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budaatum:
It is your response that made the provision of sex sound mandatory that made me bring up marital rape.

The fault determines the payout, and the woman being at fault means she gets paid less, which is what the appeal court overturned in this case.

Is it your opinion that she deserves less or nothing because she denied himsex, even though he would have deprived her by "prioritizing his career over family life and been bad-tempered and insulting"?

Should I let him fuq me because he is my husband, even though he is bad-tempered towards me and insulting?

I have read MORE about the case.

Apparently, the woman started RATIONING sex to her husband since 1992!

The moment they had their FIRST child, she DRASTICALLY reduced his access to sex.

In spite of this, the abuse did NOT start until 2002.
And she completely STOPPED fucking him in 2004.

So obviously she'd decided that he's NOT the man she wants to be married to.

The man abuses her and she no longer found him sexually attractive.

So my question to you is this:

Why did it take until 2012 (10 years after the abuse started) for her to file for DIVORCE?

If she CHOSE to stay married, she is OBLIGATED to act like a married woman. And that includes FUCCCKING her husband.

Speaking of which, the answer to your question is YES! Sex is MANDATORY in marriage.

A married man that is NOT getting fucccked is getting FUCCCCKED in that marriage.

budaatum:
And do you think that should give you the right to force open the supply and take all the sex you want?

If so, what's your opinion of spousal rape?

First of all, NEITHER the judgement nor my opinion is on the issue of RAPE.

The judgement goes to the matter of "NO-FAULT DIVORCE".

In a No-Fault Divorce, the LESS financially-bouyant spouse (usually the woman) is ENTITLED to benefits like alimony and HALF the Marital (aka the man's) assets.

The point of securing a divorce judgement where the court acknowledged that the woman was at FAULT is to prevent her from DENYING him sex and still TAKING his money and property.

NOBODY is advocating for rape!
NOT me!

And NOT the French courts that made the initial judgement that the woman was at FAULT so she had to run to a European Court of Human Rights to secure this SHADY judgement.

NO court in the WHOLE of France would grant her a NO-FAULT divorce.
That's why she ran to the ECHR.

NO-FAULT Divorce = MO' money.
FAULT Divorce = NO money.

That's what the case is about.

I am CONSTANTLY reminded that people at the peak of their career can still be STUPID.

A Judge who has supposedly been PRESIDING over court cases for YEARS and practising law for even MORE years made a decision that even a TWICE-RETARDDDED person would NOT have made.

Sex is one of the CARDINAL component of any marriage.

When you marry someone, it means you expect to fuccck them and ONLY them for the rest of your life.

That means you are committing to get your SUPPLY of sex from only ONE source for the foreseeable future.

If your spouse SUDDENLY cuts off your supply of sex, they are ABUSING you.

And you have the right to seek a DIVORCE. And that divorce should rightfully be the FAULT of the person who cut off sex.

Reverse the case so that it's the husband, the sole breadwinner, who cut off his wife's access to money and there would be a STAMPEDE between the Judge and SEVERAL women advocacy group to brand the man a FINANCIAL ABUSER.

It's rhe same thing!

Plus when you consider the fact that MOST women have all the personality of a wet LOG of wood and the NAGGING capability of a colicky infant, you'll realise it's MADNESS to live with a strange woman over an extended period of time without fucking her.

You CANNOT expect an essentially strange man to be your constant shoulder to cry on without providing him a constant pussy to nut in.

It's just MADNESS!
And the Judge is MAD too!

Consequences are here!

I am with Ayodeji on this!

Some roommates will NOT have sense until they get STABBED.

You will talk to them about their noise pollution in the morning and they'd decide to practice on their SCRATCHY violin in the evening.

Roommates like that will NEVER learn unless you employ VIOLENCE.

If you live with a roommate, it is commonsense to be CONSIDERATE. Especially when it comes to the issue of noise.

The FOOL was warned repeatedly YET he kept disturbing the peace of another person.

He's LUCKY to be alive.

Because they are NOT after genuine relationship per se.

They are looking for SLAVES who would devote his time and RESOURCES to shouldering the BURDEN of raising their BASTARDS.

They want CHUMPS.

And that's what men who marry single mothers are:

Dumb CHUMPS!

JUST suspended?

Dude, you need a TOTAL and COMPREHENSIVE TERMINATION of any and all plans to marry that woman.

You are NOT married yet, she has already RECRUITED her mother and sister to GANG UP on you and THWART your plans.

She has resorted to MANIPULATION and outright LYING.

She concocted a conversation with her Uncle that does NOT exist in order to MANIPULATE you into doing what she wants.

And she's doing this even though she previously agreed to YOUR plans.

You have PROOF that the woman you were about to marry would gladly work AGAINST you and make up STORIES to serve her selfish purposes.

And her MOTHER and SISTER would gladly work AGAINST you too.

The marriage plans should NOT be suspended.
It should be TERMINATED!

America is the NEW Russia.

Everybody should start adjusting to that.

A citizen of a country where the President is a rapist, pedophile and 34X convicted FELON is talking about the Rule of LAW.



She should take her pardon and embrace the rule of a DICTATOR.

Single Dads should NEVER date single mothers.

NOBODY should ever date a single mother!

They are walking-talking SIGNBOARDS of STUPIDITY.

You DON'T want to mix with them.

They'll treat their child like royalty and treat YOURS like slaves.
Their caring and nuturing nature ENDS with their kids.

They'll treat your kid terribly.
Their kids will ALSO treat your kids terribly.

There is a reason the EVIL stepmothers in fairytales are SINGLE MOTHERS.
It's because the WICKEDNESS Of Single Mothers is the stuff of LEGEND.

Many people DON'T even know that the story of Cinderella is a story about a girl named Ella.

It was the wickedness of a Single Mother who made her slave away in the fireplace that turned her into CINDER-Ella.

A single mother targets a childless bachelor for ONE reason:

To enlist his help and resources in raising her BASTARD.

All the wife-materialism and good attitude is FAKE!

It is just to LURE unsuspecting chumps into SLAVING for another man's family.

Single motherhood is a BLARING warning to ALL discerning men:

STAY AWAY!

ONLY fools think his comments had anything to do with his dismissal.

Trump has said WORSE!

During that H1B saga, Elon Musk himself said WORSE.
He branded the people who disagreed with him SUBTARDS.

The trouble with Vivek is that he's the WRONG SHADE to be making that kind of remark.

You cannot join a group bonded by the ultimate SUPERIORITY of their own race and comment that YOUR culture is superior to theirs.

That's just STUPID!

Vivek wanted to be one of the "good ones" but he did NOT know when to SHUT UP.

The DON of America has brought a new DAWN.

A dawn of RACISMM.
A dawn of RAPE.
A dawn of PEDOPHILIA.
A dawn of BLATANT abuse of power.

EVERYBODY needs to ADJUST to their new reality!
Vivek forgot to adjust himself.

NO Caucasians' criticisms from NON-caucasians.

If you think ANY woman is capable of making your life better, you are already in TROUBLE.

A woman who can make your life BETTER is also capable of making it WORSE.

Plus that mentality is the reason a LOT of men treat barely above-average women like QUEENS and turn themselves into bumbling SERFS.

Your life must be INDIFFERENT to the presence of ANY woman.

You have a GF, that's nice.
You don't have a GF, that's nice too.

Either way, DON'T expect a woman to magically make your life better.
That is TOO much pressure on someone that still needs her energy to battle menstrual cramps.

The RESPONSIBILITY for making your life better rests on you and ONLY you.
NOBODY else!

And definitely not on a GF.

OnlyFans model...plan to sleep with 100 men shocked in 24 hours and stream the encounters with her husband.

Where do PITIFUL men like this with ZERO ego come from?

How can ANY man marry a porrrnstar?
Not just a porrnstar but an ACTIVE porrnstar!

What the FUCCCK!

FOOL even planned to act as the CAMERAMAN while HUNDRED diccks of different shapes, shades and sizes CANNIBALISE his legally owned pussy.

In full view of the WHOLE world!

A HUNDRED diccks were about to descend on ONE single WHOORE yet the most DISGUSTING and SHAMEFUL person involved is the HUSBAND.

ZERO self respect!
ZERO sense!

Marrying a porrnstar is like eating out of a toilet bowl while another man is actively SHITTING in it.

NASTY!

Dude's sucking that mouth like he's making up for 20 years of CELIBACY.

This is the mentality of MEDIOCRE people!

You said it yourself that you FAILED to capitalise on SEVERAL opportunities that came your way.

YET rather than taking responsibility for that failure and resolving to SEIZE other opportunities that may come your way in the future, you're blaming it on a SHAKY spiritual life.

This is the way of THE MEDIOCRE.

If you fail to PREPARE yourself to latch on to opportunities that come your way, ALL your spiritual fortifications will be FUTILE.

Hilarious!

Dude still thinks women need a REASON to cheat.

Search to the end of the Universe, you'll NEVER find a creature more EVIL than the woman that claims to love you.

The Serpent in the Garden could have NEVER approached Adam directly in a ZILLION years, Adam would have BRAINED the creep.

The Fall of Adam was orchestrated with a BIG HELP from the woman who claimed to LOVE him.

Same with Samson.

And it was Job's own WIFE that screamed at him to just CURSE God so he would die QUICKLY and she could be finally free.

Look to different cultures and religions, you'll find ENDLESS lores of GREAT men being stabbed in the back by women who are supposed to have their backs.

The point here is simple:

Men must realise that their RIDE-or-DIE Is really just their DIE-or-DIE.

NOTHING foils great men like the women in their lives!

Here's a woman DESTROYING the family a CHAMPION has built, and his mental health along with it, because he supposedly works TOO much.

Meanwhile, she's happy to take the MANSION and HALF the wealth his work ethics PAID FOR.

She's making away with MILLIONS of Pep's money and here's all she "did" to "earn" it:

"she was a key source of support and inspiration for Guardiola throughout his career."

This is what EVIL looks like.

It's even WORSE when you realise that there is NOTHING Pep could have done to protect his assets.

A Prenuptial Agreement would have been USELESS!

Prenups ONLY protect assets/wealth that you owned BEFORE marriage. Not what you acquired DURING the marriage.

So even with a Prenup, she'd still have made a KILLING!
NO way out!

That's why marriage, especially in Western countries, is only BENEFICIAL to women and male losers who intend to REMAIN losers.

[quoteIIn her first speech of the year on Thursday, Ms Badenoch explained her push for “real conservatism”[/quote]Kemi has ZERO idea what she's talking about.

A return to REAL conservatism would DISQUALIFY her from her current position for 2 reasons:

1. Her gender.
2. Her race.

Prior to becoming the leader of the Conservative Party, very FEW people in Nigeria knew about her.
Her criticisms of the LARGEST Black Nation in the world went unheard.

But since becoming the Leader, she has been RELENTLESS in her attack on Nigeria.

Why?

Because conservatives absolutely LOATHE all Black People.

And Kemi is being VOCAL about her own hatred for Black People (her own Black People) to demonstrate that she BELONGS in a caucus of Black-hating people.

Even though she's black, she's trying to show that she's NOT Nigerian-black black.
A British house-nigga to our African shed-niggas.

Her RUDE awakening is coming PRONTO.
And when hits her like a Dangote Trailer with NO brake, she'll come parading Nigeria like Anthony Joshua.



You NEVER shit on your own people!

That's great!

It's time for ALL the black and Hispanic FOOLS who voted for Trump thinking they were safe because they are LEGAL immigrants or even second/third-generation immigrants to FIND OUT that it's the COLOUR of their skin and not the status of their immigration.

Legal ones will be BUNDLED with the illegal ones.

They will be JAILED in detention centres reminiscent of Nazi Germany.

Their children will be STOLEN from them and likely trafficked by whoever currently fills Epstein's vacant shoes.

And when they WAIL, there will be NO succour to be had.
Because they've alienated their greatest ALLIES.

STUPIDITY has consequences!

First of all, how far along is she?

Secondly, if she did a pregnancy test BEFORE she travelled and you've ONLY had protected sex since she did that test and your condom was NOT compromised; tell her to take the pregnancy to the REAL owner.

Finally, which country, which company and what job is involved that they MANDATED a pregnancy test administered by them?

Also whatever you do, DON'T send her money to get an abortion.

CONSEQUENCES of the last election will hit a lot of Americans like a BULLDOZER with the speed of a Lamborghini.

First of all, Wyoming voted for Trump.
Secondly, this Alan guy is a member of the Republican Party.

Finally, majority of Seniors in America are OVERWHELMINGLY Conservative. As such, they are RABID supporters of Trump.

So whatever Trump does is ON them!

If he cuts their benefits, its on THEM.
If he raises their tax, it's on THEM.
If he EXTENDS the retirement age, its on THEM.

Last time Trump was in office, he rolled back safety regulations in the Airline Industry.

Boeing capitalised on the lax regulations and churned out planes where the safety standards are "good luck" and "belief in God".

And because both of those are UNRELIABLE, their planes have been dropping from the sky like something looking for its own square root.

I NEVER want to hear any criticism of Trump from ANY Americans.

He's their Jesus now.
And like Simon of Cyrene, they MUST carry his cross for him.

And carry it in SILENCE, too.

Kumuyi is an ULTRACONSERVATIVE nutjob.

Until a few decades ago, he FORBADE his church members from watching TV because it's from the DEVIL.

Even NOW, he still forbids dancing and drumsets in ALL branches of his church because they are tools of the devil. Not because of the noise pollution.

So I am NOT shocked that he'd endorse and legitimise a known RAPIST and PEDOPHILE with his presence just because the CRIMINAL is also conservative.

Even bedecked in JEWELS and doused in PERFUME, a pig is STILL a pig!

An UNFAITHFUL woman has NO redeeming quality.

ANY woman who can WILLFULLY deceive a person she claims to LOVE is NOT a good person.

It takes an UNFATHOMABLE level of undiluted WICKEDNESS to say to one man "You are the LOML" and then hop on a cab to go suck another man's dicck.

Today, she's lying to her school BF about you.
Tomorrow, she'll lie to YOU about her office BF.

Cheaters NEVER change!

Today, you are the BENEFICIARY of her infidelity.
Tomorrow, you'll be the VICTIM of her infidelity.

Bleep her, if you must.
But NEVER commit to her.

Apart from medical conditions, women go bald for 2 other reasons:

1. They have GIVEN UP on their femininity and are focused on channelling their INNER MAN like an MFM Devotee.

2. They are too POOR to afford making their hair or to buy good wigs.

Either way, you want to AVOID them like the plague.

With the #1,000, I'd buy TWO apples and a bottle of water.

NO need to waste money building CALAMITY for myself with my own hands.

28-year old husband?
22-year old wife?
Married for 8 years?

The PEDOPHILE finally got what he DESERVED.

That is one of the benefits of being good-looking.
You AUTOMATICALLY become trustworthy and people assume GOOD things about you.

It's called the Halo Effect.

Good looks = good person.

It's why good looking people can be so CHARISMATIC even with the personality of a wicked stepmother.

You'll say the "sky is blue" and people would nod along as if you've just revealed the hidden secrets of creation.

Meanehile, average people will LABOUR tirelessly to cultivate a pleasant personality and still not have HALF the charisma.

An UGLY people are automatically seen as DEVILS.
After all, it makes sense that you must be very WICKED to have been punished with such HIDEOUS appearance.

What you must DO:

1. LEAN into it.
2. CULTIVATE your appearance even more.
3. Be EVERYBODY'S confidante.
4. Mainrain the appearance of integrity.

Whenever a leadership position opens up, JUMP at it.
They already like you and have built you up as superior to them in their minds so they'll follow your lead.

Enjoy.

Cheating is NOT illegal so reporting them to the Police is FUTILE.

Physical violence is UNADVISABLE 'cause when will you stop?
Plus, you could end up killing someone or getting killed.

Regardless of which happens, you DON'T want it happening in public.

Plus, a BURST of violence is FLEETING and UNSATISFACTORY.

NO!
Your revenge must be LONG and COMPREHENSIVE.

The first step is to identify the TARGET.
If your wife cheats with another man, the man is NOT your target.

He owes you NOTHING!
You DIDN'T marry him.
He DIDN'T cheat on you.

Your WIFE did.
KNOW this and act accordingly.

When you have irrefutable proof that your wife is cheating, CONCEAL your pain.

DON'T shout.
DON'T cry.
NEVER ask for explanation.

And unlike this man, NEVER ask how many times. They'll always say it's the first and ONLY time.

Instead, DETACH completely and look forward with GLEE as you scheme her ruination.

Your IMMEDIATE action is to REMOVE her from your presence.

That means if she lives in YOUR house, she DOESN'T anymore. NO letting her spend the night or whatever.

She must find ALTERNATIVE accomodation regardless of what time you decide to act. And it's NOT your concern how she goes about it.

Same thing applies if YOU pay the rent for the apartment you both live in.

And in the RARE occasion that she owns the house or pays the rent, remove YOURSELF.

NEXT is to amplify her reputation as a WHOORE.
That means EVERYBODY you know KNOWS!

Tell your church/mosque.
Tell your neighbours.
Tell your friends.
Tell her friends.
Tell your family.
Tell her family.

If she works in a CORPORATE setting and the infidelity is with a colleague (teammates, superior or subordinate), tell the HR.

It could lead to TERMINATION and she'd have a lot of fun explaining why she lost her job at her next job interview.

And make sure it's YOU doing the telling. Not her.
Goal is to give her NOWHERE to hide and NO way to twist the story to SALVAGE her reputation.

The reputation of being a LovePeddler must follow her EVERYWHERE she goes or, better yet, already there waiting for her.

That way, she'll ALWAYS be getting unsolicited dicck offers from randy men who know for a fact she's a LOOSE woman.

And she could be potentially OSTRACIZED since other sensible men will NOT let their wives hangout with her just in case her SLUTTERY is contagious (it is).

And sensible women will NOT allow their husbands near her because she's a LOOSE woman who could lure them away with the sex she readily gives out.

Then IF you have kids, CONFIRM they are yours.
If they are, explain to them in atomic details how their mother CHOSE to destroy their family because she loves stranger's dicck MORE than she loves them.

Let the look of sheer DISGUST that graces her preteen son's face as he calls her "ASHAWO" crush her dark soul forever.

Some men HIDE the cause of their divorce from their children and allow their cheating wives to still PRETEND to be a good mother.

DON'T!

Next is the TAKING stage.
You take back EVERYTHING you've ever given her.
I've read about men who let their unfaithful fiancees keep EXPENSIVE engagement rings because they "gave" it to them.

DON'T be like that!
Take back EVERYTHING!

You opened her a business, TAKE it!
You bought her a car, TAKE it!
You bought her pants, TAKE it!

When you feel PETTY, remember that you bought these things for YOUR WIFE. NOT a prostitute!

Final step is to FORGET about her.

The woman you thought she was does NOT exist, act like it.
PURGE your memory and space of ANYTHING that reminds you of her.

NEVER acknowledge her existence.
If you see her again, act like you DON'T know her.

A woman who cheats on you must be DEAD to you.

Anyway, that is how to HANDLE an unfaithful spouse.

This is why I have a VISCERAL hatred for ALL Yahoo Boys.

The VICTIM in this story is likely a 60-something-year.old RETIREE looking to use her lifesavings of $300k to live out the rest of her life.

Imagine SLAVING away in your youth and DENYING yourself to put something away for your old age just for a USELESS 21-year old boy to SNATCH it away from you and LAVISH it on drinks, cars, girls and clubs.

Consequences for Yahoo should be WORSE than it is. And should encompass MORE people than it does.

If you let your Yahoo Boy son buy you a car with the proceeds of fraud, you should be arrested and JAILED for a minimum of 10 years.

ANY night club that caters to Yahoo Boys should be SHUT DOWN permanently.

Landlords that rent out their buildings to Yahoo Boys as Hustle Kingdoms should have their buildings DEMOLISHED and their C of O REVOKED.

And as for the CRIMINALS themselves, the least punishment for them should be a LIFE SENTENCE.

If you collect $100 as a 21-year old boy, the next time you step outside of a prison should be as a 78-year old CORPSE.

ALL these can be achieved by classifying Yahoo as TREASON.

And it is!
Yahoo Boys RUIN the international image of the entire country.

ANYBODY who takes DELIBERATE actions that damage the international reputation of over 200 MILLION people is a TERRORIST.
And should be charged with TREASON.

Apart from stealing from GERIATRIC seniors and SULLYING the reputation of the entire country, Yahoo Boys are also guilty of damaging the DOMESTIC economy.

They come to a place and DESTROY the economy of that place.

Osogbo is PROOF of that.
There is NOTHING in Osogbo but because of stable power supply, Yahoo Boys INVADED the place.

Now, barely habitable 2-bedroom apartments go for #1 MILLION in Osogbo.

This is the LEGACY of Yahoo Boys.

ALL of them should be treated as TERRORISTS.

"I have to acknowledge that this achievement came at a very high cost: the breakup of my 10-year marriage."

Imagine!

Kissing another man is such an "achievement" to her that she's willing to pay her DECADE-LONG marriage as the PRICE.

In other words, smooching a celebrity for 10 SECONDS is more VALUABLE to her than the sacrifice, devotion and commitment her husband gave her for 10 YEARS.

Her justification?

It made HER happy.

That is the SOLIPSISTIC nature of ALL women amplified for all to see.

They DON'T give a fuccck about anybody but themselves.
They DON'T give a fuccck about anybody's feelings but theirs.

You could take a woman from the DEPTHS of Hades and guide and mentor her to the PEAKS of Mount Olympus. And be devoted, committed and loyal to her for TWO THOUSAND years.

Yet she'd suck another man's dick in the back of a Toyota Camry just because he made her GIGGLE one time.

And like the lady in this post, she'd say:

"It was never my intention to hurt you."

Point is committing to ANY woman is a BIG mistake!

Instead, treat them like an umbrella:

When it's rainy season, have one handy.
When everything is calm and clear, let them be an AFTERTHOUGHT.

This is THE WAY.

Darlingme:
So many people suggested that. But I don't know if it's questionable by the law

It's NOT illegal to renovate your own house.
Give him a notice IF you like.

The reason he's DRAGGING your own house with you is because he expects you to act like a REASONABLE person.

Don't!

Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's down to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.