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Jeff0983:
Guys please is Pictures , chats history, marriage certificate ( but not up to 3 months old) bank statements showing money sent to each enough for UK dependent visa?
Though we would be adding NIN because our NIN has the same Naija address but we have only been in Nigeria together for just 10 months, we also want to add SHEIN invoice 🧾 showing our address in Dubai from 2021 , will this be acceptable because we don’t have bills paid with both our names or tenancy agreement with both name, I have mailed the housed I lived in in Dubai to add my wife’s name to the contract but the said it against their policy and I don’t want to forge anything,

Our pictures together is from 2020 to 2023
Chat history is from 2020 to 2023
Bank statements showing money sent to each other is from 2021 to 2023
SHEIN invoices is from 2021
NIN is just 10 months.
We want to submit our visa by Monday

brain54:
That’s a beautiful tree…


If na Africa them for done chop am down… use am for firewood 🪵 since 1793.

We no really get value for such things!

Blake755:
Yes it is too hard to believe but bitter kola has the properties that could be a cure to sickle cell i wish the could make more investigation about it
It has kolaviron that could cure and malaria
It could fight inflammation
It fights cold
The most important one is it boost immune system when i found about it i was going crazy
People now says am adding weight who won't add weight when there is no crisis again
All i needed now is just to work on my self on what i eat you know
I now have peace of mind no more unnecessary visit to hospital 🙈🙈

Blake755:
Use bitter kola thank me later
My own was so pathetic until i started making research i use bitter kola since July till now no crisis although i still treat malaria once in a month but it has been a relief to me

tiswell:
Shut up!
How many older generation parents were aware of genotype.
You had to drag his parents in your foolery.
Must you bring your poor parental upringing to the public glare.

lonelydora:
How man go dey cry?

He's not a simp, but I hate such men.

I remember my guy who cried on his wedding day while his wife was singing for him. I left the reception and went outside because I dey vex for am. Till date, I dey stroke am with that cry.

Curiouscity:
I guess you are just encountering the moniker (Kobojunkie) for the 1st time here. My advice is, leave our Kobojunkie to do his/her spin.
Come back tomorrow with this exact story, s/he will give an opposite spin.

Kobojunkie:
That is a silly question to ask.

2. What law says you can't do that though? Who says you should not or can't do just that? So you want instead for women to tie themselves down to deadbeats in marriage?

Kobojunkie:
I don't understand. Is domestic violence the only reason that exists out there for why a woman would want to leave a marriage or something? When you were dating... assuming you did... did you only leave a relationship only in the case of violence?

2. Wow.. so leaving a marriage when there is no money to sustain it means one is chicken? Yikes!

Kobojunkie:
Define love? We all use that word as though it has the same exact meaning across the board when it never has. And why do we use love as a reason to shun commonsense?

Look at Osinachi's case for instance. Did love keep her from being used as a punching bag in marriage?

Did love keep starvation from ravaging OP'S sister and her children in the marriage? The love keep the man from eventually abandoning her and her kids for 8 solid years?

Does love even have a real value if it one-sided?

Midastorch:
I'm a Yoruba man working with a top shot from Nnewi makes me realized that that an Nnewi man never jokes with his immediate family especially if his extended family is involved..yes , they can be egotistical, put their hands in anything as long as it pays their bills but they always put family first...nothing is wrong with an Nnewi man from Anambra

3ice9ce:
I'm sure after your father bought your mother, they put her in nylon bag to take home. Ezi.

Kobojunkie:
No be everybody get your kind stamina. Each person should know when to call it quits too.

There are women out there who have endured worse beatings in marriage and continue to endure it even to today believing it gets worse sometimes b4 I gets better. Osinachi was probably thinking exactly that too, believing she too was built like those women only she found out the hard way that she was nothing like them.

Make we leave individuals to decide for themselves how to handle their own marriage situation abeg! All married women, including OP'S sister don't need to settle for the same lot as you in marriage. Let each decide for self.

sheldonbbt:
As a married man, what do you do when you realize your wife is self centered? Marriage is just a year old.

She is quick to question when I need to send money to my family. I transfer 40% of my monthly salary to her for savings as I am not so good with money, but when it comes to her family, she is very swift.

I intend to stop giving her the savings.

shortIGBOman:
They are the original rutualist and drug pushers

NdubisiCharles:
Am afraid if is he for real or did he have any evil thing on mind, u know all this nnewi, Anambra men

Tjra:


This life ehn, no one knows tomorrow.

2 secs everything don burst.

nairalanda1:
First, tell us the whole story from start to finish, then we can help you.

nairalanduser23:
I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.

Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.

She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.

I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.

How can I deal with this?

poshestmina:
It all depends on the family background.
I feel most men are scared of the responsibilities that comes with being a first daughter if the family is all relying on the 1st daughters or son's...and in most cases of daughters,the responsibilities become their husband's.


My eldest sister has being happily married for close to 7 years now.
Not like we are very wealthy ,we just don't depend on each other,no entitlement whatsoever not even our parents!!!

Every body is hustling and only ask for helps when it's an emergency.

The only sibling we are still training in school is our last born and it's a joint task...and our parents, anything and anytime you have to send.

No pressure on anyone and any in_laws.

It all boils down to family backgrounds .

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo The way I ride my above 30 years old side chicks eeh. You will hate me if you are a lady. Sometime I Pity their future husbands if they eventually find one unlucky chief. I leave this ladies with a mark & title to remember called 'Empress Reservior Kpekus' (E.R.K1).

ADURA123:
Yes, I am willing she is a wonderful woman , the only problem is what I mentioned.

IconicR:
Just let it go and try to put it behind you especially if it's not a habit with him. If he's truly sorry and remorseful and not those type that feels it's their right to cheat and very proud about it (the men are polygamous in nature group) then erase the hurt from your heart even though I know it's not easy, just try.

IconicR:
lies, a woman will forgive and forget totally because somehow African women are weird to believe that all men cheat.

ednut1:
At this point just guide your children to study courses that would make them japa easily in future like nursing, medicine, tech etc.

Gu66:
Na lie, it is poverty that cause it , they are dating and showing fake love because of the money they will extort from the man..


How can a 23 years old girl be in love with 50 years old man?? How?
It is a sin dating a married man, the wife will never be happy with it ,, WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER, LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER

one4GOD:
people should understand that there is no offence bigger in marriage or even relationship than cheating. Once this has been done just know the marriage/relationship is either completely gone or on the precipice. A woman can stand and defend a man who is 100% guilty of murder but cheating is a no no for any woman even if she pretends she has forgiven, what is still keeping her is that she has not found an alternative or she is planning a comfortable way out. Men should know this and know peace and choose which side they want to stand.

magictouch:
@pavore, doesnt need it to process any document. talking is only when he wants to quarrel and never gives me audience. we live seperate lives even though we are under the same roof, and tired of living like thtat

Allisgud:
Not being resourceful is a different thing,being lazy and don't know when to tidy up a dirty house is worst,ur house will be full of rats and cockroach, children are always close to the mother so they will take her as role model,I know a couple like that

Tayorshd87:
Happening to me presently ..
If not for society i feel like sending the bull away 😡

Sisora:
I have one rule as a man.

If someone else influences my woman's decision more than I do, she's not and will never be the one.

Just this one rule.