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RomanceRe: My Greatest Temptation With A Married Woman In Marriage Crises Came Last Night. by nashito(m): 10:27pm On May 29
[code][/code][quote author=FreeSpirited post=134992947]From our discussion, she says her husband is kind of mean... And lady is frustrated.. Seems a broke church man is an angry man.
She says husband has locked her out twice for going to church program. The last one that happened two days ago husband ejected some of her belongings to the verandaa before she came back from program btw 6 and 8pm....




From this input just know that, that woman is an adulterous woman who's going round sleeping staffs & men of God pretending to be a dedicated Christian.


This is the worst set of women.


I rmba 2021 when I had an accident and was taken to an FMC. A nurse there after 2 days met me and told me he'd be coming to my house to dress my wound. It wasn't long B4 I realized that was just an avenue for her to have me but, I turned her down cos I know she was married.

Be careful with this type of women.
HealthEbola Outbreak In Africa � by nashito(op): 5:31pm On May 29
I'm really really concerned about the major recent major Ebola Outbreak in Congo & Ugnda.

With the type of reactive and not pro active government we have currently, I'm really worried Ebola would already be in Nigeria as we speak and spreading...

The United States, Canada and Mexico in a Trilateral agreement yesterday, have limited people traveling from Central Africa and other designated African countries to follow through some particular specific Airports, with access to quarantine. As they would be first and foremost examined at the point of entry.

However, ok yet to hear our health ministry or minister issue any cautiousness in Nigeria.

I'm really terribly worried because regardless of your stand with Ebola, it's a very deadly and fast killing disease.

What do you guys think?
EducationRe: Rachael Alamu, Principal Of Community High School Esinele Speaks From Captivity by nashito(m): 7:35pm On May 17
Just imagine how this bandits would've taken turn of this woman.

My God, cos of tribalism, there's yet to be a tangible protest by Nigerians.

My God! What a country 😭
Music/RadioRe: Burna Boy To Feature On Official 2026 FIFA World Cup Anthem by nashito(m): 10:08am On May 08
The biggest Musician outta Africa with World Standard.

Keep the flag flying @BurnaBoy
PoliticsRe: 'Peter Obi Lied To Me' - Apostle Kassy Chukwu Tells His Church Members (Video) by nashito(m): 5:51pm On Apr 01
Truthfully, I just finally confirmed today Nairaland is a very useless website and before you mention me, you can check how long I have been here( First account 2008) and this second account is 2010


Why are peddling lies and nonsense in à site thats fronts as number 1 Nigeria blog site.
FamilyRe: Siblings React To Social Media Backlash Over Affectionate Video by nashito(m): 11:59am On Feb 22
I don’t think theyre blood related. These generation will do anything to trend and for the gram.
PoliticsRe: "The President Has Intervened", Wike Speaks On Fresh Deal With Fubara (Video) by nashito(m): 3:42pm On Feb 10
So Wike hired a white Body Guard!

Omo! This guys are making mockery of us sha

Nigeria is a cursed country abeg! I mean 77 million people are estimated to be poor & hungry and this guys just continues their looting spreehuh
PoliticsA Must Read By All Nigerians by nashito(op): 12:09pm On Sep 08, 2024
“We are not obliged, even for a second, to try to prove to anybody and especially to blacks and Arabs that we are superior people - we have demonstrated that to the black and Arabs in 1001 ways.

The America we know today was not created by wishful thinking.We created it at the expenses of intelligence, sweat, and blood.....we do not pretend like other whites that we like the blacks - We must admit, without any fear, that we don't like them, and for so, so, many valid reasons.

The fact that blacks and Arabs look like human beings does not necessarily make them sensible human beings. Hedgehogs are not porcupines and lizards are not crocodiles because they look alike. if God had wanted us to be equal to blacks and Arabs, he would have created us all of a uniform colour and intellect. But he created us differently. Whites, blacks, yellow, the rulers and the ruled. intellectually we are superior to the blacks and Arabs.That has been proven beyond the reasonable doubt over the years.

I believe that a white man is an honest, God fearing person who has demonstrated practically the right way of being a human. By now every one of us has seen it practically that blacks and Arabs cannot rule themselves. Give them guns and they will kill each other.

They are good in nothing else but making noise, dancing, marrying many wives, alcoholism, witchcraft, indulging in sex, pretending in church, jealousy, fighting and complaining of bad leadership; but, yet refuse to take a decisive action and protest to remove the brigands from position of power.

Let us all accept the fact that the black man is a symbol of poverty, mental inferiority, laziness and emotional incompetence.To make the matter worse, he can do everything possible to defend his stupidity. Give them money for development and they will fight and create hatred and enmity for themselves. Drill oil wells for them and they will not have peace all the days of their life.

See, for instance, what's happening in Nigeria (a Country blessed with abundant resources), Southern Sudan, Malawi, DRC just to mention a few.
This proves to anybody including a stupid fool that Africans do not know what they want. isn't that plausible?

They are like monkeys looking for already ripping banana all over the world!!!.

Therefore that the white man is created to rule the black man, Africans will always have day dreams.*

And here is the creature (black man) that lacks foresight but only sees what is near him and still fails to know what to do.

A black man is stupid to the extent that he cannot plan for his life beyond a year. Therefore how can they develop and live longer.

Corruption in the west (And China) is a big abomination, but in Africa, it's so huge that it is slowly becoming an acceptable way of life!!!. Shame, isn't it?

They sing and rejoice to their corrupt political leaders.They worship their scandal-ridden religious leaders like their gods. Lest you forget, these so called Africans are praising, dancing and praying for the people that have impoverished them,and who comes to hide their loot here.

Then which fool argues that the black man is not born a beggar, grows a beggar, looks a beggar, falls sick as a beggar and dies a beggar. this has been proven beyond reasoning.

I wonder why even up to now most Africans still go to school by force, and those who are at school are are just drug addicts who don't know what took them there. This is a pregnant stupidity in Africa. The body of Africans is a very fertile ground for all diseases in the world because they don't fear even HIV/AIDS.

This leaves me with a question: Are our eyes created the same with those Africans? I hear there are still cultures in Africa that prohibit them from using latrines which is very annoying.

They cried for independence but have failed to rule themselves. For sure being African is a very untreatable disease that even prayers are not enough.

They have minerals but they cannot do anything with it. Therefore let us (whites) go to Africa and pick what we can pick and leave what is of no use. Poverty is a disease to the whites, but to the blacks it is very normal.

Look at what is currently going on in Nigeria National Assembly. Legislators amending the constitution to favor themselves at the expense of two (200) million Nigerians. The present administration now have no economic blueprint plan, rather than noise and false propaganda. Characterised with hatred and witch hunt/impoverishment.

Majority of these legislators are treasury looters who are intellectually barren but using the ill gotten wealth to oppress the citizens of that great country.

What a shame!

Black people with black sense, and a sick president in London for medical tourism!!!.

The worst tragedy in Africa is that if you dare stand up and speak up for what's right, you may end up regretting.

The few wise and open-minded Africans who have tried to educate these fools about civilization have met the worst.They have been pushed hard on the wall, they have been silenced and others have been killed".

Before I finish, let me tell Africans that before you jump and call me a racist, an anti-blacks or whatever term you may wish to use against me,1st tackle runaway corruption, dreadful terrorism, tribalism, poverty, unemployment, diseases, illiteracy, ignorance, and inequality, that have put your whole continent on the verge of collapse".

Hate me or love me, I don't care.I know this is the plain truth which will never see the light of the day to the cowards that are afraid to be told as it is”.

By- Donald .J. Trump.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Think My Girl Friend Loves Me A Enough by nashito(op): 9:59am On Feb 14, 2024
[quote author=advanceDNA post=128449463]Baba....u are now a simp.... only simps pay women, with the hope she will marry them ...baba u be simp........that aside...

Second....nigga u dating a 20 year old ..a human being wey just cross teenager stage few years ago......ofcourse, part of her will still be looking around once in a while because a lot of things will still be enticing her.....

but from what u described, she seems fairly okay...yeah ...her dealing with you may appear transactional ..but I'm afraid thats all u will get from her for now.....
mayb if she has money she can show u more care and kindness...but na u date 20 years old girl....them nor dey get money and them nor dey too responsible like that

....maybe over time the titanic love u are looking for will grow....or may never grow... That's life .....all na risk....

She’s quit fair to be honest and this is why I’ve been with her over the years. Maybe you’re right I’m a simp to her and I feel we’re all simps to one woman especially the one we want to be committed to as they’d be compromises. So thanks a lot for your input
RomanceRe: I Don’t Think My Girl Friend Loves Me A Enough by nashito(op): 9:57am On Feb 14, 2024
It's a quite lengthy read.

Okay, I won't be direct with my answer, but if you're wise you'll be able to grab one or two things from what I'll say.

The first rule of engagement especially when it pertains to relationship and marriage is Don't marry who you love but love who you marry reason be that marriage built on emotions only is bound to fail. When love beclouds ur sense of reasoning, you begin to ignore obvious red flags and not able to make logical and enhanced decisions.

My friend, the red flags are there. One important trait a woman who is looking at settling down should posses is integrity if you can't find that then move on for ur peace and sanity.
As read in ur epistle, ur woman doesn't have an iota of integrity in her. She posted ur picture and restricted others from viewing her status and comes up with a flimsy excuse, no bro, she has a reason for doing that. Now ask yourself if that's the kind of woman you'll want to spend the rest of ur life with? Words not matching actions is gaslighting and such a woman has tendencies to cheat. These are just the traits you see before it becomes fully blown. Don't make marital decisions based on emotions and how you feel towards someone hence you'll get ur fingers burnt.

I'll stop here as I won't tell you to either continue with the relationship or break up with her. The decision lies solely with you.


Thank you for your input, I totally grab what you said.
RomanceI Don’t Think My Girl Friend Loves Me A Enough by nashito(op): 9:12am On Feb 14, 2024
Hi guys,

I won’t bore you with long epistles. There’s this girl I’ve been dating since 2021 May, I met her in the East while I was having a short program there and left for Lagos around 2022 Oct, but, I can assure you we talk everyday if not thrive twice and in my heart I’ve felt like I’ve already met the right one and all along have closed my heart to loving anyone else. Even though I met her as a virgin and probably after two years of not seeing again. We met this December 2023 and I disflowered her and we still talk everyday, I’ve always felt this girl doesn’t love me enough, but is only serious with me cos I made her understand from the get go that I want her as my wife.

I’ve been struggling all through this period that I met her as I lost my job and all that but, she stuck by me, never bothered me much about her issues but, I know all of it. She gained admission last year but, her parents couldn’t afford her tuition fees and I made her understand I can’t chest such bills and instead I sent her to a catering school which is a one year program costing around 300k. I can afford this of course and have been making sure I take care of her school needs cos my plan was to marry her at the end of the year and as well set up a shop for her to do her bakery’s and all other things but, today been Valentine, she posted my pic and excluded everyone else from her status from seeing it and I happen to know cos I’ve got other lines I use to checkmate her activities which she is not aware of and finding this out, I told her to take down the picture as it was meaningless and she started posting other pictures we took together which everyone can obviously now see and when I talked to her that I wasn’t happy with what I just saw, she said it was just to see how I’d react and that she wasn’t serious but, I don’t believe her. At some point, she started eyeing someone that would pass as my younger brother, a boy who I took as a brother, I noticed it and approached her and she has denied it but, my instinct tells me otherwise and I’ve never ever forgotten bout it, cos I noticed how she was always looking at this guy each time she was with me and her body language changes as she would not even want to be close to me.


She’s from a very poor background, her mum left them all (5 kids) and ran away with another man and the dad had to send her in particular to her sister who raised her from 5 till now she’s 21. She has good characters I must admit and also has the height I’ve always wanted in a wife & which is what really made me choose her as my supposed wife and have been a very wonderful girl friend. I just don’t feel she loves me that much especially someone that knows how serious I take her, her parents have not met me but, have heard all bout me, her Anty who raised her talks to me from time to time. But, I don’t think my desires with this girl are what she desires too even though she confesses them too but, her actions always betray her words for instance, she started making fliers that she wants to start baking for ppl even before she graduates and stay on her own & this is someone I plan to wife latest Jan 5th next year. She only told me later and I said ok.

Guys I know Nairaland maybe toxic at times but, we’ve got a lot of people here with experience cos I’ve been on this app since 2006 and have never missed a day even when Nairaland was down, I visited every 5 to 10 minutes to check if it was up again.

What would be your advice for a supposedly 35 year old man with experience? Am I worrying too much or are the red flags here?

Note; I trusted her mostly cos she’s been a virgin and have kept herself till now and according to her, she only wants one man in her life and that’s the one who took away her innocence & her words on this May match her actions but, I’m not certain as I can’t obviously read her mind.

I know all about the simps and the red pill and I’m far from been a simp, infact, I’m an OG when it comes to women but, you naturally gets to an age and there’s nothing that occupies your mind other than doing what your mates are doing and also settling down for real with a family of your own. No matter how hard you may form, it gives you that sense of belonging.

Kindly drop your comments below and I’d be following, thank you all.
CrimeRe: I Am Not Behind Insecurity In Imo, Says Uzodimma by nashito(m): 5:51am On Oct 02, 2023
Come oooo.....you no dey sleep?

All this APC paid agents, all over Nairaland perpetuating lies, God will definitely expose & disgrace dem all!

That’s how that Mannagrill idiot kept on supporting Buhari, has his life been any better?
PoliticsRe: ₦5 Billion Palliative To Each State, Who Is Deceiving Who? by nashito(m): 1:32pm On Aug 21, 2023
Rubbish Nation. Ruled by heartless folks cheered and endorsed by educated illiterates, borne outta tribal & religious sentiment.
PoliticsRe: Ahmed Yerima Gives Update On The 14-Year-Old Girl He Married In 2010 by nashito(m): 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2023
I happen to know two virgins who are equally 27 and 20 and all residents in the South East, one have graduated And one in school. I have full knowledge because I’m equally scouting either of the two for marriage. We just condemn evil when we see or hear of one.

This is disturbing to say the least.
FoodRe: What Is Your Favorite Soup? by nashito(m): 11:25pm On Jun 17, 2023
[quote author=Nazgul post=123856278]I don't have best soup...but I love the following because I eat them often.

* Ofe Nsala (white soup)

* Afang soup.

* Egusi soup.

* Ogbono/Okra soup]

Wow!
Jookwa my brother @Ebguregbu
SportsRe: Italian Clubs Lost All 3 European Finals They Featured In 2023 by nashito(m): 9:32am On Jun 13, 2023
This is not rocket science. In football, quality is everything. EPL for example has the best quality players across Europe and you can see how greatly they’re doing.


Italian football is a Shadow of what it used to be. Juve was the only outstanding team over the decade but, have been maligned with several internal issues.
BusinessRe: FEC Approves Use Of Blockchain In Nigeria by nashito(m): 4:01pm On May 03, 2023
Another avenue the APC led govt want to use & Loot Nigeria dry.

Until the day, there would be nothing left to pay workers, Nigeria is still far from a Revolution. The the time is ticking as we’re all sitting on a Keg.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Nottingham Forest : EFL Cup (2 - 0) On 1st February 2023 by nashito(m): 5:07pm On Feb 01, 2023
Let’s go guys!!!

Manutd 3_0 Northam forest (6_0 Agg)
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri: Tinubu Is Actually The Best Governor Nigeria Ever Produced by nashito(m): 11:42am On Jul 31, 2022
[quote author=Sonyboom post=115234770]Which state in Nigeria as pipe borne water. Even your capital Abuja does not talk more of wretched state in Alaigbo that will never ever have such even after Jesus as come n gone.


Ebonyi State has Efrekpe Water Scheme, Built by Former Gov. Martin Elechi in Abakaliki.


You guys should stop this ethnic war is embarrassing. Imagine Ppl from other countries who are members of this forum reading all stupid comments most you lots make cos of tribe. In this 2022 look at the stupid things we’re still fighting for. Instead of voting competent leaders that would put us in World Map, we’re fighting each other. I hate the fact that I’m a Nigeria. Your mentalities sucks.

I’m outta here plsssssssss
Foreign AffairsRe: Shinzo Abe Has Died After Being Shot by nashito(m): 10:42am On Jul 08, 2022
This is so sad, I was watching on CNN this morning and the idiot that used a locally made hun to shoot him twice was arrested immediately.

I still don’t believe there’s any devil anywhere, humans are the problems of this world. Japan is the safety country to be in this World, this man left office for health reasons since 2020, after been re-elected.

I feel really sad
Politics2023 Election Will Make Or Mar Nigeria. by nashito(op): 10:05am On May 21, 2022
Hi Nairalnders,

I’ve been a member of this great forum since 2008, mostly as a guest but there’s no day that passes by that I don’t at least visit Nairaland & almost everyone who have been close to me at some point, I’ve equally introduced to this forum, I guess I’m addicted to Nairaland. These also means from time to time I follow up on almost all threads that make it to front page. Haven’t said all that, the reason for this article, which is mainly about the upcoming general election is my reason for writing.

In 2015, Nairalanders divided into two, with some supporting the ousting of power of GEJ government and replacing with GMB, which till present we’re still under. However, my point is, the political cum tribal divide of this Nation is unbelievable, and unreasonably so, I do expect people from different geographical, cultural and political backgrounds to agree but to a certain extent, correct me if I’m wrong, I expect matters concerning Nigeria to always come first, but it is obvious this would never happen!

After all the sufferings Nigerians have been under this government, I still see that political divide in every post here on Nairaland. Almost all of you don’t want an Igbo man to be president, yet you all feign ignorance when the National Character is not properly implemented or should we talk about the Aburi accord? I don’t think we’re ready for that at this time. Among all the 3 Major ethnic groups in Nigeria, would you still be happy if you’ve been marginalised just like the Igbos? I guess we all know the answer.

The next election is here again and here we are again, dragging, fighting, instead of doing the right things by voting the right candidates that would move Nigeria forward. Why are we so emotional and sentimental in Nigeria, why does your brother who you know cannot take Nigeria to the Next level have to be the Next President? Why can’t we vote individuals rather than parties or tribes? Look at where we’re stuck in 2022. Let’s use America as a case study, do we hear people from Massachusetts saying the president must come from their city? Or that of Boston people et al, they go all out to vote someone with a track record of Integrity, transparency, accountability and all other European Nations and Saner Climes follow this pattern. Why do we need to hang everything around sentiments, and emotions? Are we not tired of not enjoying the benefits of good governance? Aren’t we tired of the been unemployed, Underpaid, unsecured etc? Why are we falling for the antics of few people who keep playing games with us every now & then with peanuts?

I leave you all with just one question, if we don’t get it right in this 2023 that, Nations are talking of building hotels in space & Nations are going miles, when then? Are we not tiredhuhhuh??

In summary, if we don’t drop ethnic & religious sentiments aside and vote the right people come 2023, we should all embrace up for more sufferings & backwardness.
TravelRe: Why You Should Not Invest Your Money In Keke Business: My Experience by nashito(m): 12:25pm On Jan 13, 2022
This fuckin business is what made me broke somehow until. I’ve been regaining my stand. Bought 4 once for #660k. Coupling etc #20k, Reg no: #20k.

I never made up to 1.5m after investing #4m.
Na so so stories the drivers dey talk every other Friday. Some will even turn off their phones, someone will involve in accident and incure damages you’ll still bring out from the savings money to fix .

Abeg, before you invest in Nigeria, make sure you’re present or you maintain a highly regulated rules & regulations accepted in your business and when someone goes contrary to that, be it family or friends, be ready to scrap them or Nigerians will take your business and hard earned money for ride with the believe that Oga has plenty money
RomanceRe: Find Your Birthday On This Picture And Connect With Your Soulmate! (pic) by nashito(m): 2:25am On Aug 05, 2021
November 28_ Where's Nov 1st?
SportsRe: Tokyo2020 Basketball: Nigeria Lost To Australia 64-84 by nashito(m): 11:53am On Jul 25, 2021
Each time I rush to open a thread here on Nairaland, hoping to read about how this guys who come all out to represent us all, not minding the Cankerworm we have as a Govt and all young Nigerians do on Nairaland is insult each other's tribe, Yes! I'm Igbo and educated and if you think that the Igbos wanting a separate Govt is not right, my question right now from all the tribalistic comments so far only on this thread, Do you want an Igbo Man to continue in this pretentious Nigeria.

I weep for all of us as youths, because if you don't go extra miles, you'll all be poor and even your kids wound continue in the long run of poverty.


When una wan get sense for Nigeria?
One would think the power of the social media would have helped Nigerians to at least ask the basic things. But here you are all fighting over Bread & Akara

#Stupid Youths
Nairaland GeneralPlease Nairalanders, Simply Drop Your Age by nashito(op): 5:29pm On May 12, 2021
Hello everyone �

I've been a nairalander since 2006 if I guessed right. I'm currently 32, I was thinking, won't it be better if we knew nairaland is actually a very informative forum with people of different age, background, religion etc, I was hoping we state our ages, I think it will help bring about people paying more attentions and contributing intelligently when topics hit front pages.

I mean, I'd be marveled if I had a 60 year old man identifying with forum as I believe the more knowledge we share, the more better and we'll informed we become in life.

Whatcha say huhhuh

I'm 32 by the way, indomie generations are not allowed to masturbate on this, as today you will be exposed���
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Dated Someone Out Of Pity? by nashito(m): 9:23pm On Apr 24, 2021
Charmingrascal:
I loved her asked her out but to be honest I am tired of the relationship but I don't want to break her heart.

I guess I am dating her out of pity at the moment
Story of my life
Music/RadioRe: Lets Make A List On Songs With The Most Meaningful Lyrics by nashito(m): 3:54pm On Apr 24, 2021
Dax_Love hurts.

I don't think you ever fully recover from your
First heartbreak
You sort of just learn to deal with it
Ye
Love hurts
Especially when the person that you love doesn't want to put you first
If I could go reverse
I would pay attention to your actions
And would never pay attention to your words
Bitch you was curse
Tricked me into thinking that you love me
Then you cut me, now I'm bleeding on
This verse
I need to go church
I'm having conversations with the devil
And I'm asking what is life really worth
It's Dax
You bleeped up my head
And what's crazy is I'd probably do it all again
At night I sit on my bed
Start praying
While I'm looking up at God
And I ask him when the hell is this pain gon' end
He acts deaf
Been stressed
I remember the texts
Remember the love, phone calls I remember the sex
I'm still haunted by the day that you left
I wasn't good enough but Bleep I still gave you my best
Now I'm sick
Bleep
And I don't know what to do
7 billion but not one like you
Ain't it's crazy how we built for two years
But it took 10 seconds and a bad decision
Just to break the whole thing loose
I can't sleep
I can't eat
My heart skip beats
Social media don't help
They'll think I'm weak
I've been screaming that I'm cut but you just watch me bleed
I can't love another woman 'cause the cycle repeats
No
So I just write these song
Ya they help but they don't write wrongs
My life is a museum everybody shows up
And buys tickets but they never wanna
Stay that long
Man I can't move on
Head spinning like a CD rom
Only woman I can trust is mom
And don't you fucking try to say you can relate
Unless you've listened to these lyrics
And you cry while you singing along
Bleep
Love hurts
In the worst way
Imagine catching someone cheating on your birthday
Then they cry and say they love you while they're sitting on his dick
Then bitch why'd you go and do in the first place
Didn't you know you'd hurt me?
Bleep I was just another option on your survey
I could get revenge but that wouldn't
Help my spirit so I gotta make these songs
And let these mufuking fucking words play
Bleep
Oh now I'm doing too much?
I'm supposed to be a man so I'm supposed to act tough?
I put all my fucking eggs in one basket
You were plan A, I didn't ever even think to have a fucking backup
Now I'm stuck
Need a break but I'm in it again
It's all nothing we can't be just friends
First loves are the worst
Love hurts
And I'm stuck inside this cycle
That's gonna end up with you cheating again, wtf
Love hurts
Especially when the person that you love doesn't want to put you first
If I could go reverse
I would pay attention to your actions
And would never pay attention to yo words
Bitch you was curse
Tricked me into thinking that you love
Me then you cut me now I'm bleeding on
This verse
I need to go church
I'm having conversations with the devil
And I'm asking what is life really worth
It's Dax
Your first love will Bleep you up man
We've all been there
Love hurts
TravelRe: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by nashito(m): 12:58pm On Mar 08, 2021
babythug:
Divorce is an unfortunate situation to be in. Nonetheless it’s not the end of the world . Both himself and his former wife are to blame . He should brace up and try the following:

1. Dust himself and be ready to start over .
2. Face his career or job
3. Determine to be at peace with his ex no matter the level of provocation or otherwise
4. Be the best father he can be to his children given the circumstances. Pay whatever bills as deemed necessary and pay extra where possible
5. He should document any payment made
6. He must not bring the kids into the divorce by relaying what their mum has done or not done to them
7.
Stupid ways a Nigerian woman thinks, someone is at the point of breaking down cos it's a man you idiots don't feel an iota of pity. Pay extra? Someone that can barely pay for a room. I really don't think marriage is what any man should consider this days, this women are not loyal and will not be, I think baby Mama is a way to go. No wonder there's so much homicide case in US. Just watch The ID channel on your Dstv and see how men are murdering this heartless women and burying their bodies in bushes. Maybe you'd think twice about your statement
CrimeBlacks Are Pathetic But The Few Racist Whites Are All Hypocrites. by nashito(op): 2:02pm On Jun 06, 2020
I think whites who are racist are honest but blunt people. For instance, in Egypt as far back as the the times of the pharaohs, the blacks were used as slaves, ( Check my Bible book of Bible story for pictorial evidence) if you ever read that. Moving further, how did the blacks first started migrating to Portuese (Europe), B4 America was discovered by Colombus and the blacks was equally transported and exported to America during the Slave Trade era to work in the plantations as Slaves?

The truth is, this set of Blacks that Migrated to various parts of Europe and America became smart and intelligent but how ? Because the learnt the 'White Ways and Ideas' which can be translated to be A just and Egalitarian Society, Transparency and Accountability and then, the Blacks started using it Against the Whites. Mind you before you bash me or rant, think objectively and critically before even writing, moreso, this write up is solely my personal opinion and have nothing to do with the ongoing Killing of George because I'm equally against racism, my reasons been if they practice the aforementioned, how come most of them don't want to equally treat us Blacks as onehuh It means the the Racist Whites are All hypocrites.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me, My Boyfriend Is Toxic by nashito(m): 5:43pm On May 31, 2020
I don't belong to the group of ppl who seem to conclude ND judge just like everyone is doing here. First & foremost, I think at this moment, my own gf could equally describe me with me with all this things you've said except, washing my clothes and other chores, since I do them myself. But there is always a reason for every action. Either there's something you're not doing right and as result, he doesn't see you in his future which is why you're nothing but a his 'Hoe'. I said that cos there's this girl in my life, and to be quit Frank with you, even though I'm looking to settle down anytime soon, I don't even see one single good thing in her Except her great body which translates to sex. She nags, flirts with her phone right Infront of your face and would suddenly you're watching and start with 'baby I love you' ordinarily none of the things she does gets to me, inside me, I just want to tear her p....say apart. If she walks away now, I won't even call her to know if she has gotten home. Sometimes, we are the problem and we don't even realize that.
RomanceRe: Do We Really Still Have Women For Marriages Or Have Civilization Taken Hem Away? by nashito(op): 9:24pm On May 27, 2020
PoliticallyInco:
We are all to note that the behaviour of people at any point in time is based on instinct and reason.

The way they reason is influenced greatly by the society and it's fabric at any particular period in time. Now the thing is this reasoning can be right or wrong depending on how you look at it.

What influences how people reason today? It is mainly Social media and the internet. We are being bombarded. Unfortunately we have not fully come to terms with the massive effect this is going to have. Just as the industrial revolution caused global change so has the internet.

a. With a click you are bombarded by every news;

b. With a clicl you are able to swipe right or left over hundreds of girls or men;

c. With a click you can see people flashing their false life style and false enjoyment intentionally posted to bring out jealousy and envy in people;

d. With a click you hear and see get rich quick information. Get happy quick scenarios. People are looking for short cuts to happiness and wealth. And they are going to be doing all manner of things to have the best or better experiences of life and living.

The humans of today will continually be influenced by these. I recall when blackberry chat (bbm) became popular. We all complained about girls going on dates and chatting instead of being mindful about who they came to meet. Many ladies and even some guys typing under the table and laughing to their phones and messages received while their host/hostess is trying to have a conversation with them. Well now it is worse. And it will get worse unless we intrntionally decide to take back control of our lives.

People will keep lacking social skills. Men will keep trying to sleep with as many women as they can through instagram, twitter, tinder, etc. Women will keep realizing the men are just in it for the fun. Women to will keep going for whatever benefit they can quickly get. They will also keep various options open just incase the men decide to move on. And when you have many options you become less tolerrant and change options easily. Women will realize that men are more concerned about curves and arse and boobs. Women will realize the more artificial they are. The more curvaceous they are, the more they can influence men and easily get what they want from men. They will loose all sense of hard and smart work. They will feel entitled. They will become so useless intellectually and can only feed through their aesthetic value (curves, boob's, face and arse). If nature took these away from them, their brains will be dead. It won't be able to come up with ideas for them to achieve anything. They will believe that having curves is automatic ticket to a free meal.

Men will then turn around to believe that women are just there for the money and all have a price so the best thing is to make money and fame by all and any means necessary. Women will in return,follow and go after these men because afterall they are in it for what they can get. And the men themselves aren't stable either. So get in and get out.

Right now men are controlling women with their wealth and women are controlling men with sex.

Men will keep displaying idiocy on these social media platforms. Sending phone numbers not solicited for. Running around women and chasing them like their lives depended on it. Sending nudes to women and being whimps. Women will realize the men out there are sex addicts who will do anything just for sex.

These are the times we live in. It will never go back to how it used to be. It is where civilization has pushed us to. Things are happening faster. Relationships are starting quicker and ending faster.
Wow
I was overwhelmed by your write up. Well said, guys let us all embrace it then. The gateway from this is just the make enough money to do whatever you want to.
RomanceRe: Do We Really Still Have Women For Marriages Or Have Civilization Taken Hem Away? by nashito(op): 8:20pm On May 27, 2020
Abovebest:
Sincerely it's not difficult to have a girlfriend or Sexmate, maybe even more than one,
But when you are ready to settle down, then you will know wife material is Scarce
Very very scarce.

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