₦airaland Forum

nadesh:
My problem is the age difference between the ladies and boys. They should have brought age appropriate ppl na.
Career , matured ladies V jobless small boys.

I dey follow am small small

dawnomike:
Simply date your spec and leave the rest to find their specs...

Sweetpink:
diswan wey na retired ladies plenty for the house I don't understand o
Biggie abi na wetin we go call you sef
The guys are like junior secondary School boys to the ladies o...
Twitter
See ugly hassmet
Choi!!!!

Should:
gbegirisoupp has unofficially gotten himself an admirer.
1. She sounded so damn polite as she could to make you fancy a reply.
2. She's letting you know there's love in her heart, and you shouldn't take what happens here serious( adding the harsh tone of "bitter and frustrated" to make it seem she is not moved by you resilience towards her).
3. She recommended the show, highlighting your disability in toasting a woman who has fired so many shots to get noticed...

Gbegirisoupp, you don't need a traffic officer(yellow fever) to tell you this is a Green Light..

Conclusion and Advice!
With the above intelligency gathered, I'd advise you to Pm her on Thursday morning, Chop her on Friday night(val) and dump hell no, chop her again, again and again and do not fail to drop the sexcapades here.... After that, We Move!

Tajbol4splend:
I called one woman wey collect goods on credit 9 times, she told me she didn't notice, I didn't argue because customers are always right

ugolinze123:
Hi guys have been in this heated argument with her since morning cus i called twice and she was away from her phone and now shes annoyed that i was supposed to call atleast 4times before coming to conclusion on her not reachable.. So I decided to ask, How many times should be enough to ring one's phone? Me I think 2 times is enough to get the other person pick the call.

Sweetpink:
My mum in love says that these ladies are older than her.
Sleep don comot for my eyes.
Lmao!!!!

nazablossom:
Present Sir

Reussite:
The hosts for this show are sorta boring....hosting is not Dakore$' forte.

Sweetpink:
Ladi na case! Lmao!!!

Akposy:
Lol! You sabi the thing. E no easy o

This is the first work He did for me...Bread! It's been a while I baked so it wasn't perfect

Dedicated to Cococandy and Brikito

Akposy:
I'm all set ooooo.

I've been entering my kitchen every 3 mins to check on my baby. The smile on my face this afternoon can brighten a very dark room.

Thanks cococandy and all foodlanders o. Chai! My joy no get boundary today. Eshey pupo. I spent over 20 minutes learning the function of the various knobs.

Halcyon123.. It's up to cococandy to decide cos I don't really know any orphanage. I'll be glad to present it to them with you.

larryking540:
I don't believe in God says I should marry you ,,,
Carry the babe go hux date her so Tay ,when u even present her engagement ring see will see it as normal thing not a jackpot ,,

I watched a video clip of a nigeira guy that engage his girlfriend of over 8 years of dating na so the girl day smile ,,and few days later I watched another one where the guy also engaged his bae see as the girl day shout bro those ones they never invest anything for the relationship ....

To me the best a lady can invest in a relationship is just time ,,

larryking540:
That's why I advise guys to date their girl for a very long period of time ,and I see it as the best means of courtship not the one year courtship when u tell ur babe thing's are hard she will just make a funny laugh at u like u are not serious ...

I have come to notice that most lady way day stay with their guy even carry Belle even born before the guy do marriage this can go a long way upto 4 years or even 5 years na them they loyal or mellow pass when it comes to marriage ....

While the ones u go just approach,after 9 months una go do marriage , when they enter hux na misbehave they go just day misbehave ,, probably they have hit a jackpot

Alwaysachick:
Are you gay?

Wedding dress is the least thing a working class lady from a decent family can do for her self.

Except she is from a poor home.

And all these guys putting eye on girls income, what if she is bread winner of her family? What if her villagers contributed money to see her through school.

They will never ask...oju kokoro

Michellekabod2:
See the issue posh wedding has caused?
So the years of love will be wasted just because of argument on wedding bills...

If my husband brings 5 million for wedding,i will use 4.5 million to start a business for myself and the 500k will be for the court wedding, light refreshment and traditional rites

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

larryking540:
Exactly
When men feels it's an obligation for the wife to drop money ,they end up taking insult from the wife

Brazenbabe:
My point is that you people are quick to share bills with your wives/fiances but never share the domestic responsibilities
You people are quick to say what you did for her but never say what they do for you
See how all of you are on the other thread saying your families come before your wife, bla bla bla
Will you also tell your families your wives pay at least half of the bills?
I thought Nigerian women contributed nothing to the household and lives of their husbands? Why are we now being asked to pay for weddings
Abi would the man agree to answer our surname?

Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

Foodqueen:
What this
U tolerated it during courtship and it becomes a norm when u married his brother.

U are one of those people that don't like husband relative. Madam, be more tolerance. At one time or the other I av my bro and sister in-law live with me though separate times.
I respect them alot and at the same time send them errand I will send my younger ones... All u have to do is just apply wisdom. They are no longer with me but the respect we av for each other is topnotch.

He won't be with you forever. So chillax.

spirul77:
he must have cogent reasons for not showing up for confirmation because I believe he must have been duly informed.

sinceraconcept:
But something must have triggered that. If she's the very secular type that is keeping her virginity for a rich man interested in virgins to show up so that she can impress her,she may do that.
But if we were to judge this with the countries in the world,India has the highest number of virgins and the second in terms of losing virginity late in the world and divorce rate in India is only 2 percent and we all know that infidelity is the mahor cause of divorce,a lot of women marry as virgins there but divorce rate is low compared to America where divorce rate is 40% but most with lower number of virgins and earlier average deflowering age. Lets be logical,we can be our own researchers,these researchers would say palm oil is good for you today but bad for you tomorrow and they want everybody to turn badass,they want lesbianism and homosexuality to be like mere partying. What is too special about dick like that that a married woman would want to have a taste of all types when she knows she cant taste it all.

coolcharm:
Hmmm...

This corruption has eaten deep into the fabrics of our society.

Institutions of learning aren't even spared.

lalasticlala:
#UIPainter Set Social Media Ablaze!

A painter who was hired to paint hostels has reportedly impregnated two University of Ibadan students and this has got people talking.

Meanwhile, UI Boys were seen in a video singing that they want to be painters too following the viral #UIPainter story.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsPnu9xE6k0

dre11:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/six-years-after-chibok-girls-sighted-at-sambisa-forest.html

sinceraconcept:
Those are virgins that gpt married to abusive husbands and they feel he doesnt know the value of their virginity. But it takes them long before they make such decision even if they do. I know one like that,husband is so abusive,she wants to cheat but she still doesnt have the balls to. Virgins are the best to marry anyway