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edelweiss: my dear maturity mostly don't come with age, age just enlightens u more because u as the individual want to learn.

edelweiss: And 2ndly u being 30 something doesn't take your beauty away, if u use your body well in your teens and early adulthood, it will serve u well when u are a full grown adult, am in my 30's and when I look at some 22-26 years old I weep!preserve your body and your body will be preserved.

edelweiss: And believe me some men look beyond youthfulness, they crave for a women who is exposed and experienced but it all boils down to the man's age too.

Agrika: I will dance naked....in my room of course.

bukatyne: 1. the lady has a choice to marry who she wants to. Must the wedding be big? Must they live at Lekki? Must they have a ride? Some Churches make a provision of office wedding for poor couples. Just the pastors, parents and couple. Some very rich people started very poorly.

bukatyne: 2. Love NEVER comes after marriage expect the grace of God: most women accept their fate and live in sorrow. One can't love two people at a time. Love can'y also be switched on and off. If she marries the 'ready' man and tomorrow he loses his job and doesn't quickly get another, what happens? I would say she never loved the boyfriend in the firdt place. I have a couple that had barely nothing when they married. Four yeras later, their story is amazing.

carmelion: Then I discovered that answering your question would lead to repetition(I am not a fan of that).
The answer to your question is lying somewhere in one of the post on Pages 0-25 of this thread.

You may want to read through/in between the lines.Thank me later

Soyedele1: I used to think u r a madrid fan unless u r living is madrid but to my amazement,i found out you are a gunner.abge,leave that trophyless club oo.im a chelsea fan anyway

nbright: Who go pay me as I don quit 2go?.

carmelion: I want to tell you that some of these ladies have to force themselves to love those guys they end up getting married to,just to evade pressure.

Forget (some of)those wedding pictures you see,its all for the cameras dear.if only you can see their mind.They wish it was their longtime boyfriends ,but they can't help it.

Luckily they will start loving their husbands after marriage,I mean they have no choice I just hope you uunderstand,and save yourself the stress.

Girls should cool down on there love for money

naturality: Imagine when you are on a date and a girl is asking you question like ''are you a student?´´ what job do you do?'' do you have a car?'' ''do you live alone?'' etc

Rooneyboy: The truth is most Naija ladies are naturally stingy, they have a very myopic way of reasoning when it comes to relationship.

Any guy that dates a Naija lady and expects a gift worth more than 3K must be an E-diot .

To them its always one sided and they must be the ones receiving.

carmelion: As single ladies,I want you to know that most single guys do not even remember that they re single untill weekends.You know why?

It's because they re busy chasing money(they need it to make things happen,you know),attending series of meetings both locally and internationally,inter state,and intra-state.E.t.C

In the mist of all these,it might interest you to know that some of them dont have time for toasting babes during the week.

carmelion: You know they have a flight/bus/appointments/presentations/seminars/trainings/lectures e.t.c to catch up with.

carmelion: But once,its friday,its all about weddings/parties/ceremonies/relaxation.So nobody is in a hurry,therefore everyone is in a relaxed mood.

madridsta007: Hahaha! Good husband materials are not scarce, in my opinion.

madridsta007: Be the right wife material, you will find those good gentlemen running after you.

madridsta007: And I do not think men are scarce in Nigeria....

"I'm pretty old - I'm almost 30 - but I'm still
single," explains Ding Na, a woman hailing
from China's northeast.
"I'm under lots of pressure. My sisters and
my relatives all ask me why I'm not married.
When they call me, I'm scared to pick up the
phone."
Twenty-somethings in China - young
women especially - face a strict societal
deadline to find a husband before they turn
30.
According to Zhou Xiaopeng, a consultant
with Baihe.com, one of China's biggest
dating agencies, the pressure for singles to
settle down crescendos around Chinese
New Year.
"Picture a scene where people sit around a
table," Ms Zhou says.
"Chinese people love to get together for
dinner. On New Year's Eve, everybody is
sitting in pairs, your brother with your
sister-in-law, your sister with your brother-
in-law, and so on. If you're the only one left
behind, you can imagine the pressure and
frustration."
Kiss for $8
Luckily for some, China's most popular
online marketplace, Taobao, offers a band-
aid solution: the rental of fake boyfriends.
For as little as $50 (£32) a day, dozens of
classified adverts promise to provide a male
companion for the holidays, pretending to
be a single woman's plus-one.
Some postings list a full menu of possibilities
- charging $5 an hour to accompany a girl to
dinner and $8 for a kiss on the cheek. If the
fake boyfriend stays overnight with his
client's family for Chinese New Year, he
charges $80 a night to sleep in his own bed,
and $95 to sleep on the couch.
Sex is not even an option on the list.

madridsta007: Take it easy, there are always exception to the rules sir.

liberty300: Thank God the police was there to stop that gruesome murder.

Smartie gurl: She is only joking.

Winneygirl: DailyNews, where are U??

Guys are here complaining that Girls don't ask Guys out.

I am asking DailyNews out now, and He is not responding ooo...

saxking: why can't single ladies in naija just ask guys out? not overtly but coyly...its not just because they do it in Yankee but cos...come on... what's wrong about it?

carmelion: By the way,its like you re fair like me?Eiyaaaa,sorry I got you there

Dipwater: Blood of mohammed. Idowu don land ghen gheeeeeen

Id baby where u been go .u travel?

carmelion: I ve so many turn offs but
since the thread says the biggests,mine
are as follows
1.Bad Dentition!(As in when you say Hi,I
wony even say hello)
2.Talkative(especially the type that
makes all his friends listen to me when
they hang out)
3.Poor dress sense(anyways I don't
need to hammer too much on this cos
you need to access the person you re
even coming to meet)
Lastly,Fair guys(I wish I can help here
but sadly,am the fairest of all so you
see..we can't blend.its not when am
looking for something to fight my
pimples with,you will be looking for
yours too,mtcheeeeew!.Dark guys melt
me.I mean the very dark ones.

ferhyntorlah: If I may ask: why are you still befriending someone whose thinking is at par with yours, why?.