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Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 1:40pm On Mar 03, 2022
Enemyofpeace:
your reason is why she is what she is today, a spoilt child, who believes others must serve her
Spoilt child? There are Thousands of children that were pampered 10 times more than her and they aren't spoilt.

This is not a case of being a spoilt child, the issue is her environment, her friends. They have affected her mentality. That's what the OP needs to work on now.
Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:20am On Mar 03, 2022
Enemyofpeace:
says who? He has his life to live too jo
Yes he has his life to live and his sister is part of his life.

What family means to you is different from what family means to other people.
Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:18am On Mar 03, 2022
Simran94:
You don’t get my point. Her mother has the bulk of work to do on the girl. If the guy stops paying her school fees, don’t you think the mother will beg him or find another way to pay the girl’s school fees through using the rent money they receive.
The girl has been living with her mother since and yet her mother didn’t notice any of her behaviors. The guy can’t do it alone, he needs his mother’s intervention
You are saying something different now. I don't disagree with you on the fact that he can't do it alone. All I'm saying is that he shouldn't leave her to learn the hard way
Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:13am On Mar 03, 2022
Simran94:
How does he want to help her! She is a 22 year old lady already in 300level. Do you know the kind of people she’s already mixed up with? Someone who screams at her own elder brother? The guy isn’t even staying with them sef, he’s in Lagos. If her own mother cannot caution her while the brother was away, then there is absolutely nothing he can do to help her.
There is a lot he can do to help her. Even people that are worse than her and already making their own money always get help and end up changing.

Not to talk of someone who is dependent on the brother for almost everything. What family means to people is different. Family means a whole lot to me and I think family means a lot to brighton1 as well.

If he leaves her to learn the hard way, do you know the form the learning would come? And when it happens, you think OP would be happy? In the end, he would share part of the problem,if not a major part of it.
Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:00am On Mar 03, 2022
Simran94:
Leave her na, dem no dey teach person. She will learn the hard way.
He cannot leave her, she is his sister, his only sister. If he doesn't help her, who will?
Family › Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 10:59am On Mar 03, 2022
@ Brighton1 , well done bro. May God continue to help you.

She wants to be the black sheep of the family but it's not too late to redeem her.

How long have you noticed these traits? Has she always had such tendencies?

Who are her friends? This is one major factor that shapes her mentality.

Who is her boyfriend? If her boyfriend is a yahoo boy, that's another problem.

I think you should find out those information, that would guide on the next line of action.

I don't support those saying you should sieze her phone and all. If you do, you will make the situation worse. She would most likely end up doing hookup (she already has the traits but she doesn't seem to be into that yet).
Politics › Re: Modele Sarafa Yusuf Declares Intention To Run For Governor Of Ogun State by NaughtyBrainiac: 8:36am On Mar 03, 2022
LegendHero:
I think at this stage I should also declare my intention to run for Governor of Oyo state.

Emi ati Seyi Makinde ti tese bo sokoto kan ‘na.
O da bi pe oo ni Ilo ese e mo abi? grin Ese e kan ma ge danudanu. Oo je ma so ara e di aro, eyan ti ese e pe gan ko yi tii ri ona lo ni Naijiria a wa yi grin
Family › Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by NaughtyBrainiac: 8:25am On Mar 03, 2022
loosingfaith519:
I recently discovered my husband has an addiction and I can't stay married to him.
As soon as money enters his hand, he starts funding some online app and start gambling.
We got married last year Nov.
We have needs and plans we agreed to achieve before the end of March. Which a better accommodation is one of our first goal. Our present accommodation is not ok at all.
On my own part, I'm saving to meet up with our Target, but I discovered, he has nothing. He collected contributions last month, over 200k. All that money wasted. He can't account for it.
January salary has entered, he has started wasting it again.

I'm expecting him to provide 300k at the end of this month. So, that when I sum it with mine, we can have over 600k. Get a decent accommodation and invest the rest.
We need to plan, save for our baby, but his attitude with money is not encouraging me.
The truth is, my husband is stressing me for lack of accountability.

Pls, how do I go about a peaceful divorce? I'm confused, because I'm pregnant.

All the things I'm seeing him do, suffocate me.
What do I do?
Pls, advise me.
Is that the only issue you have with him? If you are pleased with every other thing, I will advise you to play a smart one.

I believe you should be able to talk to your husband as friends.

Tell him you are interested in his gambling. Interested in the sense that you will help him keep track of his total investment and returns weekly.

Don't castigate him, show genuine interest. Be his Account Officer and watch how he will be more responsible about his gambling and probably stop gambling completely.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Roman Abramovich Puts Chelsea Up For Sale by NaughtyBrainiac:
If this news is true, then Putin supporters need to come and explain this theory to us.

If Putin's decision to invade Ukraine has lasted only one week and Roman Abrahamovic has to put up is very dear Chelsea fc for sale, then there is fire on the mountain.

For those that aren't aware, Roman Abrahamovic has been Chelsea owner for almost 2 decades and his love for the football club is out of this world.

What then would be the consequences of Putin's decision on ordinary Russians? The sanctions will cripple the Russian economy and maybe have worse effect than their economic collapse of 1991.

Putin is Selfish and Inhumane, the world does not need Leaders like him.

I have been a Chelsea fan for almost 2 decades and I will surely miss Roman Abrahamovic era if he truly/eventually sells the club.

The billionaire that would take over surely has less work to do.

Up Blues
Christianity Etc › Re: Buhari Congratulates Pastor Adeboye On His 80th Birthday by NaughtyBrainiac: 7:26pm On Mar 02, 2022
folake4u:
Yet Tinubu is 69. tongue
Must you link everything to Tinubu? grin Seems this 2023 contestants are just two; Tinubu and others.

Congratulations to Daddy GO on his Oak anniversary. This man don old o, 80 years no be beans o.

I pray that you enjoy Grace, Sound Health and more fulfilment in your remaining years on earth.

Happy birthday Sir
Foreign Affairs › Re: 498 Russian Soldiers Killed, Russia Defence Ministry Announce Casualty Figures by NaughtyBrainiac:
I am sure Putin would be shocked by the kind of resistance Ukraine and Ukrainians are putting up.

Some Nairalanders that know nothing about war initially said Ukraine would surrender before Sunday 27th February.

We know Ukraine cannot stand Russia's Military. However, Ukraine and Ukrainians only need to keep resisting Russia and never surrender. Not surrendering makes them winners.

As for Putin and his Russia, the several sanctions imposed on them would cripple their economy and the economic collapse they witnessed in 1991 might just repeat itself.
Politics › Re: APC Announces Zoning Committee by NaughtyBrainiac: 6:25pm On Mar 02, 2022
This Governor Abdulrazak of Kwara state was also the chairman of Osun APC primary elections. He seems to be gaining more popularity in APC.

Btw, has he and Lai Mohammed resolved their differences?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia -ukraine : Predict The End Of This War/military Ativity. by NaughtyBrainiac: 5:54pm On Mar 02, 2022
talktimi:
at least you won't die by nuclear radiation but old age
Unfortunately, you are not in a position to choose for them. The way you reason differs from the way they reason.

What people pray and fast for ( And most of the time end up NOT getting) in your country are basic things of life (entitlement) for them in their country.

You see one very good reason you cannot reason the way they reason.

They prefer their Independence and freedom to your old age theory.
Maybe you aren't aware that Zelenskyy was offered safe abode in the West and he said "I need ammunition and not a ride".

How many of the Leaders in your country would say NO to such offer, they would have gotten hold of as much Government funds as possible and flee the country even before given such offer.

BTW, aren't you aware that many citizens of your country would gladly accept the offer to join Ukraine in fighting to protect their country?

What you see as achievement is not what they Ukrainians see as achievement.

They definitely prefer to fight for their freedom.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia -ukraine : Predict The End Of This War/military Ativity. by NaughtyBrainiac: 5:36pm On Mar 02, 2022
talktimi:
No matter what side you choose, there's an 89% chance this thing will lead to nuclear warfare where the only people sure of survival will be these same western leaders due to their bunkers (they might even be conducting the war from there this minute). The only chance for peace now is the Ukranian President saying he wants to be neutral for the sake of his people which won't happen because of Biden who's egging him on
And what happens after Ukraine chooses to be Neutral? You think they would be safe and free from Dictatorship and Oppression by Putin ?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Smouldering Russian Convoy Blitzed To Ashes By Ukrainian Resistance by NaughtyBrainiac: 2:57pm On Mar 02, 2022
Hm
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainians Showing How Strong National Values Matters In Building A Great Nation by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:12am On Mar 02, 2022
I learnt things used to be like this in Nigeria several years back. I heard people paid for food items even in the absence of the sellers.

I don't know how true though
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Politics › Re: 2023: I'll Retire Army Generals Making Money On Fight Against Terrorism - Sowore by NaughtyBrainiac: 10:40am On Mar 02, 2022
Make this guy go sit down abeg. Someone that cannot win a ward not to talk of Local Government
Foreign Affairs › Re: Video Of Kyiv Television Tower Bombed By Russian Troops by NaughtyBrainiac: 9:40am On Mar 02, 2022
Idaytesj29:
You just took it personal and emotional. As a leader, you cannot simply go to war because public opinion supports it. And you choose your war wisely, Ukraine president didnt do any of that. When he was elected, he was not elected to take then to war. The guy you quote is may be right.

I hope he agrees with Putin and a cease fire is reached. Forget all the media lies, Ukrainian people are not happy with the president, if they are, for how long will that last?

Talking about patriotism and war, the battle ground is Ukraine so they have no choice than to fight either to defend themselves or their country. why were the men running away before the president ordered a forceful enlistment. Forget all the stories on the pages of the news paper, Ukraine shouldn't have gone to war with Russia. It was a bad decision.
Ukraine did not go to war with Russia, Russia took war to Ukraine.

Ukraine forming alliance with NATO is by far a better option for Ukraine than being under the Dictatorship of Putin.

The only thing I see is that Ukraine could probably have made smarter plans in achieving their goal.

I also think that Ukraine felt the invasion by Russia was not going to happen or maybe happened earlier than Ukraine expected.

In all, Putin cannot be trusted and will always be a dictator and a bully. Ukraine wouldn't have sought protection elsewhere if Putin were a reliable and trusted "big brother" and neighbour.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Video Of Kyiv Television Tower Bombed By Russian Troops by NaughtyBrainiac: 8:08am On Mar 02, 2022
Unrated900:
You be bloody Ghanaian to call our citizen such name
Why not go to Ghana land forum instead of insulting a citizen in his forum
I am also a Nigerian but not a bloody one like that guy. Even if Nigeria has failed us, I still somehow understand what it feels to be patriotic.

What then do we now say about the citizens of Nation that has been a blessing. Ukraine and Ukrainians have everything to fight for and their resistance would go down in history.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukraine Handed Over Nuclear Weapons To Russia by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:12pm On Mar 01, 2022
Botlord:
Get it right...
The west sponsor a regime change by deposing a president who happen to come from eastern Ukraine in 2014 and installing theirs.

Due to this the Eastern region of Donbass which are majorly Russian speaking declared a breakaway state but Ukraine has been killing and bombing them since 2014 killing more than 14000 ethnic Russian.

Russia annex Crimea majorly ethnic Russian due to this singular act.

Before blaming Russia, know the Genesis of this matter.
With all you said, how do you expect Ukraine to feel safe around Russia?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Video Of Kyiv Television Tower Bombed By Russian Troops by NaughtyBrainiac:
Kastonkastroll:
So much for voting a comedian as a president. All you will get are jokes. Mumu man
You are a bloody Nigerian and your opinion does not count.

Ukrainians are the people that have a say in whether they are okay with their President or not. Unfortunately for you, many Ukrainians are happy with the man. They prefer to fight and die than to lose their dear Nation to that reckless Putin.

In addition, you also need to know that the percentage of Ukrainians in support of Zelensky's decision is higher than the percentage of Russians in support of Putin's preposterous decision to invade Ukraine and commit war crimes.

You don't know what it feels like to have a Nation that is not a failed State, so you cannot know what it feels like to be patriotic.
Foreign Affairs › Re: European Parliament Recommends Giving Ukraine EU Candidate Status by NaughtyBrainiac: 10:23pm On Mar 01, 2022
Beautiful development
Events › Re: Congolese Man Marries Triplet Sisters Same Day In Colourful Wedding Ceremony by NaughtyBrainiac: 10:09pm On Mar 01, 2022
Buy one, get two free.

They are all beatiful
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukraine Handed Over Nuclear Weapons To Russia by NaughtyBrainiac: 10:05pm On Mar 01, 2022
SarkinYarki:
Because it was the property of USSR ..you forgot part of the agreement was that Ukraine will also never aim to join NATO
Are you by any chance aware of Russia's invasion of Crimea in 2014? Russia has always shown Ukraine they cannot be trusted. That's why Ukraine is seeking protection elsewhere.
Politics › Re: 2023 President : Northern Elders Meet, Resolve To Back Only Igbo Candidate by NaughtyBrainiac: 3:38pm On Mar 01, 2022
Hmmmm...Which Northern Elders?

Maybe not the Northern Nigeria that we all know
Politics › Re: Tinubu Dancing 'Ijo Eko' With Orji Uzor Kalu And Ngige (Throwback Video) by NaughtyBrainiac:
Hmmmm...Tinubu is everywhere in the news.

This man and his team just know how to go about this thing called politics.

His party is yet to conduct primaries and the whole thing feels like he is the most formidable contestant for the 2023 presidential elections.

We don't want Tinubu, We don't want Tinubu; What exactly were we all doing and looking at when Tinubu was working strategically to position himself as Nigeria's president in 2023? We all knew this man started planning several years ago, what were we all doing those times?

Now that his plans are almost becoming reality, many of us are shouting we don't want Tinubu.

I laugh is Swahili

This man has very high chances of becoming our next president. If he does, I hope his tenure favours me, my family and other Nigerians that hope so too.


Politics › Re: 2023: Peter Obi, Moghalu, Osibanjo My Top 3 Candidates by NaughtyBrainiac: 9:01pm On Feb 28, 2022
Of the 3, only Osinbajo can win a presidential election in Nigeria.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Says Countries Arming Ukraine Will Be Responsible For Russian Deaths by NaughtyBrainiac: 8:32pm On Feb 28, 2022
And so? He should release another threat please. After all, that's all he knows how to do.

Most of the people supporting Putin said Russia is used to sanctions and that sanctions won't affect them. Their god (Putin) said the sanctions are unlawful.
Even your "almighty" Putin knows that the sanctions are extremely damaging.

Do you guys ever consider the negative effects of Putin's decision on an average Russian citizen?

Putin is overrated
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Sports › Re: FIFA In "Advanced Talks" To Suspend Russia Until Further Notice by NaughtyBrainiac:
It is understandable.

Allowing Russia to continue participating in sports event would ruin the essence of sports and sportsmanship.

Sports and games are supposed to unite us. With sports, even at the street level, you get to make friends.

There are several people that have made it in life through joining sports/golf clubs ( networking).

This kind of action by Putin should be discouraged with everything possible.

What exactly did Ukraine do to deserve the invasion?
Does Russia have the power to dictate to Ukraine?
Is invasion of Ukraine the way to get them to see things in Russia's perspective?
Has Russia proven to Ukraine to be a good "big brother" and Neighbour even before this 2022 invasion?
If Russian were a good, reliable and trusted "big brother" and neighbour, would Ukraine be seeking protection from NATO by trying to join NATO?
Politics › Re: Roman Abramovich: Chelsea's Owner Asked To Speak With Russia By Ukraine by NaughtyBrainiac: 4:56pm On Feb 28, 2022
TheABOMINATION:
The answer is no. Life is not as simple and fair as that. In this life, you can't always do as you please. Ukraine is like a small kingdom sharing border with a large empire. They can't just wake up and decide to join forces with a distant rival empire US and expect the empire they are sharing border with to do nothing.

Even if Ukraine get their wish and the nearby empire EU assist them in opposing Russia, the only result will be that both empires will wage war with Ukraine in the middle as the battlefield.
Before this invasion of 2022, was Russian friends with Ukraine? Did Ukraine see Russia as a good and reliable big brother?Why is Ukraine trying to be a part of NATO and not be united with her "big brother" neighbour?
Politics › Re: Russia-Ukraine: Nigeria To Pay More For Fuel Subsidy, Capital Projects Takes Hit by NaughtyBrainiac:
This story is long for nothing.

It did not even explain how the current situation could lead to inflation in Nigeria.

I am not an expert but I have common sense.

Budget was prepared using 62 dollars as oil price.
After paying for imported refined oil, we still made profit.
Oil price is now almost becoming 2 times the price we used in preparing budget. ( please note that the increase in price doesn't have any significant increase in cost of exploring crude oil in Nigeria. The price increase here is Awuf)

How then will this lead to inflation? No matter how expensive it is to import refined oil, the significant increase in price of the crude one would take care of all costs and leave us with surplus gain.

Now to Subsidy. Subsidy in this case is just calling figures that don't practically exist. Just stupid theory.

They want Nigerians to pay for the price of oil based on the international price? And they misappropriate the mammoth surplus or what? There will never be any significant improvements in the lives of Nigerians because we won't feel the impact of the surplus. Things would only be worse because increase in pump rate as a way of catapulting inflation in Nigeria.

These people should stop telling us that increasing oil price is not good for us. They should please keep quiet.
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Man Who Lives In His Family House? by NaughtyBrainiac: 3:29pm On Feb 28, 2022
[b]Who are these people saying Nothing wrong in living in the parent's house? Are you people kidding me? God please o! Why rush marriage! Why!

This girl is not even yet 21 years of age. She doesn't even know what she wants to do with her life yet.

@blunttheapostle , If your story is true, it means you have a lot of work to do. Please and please, don't listen to anyone that tells you to let her make her choice and learn the hard way. If you truly love her, you will later regret it.

How did you even let her get so damaged mentality-wise. This girl sounds to me like someone who has a very wrong mentality/ ideology.

You have to be as calm and wise as possible in resetting her brain. She doesn't know anything at all, abi she thinks marriage and this life itself is a joke?

Since you are her Father right now, try every ideal means to ensure she begins to think like a normal person. Use her Mother, Use her friends, Use other relatives you know she'd listen to, Show her more love and affection etc[/b]

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