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penzino: thanx Bright, buh whaaat do u suggest I do, cos I can't see her till I finish in june... So how often do I call so as not to severe d little link I have created!!! Thnx

Penzino... I am not the calling type, I love texting and whatsapp... I am not in any relationship, if I am with what I do read on NL about calling daily, that means mine won't last cos I hardly call and I do get tire after 3 mins of calling...

Omnisharp: @Nbright: learn 2be more respectful (especially, wit Men of God)..."wanking"? Stop loading up curses upon urself, u are too small a rat 2develope loud mouth!

men of God?.. I said what he (Oyakhilome) said how is that a curse upon myself?.. Wanking is the same as mas.t.u.r.b.a.t.i.n.g....

[quote author='mide eniafe]You should tell her you're interested in her. That will make things easier and you won't have to bother whether you're bothering her or not.[/quote]eniafe, you are a lady you should advice him correctly, how woul you feel if a guy say to you that he's interested in you?... Is that how he should go about it?. Tell him how your guy or husband toasted you or you don't give him atall...

DailyNews: Pls people shud stop feeling odd that they dnt have a boyfriend or girlfriend cos it isn't a must okay?

I don't have one... Haven't had any before and I feel ok but it depends on one's mindset..

DailyNews: Dating will only break ur heart cos most don't lead to marriage, so y start one

Most does... There's this pix in my house, it was taken the first day my mum visited my dad... My 3 sisters dated before they got married to their husbands, I went to visit a friend today whose wife delivered last week, he dated and put her through uni. (he's a tipper driver). There are many instances... I just pray I meet the girl that think like me and you all meet your match..

DailyNews: @Nbright, u seem to be a realist, I love it but try and be more friendly, but I do enjoy ur comments, u are like d balance here- lolz

Of course I am a realist as for that friendly matter, I too have noticed that some poster might bear grudges towards me here... Someone told me to mellow down on my comments and I think I ma do just that... I say what I think is right, if it pains anyone, sorry, if I am wrong, I apologise, but I will not compromise on my way of writting just to please others... I can't please others to displease myself... Never..

DailyNews: First of all, I want to correct something- Nbright, pls I don't and never for once exchanged words or even know @alutacontinal until the very day she entered this thread and boldly said: she doesn't like DailyNews.

Dailynews,,, If I say such (that you exchanged words with her) sorry... Though you did replied her so that qualifies as exchange of words but I didn't mean it as you think (harsh)...

alutacontinua: ^ ^ ^@nbright, just wot I was tryna point out. She explained herself, you had ur points and u stated it earlier on, why didn't u just read hers and pass instead of quoting her! Say ur own, let odas say theirs. As simple as ABC. You see how much we dragged d forehead thingy...t'was majorly because of u!

I am not the only one quoting others comment so don't single me out just because of that.. We all have our ways of commenting on NL... @bolded, all I can say is WTF?!...

alutacontinua: No, i'm not gonna say wot I said to dailynews to u! I & Dailynews' issue is a different thing entirely.

Thank God..

alutacontinua: I actually like the fact that you see things from other perspectives, i just don't like the fact that you argue too much when people don't agree with ur points!

I don't argue cos they don't agree with me, I argue to see if I can be proven wrong or right and if I can do same to others.

alutacontinua: When you say it once and others don't agree or say something contrary, just let it be. YOU MIGHT BE THE WRONG PERSON!!!

how many times did you say dailynews should leave you alone?, I know you argued about the head thing noy once as for the part about me being wrong.. If I'm wrong, I will learn from it..

alutacontinua: Also, i'm not offeneded! Why should I be I'm not dt 'dollish'

Thank God again..

alutacontinua: To the issue at hand, people av said it all! FLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE as far as ur legs can carry u!

According to Kanye West.. Runaway as far as you can..

carmelion: There is nothing wrong with a man still living with his parents but living alone gives you more sense of responsibility.

Apart from other things this guy said,If he had an apartment of his own,the guest house issue won't come.Maybe his parents will see it as disrespectful if he brings the girl to their house or he feels its not yet time.he wants to check her out first.

By the way,do you know how the society sees a lady coming out from a guest house?with or wothout a man.

If she comes out alone,they will take it that she went to see a marriedman,so the man told her to leave first so that people won't see them together.

If she comes out with her man,You and I already know what they will say.I have visited hotels in the past with my ex,but that was because we were out of town,so his house/his friends house was not available.I had no choice,I complained to the extent that he got angry.

I don't advise any lady to visit hotels/guest house/inn/lodge for anything.

Sometimes,in the course of my job,I find myself going to represent my company for meetings/seminars/trainings e.t.c
I always go with my boss(male)and you need to see the way I would dress/carry myself.You would know that I came here for serious /corporate bussiness .

What am I trying to say?There are reasons why a man should have his privacy.

So a girl can't go to a hotel without people thinking she's going there to meet a man?, sometimes I think we are going too far with the way we see things.. Once you are a virgin you are deemed "good, righteous, pure, etc.. Talking about staying with one's parents... Thank God the guy is working what about if he isn't working?, would you still advice him to move out?... If a guy is matured, why would the parents see it as disrespectful if he has a lady friend come over?. I have this friend that's a graduate (read architecture at esut).. He has served and is still jobless and in his 30's... Now because he's in his 30's should he leave his parents house?... Please lets learn to think something through before we talk.. Yes sometime our emotions do run high but we should learn to checkmate it.. Yes the girl comfirm that the guy is working but did we care to ask where he's working and how much his monthly package is?, Do we know if he's now the bread winner of the family?, if he has younger siblings that he trains... I still remember when Carmelion complained that her pay isn't that good so she will keep an eye out for a good job vacancy.. Now how come we are quick to forget that not all job pay 90k plus monthly... Please I'm not trying to push her to do what she wouldn't want to do... @Linda, use your head, shine your eye...

bukatyne: There is nothing wrong in marrying one's baby father. Infact, It should be marry b/4 babies.

Tuface got 2 women pregnant 5 times and you are telling me he loves Annie?

Yes, the Tufaces of this life would come back and marry the Annies of this life but it depends on the quality of life the Annies want for themselves.

Marriage is not an end in itself.

was tuface and annie dating when he impregnated those girls?... Do you think annie was patiently waiting while tuface was busy fvcking around?.. It's just because African culture frowned down on women having numerous bfs if not we would have seen Annie with different men... Yes marriage is not an end but I ain't hating on them, I am happy that they got married and I wish it last long... I hope it does..

bukatyne: Hi nbright, I don't agree with you.

Nobody is against Annie waiting for Tuface...

We are against her having no self esteem and not setting a good example.

Tell me in your heart of hearts, what would be your reaction if Annie was your sister?

bukatyne... What good example?. Is it because they are celebs and are alwys in the spotlights then they shouldn't be theirselves again?.. She dated him when he was not a super star is it now that they are both rich that you want to use self esteem to judge her?. What's wrong in a lady marrying the father of her child?, even if he impregnated other girls does that mean he won't make a good father and husband?.. This is a lesson to all the gold digging girls out there... Try loving a man that is not rich but have potentials and visions, when he finally hammers, he won't forget you in a hurry.. He will always come back to you. But if he does forget you, then all your curses and prayers and charms will work on him a hundred percent...

Evelyn06: Hello everyone. Happy palm Sunday.
Tina please FLEE o! Why is he so interested in sex first. You've kept yourself this far,please don't let go now. By the way, why is he still living in his parents' house at that age? I'm no expert and I don't know the full story, but I don't think this relationship is good for you.

Christ.... What is wrong with a man staying with his parents?... When I finally start work, and it's closer to my parent's house do you think I will rent a seperate house just because I want to be independent?... You should have enquired why he is still staying with his parents instead here you are passing judgement on him.. If the guy's parents is staying in a 1/2 bedroom apartment with his siblings then the guy should rent a house (preferably a self contain) but if it's just him and his parents... Mr. Man stay with them and to hell with any girl that will ask him to move out before anything can happen between them... As for the guy asking her to visit him in a guest house after knowing/going out with him for just a month.. The guy strong o.. Just one month he wants to burst something... Jesus Christ..

carmelion: A happy sunday to everyone!!

Today we have a learner/baby doll in the house.I got a mail yesterday from one of my girlfriends here. I met her when I started this thread,she wrote to encourage me ad thank me for opening such thread.She is a silent follower of this thread,does not talk much.She is working by the way.

We chat once in a while so she told me that she is in her early twenties but she is still a virgin. She has never had a boyfriend nor been in a relationship before.

She has guys as casual friends but has never accepted to date any of them.She told me that her elder sisters passed through a lot in their relationships so she is just scared .At her age now she feels abnormal.

I encouraged to give someone a chance. Everybody's story would not be the same you know. I told her to also let me know if she decides to go into a relationship just in case she needs some help .

Below is the mail she wrote me yesterday evening




The guy is 31 and he still stays with his parents though he is working.Of course you already know the type of advise I would give(to flee!! of course)but on a second thought,I felt my advise was just being influenced by my unfortunate experiences.

So I took permission from her to bring it to the house so that she can read what others would say.Her name is Tina by the way,please kindly advise her.what do you guys think?

Let it not be one of the girls I sent this link to o...

byvan: They haven't slept with a man,so yes.

Fine... So that's basically what alum does when applied down there by some girls/women.. It gives the man the feeling that she's a virgin cos the pucci will be hard and tight... But woe to any girl that applied that to a man that know how alum taste, he will know she applied it on her privates...

BetaThings: Actually you are wrong. It is not muslims that derail Christian threads. It is the other way round
He just pointed out that we Muslims don't interfere on your threads and we have no problem with you discussing whatever you want on the front page or wherever
He wants you to take the same stance when Muslims threads hit the front page
Personally, I believe he should have waited till you guys get angry (as usual) because Muslims are discussing on the front page.
Anyway apologies for derailing. But I thought I should clarify things

Go to the Palm Sunday thread and see your brother at work....

johnwizey: No b him do am o,make u no begin dey praise him o

so security wahala una go blame am but when it comes to something good you will try to distance the guy from it... Na wa to Naija people...

[quote author=Red-Light]OK

*switching to pidging* it mean say una no go dey call for big big rate dem again

u go dey pay shikini money wey dey as low as 6naira to call any network u want for naija

and other network wey never get much power or wey just they enter the business for naija and never reach the level wey the big ones deys go
dey do am for 4naira to encourage people to their network



u get am now?[/quote]Yes... Thank you

rezzy: To be frank, i did not understand it after reading. I no go school oooo

I no understand am too... Make una help me

Dawdy: The truth that is undiluted is that Jesus A propet amongs the prophets of God never died for any one's sin. everybody will be held responsible for wha they did on the day of judgement.

Where is that dude that said muslims don't derail/insult on Christian threads?..

ZUBY77: Lol, so because you and your fiance have hugged, it is no longer a sin. The ones that are sins are the ones you have not done.

When i say Humans are Gods, people dont understand. We decide what is sin and not

This is so on point... I will remember this...

She make BRAIN!!!!.... The girl is Super HOT.

Artistree: For more info, pls read the book QUESTIONS YOUNG PEOPLE ASK, ANSWERS THAT WORK...Publishedby Jehovah's witnesses.

Christianity is diverse o... Pastor Chris said wanking isn't a sin while some other Pastors will tell you that it's a sin.... Who do we believe?... That's why I do my thing my way and wait till I meet the Lord to know if I do it the right or wrong way..

byvan: Some women will probe out of curiousity to locate their hymen,but when the hymen is very thin,chances are you might lose it.

Are they still virgins?...

byvan: Just know that this exercise tearing is rare, some are torn by their Own exploring fingers.

@bolded, can we still say that those type are virgins?.

Dyt: He's a man of God and no weapon*all kinds* shall fashion against him

madam.. You've turned that part of the scripture inside out..

byvan: No alum can replace a hymen but some claim it constricts it.Just like when you use alum on snails.

all this talk about hymen, some girls hymen are broken but they haven't had s3x before... Some kind of exercise tear the hymen without any penetration..

DailyNews: Economically, maintaining a girlfriend in present Nigeria involves much money- sponsoring dates, outings, buying gifts, birthday parties, etc. If u know how much u have saved whilst abstaining,u will thank God.

kai....

berepiki: ...think bro...dont be myopic...be creative...fink out of d box...dont be limited 2 wat u know...am here 2 get informed...i bliv u need more info dan me

... Well the demerits are numerouse but let me just drop one here... Your eggs have now developed to little tadpoles... They've been in you for a long time so they are now growing at an alarming rate... Just joking

If the eyes ain't bulging out then no probs.... There's one in my class in school... It fits her I think if God had given her a big round eye, she'd have been ugly...

InvertedHammer: nbright:

Are you serious with the alum thing? I used to think it is a myth. So the alum gums the hymen back or constricts the hole or what?
Can you educate us more on this strange phenomenon?

My brother, it's no myth o... I heared it when I was in secondary school and never really believed it not untill I read about it on bbc that's when I truely believed.... If you've ever washed snail with alum before, you will understand how it works.... Girls now use alum to deceive men that are desperate for virgins and they also use it to hide their promiscuity (if their religion frown against slaming before marriage)..

alutacontinua: @nbright, i think you shld learn how to drop ur comments and pass! U don't av to keep looking for loopholes in every1's post. You can not agree with what everybody says here, no-one does. We all just drop our views and let odas drop theirs. I don't think this is supposed to be a debating thread. Stop quoting and unquoting pple. If everyone goes about doing dt here, it wld only lead to insults and fights and disagreements. Thanks!

I don't think I have insulted anyone here... @ the loop holes thingy, doesn't it peeves you when someone is trying to paint a particular group of people black while trying to project himself/herself as a shining light?... Instead of me to indulge in e or f-fighting on this thread, I will rather be a silent follower... Shalom sister..