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EducationRe: CGPA Of OAU Best Graduating Engineering Students From 1987 by MurderX: 2:04pm On Aug 27, 2016
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shocked shocked shocked


I smell foul play
Ossai Enweliku Calvin is Igbo
CrimeRe: Man Murders Wife’s Lover In Ogun On Their Matrimonial Bed by MurderX: 9:37am On Aug 13, 2016
Crime of Passion = Not Guilty
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Military Doing A Good Job With Operation Awatse by MurderX: 12:36pm On Jul 31, 2016
Correct
PropertiesRe: I Think I'm Being Cheated By A Building Contractor. by MurderX: 1:59pm On Jul 24, 2016
stanley000:
man if you have put up up to that amount and its still on lintel then i say that cousin of yours have started his own building too and its on lintel level too grin grin grin tongue
Bros its obvious that you dont know anything about building a house.
PropertiesRe: I Think I'm Being Cheated By A Building Contractor. by MurderX: 1:48pm On Jul 24, 2016
The problem is that you thought you were a big boy with #5million to build 3 bedroom, you should have rather considered building a one bedroom apartment. Guy just chill because all your big boy go fade once you buy one block to begin build house. An average 3bedroom flat would cost not less than 12million. Building a correct house is the true test of "I don arrive". Its hillarious for you to think that 1million go roof, conduit and plaster - that cracked me up. Stone coated roofing and paraflet alone cost me more than 3million abour 2yrs ago before Bubu came online to change thinz, so brace up because to buy one motto and to build 3br flat no be the same thing, you may have to start drinking garri while it lasts.
LiteratureRe: She Slept In The Kitchen And Won My Heart - Chukwuba Chiluba by MurderX: 9:34pm On Jul 19, 2016
So how did she test you and which of her tests did You pass. You think the world is all about you abi? MR. Tester
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CrimeRe: See Nigerian Girl Who Was Mistakenly Listed As One Of The Victims Of France Atta by MurderX: 1:36pm On Jul 17, 2016
They are not the same persons, she obviously cant sue anybody because she knows its just a silly prank for cheap publicity - I almost fell for it too. She should post the exact original picture to support her claim.
PoliticsRe: UK Dailymail Used Amara Ajuzie's Photo As One Of Those Missing In Nice Attack by MurderX: 1:28pm On Jul 17, 2016
They are not the same persons, she obviously cant sue anybody because she knows its just a silly prank and why posting several pictures of herself? Cheap publicity. She should post the exact original picture to affirm her claim.
PoliticsRe: UK Dailymail Used Amara Ajuzie's Photo As One Of Those Missing In Nice Attack by MurderX: 10:29pm On Jul 16, 2016
Look well, dont be deceived by the same hair style, Its not the same person, they look alike but they are not the same! Amara wake up, you are not on such fame list yet.
PoliticsRe: Eid-el-fitr: Nigerians Holidaying While Rome Burns? - Reno Omokri by MurderX: 9:08pm On Jul 09, 2016
Reno shut your trap, you were once there! Supporting the past govt. Now you open your mouth to spew nonsense. Who you epp?
PropertiesRe: My House Project Up To Living Level by MurderX: 9:11am On Jul 09, 2016
Please do your accounting properly, 3 bedroom cost a total of N5million including the cost of the land? I guess you must have left out some costs.
CelebritiesRe: My Career Ended In 2013 - Singer, Brymo by MurderX: 8:11pm On Jul 08, 2016
His unschooled, weak philosophies obviously could not
take him anywhere.
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Showing Outrage Against Alton/castile Killings by MurderX: 5:58pm On Jul 08, 2016
One Emmanuel Nnamdi seeking asylum from Boko Haram eas killed in Italy...... makes me wonder how most Nigerians seeking asylum from Boko Haram happen to be Igbo.
PoliticsRe: New Nnpc Gmd Fires 15 Top Staff: 14 Of Them From The South by MurderX: 8:18pm On Jul 06, 2016
Please disregard this. It is a false news.
PoliticsRe: Stella Oduah Has No Female Housemaid - SEAIL by MurderX: 11:48am On Jul 06, 2016
"South East Association of Igbo Ladies, SEAIL"
What a silly association! Please ignore them.
FamilyRe: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by MurderX: 1:04am On Jul 06, 2016
DevGuru:
UPDATE

I sincerely appreciate the fact that almost everyone here regards this matter a very serious one, this alone warms my heart a little. I have read through every single comment on this thread and I appreciate everyone. I couldn't take down the names of those whose comments aligned with my aim of keeping my marriage, but I thank everyone all the same. I realised from a myriad of comments that informing my people will mean a beginning of the end for my marriage. My daughter too is a major consideration. Above all, she's carrying another 6 week pregnancy. I have therefore decided to eliminate (or maybe suspend as the case turns out) informing any of my family members. I decided to play the records to her while I added some words. I started by telling her that my love for her made me decide to talk to her and not to anyone who would possibly fuel separation in my home like her sisters have done. She was shocked because she had never heard any allegation from me towards her elder ones before. She thought I was crazy and I wanted to bring up what was not. Then I played a little while I summarised the wildest words from her sisters which I heard in other discussion. For the FIRST time, my wife couldn't deny ANYTHING as she was convinced beyond doubt that she had been finished. She cried bitterly as I talked further but did not know what to do. But what pained me further was that it was obvious she cried because she saw that I was going to turn to an emperor and ridicule and justifiably disgrace her elderly advisers, NOT really because I was betrayed.

Right there, I was looking for a particular one to play and then even heard what I didn't hear before. Her eldest sister said she had discussed with some other siblings to intensify efforts towards her job search that as soon as she gets a job, she would have to be sending money home for them to create something for her in their town so she could come settle. She cried further as she heard it too. I told her the implications of what she had done to me with her people and then left her in the room because my baby girl was disturbing me. Anytime our voices are not friendly, she interrupts and cries for attention. I took my daughter to the living room and was playing with her.

After about 1 hour, she came to the living room and fell down before me as she cried further, saying "I'm sorry". Then I asked her to state exactly what she was begging me for - her betrayal or her siblings' offence. She knows me very well, she quickly said her betrayal (even though I knew that wasn't the primary cause of her heavy heart). Then I told her I was willing to forgive her in the spirit of upholding my marital vows to her. I explained further that for the sake of our daughter and the unborn one(s), I was willing to forgive her and build a stronger home with her. She felt a little relief knowing that she was getting back into me. I then said "but from this minute, I'm in a ruthless war with anyone, I repeat, ANYONE who is determined to break my home as I now have to guard our togetherness jealously". I stated further that the only thing I would hold against her was if she ever stood in my way. Just as if a thunder just struck and killed someone dear to her, she cried loudly again saying "she had finished her life". She said she would be the one to suffer in the war I just declared and that I should just allow her to call all of them and tell them never to meddle into our affairs again. I refused to fall for that trick and held my stance that my resolve was not going to change and I walked away. Since then till this moment, she has been like a mourning widow. When it was time for food, we ate together as usual and I've been the one trying to talk now. She hasn't spoken with anyone on phone since then, although I don't know about Whatsapp or BBM chat. Now she's waiting for the next available opportunity when she could plead for her sisters again... only God knows for how long the waiting would be. Let me quickly mention that she sent me an SMS from the bedroom a while ago: I CAN SEE THE HANDWORK OF THE DEVIL IN THIS WHOLE MATTER, PLS LET'S TRY TO RESIST THE DEVIL THIS TIME SO HE CAN FLEE FROM OUR HOME. I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD DEAR".... I simply replied from the living room: "ON THE CONTRARY HONEY, I CAN SEE THE HAND OF GOD. CAN'T YOU SEE IT?"

On another note, I do not want to assume that she will not tell her sisters, although it might take a while because she knew they would rebuke her for delivering them into the hands of their 'enemy' through Call Recorder. But before she informs them, I think I'd follow someone's advice here too that I should reveal it to someone who could keep it away from my mum and sisters, which is surely my Dad - just to put someone in the know, in case I begin to smell rat poison in my food... lol. What do you think?

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Time bomb loading....
PoliticsRe: Ibeh Kachikwu Should Resign From This Government by MurderX: 7:33pm On Jul 05, 2016
You need to work in NNPC or the IOCs to know the powers of the GMD vs. the Board Chairman. Vice Chancellor vs. Chancellor is the closest comparison. I didnt even know who my Chancellor was.

Let's call this a checkmate - PMB checks Kach from top, Baru checks Kach from beneath, bros is finished - do the needful and take a bow.
PoliticsRe: Sahara Reporters Publisher Thinks Of Kachikwu's Promotion As NNPC Chairman by MurderX: 6:14pm On Jul 05, 2016
You need to work in NNPC or the IOCs to know the powers of the GMD vs. the Board Chairman. Vice Chancellor vs. Chancellor is the closest comparison. I didnt even know who my Chancellor was.

Let's call this a checkmate - PMB checks Kach from top, Baru checks Kach from beneath, bros is finished - do the needful and take a bow.
CelebritiesRe: Lady Blasts Olori Wuraola And Freeze Over Gender Equality In Open Letter by MurderX: 3:57pm On Jun 19, 2016
shyling:
Flirtykaren get an education. Her Royal majesty was talking about gender equity.
True
RomanceRe: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by MurderX: 12:50pm On Jun 15, 2016
Why do guys even give girls money? Doesn't make sense to me.
PoliticsRe: Ajah Submerged In Floods (photos) by MurderX: 10:24am On Jun 15, 2016
OP please where exactly are you referring to? Can I go through lekki scheme 2 to mega chicken?
CrimeRe: Picture Of The Gun That Was Used To Kill People At Orlando by MurderX: 10:16am On Jun 15, 2016
If all the party goers had one each, he wouldnt have killed that many. Get your own if it is legal.
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage And Donjazzy Meet Jay-Z In New York (HD Photos) by MurderX: 1:27pm On Jun 08, 2016
Beyonce beware, Tiwa has finished Tillbillz and heading for JZ.
FamilyRe: I'm Married, But... Could This Be My Soulmate? by MurderX: 3:20pm On Jun 05, 2016
MissMercedes:
Yes, that's me. Thanks for the compliment.

Are you serious at all? Valentine, you created this thread to ask people for help on how to solve your issues. You haven't solved the issue at hand, and you're looking for another problem?

Thanks, but, no thanks. I don't mess around with married men.

If you need help, turn to your wife. If not, drop your problems at the feet of Jesus.
Ok I now agree that OP is a confused prick!
FamilyRe: I'm Married, But... Could This Be My Soulmate? by MurderX: 3:16pm On Jun 05, 2016
She could be your better half, Keep it up. many people marry the wrong ones, the greater mistake is losing the right one when you find it.
RomanceRe: Ladies Who Had Sex On First Date With Men They Met Share Their Success Stories by MurderX: 11:12am On Jun 04, 2016
Why wont you have sex with someone you like, whenever you both consent to? And why is the man hailed and the woman condemned?
Sex should be at will and enjoyed by both parties.
TV/MoviesRe: Nigerians Made DSTV Remove Caitlyn Jenner Show - South Africans Angry by MurderX: 12:27pm On May 29, 2016
No wonder Apartheid stayed so long in SA. They deserved it.
RomanceRe: Guys, Which Of These Ladies Will You Prefer To Go On A Date With This Weekend? by MurderX: 6:20pm On May 15, 2016
Thick is curvy and curvy is mine.
PoliticsRe: Kachikwu, State Governors Forced Buhari To Hike Fuel Price - FG Official by MurderX: 4:01pm On May 15, 2016
There is a difference between removal of fuel subsidy and price hike. FG did not hike price it only removed subsidy, we should expect that the forces of demand and supply will eventually stabilize the price.

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