Revolution2022:
99% of Nigerians don't like their jobs.

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blackparadise:
I am here in agege, no light ..please is there light in other part of the states....

no
Since morning..


They bombarded us with light yesterday.

cowboyvs:


The painful part is that this girl has a wonderful side that no guy can easily ignore. She is not demanding, she is loving and caring. She is beautiful and clean. Infact, I will certify her 100% in other aspects except the area I jst pointed out. It feels so crazy losing that kind of girl because of such a stup*d indiscretion by her.

can u tame her?
I honestly think that whoring is natural,if it in someone it is in them.

Juanmike:
I still remember when my dog Jack ran over by a hit-and-run driver, I didn't eat for weeks and almost starve myself to death.
Till my babe came back from school and gave me BJ that returned my brain to factory reset.
Don't know who to miss now, my dog jack or Nkoli my formal babe.

Anuofia mmuo..

forMom:

Finally seen my kind.
Now I'm wondering why I haven't met any woman that didn't change her surname after marriage lol.

l de ur back o.

That is d last thing l will do.
Except for my kids' sake

My husband use to make jest say when l go change am e go tell for my body..
I go tell am say l de wait.

henmaris:
Married for 9years now and still bearing my father's name. I did not change my name and never would.

OMG
Think say na only me..
Never will l change it.

Though people call me Mrs.....
But on paper Noooo.

kelcy1:
Being cheated on by someone that you love so much is very painful , it's more than labour pain. You will doubt everything you know about. especially when you have kept your self your virginity still mariage. you will Automatically run mad. low self esteemed and the rest. But trust me , you will be fine again and for the guy he will dead to you.

my case..

chigoizie7:


Nnem I won’t blame you ooh. Do what you must do. If the mother can abandon the child, how much more you?

O di egwu n' enu egwu..

UjuJoan2:


How old is this girl? I find it difficult to believe that taking care of her is as tiresome as you’ve been describing.

I understand that you have been taken unawares and your husband tricked you into taking care of this young girl. But such is life, you married him and must have been prepared to take all of him, the good and the bad.

You can leave if you want to, nobody will blame you for that.

But there is a little girl involved!!!

I know she is not your problem, her own mother abandoned her, her own father cannot be there for her and somehow she is now in your care. But life is full of unexpected situations.

This is a test of character and posterity will judge you for whatever decision you make now.

If it were me, I will stay. Not for the lying husband or his irresponsible ex, but for the little girl who clearly needs you.

believe me that girl clearly needs her mum..
I mean her biological mother.

Nozino:



Why don’t you go to OPs house and lay the healing hands? Or you don’t trust your faith that much?

funny you..

Le2money:
God bless u

and you too dear..

Le2money:
You are right but blv me when we have headache, does cutting off the head from the neck the solution? The man can simply ask his own mom to come and look after the child and it would be an agreement btw the wife and husband....I think u understand my point too

l get u but u know we are different.
Is not easy to bear and understand when u were lied to.

BloomingDale:


Lol. Guilt trip me from now till tomorrow. I swear even if you offer me a million dollars, I’m not taking care of any man’s offspring not from me, especially when he hid it.

seconded..

H0711:


If he had told me from the beginning I would have advised him to go back to her so they can raise their chikd together because he left her because of the child condition which is not fair. Yes my parents are happy to have me back. I am from a family where they are happy to have me back alive than in a coffin.

Nne God be with you..

Sheistoopretty:



Keep your filthy thumbs away from this thread little boy, you have little intelligence. Her child is her child no matter what and everyone isn't senseless enough to abandon their children like how the ex-wife did. If the girl's mother would be able to ditch her own child then why wouldn't an outsider?

Oh, you expect her to suffer like dis in taking care of someone else's child and then what happens when she gives birth to her own child?

Nne God bless you
I nukwaa..

kollinz1234:
you are pregnant and you don't know what you will give birth to, yet you want to leave your husband not because he didnt tell you that he had a child out of wedlock but because you can't cope with the child. Karma is a very wicked bitch.
You leave that man's house, don't be surprised at what you will give birth to.

Shallom

Nkita rachaa gi Anya..

Na u karma go deal with

Nonsense

Midas01:
Well since you love the man so much why don't you go marry him and take care of the kid.

Mumu, someone deceived an innocent woman into bondage and it's this rubbish you can say.

God bless you jare..
They will just be talking anyhow.

Le2money:
U lack knowledge and sense bro. Because the child has one illness now and she wants to go, does it means the child in her womb is purely free? Do to others what u want others to do for you in ur presence and absence. The only thing they are do here is to have the guy's mother to come live with them for her to be assisting. Face your problems and never run away from it ...that's always my blv

That she wasn't aware of the baby before marriage is even d worse.

ifeanyiatuadu:


She would break her back taking care of the child.
Which strength would she use to enter the said 'door' opening for her

a ma m oo..
They think it's easy.

Nyascobar1414:
Na mumu dey marry naa.

u go still MUMU..

But
You no go tell us when u go MUMU..

Das1mama:
Just once like 5years ago and that once is still affecting me till date.... maybe is because am jobless. Even now as am typing now my heart is heavy and tears is still dripping from my eyes.

kpele dear,l understand how u feel.
May God give you a better person.

Fahdiga:
Then we can say the meat is contaminated and not good for consumption.

most towel is like that o
Is nothing new.

chigoziri2403:
I think you should be more concerned about what you wrote in your first paragraph

What you said there is more alarming than the maggots infested meat you bought

BADASS..

emmanuelbrown26:

I read dis comment like 3 times to know if I'm blind or not and I came to realize that I'm not blind. So we still hv ladies like u in dis our present Nigeria?

Them plenty o ,na wen people open up to u.
Some people feel ashamed to discuss how Dem de survive in this era.

Make wee Dee our lane they manage, minding our health and pocket..
And at the end of d day we will be fine.


God bless u..

femijay8271:


Seriously, i really like dis ur post.
My own, as dem increase pure water like dis, i quickly go my mama shop for ikd go carry white drinking bucket to dey fetch water... I no dey even shame to carry d bucket go fetch water as my neigbors go dey look me with one kain eye, now most of them no dey ever buy pure water again, na inside coke & pepsi dem dey put their water dey drink

na MUMU de shame naw..
Who even do someone wants to impress?
Do things that won't hurt ur health and ur pocket..
As things dee go now,we suppose device oo.

A305:
You a woman of substance and very resourceful.

Too early to hand you the trophy for the "wife of the year award", let me see if I manage to marry this year; my wife could probably outdo you.

All jokes aside. Your kind is what we mean when we say, we want a life partner.

Thank you..
God bless you with a kind and Godly woman weee Sabi.

Mumben:

Reporting to a deity is not an option for me.

Report her to God.

angelfallz:
Please I want to understand. Is it one loaf of bread that is 1k or multiple loaves that make it 1k?

is rich and big loaf..

Not achicha..lol

It ok for us ( family of 4).

There s one that is even bigger but l don't know d price.

Arysexy:


It's not easy sha.

Used to save like 200k when I was doing house project, but Naira value keep dropping and 200k no longer enough to cater for the family. So project started suffering, so family can survive.

Generator is just to keep foods in fridge refrigerated, if not they will spoil.

Saving is not easy oo. We opened joint account for saving but once in a while, problem go come out and we dip hands in the savings. Last time, car engine knock, have to buy tokumbo engine

Na to jakpa comot remain, but where man go see the proof of fund for a family of 5 kwanu?

na Japa good naw but owo no easy..

Arysexy:


Used to save before, but now na chop and be hopeful that things will be better we dey.

House project on pause.

Everything has increased except salary.

Man has to survive first before thinking of savings.

cut down on some things.
Every night we use small solar to do things and eat.
Except naw them Dee play women ball.

In our house no one is oning generator again.

All those leaving gen till 1 am don't on it again at all.

I bought 1 bag of white beans from nairaland here #43000. to reduce cost bc 1 bucket of sweet Brown is #2300 and their bucket de small.

I do pap myself and fry akara anyhow and plenty without thinking beans go soon finish.

Anytime l cook rice l cook beans.

I fry less now.l boil

No more poor ( pure water) l boil and sieve it all by myself.

We use estimated meter so l do most of my cooking with electricity no matter when. Especially beans.

angelfallz:
I bought bread today ₦600. It was ₦400 at the beginning of the year. What kind of bread cost ₦1k?

Are u kidding me?

The bread we eat is #1k

2020 twas #400
Not too long it was #750-800-850-1000.

For the first time in 14 years.
We ate boiled potatoes and fish stew on Sunday morning..

Unbelievable!!
My husband agreed.
On a good day Lai Lai..

Water pass garri
expenses toooo much.

I bought this ur size for #200 in front of my house from mallam yesterday.

Understand that not so many people care about fruits these days.
Na real food naw o as things dee go.

E no easy for everyone

If to say mallam no gree sell l for move shapally.

So HV it at the back of ur mind and let it guide u.