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i get one question ooo, what did virginity ever do to nigerians that u ppl will not give it a rest?

ezeagu:
'Igwe' means 'most high', 'ocha' means 'white', so Igweocha can be seen as the 'white man's frontier' or less formally 'were the white man is met', 'the white mans start' 'the town populated with white people' etc. They probably named it this because Europeans had not encroached on Igbo territory as they have done for most people in the world, so Port Harcourt must have been the start of the Igbo land the white man had populace or had more control of. Thats how I see it.

Andre Uweh:
Igwe could also mean multitude. Igweocha could mean where multitude of white people settled. It is predominantly owned by the Igbo people of Ikwerre stock. However, a section of Port Harcourt belongs to the Okrika people.

both of u should keep fooling yourselves

Agnesqueen:
I just had to post this because i've had enough. Im 22 years old and have been bombarded by Nigerian men who are married. The worst so far happened at a Nigerian Independence Day party out here in L.A. where i was stalked by this married man. This is not the first time that this has happened to me and a lot of my friends go through this as well. Recently a friend was called all night by a man that was doing business with her company. She had to call her phone company to change her phone number because he left threatening messages saying that he will come after her if she doesnt mess with him. 
Back to my case, this man told me that he and his wife was at the parade earlier and he had seen me and he was so excited to see me again. I told him i dont date married men or men with girlfriends and he told me it wouldnt be a problem he can hide it from his wife well. The thing is that he wasnt the first guy that is married to hit on me that day. I've been through the same thing at other nigerian parties.
Why is it that Nigerian men are so unfaithful, im so mad that i dont even want to marry one because im scared i will be in the place of the wives on day. I dont dress provocatively, im more on the conservative side but like a normal 22 year college student would dress. I hate to say it but i think people accept this behavior in our community because its so common.

UPDATE:
Ok i think i should have made this more clear in the topic at first. I dont date Black guys(African American and West Indies) because they are for the most part cheating or players or psychos and the few that are good are already taken. Now the reason i chose Nigerian men is because in the States Nigerians put themselves on a pedestole compared to akatas (Whites and African Americans). We think that we are well behaved and can do no wrong. They say oh we dont have as much divorce but then at all these places they are hitting on young girls to mess with on their wives. I dont mind being approached by Nigerian guys around my age or at least single but married one? come on? A lot of these guys got young kids and a beautiful wife at home. Im sure that those guys would leave their wives if they find out that they were messing with younger guys or any other guy for that matter. Why cant we do better?

so only nigerian married men hit on u?   u neva talk true oo!

Druss:
Wrong!! ,  A man without balls and a privates is not a man!!

Get outta here with that feminine ish!!

thank u o jare, make God bless u plenty plenty, hin think say we be mugu.

Ebonyeyes:
And the church says Amen. The young men of today are one of the most disrespectful creatures on earth.

and the young women of today are very respectful not!

Ebonyeyes:
So just because a girl doesnt respect herself, its ok to disrespect her too? Two wrongs doesnt make it right.

in this case, 2 wrongs make plenty rights, if u have no respect for urself why should others offer it to ?, same rule about if u can't be happy with urself, why should others sweat it to make u happy?

Ebonyeyes:
Well the good guys are rare breeds nowadays. I commend you for respecting your girl but we all know that a large percentage of young men are disrespectful.

u mean the good girls are rare breeds nowadays, right?

Kunbee:
You know coming from u dats a compliment cos i dont care wat u think about me and i dont remember any of my posts saying i care and dude pls u know dat aint true u wish hahhahha *flips hair and looks at herself in the mirror and is thinking damn where did dis kunbee gal fall from cos shes a 10*. I know u r old and grumpy so u probably didnt see dat i was referring to her tits not her face duh even a foetus could see dat. Well i will u know dat im not normal so back off and this is the last time i will address u Bye

yeah, yeah, yeah! if u don't care that much how come u keep replying? so in ur intelligent world, it is ok to make fun of sum1's tits but not their face, right? mugu united! now run along b4 i use my walking stick and knock off ur 2 yr old brain from ur head

sexyLeamon:
babe just forget about dat guy, as for me am done with him, he can keep on barking.

barking? is that how ur tribe communicate?

sexyLeamon:
if u really think dis is a joke, i Ain't laughing. maybe u have no amount of humanity in your system, so am not suprise u are asking me to jump in a river.

i'm sorry, i miss the part where u are human, and who told u i was joking? well surprise! surprise! i really meant that u should go jump in the river for real! good riddance to bad rubbish i say  

sexyLeamon:
I do not come on nairaland to put people down or insult people, so pls dude will u in the name of God leave me the fu*ck alone!

really? so ur thread about dogs are better than men was meant to be uplifting?  

TheSeeker:
^^ You still dey alive? I thought I quarantined you

funny! i thought i did the same to u

sexyLeamon:
well just watch how u joke next time, coz rokiatu is my best friend, and for long as I have known her, she has always been a naturally beautiful girl who is down to earth.

shatap dia!  are u not the same hypocrite that made a thread calling guys dogs? i will say what i like, when i like and how i like it, go jump in a river

Kunbee:
@sexy dats wat i was saying oo dem dey insult wen dey themselves look like 3 day old shit mschew

so that makes u a 9 day old shit? bcuz u are thrice as ugly

Kunbee:
Her breast at if she throw am backward it will reach her calf stupid gal

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-202163.32.html

is that not ur post yabbing another girl that gather pass u? hypocrite!

ifele:
The light skinned women believe the very dark skinned man is the REAL man. She hates her own lightskinned bros.

Because the dark skinned man has put that in her mind. So its color fucking. Light skinned boys dont want to be

with dark girls cos its a shitty ass thing to do even though yu see some of them doing it. You will see lightskinned

boys and men go abroad and marry white women cos violent negro as turned the competition on his head so he

can be with his own sisters. Dark negro girl its your fault cos should have beat that yellow girl when you saw her

with your negro brother.

wow! so all this came out of ur azz?

y me:
@na2day
run away hussy how you day?

i dey oo, i no run, na work wan kill me

ThiefOfHearts:
and the world heaves a collective sigh of relief. apayanje.

yes, a sigh of relief that i am safe from the likes of u an kunbee

sexyLeamon:
Rokiatu is absolutely beautiful what are you guys talking about? must you put someone down to feel beautiful? my comment is at u Natoday. I have been following this thread, I just didn't want to get involve. @poster of the thread, whatever you do, my profile shouldn't end up here. I do not people who are not even half as good looking posting nasty comments on my pic, coz i know some people in here are capable of it, judging from what they have been saying on the previous pages.

yes she is beautiful, we were just "almost" [s][/s] joking. as for whether u fine pass me, u want us to do contest? my naija blood na the very original, full of natural beauty. if na to yab guys now, u go dey run ur yeye mouth like say na diarrhea do am. abeg waka far!


oga poster, abeg comment on this link jare, she dey use style tell us say we never do her own

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=241352

why not, as long as there is rice and stew very plenty (RSVP) no shakins. I have done something smiliar and will most likely be doing another one b4 the year runs out.

chic2pimp:
Black men do get mad. Na2day was only pulling your legs. He knows the truth .
And u are here yabbing Black men for having preference . Does that mean you see nothing wrong in Nene 1 finding a latino man more handsome or Chic2pimp finding a dark skinned black girl more appealing but as soon as Na2day finds a Light skinned black girl more appealing all hell breaks loose abi?

no mind her, she never talk true.

@nene1

u can date an alien for all i care and it won't bother me; i care less as long as it is ur choice, it don't make no difference to me. my extended family is filled with these examples,and nobody makes a fuss, my own mother does not care if i marry a japanese let alone a lighter skinned black woman, as long as my mom considers the person a christian, church don closed

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=329302.msg4668292#msg4668292 date=1254712306]na2day is every tribe and no tribe.

any tribe you mention, he'll say he has percentage there.[/quote]i guess that's why they call me nigerian

Kunbee:
Wateva and school is overrated

that's ur excuse for failure?

Kunbee:
N2D stop replying me

stop reading my mind!

nene1:
lol,  well black women don't date out much so it probably doesn't happen often when black men get mad. but don't lie you know they do. i also find middle eastern men and latino men to be far more attractive than african men, but i don't act like they are better than black men even though they really are. especially middle eastern men b/c they are usually wealthier and more successful. they also tend to have the sexiest eyes in the world.

but when you black men like women of other races you also like to act like they are better than black women. that is why we complain. that's the difference.

oh the hypocrisy! u like other races and u are here condemming black men for having a PREFERENCE of lighter skinned BLACK WOMEN! by the way, no said anything about lighter skinned black women being better than darker black skinned women, i guess u are just full of insecurity as for the gold digger syndrome, i wasn't surprised at all

Kunbee:
Get a life nigga

is that the latest slang u picked up while reading little red riding wood?

rhymz:
Kunbee,incase U don't know,ASSU has called off the strike.I know galz like Kunbee no dey gbadun the strike and dem no dey like listen to news,school will be resuming on wednesday,abi shey o fe lor sukulu mor ni omoyi! Meanwhile lemme check U out,U had berrer not disappoint dada!Lol,me, my own no gud O!

u dey mind am? wen na firewood she dey use power her radio

Kunbee:
I know im messed up but in a very dangerous way meow

yeah, one ekiti meow will surely scare the life outta me

rhymz:
I just can't stop lafin,O boy some chics worwor O! Hehehehe, Even with high definition camera dem still be like atutupuyoyo bad enuf na d ones wey dey claim pass,yarn too much na dem worwor pass!Hahahaha, Sagamite,I must confess U are just being nice wif your description coz if all man describe wet some chicz pics dey yarn to am(lo), Any how sha,I like the concept and finally some chicz too make sense but many, Hehehehehe

ROTFLMAO!

Kunbee:
^^^well im a special 2 yr old , ASUU is still on strike so i can do wateva i please

so ur baby sitter is a lecturer? no wonder u are messed up

chic2pimp:
WHAT !!!!!! ABOMINATION . Her school is. . . . . . . .

i know, i know, i know, it is oshodi eastside midnight school

Kunbee:
U didnt do anyfin but go to bed grandpa

why are u not tucked in bed with ur feeding bottle smacked into ur mouth? how many 2 yr olds do u see running around the internet at this time?

Kunbee:
Thank God oooo cos we dont want militants as inlaws well now u know i went to schl
P.s your doc is wack

u mean u don't want OPCs as inlaws, right?

Kunbee:
Definately not 2 u

why nau? wetin i do?

Kunbee:
Dude go get urself sum coke u need it

are u serving?

chiogo:
Chei, You people are mean!!

can't we tell the truth again?

Kunbee:
N2D i will advice you 2 stop chasing me and my sister (TOH) around threads or else we will have to issue a restraining order , as for the above lets just say u must be high on crystal meth and u r kalabari and i went 2 schl enuff 2 know dat Kalabaris are not igbo

my doctor said crystal meth is good 4 my health, as for chasing u or TOH, i hate to burst ur bubble but i am not into ekiti girls as for the fact of my nationality being kalabari or igbo, i didn't know u went to school

Ohsisi:
ROFL
at least you can tell us that he didn't break a chalk stick

the dude doesn't even know what a chalk looked like

Kunbee:
Thats not fair wen  u urself u dont look like tyson beckford

shatap dia!   why will i want to look as ugly as tyson beckford? abeg if u dont know the definition of fine better go check your mirror

chic2pimp:
_{The Lord is my shepherd,I shall not laugh} 

na dem go dey yab guys for here u go think say dem bi agbani
[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=316937.msg4667713#msg4667713 date=1254699903]tee hee heee. thank u jare [/quote]ovularia, if i catch u!

nene1:
well at least you admitted the bias MOST black men have. And actually I heard that even some nigerian men bleach. There are many women too who chase after light men so they can have "pretty" babies. Light skinned men are not judged as harshly. Then again it's a waste of time arguing with you. It a subconcious preference ALMOST ALL black men have.

it is not a bias, it is a preference period. the fact i am easily attracted to light skin black girls don't mean i find white girls attractive, in fact i have a preference of darker latino women to lighter latino women, is that a bias too?

nene1:
Yep and those black men who chase after women of other races are the same ones who can't stand it if a non-black man is with a black woman. And when non-black men are with a black woman she is usually the cream of the crop and that drives a lot of black men crazy. Whereas as many black men would not mind being with any woman with white skin. The stereotype about black men with a fat ugly white woman has some truth. All steretypes have some truth. I don't want to stir up trouble, but we all know it's the truth. And the black men that attack people for making comments like this are usually the ones it applies to.

what a load of crap! how many guys u know care if u date other races? there are more black women and naija women that will throw a fit if they see a brother with other races, girl plz!

Ohsisi:
who is cursed?
The Igbo nation or TOH and Kunbee?

it is not from my mouth that u will hear that abacha no go school

ThiefOfHearts:
Amen to na2day's prayer

I cherish my life

u mean the igbo ppl should cherish their lives from not being involved with u an kubee

Kunbee:
I cherish mine too ooo and na2day isnt even ibo so i wonder wat his problem is

who told u i am not igbo?

sweetpie23:
pls do this
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=224185

not bad looking

sweetpie23:
pls do this also

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=17620

chai! na wetin bi dis?

nene1:
@ na2day and chic2pimp

you are right there is nothing wrong with having a preference. but this light skin preference seems to be a MASS PREFERENCE among african and other black men. i find it hard to believe that it's just a coincidence that the vast majority or almost all african men seem to share this same preference for fair skin.

why is it always black women that whine? in every natural kingdom, mates is always choices and preferences, female lions tend to prefer male lions with darker manes, u don't see the male lions with blond manes whine do u? it is life plain and simple, black males have always preferred lighter skinned black women and it has nothing to do with any western influence. black women refer black dudes above the lighter skinned ones, and u don't hear the light skinned black brothers whine do u? what about 2day's naija babes that won't even look at ur side if u don't have a car, as guys we just suck it up and live with the fact. naija girls complain too much.

stillwater:
Kunbee ati TOH, you guys must marry Igbo men.

on behalf of all the entire igbo race, i reject this curse in Jesus name, Amen!