Is he getting older, is he ugly and she extremely beautiful etc.

Iyke might eventually for fall her and want to spend his forever with her, afterall they'll locked in a house where everything is magnified. But has he gotten to that place yet? I highly doubt that!

landmark86:
Yea u're right. That's was the first week of the show. Not until he fell in love with that moody gal called Ebi.
The nigga just change.

donem:
Girlfriend of 5yrs now and counting, u deh talk am with confidence without shame u no go find way marry am?

marvelous000:
A better heap of crap have never been written.

I've been single for the past 18yrs and it would be vulgar trying to put into word the amount of bliss I've experienced taking into cognisance the gruelling task it take to service a relationship and in Nigeria most especially.

careytommy37:
Now now?

Women should be advised its never safe to live alone.
Ever!

thatigboman:
i dont think anything will come out of that relationship.
Sylvia say there's a secret, which she has not told.
Jerry say if given the opportunity, he would swap.Swap with who naa? all the ladies say they wount swap

landmark86:
Jerry was forming
Sylvia is begging for love
But it seems they both have each other secret outside the house.
Who knows maybe one of Jerry pals have fvck Sylvia before?
Sylvia also claim she has Jerry secret too but she's not affected with that.

Now na Sylvia they force Jerry for love in order not to be evicted. What a life.

Maximum respect to the big mummy in the house (Chris). So calm and matured. Wish they can share one nairaland nigga with her . Make aunty no con commit suicide before the show ends.

Most mature men in the house is Arnold anytime and day, and most stupid man in the love pad presently is Obi.

IamD18:
They claim on social media that they want equal rights with men in a relationship or marriage, but the realistical truth is that they love rude and aggressive men who they'll be afraid of.


They don't like gentlemen atall.

PerfectMatchNG:
Men are 7x more likely to leave a relationship/marriage because of their partner's illness. Women also tend to have more sources of support outside of marriage, whereas men tend to rely solely on their wives. “In sickness and in health“ is a MYTH. In short, men are trash.

Lexusgs430:
You no sabi cook.......

Lexusgs430:
A girl 1st, is the best position.... She would mummy her other siblings.........

Lexusgs430:
If an environment is acclaimed to be hostile....... Seek remedies.............

DexterousOne:
I'm an igbo man too

That is why this topic pains me a lot.

Because I have seen stupid decisions sone uncles of mine took because of this matter, and threw our entire extended family into chaos.

Looking back in hindsight

It was NOT worth it

DexterousOne:
Your daughters carry your gene too.

So your lineage does not end with no son.

It ends with NO CHILD

Lexusgs430:
Oya kuku rinse her pussy with plenty alkaline fluid, before you pour your Y.......

DexterousOne:
The doctor is s stupid man
No polite way of saying it

Gbegirisoupp:
E be like sey this one touch you o.
Even your typing come dey go kukere.




Abeg no vex o.

Who send me!

Lexusgs430:
How can he be upset, when he determines the sex..........

Girls & Boys.... Pickin nah pickin...

Gbegirisoupp:
Really?

What is her moniker, let me try my luck incase it Doesn't work out with you guys much later.

Gbegirisoupp:
Ok, enjoy her while it lasts.

scoundrel:
Hiding under a female moniker is a sin now?