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They are those few guys majority ladies chase all their lives.

But wait o. The man cheated, and still beat the poor lady on top? Chai. This woman no get brothers? If she no get, she can call me. Nna eh!

DLioness:
I'm the D LIONESS!

Hehehe, abeg no chop me. I aknowledge you presence ma.

MarieSucre:
It is still up to moral compass and personal discretion.
I will never engages in a physical tussle with certain people because I am physically bigger and stronger than they are and it will be an uneven match.

Congrats!.

DLioness:
Poor and hungry nairaland-men trying hard to blackmail us emotionally. If all d ladies marry d hungry men who wl nw marry d rich? Bsides mst of these hungry men ar afraid of succesful ladies lik us mst times dy wl want u to a mediocre lik dm. They wl tel u nt to do phD etc. They wl beat u 4 no reasn jst bcs dy ar afraid of ur suces.

Who be this?

MarieSucre:
Yeah, I'm sure you're fighting for your life with a woman whose only weapon is to scream invective at you. /sarcasm

I actually advice that instead of beating her up, that is just a waste of muscle you accumulated from gyming, why not just tie her up somewhere and use and nuclear war head to eviscerate her.

Remember you must use your moat potent weapon.

I can not beat my wife, God forbid. I have never thought of that, but althesame, i will be happy if she does not take my temperance forgranted calling me probably a weakling.

MarieSucre:
Isaac Newton never got married. He died a virgin. In fact he bragged about it calling it his greatest achievement. Google it if you think I am lying. He was a true Christian man, can't say the same for a lot of these nairaland fornicators.

Lol he was a christian. But do you still doubt that fact? If i slap you for instance, and you have the strength to return the slap, you will use thesame momentum and force i used to ease your pains no be so? Sir Isaac Newton was right somehow.

MarieSucre:
Words equal beating?? Do you know what EQUAL means.

So let me get this straight. If wife's words equals husband's beating. The wife's beatings equals husband's what? beatings too.
By your logic that would equal husband's killing her.

Nice logic you have there.

Yes words equals beating according to Sir Issac Newton.

MarieSucre:
You fight with your moat potent weapon??
What are you taking about here. So if your boss slaps you for botching up a business, you'll pick up a kitchen knife and stab him? Hah! na wa o.

You're right tho, I cannot stay with a man who has loose mouths. I will die for a divorce and drop half of the kids with him. If there are three kids I'll drop two with him, so I can concentrate on finding a man who has tighter lips.

Its a natural tendency to fight with you most dangerous weapon, mostly when it matters most,

eitsei:
lol... Violence is not only physical, ladies lashing out at a guy is an emotional and spiritual violence and anyone will react when found himself at that breaking point .. Ladies should always stop playing the victim card and importantly violence is not the way... Domestic violence is not good especially not on the person you agreed to spend the rest of your life with

Gbam!!

MarieSucre:
I never said that it is okay for a woman to insult a man.

But every action must be met with an equal reaction. I cannot give you a punch and then you pull out a gun and shoot me. That's is f**king wrong either way you look at it.

And I also said men also insult their wives too?
Are you also supporting that the woman organise men to beat up her husband for insulting her ego?

Because according to your wonderful logic the only answer for insults is to beat someone.

Will you agree when i tell you, that the words of the woman prompted the unfortunate beating? Hence, ''in every action, there is equal and opposite reaction'' -Ogan Newton. Then you hear some abi all say a man should not lay a finger on a woman ''no matter what'', yes, thats why i said, to balance it, Temperance is the key. Both should tolerate each other. Tolerance no be for one person.

CreamyMoltenLar:
True. Although I don't subscribe to harassing strangers for their No. If there's a working class lady or a girl from a rich family in your area, there's no big deal in saying hi to her and engaging her in a discussion. The problem is some guys are poor conversationists and ultimately just want to bed girls, not that they're interested in a relationship. Only a bush, illiterate girl would act like an iya alata if a guy says something witty to her or approaches her in a friendly way, regardless of her rank or station

I like this moral wey you dey give us. But fear no go gree us. You know we guys detest PUBLIC EMBARASSMENT #Jeeeez. E go be like say make ground open make you enter. You know this senario has given guys this believe that she will be harsh. Some call it being intimidated, its not all. Na fear of embarassment, nothing more.

eitsei:
so it's only when it's her husband that the bullshit should be condoned? Why can't she do the same bullshit to the soldiers at the military checkpoint or her boss at work like you mentioned? What happened to respect for each other
I'm not trying to justify domestic violence but all the same some women need to control their mouth too

Baba ride on i've got your back. Help me tell am. Self control is a virtue. It is not as simple as we see it. If person wey i senior talk to me anyhow i go beat am, na normal thing. Even these ladies beat their younger ones cos of thesame insults. Now if you know how e dey pain, mostly from the male point of view(i no blame them, they are not guys) why should they falter? Them say their power dey their mouth, i feel its time to change the source of that power, maybe to their brain.

MarieSucre:
Come, I know they sent you to me from my village so I'll not be sleep this night. Oya come and be going. Don't you have meeting by 12 sef lol

Lol. Ok dear goodnite.

CreamyMoltenLar:
My dear some men have fragile egos, and our experiences/upbringing often determines a lot. For example, a working class guy born into a well-to-do family is not likely to feel threatened by a lady because she has a car or earns more than him. Take a guy born into penury though, he's lived his whole life being ridiculed, and considers himself inferior. Do you think such a guy would be bold around a rich lady with a car? Poor people are extremely proud and have fragile egos. Pls go and work and search for a guy that can cope with and encourage a successful woman

The reason is cos of thesame insults we have been talking of. What is there approaching a(rich) lady? Knowing she knows you are not in her level. Most of today's babes will look you from head to toe before telling you off(probably). So as a guy, instead of you to dey there woman fall ya hand for public, you respect yoursef comot.

babyfaceafrica:
if he puts her in her place..you people will still say he is domineering and possessive.. It is a lose lose scenario

Biko nyem olu. Help me tell am.

MarieSucre:
I agree with you.

Do you know that even a good husband could misbehave at some point as a result of this temprament limitations?

MarieSucre:
I agree with you.

Na now you come.

MarieSucre:
Men also provoke women and insult them in front of other women. So I'm guessing you support women beating their husbands or organizing thugs to beat him because of insult. I understand, I'll keep that in mind.

Listen up Nairalanders!! NaeChris has advised that any woman that insulted by her husband, even when he knows that it will make her lose respect outside from other men outside should take it upon themselves to beat the him up, and if she cannot do it, she needs to organise men to beat living day light out of him. NaeChris is saying that, the woman as the mother of the home must keep her respect intact in front of her children and so the man must learn always treat her as a QUEEN.

Remember WORDS and EGO are more important than your PHYSICAL WELL-BEING.

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LOL. Thats your opinion o. I don't support violence.

MarieSucre:
Men also provoke women and insult them in front of other women. So I'm guessing you support women beating their husbands or organizing thugs to beat him because of insult. I understand, I'll keep that in mind.

Lol. No be so na. But don't other people provoke her? Like her boss, army officer and so on. How many she don insult? My point is this; temprament has limit which differs from people to people, that does not mean people should strike as soon as it gets to the limit, but the one who is wagging mouth should know that the person is not an angel.

rosalieene:
Don't compare a woman to a man.... Society and the world has naturally made the man the head of his family no matter what. Don't say a married woman is a parasitic wife, no, naturally a man is responsible for the wife's upkeep but society of today and feminism has opened the eyes of women to work and cater for themselves. financially buoyant women can only overthrow their husbands if he agrees. Its his responsibility to put her in her place. by this, i don't mean that domestic violence should be involved just to show authority besides its not all financially buoyant women that tries to overthrow their husbands.

The financially unstable man has no choice(probably out of job) and since his is recieving support from his wife. But then, it has never gone well with most men whose women was financially more stable only in rare cases.

MarieSucre:
So it's okay as long her mouth is corrosive.
What of other corrosive mouths too? Like his boss at work? Or the secretary at the big corporation he visited? or the nurses at the hospital? Or the soldiers at the check point? Or his relatives in his house? does he also reach his elastic point too and beat them all to prove that he is a man. Or maybe it is as out people say " Na two tree wey near each other na im make monkey feel say im get power".

Insults gets more disgusting when it is coming from where you least expected. are you now advicing women to insult their men? Is she an outsider? How will she feel when another woman runs her mouth at her husband? Now if she won't condone it, then why must it come from her? What could she be teaching the outside world? To insult him anytime? Look a man gains more respect from outsides when his wife respects him like a king. But try this, insult your man such that people sees you, and observe what happens to his respect. Small girls will talk to him anyhow.

ioreth69:
oh really!

Big boy hunter. N250,000 a month earner don draw ya attention. Joking sha.

They will come here and complain and about domestic violence or cheating and we advice them.

Donjazzy12:
Stop begging women, please! Allow them to fall into their own trap so that they learn by experience

Baba leave them! Experience na the best lecturer.

To those who champions the ''Say no to broke guys'' protest, no wahala. Go on and hunt for the big boys. But put these at the back of your minds; 1. The so called big boy you are hunting or should i say waiting for is most likely not single as the statistic of world porpulation has it that there are 7 Billion people. 2 Billion men and 5 Billion women. 2. Be ready to compete with other ladies including his fiancee for their attention. 3. Be ready to be heart broken and cheated at anytime since no be only you dey find am. 4. Big boys are seemingly fewer in number compared to Broke guys from observations. 5. 98% of them or more are NOT SINGLE. 6. These Big boys are aware that you (broke ass babes) are chasing after them, hence they find you very cheap. 7. Time is runing out and Menopause is Knocking. 8. No broke guy turned Big boy in his right senses will dump the lady who stood by him for your sorry ass. Now for those that believe a broke guy can become a big boy tomorrow; Make sure the guy has vision and has plans to make it. Ensure that he has love for you and he is not the lazy type. You sef no follow broke ass babes dey stay idle, waiting to reap where they did not sow. Find something to do. I wish you all the best. Atleast you can agree with me that not all broke guys are lazy, na just time and chance. And that only broke babes run after big boys.

Miner13:
I will see her through any length of school she want because she did more than that to me

Wow really? Thats quite interesting.

Prettyenit18:
No, I don't encourage any guy to do that.

Hmmm i see.

Presh900:

lol.. 
  When am not mad

LOL. I concur.

YoungBlackRico:
[color=#CC6600]If she's worth it and I've got the dough, yes. But things like this don't always end well trust me. [/color]

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For me unless i have no intentions, in other words am doing it for humanity's sake. You are correct.

I have said this here before. Guys leave them. They will learn when it is probably too late.

MarieSucre:
I get you. Trust me I totally understand you and I will never support and woman beating her husband. Violence is violence no matter what.

But women aren't encouraged into more violence with sayings like "maybe he provoked her" or "men should learn not to provoke their wives"

Yes we are almost saying thesame thing. Temperance differs. Women too their mouth can be corrosive atimes and the man may quickly reach he 'elastic limit' then action follows suit. Women should learn how to respect their men, men cherish respect more than love o. Note that.