spyder880:


Just about 480 square metres.

MrBrownJay1:


yes i will always blame a man for the sex of a child (especially when that man is 2angry" to only have another daughters... you can call it whatever you desire (luck/holy intervention etc) but the fact remains that a man's sperm is the only thing that will be responsible in whether you have a son or a daughter. a woman has no hand whatsoever in that matter, so if husband should be angry, it should with himself, nobody else.

the acidity or alkaline issue you are bringing CANNOT change a women's chromosome from X to Y therefore whatever you are talking about is irrelevant when it comes to the sex of a child.

MrBrownJay1:


i beg to differ... a man's gene has a bigger part to play here... thats why some families have only boys (or girls), and this runs from brothers to brothers or fathers with only girls etc

if a woman can only bring X chromosomes to the table and you need a Y to make a boy, then no matter how we look at it, only a man can make the difference here, and as much as a man cant decide what he will get, if you have 10girls or 10boys, then there is only one person you can blame for that (as this has nothing to do with luck). 50/50 is luck, but if you have +5 children of the same sex (like many parents out there), then this is no more luck. your DNA/genes are at play here... and like the OP, the husband shouldnt be mad at wifey!

MrBrownJay1:


no he certainly doesnt have any power to decide which of his chromosome attaches to the wifey's egg, but the difference between a male child or female child is in balls, not her eggs.



it will never be anyone's fault to have a child... we are not blaming the man, but we have to accept that a child's gender is solely down to a man's sperm... and a woman can do absolutely nothing when it comes to whether the child will be a boy or a girl.



as much as you are right about the above, adopting a child is just as expensive as raising your own.... and the majority would rather try again to have a biological son (or a girl), than adopt one.

eyinjuege:


Whites don't give a rat's behind about African and Asian women, so don't be deceived they would cook up a story to suit our purpose.
They believe in science while we majorly like folk lore tales like the acidity/alkalinity of the vagina.
That statement is not based on science, and hasn't been proved. They will always remind you that the sheattles method is not proven scientifically.
Secondly, the sex of a child is determined by what chromosome the father donates, whether male or female. That is science, genetics . Proven scientifically.
Thirdly, sex determination is also a game of chance. You have a 50%chance of having a male child and 50%chance of having a female..... duhhhh. That's still scientific and also common sensical.

sysengr:

Whenever I say it's the man that determines the sex, sometimes he says a woman that receives it also needs to have high alkalinity. So annoying.
It's so hard for him to accept it's fully his fault.

Modified: I believe God's will also prevails in terms of sex too.

Thanks a lot

midnighter:


Yes, the first control was broken when they failed to confirm her status ergo eligibility for those benefits. I think she must have used somebody elses name or somebody on the inside waived the requirement because the emphasis of the article is that she was already a homeowner and not that shes an unsettled immigrant or whatever its called.

Not easy but more possible if you have an insider who can influence the allocations for you and bump you up the waiting list. If they know a property that has recently been vacated you just need them to submit your name/push for you. Plus she has 3 kids, I wonder how old they are

And thats if she even used her real name to claim all that stuff. They said she "fraudulently" obtained a mortgage. How can you get a mortgage without identity documents? She was probably doing some contract work somewhere using somebody else's documentation.

midnighter:


She lied to the council that she had been evicted by her landlord and I dont think they bothered to check her status until that person complained

Their issue was that she was claiming benefits when she had a house already but not that she wasnt entitled to those benefits in the first place. That detail emerged later. Funny huh

Theyre even still contemplating her status sef...thats not even the one paining them

midnighter:


The article said her udala got burst because one of her tenants went to complain about her to the council

From there they started digging

OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!

Alkanelly:
Hello fellow Nairalanders, please am concerned about my building project in port harcourt, the building has swallowed almost 4M and we haven't even started the oversite concrete, the building is 21.71m X 11.58m. so far we are filling the backfilling the rooms and getting ready to start oversite concrete slab. Note: this is a 4 unit of 2 bedroom all ensuite. should the cost be upto what it has taken? i am not in the country, could it be that something is not right? please i need advice.

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Rubbiish:

Btw 300 - 400k should be able to cover it since it is only external.
But location plays important role when it comes to project costing.
So i will advise u get someone to physically inspect it & give u an estimate.

Rubbiish:

Thought u asked this before sir?
Labour or Materials?

Larwin:


This thinking is wowed. 3m should give you a good piled foundation for a duplex.

spyder880:


Plastering sand, cement, labor for walls, window hoods, belts, edges and other ornamentals planned to cost about N1.3m. Work in progress.

spyder880:


Plastering sand, cement, labor for walls, window hoods, belts, edges and other ornamentals planned to cost about N1.3m. Work in progress.

gbadexy:

let me help hajji out here.
screeding is done after plastering the building. cement screeding is smoother and better in my opinion. I used to have pictures of cement screeding of different projects but i don't have them anymore. However, I will post pictures of a painted project that cement screeding was used.
just for the record, I don't get involved in any form of screeding, I'm just giving my personal opinion. I've seen countless of pop screeding on sites and I've seen cement screeding and I only speak from my observation.
On a professional level, cement screeding doesn't set fast and won't waste materials.
it's smoother because it has longer open time to work it and has free lime to make it flexible when working before it sets.
water doesn't affect it, and water in paints also combine with the cement to further hydrate it. The water won't evaporate from the wall but would rather be soaked in by the cement to further hydrate it and make it stronger. The paint would therefore be chemically linked with the wall. it's won't peal off easily unlike pop screeding.
There is no cement/sand plaster that can give the level of smoothness as screeding. no matter how many times the sands are sifted.
you only need to compare the aggregate of both. The aggregate in pop emulsion paint used as the aggregate is calcium carbonate powder. you are basically comparing plaster sand to calcium carbonate powder in smoothness.
I've seen very well plastered walls that doesn't require screeding for matte emulsion to be applied on it, however it would still need to be screeded for satin to be applied on it. satin is thin and light and the tiny pores on cement plaster would be obvious and won't give that perfect smooth finish.

modified to include cement screeding