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Her selfishness, she is a narcissist, she doesn't say sorry no matter wat

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KiNg0G:
I lived with my father's brother for a long time. he didn't work one day, all he does in the morning was to wash his mouth, have his bath then have his meal, awaiting his wife to come back from her trade in the market.. Then off she went to prepare another meal.. Staying With them was hell for me because sometimes there was hardly food in the house but my uncle hardly cares about that, it is either he is in one joint with his friends on a sunny day or he is at home listening to radio stations. His wife was the provider and never for once did she insult him...

This same character has gotten into me deeply, I can't help myself. I can't do thing's for myself.

My girlfriend cohabiting with me is the one providing almost everything we need all I do is to give her my G-15 in the evening. I'm always at home 24/7. She's never complained, I love it, for me to get a job and be answering Sir sir to people, I can't.

Stay fresh, bath, eat and sleep is the order of the day.

Few women are like this,
just the other day she asked me to come pay her bride price before the year ends, I asked her where would I see the money... baby girl told me not worry that something huge is coming..

I love this freedom, but sometimes I get a mixed feelings of been a liability, ants feeding on sugars. Anyway I'm enjoying myself quite well.

The real thing is my masculinity as the head of the house still intact.

When you think you've seen it all, boom another one, Op let it be that you're clout chasing, buh if not, honestly you're not a man, no future, no hope, no self esteem, do you know that joy i get when i realise i am responsible, wen i foot bills and help others, i wonder how people like this are lucky with girls, while we meet the lazy so called slay queens, Op honestly you don't have anything shame, the ealier you change our mentality the better for you, you're really irresponsible, can't even work with you in the cooperate society as a colleague, you're disgusting as a man, you sound very cheap,

Nice concept but the environment will be the problem

boyfwend:
Sorry to bother y'all.

So let me brief you all a little bit about myself, I'm the first son of a family of five. Also a 300-level student, all my life I have been depressing and saddened by the kind of family I found myself in.

First of all, I must commend my dad for pulling me from secondary level to University.
The only thing I know my dad does for me is to pay my school fees and he leaves me with no other choice again.
Let me clear y'all a lot about him.

Second of all, he does nothing, he's one of the Niger Delta amnesty beneficiaries which occurred some years ago. Ever since then, he depend on all that money to train five children.
He's a stay-at-home dad, lol!
My dad left me with depression and hunger for me to deal with here in school.

Now, what got me annoyed to bring this issue here is, that I came back home for some weeks now to sustain myself because I have been going through a lot over there.
The little work that I use to do here in the village, was to get small money for myself and the girl that I brought home. This man has been relying on me all this while to be bringing money for feeding and any household stuff.

I have been here for two months now, working from Monday to Sunday and coming back late at night without any single savings on me.
I cry every night, laying curses on myself and that angel that made me become a first child.

I give this man every money, ranging from the one he will use and smoke, eat, soap, etc.
All he does is stay in the house from morning to night.

I'm tired!

School is depressing me, I have many courses that I am having issues with and no money to fix all these courses, and I have just a year to leave this school.
Home is also making me choose suicide as the only option left.

Whenever I tell him I don't have money, he blows up and starts threatening me about how he's going to withdraw from assisting me academically.

I'm tired!!

Brother from all indications you'll become a great person in the nearest future, hang on don't let anything your dad does distract you be focus, sucide is never an option it's for weak people, there's so much in life to live for, you never can tell if you'll become a gorvemorone day or a Dangote and obi cubana one day, anything can happen in life, when there's life there's hope, use the experience you have about your dad and prepare a better future for your unborn kids and the girl you want to settle with, pls never settle with a lazy girl,

DOWN2HeartLoved:
I usually come to nairaland to get advice on business or any other related stuffs am affected with

Currently am in a tight spot, have been dating a lady I met during a trip, after a month, we started chatting and I went to visit her, things were smooth until we have a child, now she's different

The thing am surprised about her is I don't know her family background, only believed what she told me, she's from Auchi and Orogun and the mother lives in Ondo, we have issues I had to move out of my own house for her, the problem is I'm thinking she has children outside, she's always 28 every year, am thinking she's close to 40, why lie about age and many more.

Reasons am baffled, her mother isn't showing any concern.

She has lots of brothers

She always calls me a small boy

She doesn't even care now, even if I die

Problems:- I have invested on this relationship emotionally, physically and even more,

Is she from Benin? She lied too, she has turned my people against me, right now no one reason me seriously again, because everyone is telling me she's a club girl and I need to leave her, she just laughs and blocks anytime I called her, people are telling me she might have built a house with my money elsewhere.

Am shocked this is happening to me.

My Brother Run, they're called narcissist, i had one the best i did was to withdraw my emotions and i ran

Better country

How are they going to get votes in the South South and south east, He's not politically wise he would have stup low and partner with Obi

Thisisanfield:
A job of 100k in Lagos?

And

A job of 200k at kano?

Which do you take putting everything into consideration.

Infact run don't to Kano b4 them give another person, abeg you fit give me the connect

Same thing happen in uyo recently, abak road close to access bank

Capital punishment pls

His own will be 21 years

Congratulations big head

This girl is from a very poor home

They get the money easily from men yet they're still stingy

Pimples flakes

Tinubu

Nigeria

Were you in space sir

Nice, Employment opportunities opening up
Just imagine buhari did something like this in all the geo political zones

Some mothers sha, will even respect her more if she can sell the baby rather than kill the baby

This is also very typical of Anambara girls

God just wants to save us

Gumi n his people

Sabinus don cash out oh this one, the investor

Hmmmm

Omo if this one reach here, them go fey kidnap people cut just their toes,

Money dey this business ooo, hmmmmm

APC may adopt Buahri Pro Max