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"South East Association of Igbo Ladies, SEAIL"
What a silly association! Please ignore them.

DevGuru:
UPDATE

I sincerely appreciate the fact that almost everyone here regards this matter a very serious one, this alone warms my heart a little. I have read through every single comment on this thread and I appreciate everyone. I couldn't take down the names of those whose comments aligned with my aim of keeping my marriage, but I thank everyone all the same. I realised from a myriad of comments that informing my people will mean a beginning of the end for my marriage. My daughter too is a major consideration. Above all, she's carrying another 6 week pregnancy. I have therefore decided to eliminate (or maybe suspend as the case turns out) informing any of my family members. I decided to play the records to her while I added some words. I started by telling her that my love for her made me decide to talk to her and not to anyone who would possibly fuel separation in my home like her sisters have done. She was shocked because she had never heard any allegation from me towards her elder ones before. She thought I was crazy and I wanted to bring up what was not. Then I played a little while I summarised the wildest words from her sisters which I heard in other discussion. For the FIRST time, my wife couldn't deny ANYTHING as she was convinced beyond doubt that she had been finished. She cried bitterly as I talked further but did not know what to do. But what pained me further was that it was obvious she cried because she saw that I was going to turn to an emperor and ridicule and justifiably disgrace her elderly advisers, NOT really because I was betrayed.

Right there, I was looking for a particular one to play and then even heard what I didn't hear before. Her eldest sister said she had discussed with some other siblings to intensify efforts towards her job search that as soon as she gets a job, she would have to be sending money home for them to create something for her in their town so she could come settle. She cried further as she heard it too. I told her the implications of what she had done to me with her people and then left her in the room because my baby girl was disturbing me. Anytime our voices are not friendly, she interrupts and cries for attention. I took my daughter to the living room and was playing with her.

After about 1 hour, she came to the living room and fell down before me as she cried further, saying "I'm sorry". Then I asked her to state exactly what she was begging me for - her betrayal or her siblings' offence. She knows me very well, she quickly said her betrayal (even though I knew that wasn't the primary cause of her heavy heart). Then I told her I was willing to forgive her in the spirit of upholding my marital vows to her. I explained further that for the sake of our daughter and the unborn one(s), I was willing to forgive her and build a stronger home with her. She felt a little relief knowing that she was getting back into me. I then said "but from this minute, I'm in a ruthless war with anyone, I repeat, ANYONE who is determined to break my home as I now have to guard our togetherness jealously". I stated further that the only thing I would hold against her was if she ever stood in my way. Just as if a thunder just struck and killed someone dear to her, she cried loudly again saying "she had finished her life". She said she would be the one to suffer in the war I just declared and that I should just allow her to call all of them and tell them never to meddle into our affairs again. I refused to fall for that trick and held my stance that my resolve was not going to change and I walked away. Since then till this moment, she has been like a mourning widow. When it was time for food, we ate together as usual and I've been the one trying to talk now. She hasn't spoken with anyone on phone since then, although I don't know about Whatsapp or BBM chat. Now she's waiting for the next available opportunity when she could plead for her sisters again... only God knows for how long the waiting would be. Let me quickly mention that she sent me an SMS from the bedroom a while ago: I CAN SEE THE HANDWORK OF THE DEVIL IN THIS WHOLE MATTER, PLS LET'S TRY TO RESIST THE DEVIL THIS TIME SO HE CAN FLEE FROM OUR HOME. I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD DEAR".... I simply replied from the living room: "ON THE CONTRARY HONEY, I CAN SEE THE HAND OF GOD. CAN'T YOU SEE IT?"

On another note, I do not want to assume that she will not tell her sisters, although it might take a while because she knew they would rebuke her for delivering them into the hands of their 'enemy' through Call Recorder. But before she informs them, I think I'd follow someone's advice here too that I should reveal it to someone who could keep it away from my mum and sisters, which is surely my Dad - just to put someone in the know, in case I begin to smell rat poison in my food... lol. What do you think?

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Time bomb loading....

You need to work in NNPC or the IOCs to know the powers of the GMD vs. the Board Chairman. Vice Chancellor vs. Chancellor is the closest comparison. I didnt even know who my Chancellor was.

Let's call this a checkmate - PMB checks Kach from top, Baru checks Kach from beneath, bros is finished - do the needful and take a bow.

You need to work in NNPC or the IOCs to know the powers of the GMD vs. the Board Chairman. Vice Chancellor vs. Chancellor is the closest comparison. I didnt even know who my Chancellor was.

Let's call this a checkmate - PMB checks Kach from top, Baru checks Kach from beneath, bros is finished - do the needful and take a bow.

shyling:
Flirtykaren get an education. Her Royal majesty was talking about gender equity.

True

Why do guys even give girls money? Doesn't make sense to me.

OP please where exactly are you referring to? Can I go through lekki scheme 2 to mega chicken?

If all the party goers had one each, he wouldnt have killed that many. Get your own if it is legal.

Beyonce beware, Tiwa has finished Tillbillz and heading for JZ.

MissMercedes:
Yes, that's me. Thanks for the compliment.

Are you serious at all? Valentine, you created this thread to ask people for help on how to solve your issues. You haven't solved the issue at hand, and you're looking for another problem?

Thanks, but, no thanks. I don't mess around with married men.

If you need help, turn to your wife. If not, drop your problems at the feet of Jesus.

Ok I now agree that OP is a confused prick!

She could be your better half, Keep it up. many people marry the wrong ones, the greater mistake is losing the right one when you find it.

Why wont you have sex with someone you like, whenever you both consent to? And why is the man hailed and the woman condemned?
Sex should be at will and enjoyed by both parties.

No wonder Apartheid stayed so long in SA. They deserved it.

Thick is curvy and curvy is mine.

There is a difference between removal of fuel subsidy and price hike. FG did not hike price it only removed subsidy, we should expect that the forces of demand and supply will eventually stabilize the price.

Same here

OP so you just wake and crazy funny stories come to your mind. I wonder where this came from, quite a creative and hillarious piece though.

Heard his name is Billz Tee and he actually requested for 45million.

My concern is that in 1 million yrs the black race may be extinct.

Glorifying this rubbish shows OP has never been outside Nigeria, hisses, smh.

bettercreature:
Yipeee! This is bad for our economy,tomatoes is very expensive at the moment
Now we might not be able to afford beaf again

F**king coward, so you'ld rather that all your people are killed so you can have tomato and beef.

This is what I call the creative art of hip hop, its difficult finding such lyricists these days, such creativity requires high level of intelligence and sanity which is lost in today's generation; so I am amazed this guy is only 17. Dude, you made it past very good; you now sitting on the excellent hall of fame - this is the work of a natural lyricist and what true rap should be about not the rubbish we hear all around. Keep up this fine art and I promise you will become the true voice of rap poetry better than other rap poets like Common, Talib Kweli, Naz and even Tupac.

Your job is way more mature than your age - this is the Lord's doing.

Just made this song my ring tone - it deserves it.

Tiwa did not deny never sleeping with those guys but she said she has never slept with another man after her marriage, TJ also never claimed Tiwa cheated on him with those guys while they were married. She probably did all that in the past and confided in her man, what made her cry is the betrayal of this trust. In my opinion this is very immature of TJ, she must have said these things to him in confidence and the weak ass he is decides to tell it all on IG - this is wickedness.Tiwa shouls please carry on with her life, this guy is not ready for marriage when people dey even marry Ashaewo. PS: I just noticed that Tiwa no sabi lie and she aint acting, her ratings for me just hit the skies, never been a fan but right now I like her personality, Tiwa I'm available to right his wrongs if you care.

Photoshop

Cock & bull , she has not said the truth of the matter. The police will not round up a common man on the street like that talk less of a celebrity.

Lets clap for EFCC.

Start using ketocanazo tablets and an anti fungal gel. It worked for me.

This worked for me too, had a bad finger for over 20yrs and that drug solved it in 2 months. Also start dipping your finger in dettol every morning for about 10 - 15mins. You will give the testimony very soon.

Fungal infections can stay for a lifetime but they dont like that drug at all.

****You had an opportunity to speak with the senate president and your low IQ could not figure a reasonable question to ask. slowpoke