₦airaland Forum

Ladyhippolyta88:
Your argument is vague.Nature or society who brought discrimination it is just like saying that blacks and whites are not equal o do not need the same rights because Nature made the black man inferior.Yes I am grateful to people looks john Locke who brought about liberalism and the proto feminist I am also grateful to ancient Greeks

....black/white man analogy is different from the male/female own....discrimination is different, even in Europe that are more liberal u see feminist complaining of one thing or the other...I read something some time ago when so called feminist were arguing that women should be enrolled into the marines Abi special forces, that they should hv dat right... The army said doing that means they hv to reduce the rigor of the training and selection process compromising the whole thing.... So that women can get in and fight in the battlefield... Obviously the feminine gender is not endowned with that strength and character that will see them through in the battle field but feminist no go hear, they want equality.... I think the fight should be more about female discrimination in 3rd world like Africa and Asia/middle east, am in support of that...and why the double standard....u shout crime when a lady is harrased by a male snr but the other way round u claim is not same thing but u still want equality... Like I said equality and equity is different... Equity is preferable

Ladyhippolyta88:
If feminism was a joke it would have died since but guess what it still exists.Yes Nature has its contributions but it is m pi aainly society that contributes to women oppression and not necessarily Nature.Feminism has come to stay and it would still continue to achieve its objectives.

....ok...do u want equality or equity...feminist sometimes can't really define purely what is all about....I hv no problem with women having same opportunities as men but as I said even nature has set differences which are innate...maybe u hv to go back to prehistoric times to change things or change biological and neurological make up of we beings that differiantiate the two sex....if not is just mere liberalism

VirginFinder:
Can someone be a murderer without killing somebody?

Can you be an adulterer without committing adultery?

Can you a masturbatorrr if you don't masturbatte?

Think!

A homosexual is someone who practices homosexuality and not someone who has the feelings.

The OP must battle his feelings to a standstill and or overcome them. That is his burden. Every body has his. Hence, he remains a normal straight human being until he gives in to his feelings.

For me, I suffer from lust. But I won't succumb by God's grace. I am not an adulterer/fornicator until I surrender to the lust.

Got it?

...but I thought sin is not only committed by hands and body alone but by thoughts(feelings)....battle it u say, easy to say...even a drug addict can't help himself even by pure will and determination... He needs calloborative help, compare to a gay that might not be learned but in-born....u think it is that easy to say, to just change.... Sha hopefully solution go dey

Bullhari007:
so If I start dirty ungodly act tomorrow I will say I didn't plan for it, that God choose that path that will lead to astray for me , how can you say such a thing. everything you done in this world is decision, its either u pick the blue pill or the red pill, we are Africans , homosexuality is not part of us, the young man is going to damnation, watching porn and been ideal contributes 90% of indecency

...so u decided to be black, u decided to be a man, u decided to be short or tall...some are innate, dey were born with it...some are learned, thats through school or were abused at a very young age....understanding the cause is another way of addressing the solution....homosexuality is frowned in all societies in the world...do u know what Hitler did with the homosexuals or even in Europe where dey were burnt, exorcised(deliverance) brutally by flogging and fetish things....the west accepts it now because they hv exhausted many thought solutions and with the help of liberalism (free mind) and so called civilization have accept it, which me myself don't accept.... I do not accept it as I said but am urging others to understand it better than condemn them...you can't solve what u don't want to understand.... There must be solutions but we re meant to search for that....if God is too condemn him to hell then why make him like dat, this arguement can go for ages...be worried about urself making ur so called heaven because it might be u that might be damned....homosexuality has been there for ages and there was no porn that time and it has nothing to do with porn...this one just shows ur ignorance and superstitious nature...

fifty5:
the learned behaviour is not limited to your points i think unbalanced parental influence is a fundamental cause in this learned category the others are secondary.

..unbalanced?...How?

fifty5:
while some are as a result of unbalanced parental influence.

...what I hate a times is many see it as what one guy decides to do...ignorant thinking...they should be more collaborative effort to help them than outrightly condemn them and see them as Satan himself

komekn:
Utterly and comprehensive LIES.

God didnt make Adam and Steve but Adam and Eve.

Sodom and Gomorah destroyed as an abomination to God.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 New King James Version (NKJV)
9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals,[a] nor sodomites

Heaven and earth may pass away but the word of God will remain and not one letter will be lost.

...OK help the guy with a solution...that's the best u can do for him that tell him he is going to hell like others will say

Vinx4Christ:
The westerners aren't my boundary for living
The scripture is
I commented because he said he is a devoted Christian

So because westerners accepted it... It's right abi?

...no be westerners give u the scriptures u dey carry for head...understand what he is trying to tell you, I don't accept it and no one is telling you to accept it but to better understand it.. Many don't understand homosexuality that's the problem.... For years they hv tried a lot of researches and experiments to solve it...including exorcism(what u call deliverance) but none are conclusive or was a sure solution, that's why the west tend to accept it now...I feel there are more efforts that should be made to solve the problem of homosexuality, is obviously not natural....but it is difficult in our society, we see them as Satan himself, they don't choose it but see themselves that way ...hopefully solution go soon dey....

VirginFinder:
Bullsshiit!

A homosexual is someone who practices homosexuality just as a thief is someone who steals and a liar is someone who lies.

...oh!...whatever floats ur boat

gidgiddy:
So you think the unarmed people the likes of him came to shoot in operation Python dance had no father or mothers? Do you know how many people these Python Dancers killed?

He is a Python Dancer and I dont care if he lives or dies.

...the likes of him are not him...and moreover a foot soldier has no choice, u re being commanded to shoot, how dare say No...do u think all soldiers love the instructions they give them but they have no choice.... If dey go against direct orders is it not death for them, blame the leadership, they re just pawns...put urself in there shoes, what would u do?.....moreover many of ur so called biafrans are in the army and took part in the python dance.....And I was in UMUAHIA when it happened, stop exxagerating, like they threw a nuclear bomb there.....sorry of there deaths but there deaths are no higher to the victims of bokoharam , Fulani herdsmen, hunger and the rest.....and u not caring about him living or dieing will not change a grain of sand on earth...it doesn't matter whether u care or not

Bullhari007:
stupid fellow... I can't even allow my fellow gender to get close to me not to thinking of developing feeling for them, boy u are going for damnation, stop watching porn movies and make use of ur spare time, if you are less busy will be prone indecency , get ur self busy & watch hunger for sex reduce drastically

...you don't get it...they don't choose to be what they are, they even hate themselves...how will someone just decide to have feelings for his gender, it is not so....u need to read more about homosexuality, I don't accept it but it is good to know more so u don't appear ignorant.... And what has porn has to do with making u gay...that's nonsense

fifty5:
yes i understand where you are coming from that the aforementioned subject has defy all sort of solution but it can be ammeliorated through some techniques let's not forget these are behaviorial tendencies it might be influenced by the environment

...some are innate (born with), some are learned...that's in schools or being abused at a young age...the innate ones is more genetic I think, will be very very difficult to alter...like I said, the result of failed experiments and researches had made the west to accept it as a normal tin

VirginFinder:
Gays and lesbians are sinners and they will go to hell if they don't repent...

...repent as in how?...seems u don't understand...is no choice for most, is just what it is, how they feel....some hate themselves for this and contemplate suicide...if it was easy to choose they would hv be non-homosexuals....I am against it but sometimes I reason what the solutions might be....just as u see a woman and like what u see, same too for them but the other way round, is not something u just stop feeling...is neurologically, I think more research should be done about this and how it can be treated if there is....

walepackage:
yes there is a solution to it if it stems from psycho sexual disorder when growing as a child or environmental factors.But,if it is biological as in 'innate'as believed by some behaviourists, then its a bit dicey to profer a solution to the sexual orientation.But,its not totally imposible

...but almost impossible abi...our society is not equipped to handle this and u know it...

FluidQueen:
Same old, Cliche, regurgitated garbage from a brainwashed patriarchy princess .



Real Feminists won't grace you with An ounce of attention. Except you tell us how feminists run away from problems. Detailed explanations, albeit succinctly too.

...make una kill urselves.....nature will still maintain balance

walepackage:
i need to ask you again.When you are young did you suffered from 'peer rejection' and 'peer isolation',or your father possess some of these traits;cold attitude,distant,selfish or aggresive father.Which could lead to loss of"masculine".If you didnt tick the above factors then it may not be a psycho sexual development issue as a child growing up or environmental factors as i thought.Rather,it may be a biological disorder which i fear has a more long term consequence in changing your sexual orientation.

...any solution?... Even the white man with renowned psychologists struggled with homosexual solutions for years, to no avail...that's why now they just accept it

fifty5:
Don't let people mislead you. being attracted to same gender is abnormal it is a learned behaviour and you can unlearn it. Let me know your family history first.all you need is a psychological and sociological intervention.

....my bro I am very well against homosexuality but I hv studied it in details...for years science hv been struggling to find a solution with no result, that's why now they accept it as an anamoly that can't be changed.... Many hv come up with different psychologically, neurologically and even spiritual solutions but none are conclusive.... For me I don't have anything to say....but he may try different methods including the spiritual aspects but they are no guarantees.....maybe more researches can be studied but our society will already judge him..it will be difficult to have a solution in our kind environment/society where almost all are homophobic, including me

gidgiddy:
One less Python Dancer to worry about.

...he is Igbo like you...with a father, mom and siblings like you...he might hv been in the north even when the python dance was taking place...Why..

12submarine:
Is it that they can't come up with a statement like, "They have been incapacited"?

..making sense but u know its normal to say such to boost morale and improve ur reputation... Diplomacy stuff

12submarine:
Boko haram has been completely defeated - NA.
Keep lying to yourselves.

...though I don't think completely... But look at Isis that hv been defeated but still can organize and lunch attacks same as alqaeda...the US gov claims dey HV lbeen completely defeated...seems u hv to understand that word defeat, doesn't mean they don't exist anymore but der capabilities and ability to fight and take ground has been limited...you actually can't completely defeat terrorism, ask the west and US gov...but in naija case der are a lot of incompentencie... Bokoharam dat should hv been rendered impotent ever since has not been

Benosky011:
Yet IPOB that have not even killed a cockroach are tagged terrorists.
If it's possible to say, I would have said may they continue killing them, avenging the blood of the innocent and unarmed IPOBIANS till death do them part.
However, I can't say that for now.
Imagine, 18 killed, 2 taken and one officer.

Naija ntooooorrrr

...what of if he is Igbo, a fellow biafran like u

WrathOfHadez:
the good ones are insignificantly too few.. it's an institutional rot in Nigeria.

There's no army man in Nigeria whom you have his car bashed in a road mishap that will refer the matter to police traffic or FRSC. He will constitute himself into the police immediately by calling his colleagues to take you to the barracks.

When the army can't follow the laws of the land, what are they fighting therefore to defend?

Electric Distribution Companies now go around with soldiers when they face a stubborn client. Soldier!!! How low!!!

Where else would military hierarchy release its men for such a disgusting job if not NIGERIA!!!

January 5th we had my Union's end of year party and one of our members who is neither a military man or the son of a military man came with a military escort.

Nigeria soldiers as an institution is a rot house just like the police with no discipline.

And discipline is the first thing that makes a soldier, not his gun or uniform.

...then its a Nigerian thing...put a Nigerian in a position of authourity or strength then he abuse it...it cut across everyone in the country not just the army...is more of a personality issue than an institution problem...I put u der and u might do the same...the army are not special people but the normal nigerian

HugeDan:
I think you should be the one to shut up here; red beret without a crown. Secondly thats a combat fatigue, it doesnt go with any color that can easily give out the soldier's position. And thirdly, soldiers salute on their forehead not on their breast.

...he was just posing for the camera, obviously he doesn't fight in the war front looking like that...these are soldiers and humans too, taking studio pix is now bad....why una dey take am mascular

WrathOfHadez:
same sentiments shared.

I don't have an ounce of sympathy for any Nigeria soldier.

They lack descipline and glory in civilian intimidation. And this is why they always fail in battle.

Take a look this lost soldier going to a studio to pose for pictures for social media effect. That just shows how unprofessional and carried away they are.

To even imagine they are special ops!

...Omo not all...I hv seen very good military men...maybe u just see those uneducated recruits, they are mostly the ones that do such

NwaAmaikpe:



I see more of a cultist than a soldier in the third picture and an exuberant slay master in the rest.

Nigerian Army keeps recruiting misfits whose only attraction to the job is just the excitement of freely using guns.

Karma never forgives.

...I know he is not military police...but MP and commandos wear red beret...and who talk say u must be cultist because of a beret

Viicfuntop:
How

...why keep quiet and not show interest believing the guy should somehow automatically know as if he reads minds

Viicfuntop:
I tell him but never use the word love. Rather I flirt with him so that he comes to me on his own. For example I stare at him a lot and once our eyes meet, I look away. That’s just the trigger that a guy needs to walk up to me.


Ok that’s a lie. I die inside.

...you guyz are not helping the situation

SIMPLYkush:
MAY GOD punish BUHARI and all those in support of him... massacre everywhere and the old fool is not even bothered.... my problem now is that some modafuckas will still vote this useless, short dicked old cargo

...and people like u will keep on ranting till the end

ZZ22:
Since Fulani Herdsmen went on rampage this year Boko Haram has not fired single shot. Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

...Not true....they hv attacked a barrack and ambushed the military severally this year... Either u don't read news, though many bokoharam attacks are unreported/underreported because is now Usual

Nairalanddist:
This is why Islam remains the most morally upright religion in the world. Imagine how scantily dressed she is instead of been covered up or at least used an Hijab. This is why we Yoruba Muslims are pleading to the federal government to please make Islamic teachings compulsory in all school curriculums nationwide so every citizen can be groomed to understand the basic tenets of Islam.

...how will her dressing effect out development....Religion that pays more attention on outward look than character...people are else where trying to see how to get to planet to Mars and explore the galaxy, why your problem is the hijab or who is going to paradise or who is not going.... Your ancestors roam d world bare naked and they could control themselves..see what's happening in Europe with coming of the Arabs from Syria, incidence of rape has increased because they can't control themselves seeing ladies in western cloths... Religion that spent more time on outward appearance than character, that's why...

maasoap:
With all these inventions of yours which are not limited to highway armed robbery, kidnapping, drugs counterfeit, hard drugs pushing, booming baby factories. And production of substandard items which has become a burden to every Nigerian. Okay o.

...Whatever floats ur boat

brownhawk:
i want one igbo person to step forward and tell me what they have to be proud of because everyday their sense of morality is declining and yet they see themselves as civilized and better than others.

..please stop ur ethnic hate, because so called Igbo's that come here and rant shouldn't potray all Igbo people...I still believe without the igbos Nigeria will be dead...and what do u mean Der sense of morality is on the decline?...you don't have to say things like others or else u become one of them