₦airaland Forum

Le2money:
God bless u

and you too dear..

Le2money:
You are right but blv me when we have headache, does cutting off the head from the neck the solution? The man can simply ask his own mom to come and look after the child and it would be an agreement btw the wife and husband....I think u understand my point too

l get u but u know we are different.
Is not easy to bear and understand when u were lied to.

BloomingDale:
Lol. Guilt trip me from now till tomorrow. I swear even if you offer me a million dollars, I’m not taking care of any man’s offspring not from me, especially when he hid it.

seconded..

H0711:
If he had told me from the beginning I would have advised him to go back to her so they can raise their chikd together because he left her because of the child condition which is not fair. Yes my parents are happy to have me back. I am from a family where they are happy to have me back alive than in a coffin.

Nne God be with you..

Sheistoopretty:
Keep your filthy thumbs away from this thread little boy, you have little intelligence. Her child is her child no matter what and everyone isn't senseless enough to abandon their children like how the ex-wife did. If the girl's mother would be able to ditch her own child then why wouldn't an outsider?

Oh, you expect her to suffer like dis in taking care of someone else's child and then what happens when she gives birth to her own child?

Nne God bless you
I nukwaa..

kollinz1234:
you are pregnant and you don't know what you will give birth to, yet you want to leave your husband not because he didnt tell you that he had a child out of wedlock but because you can't cope with the child. Karma is a very wicked bitch.
You leave that man's house, don't be surprised at what you will give birth to.

Shallom

Nkita rachaa gi Anya..

Na u karma go deal with

Nonsense

Midas01:
Well since you love the man so much why don't you go marry him and take care of the kid.

Mumu, someone deceived an innocent woman into bondage and it's this rubbish you can say.

God bless you jare..
They will just be talking anyhow.

Le2money:
U lack knowledge and sense bro. Because the child has one illness now and she wants to go, does it means the child in her womb is purely free? Do to others what u want others to do for you in ur presence and absence. The only thing they are do here is to have the guy's mother to come live with them for her to be assisting. Face your problems and never run away from it ...that's always my blv

That she wasn't aware of the baby before marriage is even d worse.

ifeanyiatuadu:
She would break her back taking care of the child.
Which strength would she use to enter the said 'door' opening for her

a ma m oo..
They think it's easy.

Nyascobar1414:
Na mumu dey marry naa.

u go still MUMU..

But
You no go tell us when u go MUMU..

Das1mama:
Just once like 5years ago and that once is still affecting me till date.... maybe is because am jobless. Even now as am typing now my heart is heavy and tears is still dripping from my eyes.

kpele dear,l understand how u feel.
May God give you a better person.

Fahdiga:
Then we can say the meat is contaminated and not good for consumption.

most towel is like that o
Is nothing new.

chigoziri2403:
I think you should be more concerned about what you wrote in your first paragraph

What you said there is more alarming than the maggots infested meat you bought

BADASS..

emmanuelbrown26:
I read dis comment like 3 times to know if I'm blind or not and I came to realize that I'm not blind. So we still hv ladies like u in dis our present Nigeria?

Them plenty o ,na wen people open up to u.
Some people feel ashamed to discuss how Dem de survive in this era.

Make wee Dee our lane they manage, minding our health and pocket..
And at the end of d day we will be fine.


God bless u..

femijay8271:
Seriously, i really like dis ur post.
My own, as dem increase pure water like dis, i quickly go my mama shop for ikd go carry white drinking bucket to dey fetch water... I no dey even shame to carry d bucket go fetch water as my neigbors go dey look me with one kain eye, now most of them no dey ever buy pure water again, na inside coke & pepsi dem dey put their water dey drink

na MUMU de shame naw..
Who even do someone wants to impress?
Do things that won't hurt ur health and ur pocket..
As things dee go now,we suppose device oo.

A305:
You a woman of substance and very resourceful.

Too early to hand you the trophy for the "wife of the year award", let me see if I manage to marry this year; my wife could probably outdo you.

All jokes aside. Your kind is what we mean when we say, we want a life partner.

Thank you..
God bless you with a kind and Godly woman weee Sabi.

Mumben:
Reporting to a deity is not an option for me.

Report her to God.

angelfallz:
Please I want to understand. Is it one loaf of bread that is 1k or multiple loaves that make it 1k?

is rich and big loaf..

Not achicha..lol

It ok for us ( family of 4).

There s one that is even bigger but l don't know d price.

Arysexy:
It's not easy sha.

Used to save like 200k when I was doing house project, but Naira value keep dropping and 200k no longer enough to cater for the family. So project started suffering, so family can survive.

Generator is just to keep foods in fridge refrigerated, if not they will spoil.

Saving is not easy oo. We opened joint account for saving but once in a while, problem go come out and we dip hands in the savings. Last time, car engine knock, have to buy tokumbo engine

Na to jakpa comot remain, but where man go see the proof of fund for a family of 5 kwanu?

na Japa good naw but owo no easy..

Arysexy:
Used to save before, but now na chop and be hopeful that things will be better we dey.

House project on pause.

Everything has increased except salary.

Man has to survive first before thinking of savings.

cut down on some things.
Every night we use small solar to do things and eat.
Except naw them Dee play women ball.

In our house no one is oning generator again.

All those leaving gen till 1 am don't on it again at all.

I bought 1 bag of white beans from nairaland here #43000. to reduce cost bc 1 bucket of sweet Brown is #2300 and their bucket de small.

I do pap myself and fry akara anyhow and plenty without thinking beans go soon finish.

Anytime l cook rice l cook beans.

I fry less now.l boil

No more poor ( pure water) l boil and sieve it all by myself.

We use estimated meter so l do most of my cooking with electricity no matter when. Especially beans.

angelfallz:
I bought bread today ₦600. It was ₦400 at the beginning of the year. What kind of bread cost ₦1k?

Are u kidding me?

The bread we eat is #1k

2020 twas #400
Not too long it was #750-800-850-1000.

For the first time in 14 years.
We ate boiled potatoes and fish stew on Sunday morning..

Unbelievable!!
My husband agreed.
On a good day Lai Lai..

Water pass garri
expenses toooo much.

I bought this ur size for #200 in front of my house from mallam yesterday.

Understand that not so many people care about fruits these days.
Na real food naw o as things dee go.

E no easy for everyone

If to say mallam no gree sell l for move shapally.

So HV it at the back of ur mind and let it guide u.

psalmz:
Restocking your house has its disadvantages,children these days can be choosy,no matter how u give them wotowoto,th no dey hear

choosy?
I talked to my children that whatever l have l will give them.

Choosy Koo..
Choosy nii...

Bornbiafra:
Whenever a lady start demanding for sex from a man there is a motive behind it....

Woman are master planner

Nwanne m oo..

U no-go kill me for here wit laff.

Never be a side chick..
U will be used and misused..

And when madam catches u,no man will find you attractive for marriage.

Stop opening ur leg for men especially married ones.

Goddey18:
Atiku is a big pretender and should not be trusted with power. Deborah's incident clearly revealed his true person.

I agree..
He will do worse.u no de see his mouth.
Buhari will be angel for where that man Dee.

KingOfTheDamned:
Really ? But is there anyone who needs stress ?

if u HV stayed with them in anyway u can't even stand without being emotional.
The disease is a scourge.

KingOfTheDamned:
Does the health really matter in skill acquisition?

yes..

They don't need stress.

Xedmark:
First of all, you re not a failure. As a matter of fact you can live with your parent and be better than most guys living in their own personally-paid apartment. However, if the reasons behind your living with your parents is fueled by financial constraints, The first thing is to go to God. I know it doesn't make sense but "He rules in the affairs of men" and I'm not talking about going for prayers here and there, I'm talking about having a personal strong prayer life in your bedroom. Make your room a spiritual war zone. As a programmer I've dealt with issues about my business, life and everything with thunderous prayers. Look for opportunities around, start a business even if it's POS or Web development trust me, if you're good, there's money in it but prayer seriously and let God lead you.

To those condemning the guy that suggested yahoo..... Just calm down. He never asked the guy to go and do yahoo. it's a suggestion for him to either take it or leave it.

God bless and answer all ur prayer.

Connected1:
Why speaking like a woman, they are the ones scared of a particular age.
Anyone telling you Nigeria is not hard is lying big time, I pay the most bills of my parents family, but I still live with them so I can curb promiscuity, I know myself, like this sef, I do lodge hotels once in a while then imagine if I stay alone, my ashawo go get better style, girls and my guys know I am doing well for myself, at least I am contented with the little I have achieved and hoping for more.

If I am to leave my parents house then I will be getting married in the next year, so I don't have plans for that now, I am still a student and I hope to have atleast 6 landed properties before I leave them, don't allow anybody kill your self-esteem, you are better than most of them it's just that your secret is wide open unlike theirs, so achieve what you want while staying with your parents, they won't chase you and will still borrow you funds willingly if they have unlike when you ask others. I can remember when my mother pushed for a loan for me, but when she wanted to take it I had gotten the money from somewhere else.

So you aren't a failure, Nigeria is just hard, we aren't where we want to be but we are happy for Life, Buhari's regime killed 90% of my plans, I killed 5% with my own hands and only 5% worked out, so that's how life is for many of us now.

Life isn't about who arrived first, the goal is to be rich and healthy at our 50's and retirement age, according to my elderly friends, na that time life dae sweet pass not even our youth, the youthful age is the time for laying solid foundations, so don't envy those buying cars and carrying leftover girls, build your future bro.

leftover girls o lol..
Chai..
My people
A na - eghe oku..
Gbado Anya..

God bless your mum for me.
Nwanyi oma.

Failure44:
That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

kpele
I feel ur hurt from here.
But take it easy,ur so young for this type of pain.

Baawaa:
This is what you get when you married a harlot

And when they married a good wife they will be cheating on her..