MarcAnthon:

@OP, why do girls always like to sit back and let guys do all the talking? Pretty dumb. The guy is supposed to spend on you, talk to you, impress you, love you, etc, etc,  What do the girls bring to the table aside a fine face (for those that are fine o)? Pray tell,  I get peeps hitting me up on calls and chats all the time and going silent after saying hello (expecting me to gist them, i think say na u first buzz me?) or a girl just sitting lamely b4 you seeming to say 'oya gist me'. You no get mouth? I tire o!

MarcAnthon:

@OP, why do girls always like to sit back and let guys do all the talking? Pretty dumb. The guy is supposed to spend on you, talk to you, impress you, love you, etc, etc, What do the girls bring to the table aside a fine face (for those that are fine o)? Pray tell, I get peeps hitting me up on calls and chats all the time and going silent after saying hello (expecting me to gist them, i think say na u first buzz me?) or a girl just sitting lamely b4 you seeming to say 'oya gist me'. You no get mouth? I tire o!

lefulefu:

Bros understand that many naija babes lack the initiative to keep up a discussion.Many of them are so timid.I mean check out a white chick for example.If u discussin with a white babe she would contribute her own part in the discussion and many white babes are so outgoing and sociable.Not for a naija babe wey go dey sit dey look u like Egyptian mummy while u dey yarn all the gist witout her contributing a single word until all the saliva for your mouth go dry

lefulefu:

Pendo so after Obinna your igbo sugar daddy don spend all the spendable on u, yu still get mind come here open your yeye mouth for here abi?

thehunted:

it is very stu.pid of  a guy to spend money to impress a girl. i have never done  it and would never do it. Guys who do that do so when they have nothing else to offer in the relationship. na me be her papa.

BCuZiMBlaCk:

lemme get this straight, are u saying u've never spent yo cash on a girl?

thehunted:

it is very stu.pid of  a guy to spend money to impress a girl. i have never done  it and would never do it. Guys who do that do so when they have nothing else to offer in the relationship. na me be her papa.

thehunted:

Buying her gift sometimes is different from impressing her by spending stu.pidly. i always do the former. Seriously,some guys have absolutely nothing to offer the girl so they tend to keep the girl with their money. These babes jump ship when the guy`s money dries up.

Mrs, Chima:


Now getting back to the question, can a man impress a woman without spending money?  Yes, he can.  There are many different ways to[b] impress sensibly[/b] but if he want to spoil her then spending is expected but it shouldn't feel like an obligation which many men these days feels.  Most men feels powerful with their wallet versus their brain and personality, unfortunately.   LOSERS

Blood_Shed:

I CAN.

I just can't/won't keep her. To keep a woman you have to spend money, they are essentially pro$t!tute$.

So I say to hell with that, my money is more important.

1forall:

The question could also be framed as:

Girls, can a guy impress you without spending?

I've never been an advocate of spending to impress cos its just creates a false basis for everything that might follow.
And as much as girls irresistably fall for it, guys themselves can be shallow enough to apply it so both sexes are to blame.
But at the same time it all depends on what both parties are looking for from each other 

jay bee:

No you simply cannot because every classy thing you had want the lucky lady to experience has a cost attached to it. However, you don't necessarily have to go [b]overboad [/b]to impress a lady.

Claus:

Amazing!

First, some guys were getting mad because some girls prioritise money/gifts at the expense of the other things guys can offer.
Now some girls are getting mad because some guys are quick to offer money/gifts in place of the other things they should offer.

If only these two sets can get together and leave the money/gifts people to their own wahala.

pendo89:

ever wondered why some broke guys manage to walk away with very pretty women? They mastered the art of seducing the lady. They know how to talk,crack sensible jokes, teach a girl new stuff, they dress to suit the occassion, they listen and take time with the lady. Such relationships never lack spice cz u both have something to talk about everytime you meet.
The opposite is boring.Its all outing shopping,dining,cinemas and sex. Nothing concrete comes out of it cz the guy is nothing without spending.

jay bee:

And what's the probability of that ever happening these dayz ?
1 outta every 1000 ?

jay bee:

And what's the probability of that ever happening these dayz ?
1 outta every 1000 ?

pendo89:

dont get it wrong. Spending I said is inevitable, but question remains.Without a cent are u man enough to impress and win over a pretty lady?
Spending makes dating comfortable but it's not 'it'. It aids and takes u places but what u both posess is what keeps the relationship going strong.
Its nice to spend and be spent on but have something better in your persona not wallet.

Claus:

Amazing!

First, some guys were getting mad because some girls prioritise money/gifts at the expense of the other things guys can offer.
Now some girls are getting mad because some guys are quick to offer money/gifts in place of the other things they should offer.

If only these two sets can get together and leave the money/gifts people to their own wahala.