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Poster, if you serach you'll find

Hello sister, I've always said here that some women could and do pay for on dates, there's nothing strange or weird about it, I would be glad to offer our dinner to someone I really appreciate because it's good to receive but you have to learn to give also

Goldielucks hi my dear I'm ok the sun is shining so I'm ok 
Born2fuck (lol what a name heheh) thanks but seriously we shouldn't focus on beauty and so on cause that leads to frustration, misunderstanding and insults sometimes while it's a subjective concept

As for my private life I prefer not talking about it on here because it's useless hope you'll understand dear

Poster, please let this topic be, I don't really understand why we're tearing apart for pictures, shapes, beauty!
Everyone has his own tates; we can't be perfect for everyone and that's why we'ere human being, those who want to put their pic just have to assume critics and so on, beauty is not the most important thing in life, now poster you can't "force" people to put their pic if they don't want

Hi to you Goldielucks and Rokiatu

It's a free forum and everyone should has the right to post what they want, unkess it becomes uncorrect
As for the topic, I'd be short: Do what you want as long as you assume, you'd be never perfect and the best for everyone so let it be sister

Hi poster, you know emotions is human, the only difference is that guys are not raised to show it in public especially Africans, and I think it's not automatically a sign of strengh
As a human being we have our sensibility, of course you have to be tough enough because life is very hard and you can't afford to be emotional to every situation but sometimes it's good to let things happen if you want to cry once just do it because the more you block yourself the more you risk to be depressive

alj_harem:
You see, so Nayah how long has GEJ been the president of Nigeria ?

GEJ has used 2 Years in Office now, with February 2012 making it a complete 2 years

Yaradua used just 2 years to solve those problems before he died

anyway, you looking pretty always

Alj haram now tell me about YARADUA, there were no insecurity in Nigeria? hope you kidding my brother, I 've been already in this World and aware so you can't tell me YARADUA "solve" problems cause JOS has been the theatre of a lot of crimes and massacre during his rulling, give me a reason not to think you're tribalistic? because sincerly I think you're not very objective my dear

Then thanks, I still look like a Kanuri like you've said? lol 

Demdem:
Nayah asked:

Which President in Nigeria has never experienced Insecurity in his land?

Alhaji responded:

[b]yes there are problem but THOSE PRESIDENTS FOUND A SOLUTION TO IT IN THERE VARIOUS WAYS
do you know anything about Nigeria at all ?
Ok I would start from our first democratic president OBJ Obasanjo
he had a problem with MEND which were the militants in the ND region of Nigeria, He tried talking but fell to deaf ears
although they started there bombing near the end of his tenure
when the bombing started, OBJ as a former military man sent the military to stop MEND. WHICH STOPPED thus problem solved. Also Lagos had OPC issue which OBJ arrested Gani Adams for about 2 years and OPC redueced greatly. In fact OPC does not bomb or kill
next was Yaradua, during Yaradua, MEND came back because Yaradua was more of a civilian
Yaradua first of all reduced the fuel prices from 85 N to 65 N
then  introduced Amnesty, which the Militant took and stopped the bombing, only for Yaradua to die and they started again duing Jonthan's era 2010
Now Mend is still threatening to blow Nigerian up and now a new found evil has now compounded the Issue, BOKO HARAM
Mr president is relaxed about it when compared to the other 2
Even duing Nigerians independeance, MEND killed 20 Nigerians in the place where MR was enjoying his view, Yet MEND still lives on. Boko haram even worse[/b]

Nayah, you can see from the above that Alhaji did responded to your million dollar question however you probably ignored it.
Leaders will always encounter challenges and any leader who isnt expecting such isnt fit to be one. The Retardeen telling us during the elections that he has no one to fight suggests to me that he from day 1 doesnt know the gravity of what he was contesting for.

I for one isnt blaming the retardeen 100% for putting us in this state of insecurity we all are presently experiencing however my grouse with him is how he is tackling all these. Nothing seems to be going on and it seems as if these criminals are getting bolder by the day. the govt seems to be barking (since oct 1 2010 bomb blast) but they simply cant bite. The rertardeen simply dont have the guts criminous OBJ had that will be needed now to stop this menance. O yes i dont need an holy and good man to govern a nation like Nigeria.

I am sure if an average Nigerian has all the security and intelligent info currently available to the retardeen to reduce these crimes solutions wont be far however the question is does the retardeen has the guts and balls to make the neccessary decision so as to stop the killing of innocent lives. Jos is still pending, remember that.

The other day, my dumb president told us that they know the sponsors of Boko haram that includes a former H.O.S (that was after he asked us not to panic since terrorists attacks happen everywhere), the question now is what has he done so far about the so called intelligence.

Insecurity will always abound in this wretched world of ours even after the end of the retardeen's rule however how its being handled by various subsequent govts will suggest those that have something upstairs or not.

So far, the retardeen is failing and considering his antecedents especially from his bayelsa years, the man is just being himself. No shaking.

Many thanks demdem for having giving me some points about the trouble, now do you think is it fair to jugge someone with jst one year as a Head of office, who inherit of a certain social tensions and if it's so do you think another President will do better in such conditions and within the same period, 1 year?

maclatunji:
Nayah, if it makes you happy, I like your contradiction. In fact, Nigeria's problems 'were caused by me' when I failed to see that you have a very wonderful understanding of Nigerian politics and people. LOL

YEAH that's what I though also

Beaf thanks for your support, I know some people here don't like contradiction, but they have to! the rest is not important

Beaf:
Nayah, do not let any of these societal misfits bully you. It is a free World and your thoughts are valued.

Hey Beaf how are you? don't worry you do know me now, I won't stop as I told you before and as long as I'm correct without insults I don't knwo why I should quit from this section, and I'm waiting answers to questions

Which President in Nigeria has never experienced Insecurity in his land?

Alj harem, courteousy suits you very well
Alj harem I can tell you your issue with Igbos makes you blind, how can you think I'm so linked with Biafra just because I told you once, that for me it's a genocide? And what makes you think I do not know about things about Nigeria? Let's try to be objective please

Reggie2:
Nayah, U don't need to argue with nitwits who do nothing but rigmarole. Your assertion is as simple as a non demented f**l will understand. Nigerian political woes are not caused by Jonathan who is barely one year in office. Such arguments on zoning (which tend to exclude a section of the Nigerian population) makes nonsense of democracy. The problem with Nigeria is allegiance to tribes. Period.

That's what I've noticed but some people here like to impose their views by trying to intimidate them, because they're non Nigerians or whatever they can give as arguments, I realy think that this tribalistic hatred lead to mistaken many people, but I'll give my opinion whatever it takes brother don't worry, and Alj harem or whoever won't stop me even though they think people don't know what are Nigerian issues

godman01:
The child is responsible for his/her life. But the bible says honour your parents, so it should be a thing where both the child and parent sit down and reason together. If the marriage doesn't work later on, the child will have someone to hold for it, if forced into any marriage.

Yes I know what Bible says brother, but you know religion is not something straight, I mean you have to adapt yourself to different situation, religion is here to guide your moral but not here to impose you a husband or a wife
As I told you, Parents have to tell what they think about relationship, but don't have to choice, that's how children become adults

maclatunji:
No mind them.

Nayah, read what Ehie has to say there. GEJ is just drifting like a ballon caught in some high-wind and as a  result every other non-state party feels emboldened to act with impunity. I have said it before; a President deals with issues not blame them for his failure. All that your nice talk about Nigeria being all tribally set-up and being difficult to rule is garbage. If he wanted a quiet life, he should have stayed in his living room and watch whatever he likes watching on TV.  For him to muscle his way to power and start acting like a rabbit caught in a car's headlights is nothing short of disgraceful!

Now read mine: "CUTE thoughts" as you think or say has nothing to do with the fact that Nigeria's issues is more linked to social problem than political one because sorry as another brother have said, which President do you know in Nigeria who has ruled without any troubles or insecurity? that's my point there, so there's no need to take such hostile tone with me, again this is a discussion, so let's discuss not fight thanks

Hi poster good topic
I think parents have a right of giving advices to their children, but not choosing for them for 2 reasons:
Their children have to be responsible for their own choicec, parents are not eternal!
Secondly, love can not be directed by anyone else than them

But of course, they have to tell their children about what they think so that children could take anything in consideration to decide

odumchi:
Good morning, Nayah. You know if anything, I'd day that food is abundant now than it was then. Asian rice, potatoes, chickens and etc all came after that time period. Maybe there are just a large amount of mouths to feed but the same amount of food. Who knows?

hEY oDUMUCHI HOW ARE YOU TODAY?
Well I was refering to many chemical things imported that Africans eat!

9ja_I_hail:
Nigeria is bigger than one man, OBJ though he should rule forever and he went and Nigeria didn’t die.

Jonathan can never be a ruler, he is grossly incompetent, if he worked for me I would sack him as soon as possible,if he cannot handle the travails and the daily death, he should be impeached as soon as possible, he should not hold the country to ransom, if u don’t want Buhari,there is Pat Utomi and countless of intelligent Nigerians, like Fashola who have shown their true worth.

Jomnathan is incompetent there are no two ways about it….we need a leader as soon as possible to become Arica’s Giant, we don’t need oil we have gold in our soil, food and human resources,ND can have their oil,the rest can develop on their resources….Jonathan will not hold Nigeria hostage and Jonathan will not cause another civil war, he must go because we have no time to wait for him to wake up from his stupidity

@ehie (f), i am sure you deserve to answer this question,what do you think it will happen to this country if GEJ should order the security to kill all who are backing the boko haram?

my second question to you is,mention one leader you know that have been able to concentrate and achieve greats in the midst of terrorism in his country?

if you can answer this questions correct then u are not clueless but if u come up with your biastic  approach then u will simply made your self the fool of the century.

I think the bold one is relevant, whether Goodluck or not, I think the issue is elsewhere, Nigeria is quite hard to rule because of its history and I don't really know it's about President but about national consensus

maclatunji:
@Nayah, it is okay if you want to keep posting on this and other Nigerian politics topics. Just remember that I warned you when the sharks come for you.

Educating you on why you are wrong might take me a year and since we don't have that. I will have to let you express your 'cute' thoughts no matter how flawed they may be.

Don't bother sharks I can swim don't worry, and cute thoughts is not relevant here we're talking about Jonathan way of ruling the country then give me your opnion about that, then I'll tell you what I think

Russilane, just try to look after the 30% which left! then you'll forget the others

wildwater:
I agree with that. I am just angry, because in European Newspapers there are always just articles like that forced, where negative Elements of African culture are published. Even if such things happen, which is a shame and just a sign of fear and low education of narrow minded people for me, I do not think it is proper for a Nigerian woman living abroad generalizing this on her country, as if it would be daily´s happening like witch prosecution in Europe 500 years ago. It ought to be the job of Nigerian people abroad to improve the image of their country, not to put it down.

Hello everyone, you might be right on that brother but to be honest sometimes we Africans give them opportunities to talk negatively about us and our culture

hi dayokanu
Seriously for now the only thing that could help OBAMA to renew is the fact that Republicans are divided with the fight of their leaders and moral affairs issues

Ggee:
We became westernised. See that the western drug is only one that is good. Our normal herbs 'agbo' is not good anymore.

I don't think so brother otherwise , instead of praying for our healing we would straightly go to hospital like westerners do


Poster good morning, I think this is also about new environnement, food which is less and less healthy almost everywhere in the globe and we African don't do the exception

namfav:
no offense, but you should not be talking about this, it makes you sound stoopid

Namfav, don't worry I'm not offense at all I'm also here to understand, and as I told your brother if I'm wrong then ok give me some arguments then we can discuss, hope you'll understand
If this is a stupid approach then yes I am

maclatunji:
Nayah please do not interfere in the politics section. As always your post is cute but I 've got to say you do not fully understand the subject!

Brother, I think this is a debate, a discussion if I'm wrong the smarter you can do is to show me why, don't you think?
You do have an opinion on Lybia? or the EU and the financial crisis? are you an European or a Lybian? so I'm here to be enlightened, that'salso the aim of a forum

kentage1:
Hmm.
I find this trend at times amusing, at times annoying,.
Every post gets to be spinned into a war of words by the NL GIANTS and in the end the thread will most certainly deviate to PERSONAL issues regarding these GIANTS (no offence to the sexkills , the manny's, the jennifers and the other distinguished posters of this virtual world),
but wait lest i digress myself,
From 'MY' little experience with nigerian women in the diaspora as against other 'AFRICAN' women. Nigerian girls are a Tough bunch who most times reveal that they don't know what they want and are proud of the fact. If that's not a red stop sign for any reasonable guy then i don't know what is.
As an side, i wonder who speaks such big grammar like obfuscate in everyday conversation? Kudos to all who keep it simple.

"Men come from Mars and women from Venus" this phrase can sumarize problem of communication between the two genders but there's nothing to do with origins, trust me Senegalese and Ivoirian men would tell you the same thing " Our women has become complicated, they like tto much money" and all that so this is not a "Nigerian virus" to my opinion

Good morning poster, with all due respect I don't really think Jonathan Goodluck has caused insecurity in Nigeria
Troubles in this country remain tribalistic and exists for many years, and have intensified since the Biafra war, Goodluck inherit of a big country with big potential but a lot of issues ( socio political) are still pending

awuf2008:
As we all know extra marital affair is normal thing in naija amongst couple irrespective of their culture, be it  hausa, ibo or yoruba this thing exist. and in the course of having an extra affair with a lady and by mistake you got her impregnated and the lady in question refuses to abort the pregnancy.Can you  be bold enough to tell your wife?
Your views will be appreciated and no sentiments please.

Normal affairs? my brother all I can say is better tell your wife before someone tells her for you, now you can't blame the lady who doesn't want to abort but sincerity is better because trust me being humiliated is one thing but the fact that everybody knows before you do, that's the worst thing you can do towards your wife