Midastorch:


I'm a Yoruba man working with a top shot from Nnewi makes me realized that that an Nnewi man never jokes with his immediate family especially if his extended family is involved..yes , they can be egotistical, put their hands in anything as long as it pays their bills but they always put family first...nothing is wrong with an Nnewi man from Anambra

3ice9ce:


I'm sure after your father bought your mother, they put her in nylon bag to take home. Ezi.

Kobojunkie:
No be everybody get your kind stamina. Each person should know when to call it quits too.

There are women out there who have endured worse beatings in marriage and continue to endure it even to today believing it gets worse sometimes b4 I gets better. Osinachi was probably thinking exactly that too, believing she too was built like those women only she found out the hard way that she was nothing like them.

Make we leave individuals to decide for themselves how to handle their own marriage situation abeg! All married women, including OP'S sister don't need to settle for the same lot as you in marriage. Let each decide for self.

sheldonbbt:
As a married man, what do you do when you realize your wife is self centered? Marriage is just a year old.

She is quick to question when I need to send money to my family. I transfer 40% of my monthly salary to her for savings as I am not so good with money, but when it comes to her family, she is very swift.

I intend to stop giving her the savings.

shortIGBOman:


They are the original rutualist and drug pushers

NdubisiCharles:

Am afraid if is he for real or did he have any evil thing on mind, u know all this nnewi, Anambra men

Tjra:


This life ehn, no one knows tomorrow.

2 secs everything don burst.

nairalanda1:



First, tell us the whole story from start to finish, then we can help you.

nairalanduser23:
I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.

Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.

She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.

I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.

How can I deal with this?

poshestmina:
It all depends on the family background.
I feel most men are scared of the responsibilities that comes with being a first daughter if the family is all relying on the 1st daughters or son's...and in most cases of daughters,the responsibilities become their husband's.


My eldest sister has being happily married for close to 7 years now.
Not like we are very wealthy ,we just don't depend on each other,no entitlement whatsoever not even our parents!!!

Every body is hustling and only ask for helps when it's an emergency.

The only sibling we are still training in school is our last born and it's a joint task...and our parents, anything and anytime you have to send.

No pressure on anyone and any in_laws.

It all boils down to family backgrounds .

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo The way I ride my above 30 years old side chicks eeh. You will hate me if you are a lady. Sometime I Pity their future husbands if they eventually find one unlucky chief. I leave this ladies with a mark & title to remember called 'Empress Reservior Kpekus' (E.R.K1).

ADURA123:


Yes, I am willing she is a wonderful woman , the only problem is what I mentioned.

IconicR:
Just let it go and try to put it behind you especially if it's not a habit with him. If he's truly sorry and remorseful and not those type that feels it's their right to cheat and very proud about it (the men are polygamous in nature group) then erase the hurt from your heart even though I know it's not easy, just try.

IconicR:
lies, a woman will forgive and forget totally because somehow African women are weird to believe that all men cheat.

ednut1:
At this point just guide your children to study courses that would make them japa easily in future like nursing, medicine, tech etc.

Gu66:
Na lie, it is poverty that cause it , they are dating and showing fake love because of the money they will extort from the man..


How can a 23 years old girl be in love with 50 years old man?? How?
It is a sin dating a married man, the wife will never be happy with it ,, WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER

one4GOD:
people should understand that there is no offence bigger in marriage or even relationship than cheating. Once this has been done just know the marriage/relationship is either completely gone or on the precipice. A woman can stand and defend a man who is 100% guilty of murder but cheating is a no no for any woman even if she pretends she has forgiven, what is still keeping her is that she has not found an alternative or she is planning a comfortable way out. Men should know this and know peace and choose which side they want to stand.

magictouch:
@pavore, doesnt need it to process any document. talking is only when he wants to quarrel and never gives me audience. we live seperate lives even though we are under the same roof, and tired of living like thtat

Allisgud:
Not being resourceful is a different thing,being lazy and don't know when to tidy up a dirty house is worst,ur house will be full of rats and cockroach, children are always close to the mother so they will take her as role model,I know a couple like that

Tayorshd87:


Happening to me presently ..
If not for society i feel like sending the bull away 😡

Sisora:
I have one rule as a man.

If someone else influences my woman's decision more than I do, she's not and will never be the one.

Just this one rule.

Successonpoint:
I hope my story will motivate someone to take charge of their life.
I lost my job last year July, and so a friend of mine introduce me to a poultry farm where I am earning 22k per month.

A man with wife and two kids o, my wife was not happy with the job even though she has been supportive in her own little way. And then, she suggested that I should learn handwork, and so I decided to learn welder.

On getting to the man, he told me I will spend 2 years o, I will pay 70k to learn from him. Me way I no get even 20k, I begged him to collect 50k and he agreed.

Then he asked me to make part payment of 30k. I went home and told my wife, and then she gave me 20k to give to the man. I gave the man 20k and he collected it, to my greatest surprise within 2 months I started doing the welding job perfectly.

On my own, I have paid up the remaining 30k with small small repairs job he allowed me to be doing for people. And by God's grace, I have started saving up for my tools.

I really thank my wife for the advice and the welder too. The man has been a tremendous blessing to me in many way. He even told me yesterday that with the look of things I may be free from him in 2 months time except I decided to still remain with him for a while.

Please take charge of your life and stop depending on people for survival.

Nice2023:



I am in my 8th year of marriage.

U guys married ur enemies and that is why u can't progress beyond the level u are presently. If ur marriage is not working,don't think others own are dead like urs.

Even if I have three girl friends now,the love I have for my wife is topnotch and unequalled.

Sorry for ur bad marriage...next time work on ur bad character before u propose to a woman.

Anonymoususher:
I hate it when men cannot stand up for their wives.

I always thank God for my family because nobody has that time. My mom is too busy with her business, my brothers and sister don't even have anybody's time. All the wives are free and relaxed. We barely visit ourselves but very cooperative when there is a need in the home.

I am not married but my fiancee is loved and protected by my siblings.

I don't take her too close to my friends, just the ones that are like blood

haabidah666:
the guy will surprise many people.

Puss360:
Yes na... She's right... But she can collect gbola in the same self-contained...
Dunno why, I just believe that guys dat stays in self-contained, can knack well thaon those in mansion 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Felabrity:
Nobody cares
Election is over

gaby:


Cry no more.

She wants to go to school, she'd definitely go to school.

I'll sponsor her to whatever level she wishes to go to as part of my impacting lives project.
DM me..

Gbagura:
Who can help me with payment on Florence academy oo? I don finish course na to pay for certification be wàhálà.

luchel:
Pierson will cost you about 80k In naira. You can go to their office and get a voucher to make payment if you don’t have a dollar card as you can not pay with naira card.
The exam conditions is similar to IELST, the major difference is that speaking test is life on the computer while IELST speaking test you speak to a person face to face.