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abeg make we hear word, for every thread  nigerian guys bash nigerian girls, there are 5 other threads where nigerian girls bash nigerian guys. NL girls are so hypocritical

@ OP

why should we even take u seriously, u recently said this

librangyps:
I cnt marry a virgin

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-502792.0.html

yet when guys sleep around u will be the first to shout men are dogs! where do u think they gain their experience from, by sleeping with their mothers?

my point here is, double talk is a common thing NL girls are known for and u are no different

britgirlee:
true, but its the majority of men that have the ultimate urge to cheat

nope, men are just dumb azzes when it comes to hiding theirs, thats all

bawomolo:
happy bday to kobe tha gawd.

may you crush the new world order in miami

michelin89:
Nor be me and you.

NOR BE ME OOOO!

see how u dey lie for public, chai! girl u too bad. no bi u dey tell me say "honey u are the best", even con dey recite all ur great great great grand papa linage for your mother side give me? i no see u tonite shey?

Tosinville:
Love?¿¿. . . . . . Is dat irish or spanish?

which one is more challenging to u?

michelin89:
Shed some pounds!

why? u know u love me with the extra pounds, how did u say it the other night again, ah, i remember, "more to love"

MissTia:
prove wat, that you're a silly ignoramus? i didn't say i was one of dem. but i rlly dnt hav much to prove

ah, u sure u want to start this? look b4 u leap oooo! i'm not ur regular GI joe u meet on the block. now do the world a favor and get that ur orangutan look alike pic out of ur profile b4 they say they have found the missing link between man and apes. btw ur cousin said hi
https://nutritionresearchcenter.org/healthnews/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/orangutan-baby.jpg

it is not just men that cheat, women cheat too. i just caught one married woman who is cheating on her hubby just this last friday. she sent the wrong text msg to my phone meant for someone else ; the whole experience sent cold chillers down my spine. when i have the time i will make a thread for that incident

plz let the show continue oooo, but 190, u ugly sha

Tingles:
I believe that love doesn't exist, or it exists only in our minds. From real life situations around me, I observed that this thing we call love is always a reaction to someone's actions and it is based on artificial things.

"He calls me"
"He is so caring"
"He is so generous"
"He is so romantic"
"He is full of suprises"
"I love his dress sense"
"He is so confident, " all these takes MONEY and the poor don't stand a chance, they can't even compete. Absolute Rubbishness!

none of the above is love, get ur facts right!

britgirlee:
Hi Guys

So why do some men (most not all) run after another woman?

Ive seen incidences of men confessing undying love for another woman going to extremes flowers dinner dates surprises

Dating for months even getting engaged or even fathering a child

meeting families etc etc

going to extremes to cover their tracks!!

But failing on one little detail, YOUR IN A RELATIONSHIP with another woman,

oya, tell us ur sad story so that we can sympathize with u, then u can leave us alone and go date a non-nigerian

vivaladiva:
u beta be over over weary sef if u like, me i no fit ever post my pic on nl, at least i remain a mystery
dis place wey dem no like alternative views, small time dem don call u ashewo and things----------i beg oooooo, i certainly dont want anybody joining the dots so easily
even if i dont give a sh-it which i dont, my family friends and boyfriend r not so amoured up to deal with people wiv less than average brain capacity

i put picture for fbook wey i dey smoke cigar my sister send me one long email say i dey put the family name to shame----how cld u vivaladiva, she said, i tot u were an angel----i say na which time i put am in writing say i be engel----i beg oooooo----do your own make i do my own oooooo

LMAO! angel? that got me cracking!

MissTia:
sha, this whole topic don make me vex some how.

 

but to say the least
i think the whole obsession has to do with Nigerian woman in general feeling subjected to
have the perfect "shape" and "backside"
due to todays culture and naive
beliefs and opinions of some people that
shall remain un-named.

prove it, post ya pic

chika98:
Alright. I rest my case.

u left me no choice than to generalize, sorry

chika98:
If a girl tells you she's got some new places she wants you lot to try out then better believe she should be paying! Leave all that talk about taking her shopping and having you spent! Some of us went to school and studied our butts off to get to where we are at. Buying things for oneself isn't a big deal. We may even tell ya to pick up a nice shirt. Relationships shouldn't be that way really. . . it should be about two people coming together to make and keep each other happy.
A girl you are with (dating) wouldn't and shouldn't mind cooking you a meal whenever she can; if anything it should give her joy to do that very little bit.
Taking her out to shop whenever you can isn't that much of a big deal either! $40 is something one would spend at Applebees or something which isn't even a proper sitdown restaurant but rather a causal dine in place.

Like I said earlier dude! Leave that long story. Anything in your fridge I am pretty sure she can afford; it really should be about that. Treat a good woman great and she'd treat you like a god!

like every other nigeiran girl, u easily miss the point of an argument, no one said she cant afford it, after all she was alive b4 she met her man but how easily they transfer responsibilities to the man is what i am talking about. i need not go very far, plz go dig up nl threads and read what ur fellow nigerian girls say here, a common line is, "are u not a man?" or "may be she wants to know that u can take care of her when u guys get married" etc. and these are educated girls that worked their butts off in school to get an education oooo. i always like to remind them of the good ol' adage, "u can't eat ur cake and have it".  why not take a survey and ask how many nigerian girls here take their man out and pay for it lets see. it is common knowledge on nl that alot of girls say they want men with "bentleys" when they dont have a bicycle tire to their name.  i can give u stories and experiences i had in chicago, houston and dallas easily. u might be different but certainly u need to open a clinic for ur sisters

hmmm, maybe i shld take the back row seat just incase

nethacker:
^^^hehehehehehe,femilangy n dayokanu,abeg na2day wan kill me here oo roflmao LWKMD
@d bolded, exactly their xter , one babe try am with me n after i took my own portion i pour excess salt inside the remainin soup wey i cook
they wil now go outside n b blabblin like goat

death! ! ! i like ur style jare, u don give me tips

chika98:
$40 isn't a lot of money if you take someone out every once in a while. That is about average. You shouldn't have to ask a girl
to cook something for you and doing that means you don't even know her well enough. Guys here too complain!

if they dont want to cook for their man they should stop dumping their bills at his door too and stop heading to his fridge to see what is inside. God forbid u agree to follow them to the mall, ur life is finished! as for the $40, girl plzzzz! that is with the coupons, without the coupon it will be way higher; if $40 is nothing, how come they are not paying? they come up with all these great activities for u guys to do but some how forget their wallets and credit cards at home when coming, nonsense!

FYI: when an american girl tells u i found a great eatery and i did like to take u out, 80% of the time they are the one treating u out but when a nigerian girl says that, 99.99999999% it means i found a new place for u to spend ur money on me (the girl) kapish!

as the movie started? just got my popcorn, need to have a front row seat for this highly rated movie

nethacker:
i tire 4 dis ladyjyde babe ooo na only u?
@davidylan, i told her b4 now dat i 8 9ja babes here(sorry 2 say) because d 1st thing on their mind is dat u wanna get your GC thru them, I am always happy seeing them single @ 35

at least u met the ones that have papers or are citizens and all they fear is being used, those ones i can handle as they will quickly know i dont need anything remotely to papers. what about the ones that u meet and they suddenly think that u are the answer to her and her family financial problems? some will come visit u and ask u to help fill their tank, just bcuz they showed up in ur house. they u of a restaurant they found with great deals and even have coupons, u get there and by the time u are done u are out of $40 easily. if u asked them to cook they claim they are tired but just tell them u just finished cooking and u will see their eyes glow like green lantern and next thing out of their mouth, "honey i am so hungry, its just as if u knew i was coming". dont get me started on nigerian girls in the usa!

vivaladiva:
if your yansh fine pass your face ---u post your yansh
if your face fine pass your yansh u post your face
if both yansh, n face all fine---na full lenght foto be dat

b v weary of face foto wiv no body
n be very weary of yansh foto wiv no face

but i fear face foto pass because the rest fit be ota yama yama

in ur case, we shld be very very very weary of "no pic" abi? abi u no hear say "at all at all" na hin bad pass?

in other news, the last season of "FRIENDS" is on sale

Ladyjide:
But then the rest are Dallas Cowboys fans so , that is just as bad !!!

i know u wanna be a cowboy fan; i see it in ur eyes, come to dallas, lets spoil u a little

omo, i have missed NL oooo! see action plz u ppl shld go on, dont let me stop u

chiogo:
LMFAO!!

why u dey laugh? abi na lie?

OgidiBoy:
I'm not wishing that on you sis LOL!!! If you in the Houston or Dallas area then I feel your pain, the Nigerian guys there are DOGS "including me"

search out west I hear the men there are more matured. Good luck and keep us informed.

speak for urself!

michelin89:
Ahahahahahhahaah! That is actually the weight of your thumb dude!

i need that much weight to tap that azz real good but serious, the recession is not that bad, put on some weight

michelin89:
Ahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!


Why don't you listen your own advice, puff puff?

that is bcuz my wife dont mind the fact that i am fat in ur case u need to add weight asap! being 45lbs is not cool

fantababy:
Dear all,
I need you candid advice.

I met my fiance last yr April through a mutual friend. I live in canada, while he lives in Abuja. We spoke a lot over the phone and we fell in love with our personalities. We are both 27 but am older than him wit 4 months, but he said he does not mind.
I told him ahead of time that I was on the fat side, and he said he does not mind, that he is more particular about the inner person. We exchanged pictures and got along very well.
He proposed 3 months after and I was hesistant saying yes to someone that I had never seen. I prayed about it and eventually said yes. We agreed to see ourselves in August 2009. I asked him what he thot of me, and he said I actually beat his imagination. Physically, he did not meet my expectation at all, but as a christian, I said looks does not matter, it is the heart that matters.
I sincerely love him and I know he does. But he is not satisfied with my looks. Between August last yr and this yr, we have seen 4 times and each visit, we spend quality time together. But the issue is that he keeps complaining about my weight. Everytime we chat or speak, he is always so particular about if am still on the diet and if I exercised. I have been on a diet and joined a gym. I have come down from a US size 14 to size 12.
I told him he was putting so much pressure on me and he shld stop asking me about my weight. 
Before our introduction in April this yr, I asked him if he was sure it was me he wanted, he said yes but that his fear was I wld eventually look older than him.
Just last weekend, he complained that some of his friends saw  my picture and said I was fat and look older than him. He said he felt bad and that he does not want this to happen again. That I shld make sure I exercise everyday and loose the weight before November.
Our wedding is in Dec, and we have made all the preparation.
I do appreciate his honesty but I do not feel comfortable with a man that cannot appreciate my physical attributes. I have had weight issues since my childhood and have learnt to manage it.
I am a very pretty and well endowed lady and I receive compliments all the time, but all my fiance says is that am FAT!
I feel like calling it off, I cannot live the rest of my life with someone who wld be a constant reminder of my weight issues. 
I have not picked his calls since Sunday because I feel so depressed. I have lost all my confidence and I dont even feel pretty anymore!
Pls advice me on what to do.

OP, dont cancel the wedding totally but postpone it. alot of issues needs to be cleared, every guy needs some sort of trophy wife just like women do for hubbies but the problem here is both of u are not on the same page. the guy has his own insecurities to deal with too, he might have pressure from family and friends to get married (standard nigerian mentality) so his judgement is kinda cloudy. as per the weight, if u are truly 5'4" and ur current weight is around 158lbs which means ur BMI is 27, that is not too bad, it is over weight but not obese. i will recommend u exercising for ur own health sake not bcuz u need to impress any1; work towards bring ur body fat to around 20% and u will be in good shape. if u want me to write out possible work-out programs for u, i will gladly do so and i strong recommend eating ur dinner at least 4 hrs b4 u hit the hay sack and take amino acid supplements after ur meals to help with the breaking down of fats in ur food. there are tons of things u can do to lose weight, from drinking water to changing ur snacks/eating habits etc. like i said if u want me to send u some tips drop me a line on msger and i will mail u some.

oyinda.:
^ lol u and na2day are serious or what? na wa o.

u go soon chop cane!

who keeps bring back this thread sef?

cough! cough! cough!

Theblessed:
[b][size=14pt]We are equal, gorit?

Until men get a grip of this, they will never be happy and I thank God, many women are independent and have careers these days! May I use this opportunity to thank my Mum and Dad for sending me to school and I thank myself for having the wisdom and patience to listen to my teacher who helped in moulding my future otherwise, life would have been miserable under these men (I know that now, based on these comments on here ), as the battle between men and women are raging in this our time.  At the end of this 'battle of the sexes', we'll know who is going to be the loser obviously, not us.

This equality thing, is important! It might not be important to men but we are not going to relent until our message gets home i.e. sink into men's brains. It's important men respect it for the sake of peace and harmony at home after all, they would be the ones that would need a shelter, a warm bed and an affectionate bosom to lay their big heads on at the end of a hard day, na lie??  

It means for the sake of peace, when I and you leave the house at 07.00hr to work - and to return home at about 17.00hr, whoever, gets in the door first, should put the kettle on, right?? No, probs! Reason being, both of us are working hard for the family and after a hard day, both of us are tired. So, we need each others strength for support.

For example, you see kitchen business is not only for women but men because, they've got stomach and mouth to eat food too. Therefore, its right if they came in before us to put the kettle on because, we'll need a good cup of tea as we get in, just as we fix you one when we are in before you - so, what's wrong with that?? That's good, isn't it? Equality bring peace and harmony - inequality brings oppression and trouble for the whole family, don't you forget that!  

Men are not comfortable with the truth because, darkness is never comfortable with the light.  The light is the truth and reveals a lot - it show up corners the eyes could not see in the dark.  That's why many of you are here complaining because, your wives are resisting your oppressions at home. 

In my view, it's only insecure men that oppresses their wives and they should stop because, it doesn't pay any one rather, it brings tears for the entire family - treat your wife the way you'd like to be treated, that way you'd have peace and happiness at home and a lasting marriage. But, if you treat your wife like a Master and Slave, be ready - when the Slave gains her freedom, you'll know!  

I have never seen a secured man that oppresses his wife, they don't have the time to do silly and immature things like that.  In fact, a secure men gives his wife the greatest freedom any woman could ever ask for. As far as I'm concerned, some men should get a grip else, they will be left outside like an old and battered truck because, women have got power these days and remember, the world is moving forward and not backwards - your choice, not ours. [/size][/b]

and the good ol' witch has arrived with her bitter self!

nellaluv:
Point of correction, i'm your ex-wife, you ran away remember, but i forgive you .

point of correction, i never ran away, i only went to went to the restroom for a while how are u doing honey?