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Politics / Re: Fayose Releases His Phone Number To Ekiti People by nazilee: 7:34am On Oct 13, 2015
BrosPeter:
THE PEOPLE'S GOVERNOR.

Politics / Re: Names Of Those Who Made 2nd Ministerial List - The Cable by nazilee: 7:19am On Oct 13, 2015
senier007:
List of technocrats are here, the first was for the politicians
Autos / Re: Mitsubish Space Wagon Auto Gear 350k by nazilee: 12:06am On Oct 13, 2015
Kayharry:
Available now
Autos / Re: Toks BENZ C300-C350/CL500-CLS-SL500..C63/E63\E350/E550 (4d Chairmen) 06-016 by nazilee: 11:56pm On Oct 12, 2015
rickkychidex111:
Still selling.
Autos / Re: 08 - 012 Gwagon g55 AMG custom & g55 Brabus. Limited Grand Edition (4d Chairmen) by nazilee: 11:54pm On Oct 12, 2015
rickkychidex111:
Limited Grand Edition.
Autos / Re: 9 Months Registered 2000 Toyota Corolla @ 590k by nazilee: 11:53pm On Oct 12, 2015
Romance / Re: I Nid New Head by nazilee: 11:52pm On Oct 12, 2015
adaksbullet:
Girls we nort faights on top off me, it is two houseflies that we be faightin on top off mine food and shit. I nid a new headsad

Who is want too sel is head?angry
Romance / Re: Advice Urgently Needed! by nazilee: 11:51pm On Oct 12, 2015
Olayinka8793:
Good day nairalanders, my name is Yinka and am also a twin. I have an issue bothering me and wished to post it here openly in the hope that I will get useful advice/opinion.

This post may seem long and therefore turn off those who hate long epistles but pls endeavour to read it as your advice/opinion might be beneficial to me.

I have thought of creating an alternative moniker to post this or at least lied that the problem is been faced by one of my friend and so he needs your advice like some pretentious nairalanders do, but decided to be bold enough and be real since this is just an online forum.

Sorry for digressing, now to the koko of the matter,I am 22 years old, will be 23 next January, earning a decent salary working as a hair stylist in a large unisex saloon, I have hearing loss as in total deafness though I could speak fluently, was not born deaf but an accident caused it while I was in primary school, the story of how I became deaf is one for another day, but with sheer determination and faith and Gods Grace I managed to complete both primary and secondary schooling but gave up on going further as I have no believe I could survive higher school.

My deafness affected me in very many ways, physiologicaly and emotionally and almost daily, but I hardly allow myself brood over it for a long time, the worst I have done was to cry in secret on more than four occasion for having such a terrible disability.

Ok well, my deafness affected my relationship with the opposite sex so much such that I have never had a girl friend meaning am still a virgin, though I relieve myself of what nairalanders called Konji by doing controlled mas2bation when I feel like, I could have used Oloshos to relieve myself but I considered them as dirty people and can't imagine losing my virginity to a prostitute.

I have tried summoning confidence to toast gals but our conversation is usually very short and not impressive due to the fact I don't know how to prolong such conversations and most of the ideas I saw online hardly applied to such conversation involving a person like me wit hearing loss. I communicate like a normal person by lip reading(hope u know what that is), though not always an effective means of communication but I had no other choice as my parents and me hated the idea of me learning sign language and they vehemently resisted those who suggested it when the deafness problem started.The only problem I have with lip reading was that whenever I don't understand what the other person was saying, I would indicate and ask him to repeat but if it persist I ask him or her to write it with the finger and you will agree with me that such inconvenience might be a big turn of when trying to talk to a stranger like a beautiful gal I admired.

There is this girl I admired that works as a sales girl in my aunt's pharmacy shop, she frequently passed in front of our saloon and have started having feelings for her, fortunately she know I have hearing loss and also knew I am a nephew to her boss and sometimes greets me when passing by like "boda taye",lol and I had just waved and answer "bawo ni", ordinarily I should not have problem toasting her but the fear of my deafness disappointing me and the fact I don't know anything to say that could make the toasting successfull apart from, what is your name, I want to marry you, where do you live, can I have your number, can I take you out on a date next Sunday? Bla bla bla.lol

Also there is the problem I usually encounter with young gals, when I told them I want to marry you, they be like "omo kekere ni mi" meaning am a small girl and I be like how old are you, but can we just be friends bla bla bla, any suggestion to how to properly deal with such response will be appreciated in case the gal I planned to toast say such(she looks 19+). It is not like she is out of my class or too beautiful, no no no not at all, even my twin sister is more classier.

Thanks for reading this far, I know this might seem like an unusual problem but I believe you will have one or two ideas/opinions which I might find useful in other to overcome my deafness and win over this gal. I have no intention of using and dumping her, just date her with the hope of finding her compatible for marriage when the time comes and lastly to relieve myself of Konji the natural way after having gained her trust and affection.

Modified. E be like say I want more opinions, oya CC: lalasticlala abeg do the needful.
Romance / Re: Enough Of This Gender Equality Hullabaloo by nazilee: 11:50pm On Oct 12, 2015
Dezzx:
*sighs* and another misogynistic male specie is let loose on nairaland.
Politics / Re: Abia Government Commences Distribution Of Bailout Fund by nazilee: 11:41pm On Oct 12, 2015
benedictnsi:
That's a nice one........


@chocolateme I miss you jor..... Abi you been loss too
Politics / Re: Age And Place Of Birth Of Ministerial Nominees by nazilee: 11:41pm On Oct 12, 2015
Investment / Re: How To Make Money In Forex With Cbn New Rules Of No Usd Cash Deposit In Banks by nazilee: 11:39pm On Oct 12, 2015
worldoth:
ojobabs88@live.com
Properties / Re: Best Architectural, Interior And Construction Works by nazilee: 11:36pm On Oct 12, 2015
skimanski:
Designs & Structures. Our Customers must be satisfied before we are satisfied. Give us a call today
Properties / Re: ,, by nazilee: 11:34pm On Oct 12, 2015
Ytechconst:
Substructure of the bungalow and shop
Properties / Re: Developing A Two-storey Building (6nos 2-bedroom Flats) in Portharcourt by nazilee: 11:33pm On Oct 12, 2015
malkomx:
on-going perimeter fence work
Properties / Re: Contemporary Nigeria Building Designs By Hafux Consuls by nazilee: 11:32pm On Oct 12, 2015
darenyx:


Thanks alot... I appreciate

Send a message to any of my email address

Talk2odarhare@yahoo.con
Darenyxaid@gmail.com

Lets discuss further...
Properties / Re: Architecture: Construction Of Duplex In Lekki & Akwa-Ibom State. by nazilee: 11:31pm On Oct 12, 2015
skimanski:
CASTING OF ALL OUTSTANDING PILLARS AND ROOF DECK.
Properties / Re: Hire Dump Trucks At A Cheap Rate, And U Can Also Call Us For Quality Granite by nazilee: 11:30pm On Oct 12, 2015
smiley001:
For quality granite of any size and also if u need to hire dump trucks to work on ur site, contact smiley haulage and logistics.
07081961127 and also adenijihoo@gmail.com.

Tankz.
Properties / Re: Building Plans For Your Taste by nazilee: 11:29pm On Oct 12, 2015
vicmoore:
Thanks sir
Properties / Re: Why Real Estate Developers Must Also Change Their Fraudulent Attitude To Buyers by nazilee: 11:27pm On Oct 12, 2015
xammy:
I agree with u @gbafched if na tonto mess na front page you go first see am before him go show for the normal section shocked

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