₦airaland Forum

yinkeys:
Thanks for creating this thread
Not many people are exceptionally street smart (socially intelligent) to know these things

l de tell you..

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Village people!

this meme made me laff so hard
Thank you..

BestMan001:
Sorry to say, your mum has been charmed.

How can she send you packing in your father's house?

Could it be she was the person who killed your dad?

This alleged new husband abi step dad, lacks shame to allow an arrogant woman to house him.

Solution?

Don't leave the house

Leaving the house will show that you're weak, and she with this man might sell the house and then buy another.

Avoid her, her money, food. This will save your life.

Always discuss new develelopment on this matter with your uncle (if only he can bring solution).

Pray, pray, pray.

best advice so far..

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

supported!!!
Let the man take her to his house or wherever..
Like u already.

That man will destroy her
And she will not see it coming

ibkayee:
Not being able to sleep diagonally on the bed anymore

l de tell u.
Most times I prefer the floor.

Raalsalghul:
Bills! Bills! Bills!

Less sex!

you guys will not kill me with laff for here.

Karleb:
People who have been pressuring to marry will not give you shishi.

l no fit laff

Fountainofyouth:
Or divorce him, very simple and stress free, not every woman can endure trash in marriage like you while accumulating STDs in the process

Prayer without works is dead, the Bible says so, your husband will not pray for you if he catches you cheating, you will be chased out of the house, you enable these cheating men when you keep shut and resign it to fate, until women start standing up to themselves, all these nonsense will never change.

l didn't know bc he comes home weekend although l suspected but was reluctant and naive to dig
He knows the warrior he married.
When l caught him it was war.

Mydear, begging just too much
Kneeling, swearing three much.

No mata how l resent him sometimes, l still love him.but there are something l don't take anymore




He has genuinely changed and more open.
Na for me to put the past behind without reminding him when angry remain.

Mammie330:
How do you tame?
What did you find out?
Did it end?

l saw some of his rubbish and honestly l still feel bad after 2 years of catching him .
When l say rubbish,l mean nonsense and shit.

Is heartbreaking,m trying to put d past behind but it hurts.
12 years of constant cheating and pretence.


He has changed but l can't take him the way l use to.l wish him good but he is not that special person anymore..
Never

I will never wish any woman go Tru what l went Tru.

The only people l care about in my life now are my parents,my siblings and my 2 boys.

On taming,tell God what you want of him

Mammie330:
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.

Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.

At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.

The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.

Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies.
I complained about all that and he promised to change.
This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity.
Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok.
The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already.
As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that.
The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored.
Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed.
Where’s the self respect?
Someone you don’t know from anywhere.
He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore.
When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.

He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.

I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online.
He said nothing.

He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me.
I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.

He has travelled back now and I’ll be alone for a while before we start living together as husband and wife.
Should I stop talking to him?
Should I report him to my mum?
Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism?
What coping mechanism can i develop?
Should I keep complaining?
I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled back and he was pained.
I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore.
I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this?
Can he possibly change?

Naso my loving husband started, chatting different girls,some calling him and asking where he was,each time l confronted him he sd l don't even know them.
I believed him bc l thought he loved me enough not to cheat on me.
I don't want to tell story here


I advice you to hold him n prayer and tame him,it works

If u relax and believe him that he has nothing with those girls by the time u will find out how far he has gone u will be devastated.

I repeat guard him jealously through prayer.

teamc:
I'm the sponsor on the application and we applied has a family at 1st (wife studying /myself and our daughter are the dependent)
our immigration consultant call and advise that my wife should apply alone to increase the chances .
I love and I trust her just having a private thought of WHAT IF

kuro mbee joor..
Hold her up in prayer and communication.
Very important..

Dearlord:
What I learnt from the multitudes here is to be a good sugar daddy to good bitches

funny you..

FuckTheMod:
The truth is bitter and your conscience will always judge you.
In whatever you do in this life,
DON'T BE STUPÍD!
DON'T BE A WHÓRE! If you're one already, embrace or wait for your retributions and stop being wayward.
A girl who decides to be a whóre, slǔt and sleep around is not hurting any man but HERSELF, her parents. Especialkly her FATHER and future children.

ua absolutely right..

obinna58:
Olosho

shameless one..

obembet:
I disagree with you dear. Everybody have past.

l don't have past.
I kept myself till marriage

No matter what happens now l am not changing that.

Highways:
Okay... During that 9weeks who were you phucking... The story never finish....

good question..
E never really finish

Some women get mind o

manchyme:
Well, I didn't know.
I never caught her stealing from me and she hardly lie to me too.
But just this morning, after 4yrs of dating and 2yrs married, I confirm she can actually lie and still insist she's saying the truth.
You remember Shaggi... It wasn't me.

So, is it possible for a 28yrs old lady not to know that some men jeans has a small pocket just above the pocket?
Please is it possible?
This is how it started.
She needed some change to buy pap and milk for our baby this morning, so I asked her to go collect from my pocket.
She came back and said no money in my pocket. I was surprised, I went there brought out the money, and noticed it wasn't the way I kept it, and gave it to her.
When she came back, I jokingly asked her if she knows where I brought out that money from, she said no. I asked her if she knows that some of my jeans has that small pocket, she said no. Someone that has been washing my clothes since we met. Someone that is much more observant than I am.
My people, is it possible?
Omo, this lady vehemently denied that she ever knew such pocket exist.
I didn't say she stole from me, I just asked if she knew such pocket is there.
And I have ever kept 5k in the small pocket and noticed someone came there, probably just counted it and put it back and na only two of us be adults for house.
She continually denied ever knowing such pocket. I didn't say she stole but for such cheap lie, for my language anyone that can lie like that will also steal. So I said let me ask, is it possible?

commot here jooo.
I nukwaa..

Singlelover:
u don't understand. She gave birth not long ago.

And so?..
I senior my immediate younger sister with just 1 year that means my mum was pregnant again when l was 3 months.


Did heaven fall?.
Noooo.

And still HV siblings who are 3,6 and 7 gap.

Jeezuoikebiko..

ccjoe:
I'm scared bro..i'm young

u shouldn't be having sex naw.
Did you ever thought of " what if" ?..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY..
May God bless you and show mercy

princecemo:
Just d reason why many of us dnt wanna advertise any agent. Lemme jeje remove d post no vex o.

please

Kindly assist me by linking me to the agent u mentioned.

Clinton75@yahoo.com

Thank you.

dennis3888:
I understand what you mean but I guess that should not be my problem for now when I get to that bridge I will cross it

do not quit ur job for bakery..


I repeat do not quit ur job for bakery biz.


Don't ask me y.

Revolution2022:
99% of Nigerians don't like their jobs.

.9

blackparadise:
I am here in agege, no light ..please is there light in other part of the states....

no
Since morning..


They bombarded us with light yesterday.

cowboyvs:
The painful part is that this girl has a wonderful side that no guy can easily ignore. She is not demanding, she is loving and caring. She is beautiful and clean. Infact, I will certify her 100% in other aspects except the area I jst pointed out. It feels so crazy losing that kind of girl because of such a stup*d indiscretion by her.

can u tame her?
I honestly think that whoring is natural,if it in someone it is in them.

Juanmike:
I still remember when my dog Jack ran over by a hit-and-run driver, I didn't eat for weeks and almost starve myself to death.
Till my babe came back from school and gave me BJ that returned my brain to factory reset.
Don't know who to miss now, my dog jack or Nkoli my formal babe.

Anuofia mmuo..

forMom:
Finally seen my kind.
Now I'm wondering why I haven't met any woman that didn't change her surname after marriage lol.

l de ur back o.

That is d last thing l will do.
Except for my kids' sake

My husband use to make jest say when l go change am e go tell for my body..
I go tell am say l de wait.

henmaris:
Married for 9years now and still bearing my father's name. I did not change my name and never would.

OMG
Think say na only me..
Never will l change it.

Though people call me Mrs.....
But on paper Noooo.

kelcy1:
Being cheated on by someone that you love so much is very painful , it's more than labour pain. You will doubt everything you know about. especially when you have kept your self your virginity still mariage. you will Automatically run mad. low self esteemed and the rest. But trust me , you will be fine again and for the guy he will dead to you.

my case..

chigoizie7:
Nnem I won’t blame you ooh. Do what you must do. If the mother can abandon the child, how much more you?

O di egwu n' enu egwu..

UjuJoan2:
How old is this girl? I find it difficult to believe that taking care of her is as tiresome as you’ve been describing.

I understand that you have been taken unawares and your husband tricked you into taking care of this young girl. But such is life, you married him and must have been prepared to take all of him, the good and the bad.

You can leave if you want to, nobody will blame you for that.

But there is a little girl involved!!!

I know she is not your problem, her own mother abandoned her, her own father cannot be there for her and somehow she is now in your care. But life is full of unexpected situations.

This is a test of character and posterity will judge you for whatever decision you make now.

If it were me, I will stay. Not for the lying husband or his irresponsible ex, but for the little girl who clearly needs you.

believe me that girl clearly needs her mum..
I mean her biological mother.

Nozino:
Why don’t you go to OPs house and lay the healing hands? Or you don’t trust your faith that much?

funny you..