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Raine80:
Most female mindsets are resistant to the concept of helping the man. Partially cultural, some religious influences and an unhealthy helping of ignorance. So if you bankrupt the man before you set up home together how will that be a happy home. It's lack of common sense the view is about the wedding ( what people will think never know who these so called people are as no one can provide specifics) not about that marriage. Because if they thought about the marriage and the future sanity would prevail.

LaDolceVida:
Whats wrong with it?

mcmurphy132:
konji no get control

BoosBae:
You don't ask for money because of sex or at the point of having sex. You demand when you need it.

Whatever rocks her boat though, as long she doesn't feel used and taken for granted.

BoosBae:
Every woman with her values. Not every woman sleeps with her man before marriage. Some Will never wash for you. To each his own. Women do some of these things so they are considered marriageable.

BoosBae:
It's not bad, as long as he doesn't get the 'wifey' benefits in the relationship. Lol

BoosBae:
In marriage, a woman can spend on her man when the need arises.

I was talking about relationship not marriage.

BoosBae:
We women are not stupid. You don't expect us to cook for you, some lazy men even want ladies to clean and wash for them, sleep with you e.t.c and spend our money again? It's not that we don't earn a living, but we can't just be stupid. A lady has to enjoy the relationship too, we can't be doing for you guys and getting. Lol

Also, men like to be in charge, so we only massage your ego by being that damsel in distress.

All this money talk is for broke guys.

BoosBae:
We women are not stupid. You don't expect us to cook for you, some lazy men even want ladies to clean and wash for them, sleep with you e.t.c and spend our money again? It's not that we don't earn a living, but we can't just be stupid. A lady has to enjoy the relationship too, we can't be doing for you guys and getting. Lol

Also, men like to be in charge, so we only massage your ego by being that damsel in distress.

All this money talk is for broke guys.

waywardpikin:
Ahn ahn... you dey fear? It's only slap na, you wee not die

BoosBae:
Defense? Lmao.

A woman does much more than a man in a relationship, but she's always taken for granted because of the money factor. You men think you do women a favour by giving them money. You men need to change your mentality too.

runsguy:
Well I wont encourage it but if it's what it is then I will give my support but I don't pray for such. I don't think we should blame women for trying to be with someone that can take good care of them. however, we should discourage them from being obsessed with material things. I think looking out for an average man is not a bad thing to do.

BoosBae:
And the ones that are independent, what do men have to offer?

There are a lot of independent women around if you must know.

Most times I wonder what a man has to offer in marriage, especially when he's got a working class wife.

runsguy:
Good one then brother, good one. As for me, my daughter/sista cannot marry a taxi driver

runsguy:
Yea hope you will allow your sis/daughter marry a wheelbarrow pusher?

Authentic1010:
That's what I'm saying, ur in the click of ppl with a certain mentality, and the men in that vicinity also contributed in creating the mentality.

BoosBae:
Mtcchhheeeew

What does a man have to offer an independent woman in a relationship?

Authentic1010:
Lmao OP most of the chicks I know can take care of themselves, you're probably not meeting the right women or ur in the wrong click.

MrSavage:
trust me you don't want to hear the word of your life

MrSavage:
am there already

MrSavage:
let me school you boy.... real men structure their lives.... everything is all planned out ( business, family even bills too.. ) if you are smart enough you would read the thread and listen to good opinions ... because this is a question you would benefit from when you growup... useless pikin

MrSavage:
What is your concern ..... is it your body they are trading pls we that we have money to buy ( whatever they are trading) let's us be abeg... who say make u broke

MrSavage:
This issue amazes me. Girl nowadays claim that it's a neccesity for men to pay their bills. Once you become a girl's boyfriend, she automatically turns you to her father na to they ask ask ask like say her papa don die (even if the man is alive ) Me I don't appreciate this o yet I had love to learn if it's right for her to keep asking.

MrSavage:
All this girls of nowadays want the boyfriend/ fiance that would use enjoyment to kill them. As a guy how do we escape this spending spending spending spree... knowing fully well that spending doesn't guarantee you the congo/kpekus

MrSavage:
What is your concern ..... is it your body they are trading pls we that we have money to buy ( whatever they are trading) let's us be abeg... who say make u broke

MrSavage:
What is your concern ..... is it your body they are trading pls we that we have money to buy ( whatever they are trading) let's us be abeg... who say make u broke