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Hey every one,
I really heart lots of things about love. But ,this days, I really don’t know why the woman more attractive to a guys make themselves miserable for her, stupid or desperate , not to a guys they really respect themselves as normally people they used to do .
But I never tried that and I’ll not going to think that is a right choice for anyone want his other half to respect him, but I did sow lots of that kind of relationship around me my friends and also my own relative in this kind of untidiness relation.


My question to my friends is do u see that really something odd that need to mention or just me who see that?

Ya allah help us, there is always jihad with ourselves daily. Nevertheless, the stuff we encounter in America or Europe has altered our perceptions which is a on going process. But to increase your imaan, we all struggle with and its a huge test for all young adults. What is some of your struggles with the deen? advice!

Let say you have a wife who is loving, caring, respectful, submissive to you, a great chef, beautiful, she massages your feet every time you came from work, kisses you goodbye when you are going to work, respect your parent, she is not a lifeless trunk when having sex, she is romantic as the word goes, she listens to you, she will pre-intimacy and bring kinky stuff to bed just to please you, she will bring food while you are on bed, say positive things about you when she is with her friends, compliment your junior snake every now and then, wear sexy stuff for you only, keep your properties safe when you are traveling to other place, she is obedient, she never says no to you BUT you know that

she was sexually abused and she has a child from that previous abusive relationship? She traumatized and most of them is prefers pain over pleasure becoss she still remembers the painful things she was done to?

would you keep her stil? Be honest people. pls don't comment negative trash thank u

Is She Worth Keeping?

Death Penalty, , pro or con?
A life for life? Should an assailant who intentionally murdered another human being be put to the death penalty? How efficient is this method?
If a family member of yours was killed, would you want the killer to be killed in retaliation? Does that make you feel like justice has been served?

this is my project, i already got an F?

Damn boy think

It's called Planet Pandora, and someone from another
planet would send in a decoy to pretend to be one of us.
Then stealing our resources as our planet entirely dissolves

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Artist's Description of African Human Bodies
you have to click the blue underlined link
http://fc07.deviantart.net/fs11/f/2006/172/a/0/humantypes3.jpg

"At first, she concentrated wholly on the phenomenon of the rape of babies under 18 months old, but soon realised that rape of children of all ages was endemic.

It was one story that had shocked her into action, but there are countless others. A nine-month-old baby was raped by six men, aged between 24 and 66, after the infant had been left unattended by her teenage mother.

A 14-month-old girl was raped by her two uncles. An eight-month-old infant was gang-raped by four men. Samuel Lempe, a Protestant Church minister, was charged and convicted for raping and murdering the eight-year-old daughter of a family friend. One 16-year-old was so traumatised by the prospect of testifying against her stepfather, who had raped her, that she committed suicide in court. And so on and on.
http://www.heraldscotland.com/news/world-news/a-girl-born-in-south-africa-has-a-better-change-of-being-raped-than-learning-to-read-1.919503

Hey you guys i just want to know where most nigerias stand when it comes to the other woman. Like lets say your husband had a affair and you found out and you confronted him about it. You found out he was cheating and you divorced him, now about the woman he was cheating on with, would you leave her alone or blame her? I'm just wondering, i really am.

how many times does evil say true?
two time brothers and sister. which one ?

The simple truth is you will all find a fine lady that will cook, clean and baby you with all her little heart. She'll iron and set out your clothes every morning and feed, dress you and your brats for school and work. She'll take a short breathe after dropping of the kids to school and write up her list for the day, what she needs to do after and before work. (Oh yeah this mom works like YOU!). She'll try her best to get in time to sort out the kids, food and the house before you get back.

You'll come into a house with food on the table, unsi and her looking fab like she's been doing nothing all day.

You'll be moody, hungry and not even notice the new s,  she picked up during her break time today!, you'll complain about something or a another and crash in front of the TV.

Mom are stronger and better quality then men.
I love woman peace

at 2pm and 12am no comment

c´on people let's have fun

I used to feel very sensitive about exposing my real age because in my heart I really didn't want to grow up but now although I might sometimes on a rare occasions take one or two years off it, alhamadulilah I have no problem telling it

here is go on


" I Will eat your first born child!"

Do you think it's a good idea

Nothing is more disgusting than a dude displaying the opposite gender characteristic when it comes to his bla bla. I understand why women are 21 for 3 years but was sup with dudes that get offended once you mention they look older than the age they claimed lmao. I for one cant wait til I hit my 30's but it seems some dudes will be forever be the same age.

i have no clue who is this nor do i know where she got my email.

From Miss Mysha Mohammad.

Country: Cote D'Ivoire.

City: Abidjan Ivoire Coast.



Hello dear,

Dear with profound respect and humble submission, I beg to state the following few lines for your kind consideration, I hope you will spare some of your valuable minutes to read the following appeal with sympathetic mind. I must confess that it is with great hopes, joy and enthusiasm that I write you this mail which I know and believe by the faith that it must surely find you in good condition of health. My name is Miss Mysha Mohammad, I am the only Daughter of my late parents Mr.and Mrs Ammar Mohammad. My father was a highly reputable business magnet who operated in the capital of Ivory coast during his days.
It is sad to say that he passed away mysteriously in France during one of his business trips abroad on the 20th May 2008. Though his sudden death was linked or rather suspected to have been masterminded by an uncle of mine who travelled with him at that time. But God knows the truth! My mother died when I was just 6yrs old, and since then my father took me so special.



Before the death of my father on May 2008, he called me and informed me that he has the sum of Six Million, Five Hundred thousand United State Dollars.(USD$6,500,000.00) he deposited in a private Bank here in Abidjan Cote D'Ivoire. He told me that he deposited the money in my name, and also gave me all the necessary legal documents regarding to this deposit with the Bank.

I am just 21 years old and a university undergraduate and really don't know what to do. Now I want an honest and God/Allah fearing partner overseas who I can transfer this money with his assistance and after the transaction I will come and reside permanently in your country till such a time that it will be convinient for me to return back home if I so desire. This is because I have suffered a lot of set backs as a result of incessant political crisis here in Ivory coast. The death of my father actually brought sorrow to my life. I also want to invest the fund under your care because I am ignorant of business world.

I am in a sincere desire of your humble assistance in this regards. Your suggestions and ideas will be highly regarded. Now permit me to ask these few questions:

1. Can you honestly help me from your heart?
2. Can I completely trust you?
3. What percentage of the total amount in question will be good for you after the fund has being transfeered to your account and i come over to meet you ?



Please, consider this and get back to me as soon as possible. Immedaitely I confirm your willingness, I will send to you my Picture and also inform you more details involved in this matter.

Anticipating hearing from you soon.
Thanks and may Allah bless you for your concern to help an orphan like me.

Kind Regards,

Miss Mysha Mohammad

I was wondering why a lot of non believers I discuss with about Islam, mostly come up with these two words. As a Muslim myself I do not consider taqqiya to be relevant. Why lie and deceive for the greater good? Or am I wrong about this word?To be honest I don't even fully understand this word. And I also don't understand the word dhimmi exactly. They are protected people under Islamic rule when they pay taxes, if I understand correctly.

Can someone please explain these definitions more and help me in trying to explain it to unbelievers that want to know more about this?

Thank you in advance

Allah, the ALMIGHTY, is able to do anything, anytime and anywhere

She read the Qur'an with intent to mock and crack useless jokes in front of a Jewish audience?

jazaka allah khair

azharuddin:
Religion vs science. Lol!
Such a thing does not exist. Why? Because science is a part of Religion. Consider Religion as a big circle and science would be a small dot inside that circle.
What is Religion? It is following what Allah has commanded us.
What is science? It is studying Allah's creations,from something as small as a subatomic particle to something as large as a galaxy.

There is no 'vs' or fight between the two. But we see a lot of scientists rejecting religion or ridiculing faith in Allah. Well i cannot help laughing at them. Its sheer arrogance on their part, lol. Just because they found some theories regarding the creation of Allah they think they are superior beings. They will indeed realize the truth on the day of resurrection, the day when Allah will give life to the dead.

Allahuakbar.

Masha allah
Allahuakbar!

tbaba1234:
I can only offer the islamic perspective,  (sorry)

For muslims, there has never been a conflict between religion and science or faith and logic. Faith in islam is based on reason. The Quran, time and time again asks the rhetorical question., Would you not reason? The concept of blind faith does not exist in Islam. 
It asks the Question to those who reject faith, Do you think it came from nothing?

Common sense tells you that nothing comes from nothing.

Allah says in the Quran that everything in the universe is finely balanced. It is easy to see this balance when we examine our galaxy for instance, the fact that life exists on the earth is a question of balance,  If the earth was a little bit closer to the sun , the world would be too hot for existence, if it was a little bit father away, Too cold. 

If the earth was too large, too much gravity,  too small, too little gravity,  If it spun too slow, one part of the earth would be cold for too long, the other hot,

Well, is it all a coincidence that the earth is at the size, the distance from the sun, the speed conducive for human life?? I beg to differ

Again, Did it all come from Nothing?

This is what I think,  Faith must have proof. An all-powerful God that created the heavens and the earth must show me a sign he exists, 

The miracle of the Quran is that inspite of the fact that it emerged from the desert over 1400 years ago, it contains accurate scientific facts that were not available to the people that existed at it's time. it talks of the Big bang and the fact that living things are made out of water. It talks of reproduction, geology and so many other things, most of which were only discovered in the current century.

Have not those who disbelieve known that the heavens and the earth were of one piece, then We parted them, and
We made every living thing of water? Will they not then believe? (21:30)

It describes Allah as the lord of the worlds,  It doesn't eliminate the prospects of life outside the earth. It talks of heavens and the earth,  And of the orbits of sun and moon in accurate detail,  In a time where the earth believed that the world was flat, The Quran describes it as resembling the egg of an ostrich,

God shows me his existence in His words ,

Would those who reject faith not reason??

Now let's talk a bit philosophically,  Through out history, civilizations believed in the existence of a supreme being. I would argue that it is innate in everyone to believe in God. I believe it is a natural instinct.

If you touch a hot object, you don't think of removing your hands, it is a natural instinct,

People in dire need even atheists pray when it seems hopeleess,

The Quran offers a simple analogy, when it says:
Surah 10. Yunus

22. He it is Who maketh you to go on the land and the sea till, when ye are in the ships and they sail with them with a
fair breeze and they are glad therein, a storm wind reacheth them and the wave cometh unto them from every side and
they deem that they are overwhelmed therein; (then) they cry unto Allah, making their faith pure for Him only; If Thou
deliver us from this, we truly will be of the thankful.

23. Yet when He hath delivered them, behold! they rebel in the earth wrongfully. O mankind! Your rebellion is only
against yourselves. (Ye have) enjoyment of the life of the world; then unto Us is your return and We shall proclaim
unto you what ye used to do.

When they seem overwhelmed, they call on God,  It is a normal human instinct. But like ayat 23 says we r too distracted by the world.

The truth is the earth as an entity is a tiny spec in a tiny spec that is our galaxy in a spec that is the universe in the sight of God. Everything maintaining a fine balance,

The Prophet(SAW) said 'The Universe compared to the kursi (loosely translated as footstool/throne) of God is like a ring thrown into the desert'

My faith in God is a logical conclusion based on facts. The world is too finely balanced for there not to be a creator.

I hope this helps,

First of all thank you for taking the time to fully reply to my question I do understand where your coming from as am believer just like you but I would never presume to believe that God would want any human being to forgo knowledge about the whole of the universe and to not use reason and the scientific method to further and perfect that knowledge. On the contrary, I see human endeavor, science, math, art, music, poetry, etc., to be a beautiful thing, not as reflections of God but because they are meaningful. I don't limit my reading/viewing to religious journals/books/films, etc., or my vision to what I learn from the Quran. I take it all in, the stars, the mountains, the oceans, etc

And I know that There isn't a belief among scientist that reason is "all mighty"--or that it could reveal all there is to know about the universe. Some potential knowledge may simply be unobtainable. It is simply that reason and reason combined with experience are the ONLY ways of acquiring knowledge. Justification REQUIRES reason, and knowledge is, at the very least, a true justified belief. Even that isn't sufficient, but that alone makes the point. Nonetheless at the end of the day there are some things even science can't prove

"The unexamined life is not worth living"

Well howdy nairaland am guessing most of you are at sleep (Which I should be doing myself, I have no business being awake this time) But I had to get this off my chest before I forget, as you can tell from the title this will be more of philosophical discussion/question so if your not interested STOP reading now and save yourself the time, I was having a heated argument actually a debate with a friend earlier this morning he is a philosophy major hence the subject anyways I try not to get into this sort of debates but sometimes you just can't help it well anyhow we were chatting about Basing beliefs on reason and evidence vs Basing them on faith, superstition, and tradition, the key words being religion vs science as you can already tell you know where he is going with this just to summarize his long speech about how basing them on evidence brought us more enlightenment than basing them on believes here is what he said the scientific knowledge that the galaxy is filled with billions of suns, new suns and dying suns, planets forming and planets formed long ago, black holes, , ,,,,,,, and wonders beyond counting, and all of these things in a galaxy that is like a grain of sand among a hundred and twenty five billion others, is far more awe inspiring than the idea that Earth was created by a mysterious God and that the stars are unknown light sources spinning around it on perfect crystalline spheres. of course there was more to the discussion than this but this part caught my attention the most, I have seen my share non believers and I usually just stay away from having any sort of debate about faith but as my luck would have it I was stuck debating with this friend for at least 2 hours about this subject of course at the end we had to disagree to agree.

Which brings me to my title what’s your stand on that? I had professor last semester that over used this quote