ChoCho54:
What the eyes does not see, the heart does not grief about.

is good to check phone sometimes.

Cheerycherry:


This is not the first time! I'm very open! I'm not an SU, I'm not a wrapper tying wife, I've talked to him, done all sorts even when I'm dead tired I give in to sex in different forms! Is there anything else?

Tame him through ur knees..
It works.

funkmrflexx:


I don't understand why people think that a man can't do something for a woman with asking for sex. Na wa o

my question is can she continue paying d rent after d first?
Having issues with one baby mama is my bq now.
Since after d first payment from baby daddy na wahala to pay.

GetUmad:


Eh yah! So sorry bro. Could be so annoying. I returned mine immediately and added money to get a bigger one, this time a down-to-earth brand.

Don't worry, you'd surely get a buyer.

which brand is that?

GratefulHeart23:
Cheating happens a lot these days. Her husband even respected her by not bringing the gf home. Mine decided to bring home his coz I now work and stay on the island. Was I bothered? NO!

I noticed each weekend I go home, the bowl of stew and soup I prepare the previous week would have finished and my husband is not the cooking type. He kept giving excuses of how his friends do pay visit during the week and finish it off. I became confused when he told me to prepare peppered snail few weekends back and I know he doesn't eat snail. I knew he would lie if I asked him why so I decided to check his phone, there it was, the lady giving him orders of the food I should prepare when I come around during the weekend. She even told him he must buy her the type of my blue heels she saw on the rack.

So I got this ZP lethal powder for rodents, coat and fry the snail with it to make it crunchy. Sincerely, I really didn't care if he eat the snail along with her at that point. So two weekends ago, I saw her messages on his phone of how he's such an asshole, abandoned her in the hospital, didn't finish paying her bills and have the guts to dump her stuffs by her side on the hospital bed with his response of how they both ate the same food for two days and only her got sick meaning she knew she was getting sick before coming over, he's exhausted all his money on her, have his rent to renew plus she knows he's married and can't be with her or tend to her needs all the time.

When I checked bowl I used to ice the snail, it was only three pieces left which I quickly discarded coz of my son. Some idiots really don't deserve mercy.

My dear nob only u..
Foolish mumu husband everywhere

advanceDNA:


He doesn’t have mental problems...he just lacks sexual discipline...a lot of men are like that....95% actually... the remaining 5% were like that too but later changed....
While he may love you for real, it’s a red flag you should not ignore, because marriage will not automatically change him...

it takes a while for men to realize all they want and need is in the woman they already have..
.sometimes, they never realize it...many end up with babies outside marriage and even bring disease home in worst cases...

sadly the next guy you are going to is probably same....I wish you luck..

us 100%correct..

legge4:
I have tried peeing before we make love but it didn't stop anything. I couldn't continue to endure it so I told her I am filing for divorce, she can keep one of the houses and other stuff so her settling to normal life won't be a problem. She refuses my offer. She said if my lawyer issues her the divorce paper she will accept it but she won't take a dime from me. Why will she make it look like I am the evil person? I love her but I can't take this anymore. How do I settle with her and we don't have bad blood? I know a lot of you will condemn me but I will like you to put me in your shoe. We are not talking about a girlfriend but a wife that we are supposed to grow old together. I want this to end in peace. It is not a easy decision for me either.

The other woman you want to replace her with do u know what her own issue will be?
Ua really mean o..

If u truly love her this shouldn't lead to divorce..

tibatobi:


The people that use it 95% in this our society today is olosho...u cant find any responsible being in our society today with a leg chain, responsible married women don't use it... Olosho, single mothers ..etc damaged women all together use it ...I don't need any research..na olosho dey use am...even u be olosho..I detest olosho because they are daughters of jezebel... Devil's hand tools to destroy men and homes

God bless you Jare..
I agree with you
My husband side chick then wears it.
She nearly destroyed my marriage..
I handed her over to God.

tibatobi:
Na olosho symbol..ur friend is olosho..a damage woman..that is not fit to get married to any responsible man....a wayward person cannot work in a sain environment

exactly..

ityP:



I told someone this o. I'd profile any girl with leg chain as a loose babe tbh. I know it sounds somehow, but that's just me

ua correct..
Is not just u.

symbianDON:
Quite profitable....until they turn on you one day and bite the living daylights out of you...then they become unprofitable

u can't kill me laf for here..

Gentlerespect76:
I pity you; someone's daughter. If you are old enough to marry please do so, rather than this.

May your days be looooong
Iseeeeee....

discojug:


We have done this, 3 different ones sef

please let her try eating cucumber morning and night and comot ur mind on anything and c how a common cucumber will u get the miracle u desire..

Rtk5:
A job that i sometimes spend 4months at a stretch without salary?

ok
No wonder..
Da Lord is ur strenght



Chai,
It is well with you..

HenryDion:
Hmmm... It's obvious you don't like the job nor your director, and have been nursing the thought to leave.

Despite all my achievements, I'm ready to greet someone 10 times if I see them 10 times that day.

In this case, you barged into a room full of people, then barged out without greeting?

That's weird.

Your responses to your director exudes arrogance. I probably would have fired you at the spot if I were in his shoe.

Once hunger wire you in this Buhari era, your brain will reset.

exactly my thought.

Apologise for what exactly?

u should have said " oh good morning sir.
I HV greeted u b4..
Simple.

dapatro:
But you sha like wahala small ooo

Why didn't you apologize at the beginning and move on

l de tell you..
Simple issue over Sabi go take over.
No be small wahala..

loosingfaith519:
I wish he could be opened like you. I would have gladly help him.
We always talked about this, he has promised severally to stop. When I mentioned it now, he would tell me not to take him back to his past, but he is still doing it. Even yesterday, he still Gambles.

please dear
I understand how you feel but try and stay strong till u give birth.

If u truly love him try and see what u can do to help him get out of that shit
again prayer works tell God what you want.

Felimax:


God bless you too madam.
God's divine peace fall on your home in Jesus name.

Amen..
Thanks..

Felimax:
Don't divorce him. Work on him please. Any small thing divorce, now you are pregnant, you have a baby and you are here shouting divorce so that when you raise your children alone the society will add their own to help you make them to be useless.

Never underestimate the presence of a father in the house, Never!
Keep your mouth shut and talk to your God.

For every spouse we are married to there is a cross to carry and the only one who can make it lighter for you is God.

like u already..
God bless you.

Pasima:
For 8 months we are dating na only once I bleep her and since she keep given me pussy to suck. I always give her money yet I don't see the love

hey u want kill me here wt laf..
Nothing wee l never read here.

U guys should just let this matter rest..
Haba!

Saintmary:



She's not a wrong woman as a person, just wrong for that particular man.



That is why I don't support women who stay married to a man who doesn't want them, or force his ring on their finger.




Na she go suffer am las las.

ok dear l got u naw.

GenBuhari:
I have never cheated in the marriage.

ok dear,
Good luck to you..

GenBuhari:
We have issues in our marriage like most people and I would not be foolish enough to say that I am blameless, but I did not warrant that type of silent treatment in my opinion. It could be for any reason because people who do silent treatment often do not discuss issues and expect you to automatically understand their reasons.
So many things were going on , she lost her mother 2017 and we lost our second male baby at 5months pregnancy which she may have found a way to blame me for and some other issues and ongoing relationship issues or It could be just pure manipulation on her part.

I don't need external validation for seeking a new wife. Her actions has given me all the validation and justification I need.

l must be an angel then bc when I'm hurt l always show and voice out.
Ur mind is made up for another wife
Do u know whether the second wife will be a better option?

But u can still salvage the marriage
If u want, especially bc of d children

From ur story l HV a feeling u cheated or HV a side chick that is making that woman not to HV anything physical with you..
And finding it hard to forgive u.
And u not apologizing and make d marriage work bc u can easily take another wife.

Kobojunkie:
Another wogowogo aspect of your story be say you no even bother tell us true why your wife started giving you the silent treatment, even moving to room with her brother, long before your 2018 trip to Nigeria but here you skipping the koko all so you can play victim for us, as if seeking validation for your intentions.

You didn't really need to tell us about your looking for wife wey you go sit put down there in Nigeria, you know?

l smell and suspect cheating..

GenBuhari:
Madam, if doesn't add up don't stress yourself too much, the main thing is that I have my good valid reasons for remaining in the house which I have already stated but you have failed to grasp. We don't even share a bedroom anymore and I cook my own meals. If it was not for the plandemic I would be in Nigeria right now.

tell us that u didn't hurt that woman..
Did u cheat on her?
Some women will never forgive you if u cheat on them especially the ones that truly love and respect you.

Kobojunkie:
And the statements in bold, along with the claims you have made so far of her and your intentions, don't add up.

you are seeing what m seeing too.

Saintmary:



Na real wah.


So, after spending the most youthful of his years with the wrong woman, he now wants to squeeze love and affection out of one stupid uneducated african woman abi.


So, African women don't deserve respect and dignity.

Na to chop crumbs of respectability.



He's legally married. That means any other marriage is null and void. See the obvious condescension.


Well, I'm sure some desperate old woman will pm you.

u HV already concluded she is a wrong woman when u hvnt heard her own side..

GenBuhari:
What is not clear? I am still hear for clarification.

The woman is hurt.
That is what l see.

GenBuhari:
I am right now in UK and she recently travelled to Nigeria without telling me although we live under same roof in UK. Some one who has done what she did can never gain my trust again. She can never apologise and for that reason I can never settle our issue and trust her.

what exactly did you do that woman not to forgive you?

Tonyx5:
All we think about is yansh all the time Odiegwu

na enu egwu..
Ike gwuru..