₦airaland Forum

Odunnu:
Lets c u plz

u have seen me nau!

mama-gee:
[color=deeppink]^^Shatapp dia, Fat guy like you, you're still looking for a spouse.[/color]

why not? do u discriminate against fat ppl?

Abekeade08:
I don't want to catch your attention ooh, obviously u are not Yoruba so you would not be able to appreciate the name abekeade. I already have na2day and bkbaybee,  I don't want you.

point of correction, u only have me in ur life, remember we agreed that 3 is indeed a crowd

othuke7:
My fellow nairaland, pls kindly help me with this problem.

I met this lady and fell deeply inlove with her and we av been dating 4 over 4yrs now. I was there for her alwys cos she came from a sinlge parent's. She was this loving and caring lady from the beginning of the relationship which made me build my world around her. On many occassions, av assisted her mother for her annual rentage wen she was giving eviction letter. I was the one who had to take care of her SSCE, JAMB and so on. I make sure she neva lack anything cos i'm afriad of loosin her. She grew up to become a beautifull lady and of cause, her attitude towards me changed. She started having so many male friends, hardly come to my place, find it difficult to call me even wen i send her recharge cards, find fault in everything i do, controls the relationship, dictates for me, call her male friends even in front of me and keeps telling me lies. I tried calling her to my place to have a heart 2 heart chat wit her, but of cause, she ends up telling me not to disturbe her. It hurts me so much to the extent that i had a serious fight with her. i av neva beaten a woman b4, but somehow it started with this lady. I'm not justifying my actions, but i was thinking it will make her change. well it didnt, and i had to take my life one fatefull morning wen i opt to take rat poison. I almost died if not of the mercy of God. I was rushed to the hospital and i was admitted 4 three days. If i offend her, i beg, if she offends me, i still beg. I go on my knees atimes with tears on my eyes to beg her not to treat me like dirt. She yells at me at will, bang fone on me even if i call her wen trying to make amends. She's now working in an HOTEL as a bar attendance which she neva told me about the job or who got that job 4 her. Well, she later told me to my face that she doesnt want me anymore and dat she want to av her freedom. I have grown lean myself, cos i couldnt eat. i'm alwys in the pool of my tears every nite b4 going to bed. I love her so much to the extent dat i want her to be around me always. My heart is failing me and i cant control my emotions. I know she's cheating on me, cos wen this guys call, she's alwys in a romactic mood wen discussing with them right in my presence. Her father alwys ask me to come and pay her diary but her mother is alwys against it. I and d mother presently are not in good terms because of this. I have called friends to talk to her, but she refuse to change. She go about town telling people that her excuse of leaving me was because of the querells and fight we often had. If anything bothers me and i complain, she just ignore me and walk away. If this same lady needs anything from me and i dont give her, all hell will break loose. Its like a part of me is sinking and to be honest with u guys, a part of missed her so much. I av decided to let her go so as to give her the freedom. But Pls house, wat av done to deserve this treatment. She says she like everything about me but she wants me to stop beating her which i promised to stop. She still tells me she wants to opt out of the relationship. House, wat do i do?

OP, why shld a woman make u change who u are? beating ppl up is not kool at all. i know there are many situation where u feel like just killing sum1 but the truth is u got ur own issues too and u need to work on it. that being said, i feel ur pain bro, just like my mom told me, never do a favor for someone expecting something back, never give anyone money u can't let go. have a few hard truths in life, i found out she is right and since then, i made it my motto. so whatever u have done for her, let it go and let God be ur rewarder and needless to say, her leaving u is for ur own good. once again bro, go work on urself and become a better person, the right girl will come for u.

Ujujoan:
Stop lying jor. You said she was 'loving and caring' at the beginnig of the r/ship. You never said anything about her being an underage s.l.u.t You wanted to 'play' with a 16-year old  and you burnt in the process. 

ur a one pathetic bitter woman, no joke! why dont u go get a life and leave guys alone. everything that comes out of ur mouth is always something stupid and extremely ignorant! no wonder ur friend's husband dumped her, he probably saw u and said to himself, "show me ur friends and i will tell u who u are"! my sympathy goes to ur friend

Abekeade08:
Next time poster, Stop doing oju kokoro and following small girls about. Date a matured girl around your own age range or you will be dissapointed once again. A 20 yr old girl thinks she has arrived, She thinks she is hot suff cos guys are prolly toasting her left and right. At you age, you need someone ready to settle down, Not someone just starting out in the dating game. On another note, Neva hit a woman, It takes a big man to walk away from a womans wahala.

what do u mean? so a guy cant fall in love with a 20 yr old? he shld run after women that are ready to settle who probably have done what the 20 yr old did already bah? so much love!

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]So won't u be taking your wifey along?[/color]

she is not nigerian, why take her along?

nellaluv:
na2day sharrap there

my friend answer my question!

daduke2k:
I tot na2day waz gona be a reverend? Watz he doin wif a wifey?

i like to multitask

Odunnu:
r u saying datz nt U on your profile?

yup! but u didnt answer my question

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]@Na2day so u r not getting married anymore?[/color]

who said i wasn't?

beautiful ladies, how una dey?

Odunnu:
@Na2day
Gdmrnin Honey.Hw r u doin?

baby, i fell asleep ooo, i just saw ur reply. i am doing fine. is that u on ur profile?

nellaluv:
This new york reunion, hmmn something will happen. I can see all the asewo boys and girls are going, lol. o ya dikwa risky.

how do u know they are ashawo?

JeSoul:
Lol . . . so your love for your team is not stronger than a 1st rd exit? 

how much more can i bear eh? the doctor said watching game 5 is not good for my heart so i am heading to the gym

chic2pimp:
@ NA2DAY
Sorry oo E go better for you and A40 ehn

God dey sha

bawomolo:
oh ye of little faith

what is there to have faith about? anywayz my middle name is thomas

Odunnu:
W.I.C.K.E.D!!!!!!!

no bi small thing!

una still dey here? i dey europe shopping for a BB team

bk/babe99:
fat chica Ayettymama, the ORIGINAL FAT MAMA JAMMER!!! Nobody need your YIM u fat thang. Who want anything to do with a 500 pounder? ewwww. . . . .

death! ! ! bro, u r on fire!

Deep Soul:
When the original owners of all these pictures u keep deceiving pple with catch u, u go know how far

lol, they can't fit do nathin!

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]_{So she is your wife now?i thought u were still pursuing her?} [/color]

i have moved the ball from admirer to marriage, wedding coming soon

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]@na2day do i know her? [/color]

not saying, she is my wife

bawomolo:
na2day, were you at?
your mouth isn't as active as before.

how market?

man, leave me alone, i am shopping for a new team

Idowuogbo:
^wot did u give up
sign d papers in post
blawdy moppet

hello sweetie, what are u talking about? whatever it is i am innocent

chi-baby:
there is still alot more 2 give up

like what?

chi-baby:
lyrics not good enof sorry

i gave up everything just for u

nellaluv:
burp you! , @topic, hello girlfriends ,

[size=20pt]madam, i know u b4?[/size] _{[size=3pt]dont worry, u r still the love of my life[/size]}

Trinity33:
Mecussey, u siad "all men are he goat" so even your papa na he goat, Dt mk u a she goat. U shld b livin in d 16th century nt dis 21th.

u dey mind am

leuelliot:
^^ so it seems.

they are the ones who will raise hell when guys generalize women, even call the guys illiterates, fools etc. i guess when it comes to them it is ok to generalize

chiogo:
Tehehehe, see as OKC Thunder destroyed the Lakers.

I can't stop laughing.

Kevin Durant, you go baby!!!

yes ooo, now i dont feel too bad, hopefully mavs win tomorrow fire by force

davidif:
OMO, see as portland just beat phoenix!!! let's hope the lakers get "thunderstruck" tonight by KD and the boys.

portland did a good job

bluespice:
damn are doods this childish nowadays?

r we generalizing now?

platinumnk:
sharrup dia!

u hate the truth? nobody can hold me down from telling the truth

luizworld:
whts so special about una email addys anywayz, this one wey all of una don commot am

u dey mind them? na who bi the jobless person wey go just dey go around to dey send email to ppl up and down

ayettymama:
i didnt even no

i dun wanna put up my mail as well- too many idiats on this site-

jaquan get my ym from abeke

hurry up were waitin to hear from u

so what's ur email addy?

madlady:
"sucking teeth my "

madlady:
So when are we getting wed?

i am in the process of filing 4 a divorce b4 the wedding

platinumnk:
na2day with his weight isues

i like my weight, i like the fact i am big daddy

madlady:
See me hear.

sighs, thot as much