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JUICYPINEAPPLE:
MY DEAR BROTHER. MARRIAGE NA BLACK MARKET. NA TO JUST MAKE UP YOUR MIND, CHOKE HEAD ANYTHING WEY YOUR EYE JAM AFTERWARDS TUH! BRO NA BLACK MARKET O.

I would prefer to be single than marry someone that would torment me for the rest of my life. A man can only say he's successful after marriage. If you end up with the wrong partner, my dear, you're in for a bumpy ride for the rest of Your life. Can You cope with that?

Well, personally I've never been a relationship kinda guy, although growing up I dated a few, but I kinda paid more attention to Money Making. At a point, I could say I was ready to settle down, maybe financially and then I noticed that all what they all wanted was Money and the good and comfortable life I offer them. It kinda made me stopped trusting any Lady at all, especially our women. Growing up again, I noticed that our women were cultured, disciplined, most of them hardly even go out to beer parlors & all, but lately, it's like the in-thing. Notwithstanding, before now, it was very easy to come across virgins and maybe girls who were raped but made the decision of not having sex till they get married. But currently, i don't think it's still obtainable, even if it is, it's just very very limited.

Secondly, I've noticed that lately Women are More concerned about their bodies, which can be summarised as thus;
a. Bleaching their skins
b. Expensive hairs & wearing the designer clothes at any cost ( even if it takes them sleeping around)
C. Sex (Suddenly, women feel they must come as it pleases them, and when they don't, instead of sitting down to work on that, they're too quick to jump to the next dick)
D. Social Media, (this is like the catalyst)


It is becoming worrying that women hardly sit back and fix their Relationships this days and social media have made it very very easy for them. For instance, once you & Bae have a little issue you can easily sort out, the next thing she will do is text the next guy (Obviously, she already has about 10 of them seeking for her attention, so its easy to spot one that catches her fancy and simply reply and before you know it, Relationship with the former guy has ended).

Thirdly, Women have step up the cheating game, I think they now think they're in competition with men as regards to cheating. Yeah, you might think you have a good girl until well, you go through all her social media accounts and messages, and it will shock you what you would likely see there. Women have forgotten that been a Man comes with so much responsibility that sex is not always our major problem. For instance, a man has got to plan on how to build just like his mates, buy cars, lands and properties and above all, take care of all their parents, siblings etc. And we only use sex as a form of relaxation after a long hour of hustling. It is even becoming frightening that, our women have become rude and mannerless and obviously worship money. You're only good enough to our women when you have enough cash to throw around.

Furthermore, why are our men suddenly keeping quiet and would have to contend with whatever attitude our
Ladies portray during dating even to the extent of raising their hands on a man, saying they're sorry even when it's obvious that the lady in question is wrong, begging too much for sex (Do you not have pride as a man), which has led us been called as been sex starved ( I believe NIGERIA has the most random men on Earth). Our men have no respect for married couples, serious or engaged Relationships and would stop at nothing until they end up sleeping with the said lady, even if it takes throwing money around just to entice her. Why are our men scared to condemn or simply walk away when a lady becom s toxic and insulting, could this be as a result of pussy mongering among our men?

In summary, my post is not aimed at condemning our ladies, I'm only highlighting the things I've observed over my years here in NIGERIA. Am I the only one finding it difficult to trust our ladies? I've met some really good ladies too, but at the end, if You're the type of man that takes little details into serious consideration in a relationship, you might end up single like me. Lately, I've been reading how Women have been caught by men who were willing to walk down the isle with them cheating, and it's beginning to scare the hell outta me. I would like to hear from our ladies mostly on this topic

#Still_Nash

Nigerians are not Sincere & Honest people, half of that population can survive even a 4 month Lockdown. If you're a Nigerian and you don't have that mentality of saving for rainy days, then you're not a true Nigerian. We're accustomed with Hardship & as a result, we don't only hope live for today but rather we care much about tomorrow.

dawnomike:
Just talk it over with her... Some ladies just like watching porn for the fun of it.
If you do not like it, talk her out of it... If you like it; kindly enjoy it together.

NB: I'm not a fan of pre-martal intimacy though

Thanks for your advice. But I kinda don't like porn, they tend to make sex all perfect cos it is filmed and even sometimes the huge dicks we see there are just a mirage, if a woman gets addicted to it, and you don't make it happen exactly how it happens via porn videos, she might start seeing you as a lesser man.

I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

Kekereekun123:
no country rules for ever. one day usa self go fall

That's called transition of power. Rome was once a great city, but after the rise and fall of Rome, till today Rome have remained irrelevant.

We thank God for life and lessons of 2019. 2020 would be a success for those that believe and work towards it. Let's toast to the good life guys �

Op kindly get the drugs I snapped (Benzylyn Benzoates) but it's not the cure, it will only stop the itching run a test and get a drug, it works magic. What you have just Staphylococcus. Don't do blood test , you need a Urinary Tract test. I'm presently treating same thing, exactly the way you feeling right now is how I felt last week. Please use condom henceforth, especially if you leave in Lagos, this infection is common with the ladies here.

What a way to die!

Factfinder1:
Please I am looking for a part-time job as a private tutor or anything else. If you have any, please contact me on: Henrysimplicity@yahoo.com or call 08100512270

Location: Abuja
Anywhere around gwarimpa, kubwa,dutse,bwari...I can teach maths,English, social studies biology,... Primary 1- ss1 thanks

Can you work in an Eatery 25k with accommodation, do you know how to make bids 60k with accommodation, or are you a tailor 50k with accommodation all in the same establishment at Kubwa,

Hello Op

I am going to tell you something you are missing here. Firstly, remember you met your bf online, and his assumption at first was, if you could decide to go out with him just by meeting him online, you could possibly do that with some other guys and he really wanted to prove himself wrong thus involving his friends. His friend two is not really a good person, if he could betray his own close friend over a woman, he's not worth calling a friend. You have to put yourself in your bf's position to understand things clearly. What if his friend made up those Canada stories?? Your bf made a little mistake cos he was been careful the kinda girl he's falling for.
Secondly, you also managed to go far with the second guy, once you told him you had a bf you should have indirectly started avoiding him when he started with constant calls and etal, but you gave him the impression that you liked him too, which was why he didn't want to give up on you anymore.
Conclusively, forgive your bf, but make him understand the gravity of what he has done. If you really love him it can work out for you both. I'm dating someone I met in fbk, I Will be 30 by Nov and at first I had same trust issues cos it was an online affair, but now I've seen she's someone I can trust and love and live with and this happened overtime not just in a jiffy. Most times, in our meeting with ppl online, the first thought is to Bleep dem and leave them, cos is just an online thing, until you begin to feel smtin.
I'd be really glad if you give my comment a second thought, I don't know your bf or his friends or you. But this is my input as a guy in that age bracket.

The real boss

Wisdomkosi:
Umahi is fake, stealing from Ebonyians . Come 2019, Ebonyians will send him back to where he belongs. Nonsense

All this sentimental writers, what do you mean by fake? He has justified his post,he has proven his critics wrong in all ramifications and we'll pleased with what he's doing. I don't stay Air. anymore. But I schooled there for 5 yrs Elechi only embarked on white elephant projects he couldn't do marsh after 8 wasted yrs. Elechi is too frugal with the new state he keeps taking us aback.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Next time, use paragraphs.

That being said, you made a little sense. I hope they'll read and be remorseful.
What an irony!

Lol
Noted. I thought we are used to writing jaga jaga style in nairaland. As a graduate of History & Int'l relations, it's actually bad 4 me 2 have ignored that. Thanks

Good day nairalanders, I want us to fully digest this issue of yahoo yahoo thing that is on going, In my little time as a Nigerian from an average home, I've had my highs and lows, and I can categorically tell you that, it is not easy for an average Nigerian. As a result, most people on the street have resorted to yahoo yahoo as a way outta their mess. I'm not here to actually encourage it, because it is an evil that needs to stop and with the way the younger generations who are some times ill quipped are delving into it at an alarming rate. First of all, there are several formats used by several yahoo guys all across the world and in Nigeria in particular. Some do dating, which involves getting an older woman or man to love the particular person (A fake picture of a white man/woman) which the portray on the Internet to be. We also have others who do the real Yahoo known as wire wire or check and also credit cards, this are the guys we see driving all that big Benz, and all sorts of expensive shits. Most of them have little time for juju or rituals as we often perceive them, this is because, their bosses reside far away Canada, US or China and work with white hackers, who spam into big company accounts mail, gain access to their security codes and wire money to overseas accounts which most times are not traceable, and we also have pure ritualists, this people portray themselves as yahoo guys too, but in reality, they make their money through fetish means by mere hypnotize of their victims. All together, this a bad idea which MUST be stopped. But the essence of the post goes deeper than that. First and foremost, things are going from bad to worst in Nigeria, I don't know if it's just in my quarters, but a lot of guys who I know who graduated some few years back, are yet to secure a good job and it's crazy how on the street of Lagos, the only jobs available now are mere marketing jobs that hardly even pay your rents, let alone other myriads of expenses and responsibilities. Furthermore, there's is this issue of most people who are not from the not so wealthy homes to get loans and establish a standard business, plus other myriads of issues which the average youths are facing in Nigeria. Now that the federal Govt have decided to put an end to this evil trade called yahoo, my question is, have the been any measure taken by the Govt to at least create an avenue for this guy's to go into, more like an employment opportunities or a youth empowerment scheme that us reliable and free?
More so, all this monies that are to be recovered by this federal agencies, what exactly are they planning to do with it since it's an illicit fund and in most cases, the real owners of this monies are not even known, most of them have already moved on with their lives and forgotten it
My little opinion, for the younger ones who are even yet to finish their secondary school delving into this trade, Remember there is an end to everything, use your time wisely, either learn a trade or go to school now!!!
For the ones using juju, Karma is waiting for you. For the real ones who out of frustration decided to go into this evil trade quit now and invest!!!
Conclusively, In our bid to reconcile my point of view on this post, I want us to be very subjective without been biased and think deep before lamenting, lambasting or judging anyone out there, the street is strict, an average Nigerian is an epitome of suffering, pains and starvation. Tank you
#Still your boy Nash

Good day nairalanders, I want us to fully digest this issue of yahoo yahoo thing that is on going, In my little time as a Nigerian from an average home, I've had my highs and lows, and I can categorically tell you that, it is not easy for an average Nigerian. As a result, most people on the street have resorted to yahoo yahoo as a way outta their mess. I'm not here to actually encourage it, because it is an evil that needs to stop and with the way the younger generations who are some times ill quipped are delving into it at an alarming rate. First of all, there are several formats used by several yahoo guys all across the world and in Nigeria in particular. Some do dating, which involves getting an older woman or man to love the particular person (A fake picture of a white man/woman) which the portray on the Internet to be. We also have others who do the real Yahoo known as wire wire or check and also credit cards, this are the guys we see driving all that big Benz, and all sorts of expensive shits. Most of them have little time for juju or rituals as we often perceive them, this is because, their bosses reside far away Canada, US or China and work with white hackers, who spam into big company accounts mail, gain access to their security codes and wire money to overseas accounts which most times are not traceable, and we also have pure ritualists, this people portray themselves as yahoo guys too, but in reality, they make their money through fetish means by mere hypnotize of their victims. All together, this a bad idea which MUST be stopped. But the essence of the post goes deeper than that. First and foremost, things are going from bad to worst in Nigeria, I don't know if it's just in my quarters, but a lot of guys who I know who graduated some few years back, are yet to secure a good job and it's crazy how on the street of Lagos, the only jobs available now are mere marketing jobs that hardly even pay your rents, let alone other myriads of expenses and responsibilities. Furthermore, there's is this issue of most people who are not from the not so wealthy homes to get loans and establish a standard business, plus other myriads of issues which the average youths are facing in Nigeria. Now that the federal Govt have decided to put an end to this evil trade called yahoo, my question is, have the been any measure taken by the Govt to at least create an avenue for this guy's to go into, more like an employment opportunities or a youth empowerment scheme that us reliable and free?
More so, all this monies that are to be recovered by this federal agencies, what exactly are they planning to do with it since it's an illicit fund and in most cases, the real owners of this monies are not even known, most of them have already moved on with their lives and forgotten it
My little opinion, for the younger ones who are even yet to finish their secondary school delving into this trade, Remember there is an end to everything, use your time wisely, either learn a trade or go to school now!!!
For the ones using juju, Karma is waiting for you. For the real ones who out of frustration decided to go into this evil trade quit now and invest!!!
Conclusively, In our bid to reconcile my point of view on this post, I want us to be very subjective without been biased and think deep before lamenting, lambasting or judging anyone out there, the street is strict, an average Nigerian is an epitome of suffering, pains and starvation. Tank you
#Still your boy Nash

Good day nairalanders, I want us to fully digest this issue of yahoo yahoo thing that is on going, In my little time as a Nigerian from an average home, I've had my highs and lows, and I can categorically tell you that, it is not easy for an average Nigerian. As a result, most people on the street have resorted to yahoo yahoo as a way outta their mess. I'm not here to actually encourage it, because it is an evil that needs to stop and with the way the younger generations who are some times ill quipped are delving into it at an alarming rate. First of all, there are several formats used by several yahoo guys all across the world and in Nigeria in particular. Some do dating, which involves getting an older woman or man to love the particular person (A fake picture of a white man/woman) which the portray on the Internet to be. We also have others who do the real Yahoo known as wire wire or check and also credit cards, this are the guys we see driving all that big Benz, and all sorts of expensive shits. Most of them have little time for juju or rituals as we often perceive them, this is because, their bosses reside far away Canada, US or China and work with white hackers, who spam into big company accounts mail, gain access to their security codes and wire money to overseas accounts which most times are not traceable, and we also have pure ritualists, this people portray themselves as yahoo guys too, but in reality, they make their money through fetish means by mere hypnotize of their victims. All together, this a bad idea which MUST be stopped. But the essence of the post goes deeper than that. First and foremost, things are going from bad to worst in Nigeria, I don't know if it's just in my quarters, but a lot of guys who I know who graduated some few years back, are yet to secure a good job and it's crazy how on the street of Lagos, the only jobs available now are mere marketing jobs that hardly even pay your rents, let alone other myriads of expenses and responsibilities. Furthermore, there's is this issue of most people who are not from the not so wealthy homes to get loans and establish a standard business, plus other myriads of issues which the average youths are facing in Nigeria. Now that the federal Govt have decided to put an end to this evil trade called yahoo, my question is, have the been any measure taken by the Govt to at least create an avenue for this guy's to go into, more like an employment opportunities or a youth empowerment scheme that us reliable and free?
More so, all this monies that are to be recovered by this federal agencies, what exactly are they planning to do with it since it's an illicit fund and in most cases, the real owners of this monies are not even known, most of them have already moved on with their lives and forgotten it
My little opinion, for the younger ones who are even yet to finish their secondary school delving into this trade, Remember there is an end to everything, use your time wisely, either learn a trade or go to school now!!!
For the ones using juju, Karma is waiting for you. For the real ones who out of frustration decided to go into this evil trade quit now and invest!!!
Conclusively, In our bid to reconcile my point of view on this post, I want us to be very subjective without been biased and think deep before lamenting, lambasting or judging anyone out there, the street is strict, an average Nigerian is an epitome of suffering, pains and starvation. Tank you
#Still your boy Nash

SamuelAnyawu:
Nice one.

Kudos to Umahi and my paddy's Dad Dennis Ekumankama

Dennis is a big Uncle from Amangwu Edda, Afikpo South LGA

yungjeffmusic:
Lol, I was assimilating the elderly advise na

Nice one bro, try and enter Lagos. Use good producers, it seems your boss has money. Feature one of the hottest stars, that won't cost much like Mayoukun, or the likes. God bless your hustle bro

Yes, I see Sinzu coming back real hard. He has made the right move by joining the winning team and the hottest team in Nigeria right now (DMW). Free features from Davido and Dremo will be a banger, plus he took 2 years to relax, ponder and thank bout life while in prison. He must have crafted some good punchlines and music. Plus the call for rappers to fix their recently by M.i, plus Sinzu have always been a true definition of African American Rap, the way he blends is awesome, he's got the swag, he's got the words, so yes, he's definitely gonna come back real hard, more so everyone right now is waiting to hear what he drops next, what other promo is better than that itself?

stagger:
You no get sense. Are you even married? And how much of Tiwa and Teebilz do you know on a personal level to come here to talk all this trash, as if you were born and lived with them in the same house all their lives? What gives you the right to make such senseless talk based on what you definitely picked up from gossip blogs?

My conclusion is that you are probably in your 20s and have not seen anything in life. Grow up a little more and experience life. Then come back to write from a more mature point of view.

Thank you, I will not insult you back, I always respect everyone's point of view and I hope you also respect mine. And I am 30 yrs old and have seen and have experiences in life. All the same, you sounded so pained, am sorry my post made you feel bad.

godwin120alex:
I'll ask this writer one question , would you allow your sist er er to remain with Tbillz

Well, b4 I answr your question, I want to say smtin. First, did you confirm those things they said bout him? What if they were just mere lies to cover up? If my sister knows the kinda man he's dealing with and still loves him regardless, yes I'll.

salford1:
Not all women though. I can speak for my wife. She has never looked down on me when the chips were down. She actually supported me in becoming more succesful when I was weak and tired.

Even though she has a little higher earning power than i have, we compliment each other well.

Very well then. You have the best woman.

safarigirl:
Chai!

See as you write wedding crash. What was wrong with using "marriage"?

Lol
Even the English men make mistakes too. I was a little overwhelmed I guess. Correction noted though

luminouz:
Why y'all bothering about earth women n their attitudes/characters baffle me...go galactical mofbvkers....
I got women in d core worlds,Mid-Rim and Outer-rim sectors. Twi'leks, Anunakis and a few Corellians are all a nigga need to enjoy his existence. They ain't gonna give u trouble at all n u understand them better. Once ur joined, telepathy takes care of the rest. No need for all this Terran women BS!!!

When you are younger, handsome and maybe rich too. You always think you have women all figured out and at your grip, but one day, one stranger walks out of no way and make you fall in love the way you never expected and start doing crazy things
Then you will figure out, that women are magical and that they can always have their way.

F

FortifiedCity:
valid points.

While you're assisting a woman to develop, make sure you are developing too

You are 100% correct

7inches:
Tiwa is a pure slut. Shameless one at that

Take it easy bro.....That is just women for you. To them. Is is not a big deal. After all, if they loose you another bigger man takes your place. It's your loss.

It is evident now that the crash of Tiwa's wedding is somehow as a result of infidelity,trust issues and insecurity. From the recent activities of Tiwa Savage, we can somehow deduce that TeeBliz was right regarding the accusations against Tiwa.

However, the lesson we must all learn from the crash as men are numerous, but let me shorten it;

(1) HELPING A WOMAN TO THE TOP OF HER CAREERS:

I have often wondered why some men refused to let their woman rise to the very top, it is very simple here. When a woman rises to the top, they tend to forget the ladder through which they climbed to the very top, this is not same case with men. A man will always remain very loyal to the that person who showed him the way to the top. Same cannot be said of women. Most times. Putting ourselves in someone's shoes helps, let's assume TeeBliz takes all that shits we were made to believe, but the question that comes to mind is, does it mean Tiwa wasn't aware of his habits before they got married? If it was Tiwa's habit, Do we really think TeeBliz will divorce her for the same reason?
Women are naturally not loyal to men especially when you stop paying the bills.

(2) With the manner in which Tiwa has carried herself lately. I want to ask all men this simple question; regardless of her career, can you marry such a wife? With all those crazy, ripped off, half naked dresses etc Before you answer that, take a deep breath and think first. While dating, we all love this crazy girl who's always sexy and all that, but this is marriage, Men can you really do that? Lesson learn, don't Marry someone who's career is not suitable to your kinda person.

(3) Finally, As a man. DO NOT sacrifice your own career and future ambitions for any Nigerian lady, they are not worth it, they all have short memories. I know they are few good ones out there. But never you ever sacrifice your life for anyone's career. We should all remember Teebliz for what he did and not what we were told. He picked up Tiwa and put her in the pinnacle of her career, what did he get in return? Nothing.

This is a big lesson for all ambitions men out there. I am not saying you should restrict that woman from being who she wants to be. Just don't sacrifice yours for her.
Thank you. Still your boy Nash.