₦airaland Forum

Whatever we are saying here about money, unreasonable wife bla bla bla will only make sense for the intending ones. There is a bros here seeking help. Make una join hands help am. Courtship should atleast last for 1 or 2 years na. I will not say divorce, but think of other solutions, let divorce be the least option. Let her know the implications of her actions with respect to the kids should anything happen to the marriage since she is emotionally attached to them. Maybe that could help the situation. Lets see how it goes. Althesame tell it to God.

IamAirforce1:
Well Their are some few good ones and they not all about the money.

If so, then i am yet to find one.

ndidibabe:
A colleague at work who is still breastfeeding her baby told me how her husband sucked her breast for close to an hour last night while they were making love.

According to her, the husband said he has missed a lot not to have been sucking the breast milk since as he found it sweet and pleasurable. My friend doesn't find the act interesting but just wanted to please the husband.

For me I think the husband is just a pervert. Besides, won't the baby be infected by sucking the same breast with a full grown man as it seems this will now be done on regular basis?

Permit me to say your colleague is stupid to have brought out her sex life outside.

Well, your sister sabi you already before she begin jones. If na me, them never born make she try am.

Nickizoe:
No onedA .....am O+ tnk jah

Lol. You again. I nor know sayy babes sef dey get errection. Funny you.

Abeg where can i find her? Time is running out.

OK what is the solution in terms of avoiding this kind of thing? Maybe they will do ''sampling'' of the thing, NOT DOING THE ACTUAL THING O. Here the man go show the woman him thing to confirm say no be 'small finger', the sef woman go show the man her thing to confirm say no be ''borehole'', so they can agree from there of to continue.

IamAirforce1:
How many nairaland girls have you met?

I don't have to meet all to make a conclusion according to sampling in Statistics.

The next thing you hear now, those NL gold diggers go say Op is a broke guy.

IamAirforce1:
Not all girls

Still few good ones among them who not all about the money.

Plus, been a good fuckerr too would make them like you more than money.

''Not all girls'' but obviously all nairalanders.

This Peace is a fool. A big one for that matter. I wish them chop off him hand. Useless boy.

She rape herself na.

Nickizoe:
Really! I gat big head o

Lol. I won't doubt it.

Nickizoe:
I am cuming soon to cumment...gimme 5min

Hahahahahahahahhahahah funny woman. See ya small head.

He is the only muslim i have ever loved. we miss that man.

Would you logically agree with me that;
Any man who physically assaults his wife, if that man is a woman, she will verbally abuse her husband.
Any woman who verbally abuse her husband, if she is a man, she will physically abuse his wife.
NB: They say 'women power dey their mouth' men own dey their hands.
A lady once told me, ''if some women has the strength, they will be beating their husbands..''
I think its time to change the source of these powers to the brains where it would benefit us and the society at large.
NOTE THESE:
1. Tolerance is not for one person in a relationship, its for two people. Both should always try to tolerate.
2. This tolerance has limits. One has the limit he/she can endure. The man or the woman should note this. So when you are misbehaving and or when you are wagging your mouth be carefull.
3. Domestic violence is usually seen as a woman thing, not so. Men are keeping quiet cos of shame. This is similar to rape.
4. Do unto others what you want them do onto you.
5. Respect is reciprocal. It is earned. Am talking to both men and woman.
6. Getting married to a big boy does not guarantee marriage security.
7. It is posible for a real woman or man to misbehave when pushed to the wall.

Why won't it be small? When you have borehole as pv.ssy.

Would you logically agree with me that;
Any man who physically assaults his wife, if that man is a woman, she will verbally abuse her husband.
Any woman who verbally abuse her husband, if she is a man, she will physically abuse his wife.
NB: They say 'women power dey their mouth' men own dey their hands.
A lady once told me, ''if some women has the strength, they will be beating their husbands..''
I think its time to change the source of these powers to the brains where it would benefit us and the society at large.
NOTE THESE:
1. Tolerance is not for one person in a relationship, its for two people. Both should always try to tolerate.
2. This tolerance has limits. One has the limit he/she can endure. The man or the woman should note this. So when you are misbehaving and or when you are wagging your mouth be carefull.
3. Domestic violence is usually seen as a woman thing, not so. Men are keeping quiet cos of shame. This is similar to rape.
4. Do unto others what you want them do onto you.
5. Respect is reciprocal. It is earned. Am talking to both men and woman.
6. Getting married to a big boy does not guarantee marriage security.
7. It is posible for a real woman or man to misbehave when pushed to the wall.

PaperLace:
How do you know the man is rich?
So poor men don't beat their wives? You guys should stop making rich men look bad biko.


Una go type rubbish then say you're not trying to justify violence. Tactical withdrawal hah?
When wives will start pouring men hot water, you'll know men are annoying too. Calm down _the worst is yet to come.

P.S :Real men don't fight anyone, it's not just about women. No sane human should go about fighting.

Tolerance na for everybody. Let us note this, then we have a better society.

Shelloween:
I'm not tryna justify a man hitting a woman buh some of y'll girls can be annoying sometimes.

Will they see it that way? I have always said, TOLERANCE is not for one person, its for two people as far as marriage is concerned.

Nickizoe:
Is it? I don't support that once i hear or read Bout it on social media..buh can i ask you

Is it right or demonic or evil for men to hit Ladies even when they insult em

A mann should have temperance and should show more maturity in such situation. At thesame time, she should know that temprance has limits.

Nickizoe:
hehehe...half burnt...or they kick their balls...

Funny enough i don't think a lady can do that to people like me. Martial arts has made me fast. Any lady that tries it will regret being a woman.

kimbra:
Have you heard of making up after a fight?. When I said you should push her to the oza room I didn't say you should rape her or rough handle her. From a hug, you kiss and then to other things.

Must I teach you?. But, it's relative. You know your spouses soft spot.

But there are cases where you dare not try it. Cases like unfaithfulness. Hmmm.

kimbra:
Have you heard of making up after a fight?. When I said you should push her to the oza room I didn't say you should rape her or rough handle her. From a hug, you kiss and then to other things.

Must I teach you?. But, it's relative. You know your spouses soft spot.

You have made the point; ''you know your spouses soft spot'', with that i will know to handle the rest. Thats where understanding comes in. I am cleared now. You do well. Thanks alot.

kimbra:
It depends on the situation surrounding the fight. Women are women worldwide. So, let's keep that oyinbo woman's mindset aside. Are you telling me that white women got soft minds while African women don't?. Women are emotional.

Just thesame way ladies feel majority of african men are not romantic, yes, i agree, most niaja men, will not even remember to hug her, talk of taking her to the other room. Similarly, african men have thesame for white ladies with respect to being romantic. It seem to be 'safer' with them, than with african women. Atleast we dey watch film na.

kimbra:
Have you heard of making up after a fight?. When I said you should push her to the oza room I didn't say you should rape her or rough handle her. From a hug, you kiss and then to other things.

Must I teach you?. But, it's relative. You know your spouses soft spot.

Lol. I know how to do those ones. But something tells me it may not work every time depending on the magnitude of her anger. I had better make up after the fight. She may need some time. I guess every woman will love that, but they need time to adjust to the mood that suites the other room. Like i said ealier, based on the magnitude of her anger. Not immediately.

kimbra:
Hug, that one worked on me.

Unless there is how to go about the hug. Bible say ''its better to dey ontop zink than to live with an angry woman'' if na oyinbo, i fit agree. I see thesame reason why they(oyinbo babes) accept flowers as gift, but it scarcely accepted here. Different mindset.

kimbra:
You know two people can't be mad at the same time. If she's pissed at you and you think the rants is unnecessary try hugging her. Some women will succumb to the hug while others won't. So I think that's possible.

Yes, i d' prefer a hug as it is has lesser risk. But here you go again; you said 'Some women will succumb to hug, why others won't'. Which one do other succumb to? I know why am asking. My head is precious to me o. Make she nor 'broke' my head.

kimbra:
What happened to your sense of humour?.

On a serious note, some men know how to make it happen at such times.

Well, i hope to fall into the right hands sha. But the question is, will the woman understand at suchh critical time? Talking of when there is tension. They say ''kiss her when she is angry'' or like you said, drag her to the other room, eh its good, but how many women will understand the man't trick? For me its like putting your hand inside lioness mouth, hoping you won't get hurt. Na risk o. She dey vex you wan(drag am) go the other room. Hmmmm.

sisisioge:
You ate lying! Married Women don't cheat like that. Unless u have legit examples, don't even think of this slander!

Abeg go sit down. Who told you married women don't cheat? I know of two married women playing ''champions league'' in my area.

kimbra:
If she blocks the door way daring you to beat her. Simply push her to the oza room 'cause that's the best beating she needs at that moment. Don't tell me we don't have such romantic men in Nigeria.

Why would a digital man marry an analogue wife?. Just wondering.

BTW, nice list.

Today its a form of romance or men(naija men) are not romantic, tomorrow they say the man raped his wife. The next thing you hear, the woman don cut his joystick. If i say i no dey fear, i dey lie.

I expected feminists to as usuall attack OP, but i am yet to find. Things are getting better. Our women are now getting sense.