me personally i would want to own my own business (which is on the creative side) but on the other hand have time for my husband and family as a whole. i dont mind cooking and light cleanin wiv the help of a maid. but i have promised myself no one will feed my family and bring up my kids for me, God forbid!! house help will know her/ his level o she/he will do onli certain things while il handle the rest like preparing most of the meals e.g soup and other serious dishes but she/he can turn " ebba", lolll but no serious cooking for my family.
so yes il have time to do both but my family COMES FIRST!!! and if i have to quit certain things to take care of home, il do it in a heartbeat!!!

it makes me sooo sad, may God help nigeria.

this is tooo emotional 4 me , lol naira land has made me realise my innerself, buy a house, a car, a loving boyfrend, fuel ma car without the problem of who is buying me gas, , be closer wiv my family & frends, been able to pay my bills, tuition fees, and secure a very good job wiv annaul payment of $100,000, "I LIKE THE KAIN LIFE WEY I DEY LIVE NOW!!!" thnks nairaland, lol, .

luv u tho, u keep me entertained,

Tornadoz, please don't say nigerians deserve to be killed by S.A . that is not fair after all we helped them when their country was a HOT MESS!! they dnt like us and its ok i say this because i know alot of people dat have visited and lived in S.A for a while and noticed that they are not very fund of us . they think our men are stealing their women which is funny but, that doesnt give them the right to take peoples lives. at the same time nigerians should learn from this !! and realise that other countries will treat your people the way they see you treat them.

Dee2 said it all!! but at the same time movies are getting better and some story lines are beautiful. I'm a huge fan of naija movies. even if they annoy the hell out of me sometimes i still love them

who on EARTH will DARE 2 compare christina milian with ini edo im takin it really personal, how persin go compare chicken vs some goat? , NEXT TOPIC !!!, >

i respect virgins and i dont think theres anything wrong with keeping urself. ( im not a virgin) its sad society looks at it funny but wat can i say, every 1 has a choice & if u wait to wait then do so the most important thing is not to feel rushed and then regret afterwards ( alot of gurls feel this way) but sha virgin or not virgin we 'r all human beings

wai ya zage ka??

habba!!! is life dat bad now?? 15yrs old gurl. SEE U BETTER GO AND FIND UR MATE OK. hmm in the states dats serious child abuse and SERIOUS jail time. mr R- KELLY ! lol

awwww mayb hes onli used to eatin hes mums food. but it depends on how long u've bin together or sori 2 say but are u a good cook? or u knw wat? just wash ur to-to put inside the food!!! lol ( saw it in a nigerian movie o, ) k seriously ask him >,

hes being very childish!! i guess u show him too much love dats why. just give him space 4 a while and start checkin 4 oda options wivout even stressing bout him ( i knw its hard) an dif hes really serious he'll come back 4 u and if hes not u move on wiv ur life. let him knw ur not desperate habba dats ridiculous afta 4 yrs!!! but dat kinds of reminds me of my ex. he said things like dat to me just to hurt me funny enough we dated 4 about 4 yrs aswell but i left and moved on to higher levels and he came trying to trick me bck to his life but i moved on and imv ery happy now. please do the same. theres sum1 out there dat will love and cherish you!!

girl im not even going to lie 27 years is not young o but i guess  that is d problem dating a guy your age because when u are ready to settle he  may not b. however, u don't want 2 wait and den he dumps u or he descides he wants to wait another 2 years before having kids that will suck!!! i suggest u start seeing other people ( please dnt sleep around!!!) but go out and see what other options u have. at this age and in your situation u can't put all your eggs in one basket. wish u all the best but please DON'T B A FOOL IF HE REALLY DOESNT WANT ANYONE ELSE 2 HAVE You, HE'LL PUT DAT RING ON UR FINGER ASAP!!!!!  and if he does u guys can wait and save sum money before u have kids

dont understand why nigerians choose to still remain in south africa really, its not by force they dnt really like us  soo, leave their country simple!!!