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Successonpoint:
I hope my story will motivate someone to take charge of their life.
I lost my job last year July, and so a friend of mine introduce me to a poultry farm where I am earning 22k per month.

A man with wife and two kids o, my wife was not happy with the job even though she has been supportive in her own little way. And then, she suggested that I should learn handwork, and so I decided to learn welder.

On getting to the man, he told me I will spend 2 years o, I will pay 70k to learn from him. Me way I no get even 20k, I begged him to collect 50k and he agreed.

Then he asked me to make part payment of 30k. I went home and told my wife, and then she gave me 20k to give to the man. I gave the man 20k and he collected it, to my greatest surprise within 2 months I started doing the welding job perfectly.

On my own, I have paid up the remaining 30k with small small repairs job he allowed me to be doing for people. And by God's grace, I have started saving up for my tools.

I really thank my wife for the advice and the welder too. The man has been a tremendous blessing to me in many way. He even told me yesterday that with the look of things I may be free from him in 2 months time except I decided to still remain with him for a while.

Please take charge of your life and stop depending on people for survival.

Nice2023:
I am in my 8th year of marriage.

U guys married ur enemies and that is why u can't progress beyond the level u are presently. If ur marriage is not working,don't think others own are dead like urs.

Even if I have three girl friends now,the love I have for my wife is topnotch and unequalled.

Sorry for ur bad marriage...next time work on ur bad character before u propose to a woman.

Anonymoususher:
I hate it when men cannot stand up for their wives.

I always thank God for my family because nobody has that time. My mom is too busy with her business, my brothers and sister don't even have anybody's time. All the wives are free and relaxed. We barely visit ourselves but very cooperative when there is a need in the home.

I am not married but my fiancee is loved and protected by my siblings.

I don't take her too close to my friends, just the ones that are like blood

haabidah666:
the guy will surprise many people.

Puss360:
Yes na... She's right... But she can collect gbola in the same self-contained...
Dunno why, I just believe that guys dat stays in self-contained, can knack well thaon those in mansion 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Felabrity:
Nobody cares
Election is over

gaby:
Cry no more.

She wants to go to school, she'd definitely go to school.

I'll sponsor her to whatever level she wishes to go to as part of my impacting lives project.
DM me..

Gbagura:
Who can help me with payment on Florence academy oo? I don finish course na to pay for certification be wàhálà.

luchel:
Pierson will cost you about 80k In naira. You can go to their office and get a voucher to make payment if you don’t have a dollar card as you can not pay with naira card.
The exam conditions is similar to IELST, the major difference is that speaking test is life on the computer while IELST speaking test you speak to a person face to face.

thesicilian:
You should be happy it's your mom and not her own.

But on a more serious note, from your own explanation it seems you're overreacting

zachanalysis:
Common, this is very innovative. That's why i will vote for BAT. The level of creativity and the adjustability of Lagos state is second to non. Say what you like, the man and the team he has assembled are go-getters. Put in a corner and he'll still manage to weather the storm. He did it when OBJ shut the national revenue door against the state and i have no doubt he'll navigate the ship of Nigeria out of this storm to the path of calm and steady waters. If you don''t see this, then you are just a hater.

Bahamas95:
It's very difficult to delete one because I love all.


Though I love music alot but I would delete it, I can't do without sex.....I will use the moaning of my partner and clapping of the bumbum during dogggy to replace music.

Menclothing:
You dated him when you know he is married u should be stone's with him

Roboclopp:
Something happened to me that till this day, the memory holds me. Basically, I was wrongly accused and humiliated in public even though I was trying to speak for myself.

Ever since then, I’ve been quite distant from everyone around me. People think I am snubbish, etc but the truth I realise is that the trauma just keeps coming everytime. I can’t shake it off.

Also it is so bad I just don’t know who to trust to open up about it. But i still feel it.

I wish i could really explain this to someone, but trauma is real.

Honestly, I can’t find a reason to still be alive because the incident around the situation broke me completely. I ve managed to crawl myself slightly away from it, but honestly, every now and then i still feel this heavy weight on my chest that I have to pull out . I can’t explain it, but I wish this never happened

Any advice

keeper303:
I just received my Sukuk rental this morning from GTB.

Esemchi:
I've never removed tooth but I heard it's very painful

RoyalBlu:
I'm still stunned!

Saw this a few ago minutes on FB.

This marriage thing...

Can't help but wonder what could have gone wrong in their camp.

It's well o.

obinna58:
It's 100%fake

shariff84:
you have to buy it this week,if not the price will go up.
In Niger state we have done 70% of the harvest.

yinkeys:
Thanks for creating this thread
Not many people are exceptionally street smart (socially intelligent) to know these things

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Village people!

BestMan001:
Sorry to say, your mum has been charmed.

How can she send you packing in your father's house?

Could it be she was the person who killed your dad?

This alleged new husband abi step dad, lacks shame to allow an arrogant woman to house him.

Solution?

Don't leave the house

Leaving the house will show that you're weak, and she with this man might sell the house and then buy another.

Avoid her, her money, food. This will save your life.

Always discuss new develelopment on this matter with your uncle (if only he can bring solution).

Pray, pray, pray.

Greattestman:
Guy I can't be foolish. Leave so that she and her stupid husband will birth rodents to take my father's house? Lissen, if my mother doesn't back down on this then it will be a war between us.

ibkayee:
Not being able to sleep diagonally on the bed anymore

Raalsalghul:
Bills! Bills! Bills!

Less sex!

Karleb:
People who have been pressuring to marry will not give you shishi.

Fountainofyouth:
Or divorce him, very simple and stress free, not every woman can endure trash in marriage like you while accumulating STDs in the process

Prayer without works is dead, the Bible says so, your husband will not pray for you if he catches you cheating, you will be chased out of the house, you enable these cheating men when you keep shut and resign it to fate, until women start standing up to themselves, all these nonsense will never change.

Mammie330:
How do you tame?
What did you find out?
Did it end?

Mammie330:
I got married few months ago after dating my husband for some years.

Our relationship was really beautiful and I was the envy of most ladies.

At some point we had a long distance relationship but Communication was smooth.

The first time he came to visit , I discovered he had been chatting with one girl, having flirty conversations and all. He said he was just catching cruise and apologized for that. I forgave him.

Another time I discovered he doesn't know how to set boundaries with ladies.
I complained about all that and he promised to change.
This is someone that comes to visit me at any given opportunity.
Then recently I found out he had been chatting with one girl on Tiktok.
The girl already started calling him baby and I saw where he told the girl he likes her already.
As usual he said it’s not serious, that he hasn’t seen the girl and he didn’t mean that.
The girl chatted him up and he flowed because he was bored.
Truth Is I’m hurt and ashamed.
Where’s the self respect?
Someone you don’t know from anywhere.
He eventually blocked the girl but I don’t even trust him anymore.
When we were together, he wasn’t anything like that and I’m wondering what went wrong.

He keeps talking about how much he loves me and how he wouldn’t have been married to anyone else if he didn’t get married to me but at this point I’m not even moved again.

I’ve asked him countless times why he is flirting with ladies online.
He said nothing.

He said he hasn’t touched any lady apart from me.
I’m actually tired of asking, I want to know what I can do to get the pain away.

He has travelled back now and I’ll be alone for a while before we start living together as husband and wife.
Should I stop talking to him?
Should I report him to my mum?
Should I play along and just develop a coping mechanism?
What coping mechanism can i develop?
Should I keep complaining?
I didn’t allow him touch me before he travelled back and he was pained.
I really just want my man, I don’t like how he’s not making me trust him anymore.
I don’t go after other peoples’ men why should mine be like this?
Can he possibly change?

teamc:
I'm the sponsor on the application and we applied has a family at 1st (wife studying /myself and our daughter are the dependent)
our immigration consultant call and advise that my wife should apply alone to increase the chances .
I love and I trust her just having a private thought of WHAT IF

Dearlord:
What I learnt from the multitudes here is to be a good sugar daddy to good bitches