₦airaland Forum

chigoziri2403:
I think you should be more concerned about what you wrote in your first paragraph

What you said there is more alarming than the maggots infested meat you bought

BADASS..

emmanuelbrown26:
I read dis comment like 3 times to know if I'm blind or not and I came to realize that I'm not blind. So we still hv ladies like u in dis our present Nigeria?

Them plenty o ,na wen people open up to u.
Some people feel ashamed to discuss how Dem de survive in this era.

Make wee Dee our lane they manage, minding our health and pocket..
And at the end of d day we will be fine.


God bless u..

femijay8271:
Seriously, i really like dis ur post.
My own, as dem increase pure water like dis, i quickly go my mama shop for ikd go carry white drinking bucket to dey fetch water... I no dey even shame to carry d bucket go fetch water as my neigbors go dey look me with one kain eye, now most of them no dey ever buy pure water again, na inside coke & pepsi dem dey put their water dey drink

na MUMU de shame naw..
Who even do someone wants to impress?
Do things that won't hurt ur health and ur pocket..
As things dee go now,we suppose device oo.

A305:
You a woman of substance and very resourceful.

Too early to hand you the trophy for the "wife of the year award", let me see if I manage to marry this year; my wife could probably outdo you.

All jokes aside. Your kind is what we mean when we say, we want a life partner.

Thank you..
God bless you with a kind and Godly woman weee Sabi.

Mumben:
Reporting to a deity is not an option for me.

Report her to God.

angelfallz:
Please I want to understand. Is it one loaf of bread that is 1k or multiple loaves that make it 1k?

is rich and big loaf..

Not achicha..lol

It ok for us ( family of 4).

There s one that is even bigger but l don't know d price.

Arysexy:
It's not easy sha.

Used to save like 200k when I was doing house project, but Naira value keep dropping and 200k no longer enough to cater for the family. So project started suffering, so family can survive.

Generator is just to keep foods in fridge refrigerated, if not they will spoil.

Saving is not easy oo. We opened joint account for saving but once in a while, problem go come out and we dip hands in the savings. Last time, car engine knock, have to buy tokumbo engine

Na to jakpa comot remain, but where man go see the proof of fund for a family of 5 kwanu?

na Japa good naw but owo no easy..

Arysexy:
Used to save before, but now na chop and be hopeful that things will be better we dey.

House project on pause.

Everything has increased except salary.

Man has to survive first before thinking of savings.

cut down on some things.
Every night we use small solar to do things and eat.
Except naw them Dee play women ball.

In our house no one is oning generator again.

All those leaving gen till 1 am don't on it again at all.

I bought 1 bag of white beans from nairaland here #43000. to reduce cost bc 1 bucket of sweet Brown is #2300 and their bucket de small.

I do pap myself and fry akara anyhow and plenty without thinking beans go soon finish.

Anytime l cook rice l cook beans.

I fry less now.l boil

No more poor ( pure water) l boil and sieve it all by myself.

We use estimated meter so l do most of my cooking with electricity no matter when. Especially beans.

angelfallz:
I bought bread today ₦600. It was ₦400 at the beginning of the year. What kind of bread cost ₦1k?

Are u kidding me?

The bread we eat is #1k

2020 twas #400
Not too long it was #750-800-850-1000.

For the first time in 14 years.
We ate boiled potatoes and fish stew on Sunday morning..

Unbelievable!!
My husband agreed.
On a good day Lai Lai..

Water pass garri
expenses toooo much.

I bought this ur size for #200 in front of my house from mallam yesterday.

Understand that not so many people care about fruits these days.
Na real food naw o as things dee go.

E no easy for everyone

If to say mallam no gree sell l for move shapally.

So HV it at the back of ur mind and let it guide u.

psalmz:
Restocking your house has its disadvantages,children these days can be choosy,no matter how u give them wotowoto,th no dey hear

choosy?
I talked to my children that whatever l have l will give them.

Choosy Koo..
Choosy nii...

Bornbiafra:
Whenever a lady start demanding for sex from a man there is a motive behind it....

Woman are master planner

Nwanne m oo..

U no-go kill me for here wit laff.

Never be a side chick..
U will be used and misused..

And when madam catches u,no man will find you attractive for marriage.

Stop opening ur leg for men especially married ones.

Goddey18:
Atiku is a big pretender and should not be trusted with power. Deborah's incident clearly revealed his true person.

I agree..
He will do worse.u no de see his mouth.
Buhari will be angel for where that man Dee.

KingOfTheDamned:
Really ? But is there anyone who needs stress ?

if u HV stayed with them in anyway u can't even stand without being emotional.
The disease is a scourge.

KingOfTheDamned:
Does the health really matter in skill acquisition?

yes..

They don't need stress.

Xedmark:
First of all, you re not a failure. As a matter of fact you can live with your parent and be better than most guys living in their own personally-paid apartment. However, if the reasons behind your living with your parents is fueled by financial constraints, The first thing is to go to God. I know it doesn't make sense but "He rules in the affairs of men" and I'm not talking about going for prayers here and there, I'm talking about having a personal strong prayer life in your bedroom. Make your room a spiritual war zone. As a programmer I've dealt with issues about my business, life and everything with thunderous prayers. Look for opportunities around, start a business even if it's POS or Web development trust me, if you're good, there's money in it but prayer seriously and let God lead you.

To those condemning the guy that suggested yahoo..... Just calm down. He never asked the guy to go and do yahoo. it's a suggestion for him to either take it or leave it.

God bless and answer all ur prayer.

Connected1:
Why speaking like a woman, they are the ones scared of a particular age.
Anyone telling you Nigeria is not hard is lying big time, I pay the most bills of my parents family, but I still live with them so I can curb promiscuity, I know myself, like this sef, I do lodge hotels once in a while then imagine if I stay alone, my ashawo go get better style, girls and my guys know I am doing well for myself, at least I am contented with the little I have achieved and hoping for more.

If I am to leave my parents house then I will be getting married in the next year, so I don't have plans for that now, I am still a student and I hope to have atleast 6 landed properties before I leave them, don't allow anybody kill your self-esteem, you are better than most of them it's just that your secret is wide open unlike theirs, so achieve what you want while staying with your parents, they won't chase you and will still borrow you funds willingly if they have unlike when you ask others. I can remember when my mother pushed for a loan for me, but when she wanted to take it I had gotten the money from somewhere else.

So you aren't a failure, Nigeria is just hard, we aren't where we want to be but we are happy for Life, Buhari's regime killed 90% of my plans, I killed 5% with my own hands and only 5% worked out, so that's how life is for many of us now.

Life isn't about who arrived first, the goal is to be rich and healthy at our 50's and retirement age, according to my elderly friends, na that time life dae sweet pass not even our youth, the youthful age is the time for laying solid foundations, so don't envy those buying cars and carrying leftover girls, build your future bro.

leftover girls o lol..
Chai..
My people
A na - eghe oku..
Gbado Anya..

God bless your mum for me.
Nwanyi oma.

Failure44:
That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

kpele
I feel ur hurt from here.
But take it easy,ur so young for this type of pain.

Baawaa:
This is what you get when you married a harlot

And when they married a good wife they will be cheating on her..

emmanuelbrown26:
My man, u dey see am so? Look at all their comments above and see how foolish they are.
Non even asked some question but they hv being shouting as if marriage is life time achievement.

is an achievement o..
Men always think they are wise..

Men are actually the weak vessel.


Having children is good at least when u grow very old u will have someone to care for u..

I am just imagining my dad who l know to jump the stairs few years ago is no longer active,
How he will be cooking and no body to check on him and all the relative will be minding their business.
Will he now go and bring houseboy or nanny that will strangle him or poison him?

Benefits de marriage and having children no matter what.
If u don't see it now ua strong.
When u eventually realize it might be late

Munzy14:
Mmiri e ji akpu nwa(Sperm) ka I kpo ga frustration...smh.

funny..

Arsenate:
Kinds of dudes I would like to have drinks with (regularly). Living the good life.

Odiegwu..
He go needam later

SerikiFulani:
We need to stop this attitude of forcing people to do certain things like getting married, giving birth.

I'm 42 years old and I'm not thinking of marriage or giving birth cos it doesn't benefit me...

I have friends who are in their late 40's and who are unmarried and unbothered about it...These are multi millionaires I'm talking about.

Smh

Be fruitful and multiply..
Abeg go and do it bc u will need it later..
Everything is not money

It isn't good to be alone at certain age

Emma2Seconds:
Visiting ones son or brother is now a crime after marriage Abii?? 99.9 percent of you ladies are very deadly and wicked .

Our last born who has been coming to my house every holiday,l pay for every expenses to come and cool off bc he stays in domitory way back in 2010.

He will beat his nephew like say they are his mate l told him this boys are ur children and my brother said l support them and was talking back at me.

I couldn't believe it,when l called my mum that l am putting him in d first bus the next morning
she told me" my daughter please forgive him"that the boarding is making him behave anyhow.

That is my brother o
If it is another they will not believe me and they will say l don't like my in- laws

Na our last wee l no take play be that o.


Some women can be mean l agree but u see some in-laws are from another planet.

My husband created boundaries
He will always tell me " don't start what u can't finish".
This in- laws issues depends on the family.

bigpicture001:
Y don't I believe u.. I 100% know it's not cuz of extra mouth to feed .. it just dat feeling of having your right to privacy and ur early dissatisfaction with thier presence....

See nobody wants to b a pest to another..but trust me sh is family,when u stat to see. Her as one,sh can even become ur best friend and gist mate...I also inconvenience my inlaw at their early stage of marriage...

In our own.. my younger sis lives with them and I also came and joined in a two bedroom flat.. where the guy is a struggling lawyer..... Famiy house is even worse off sef..I felt discomfort being there myself,but at the time..I don't havve a. Choice...but the inlaw for once. Never even frowned...

I incurred a big expense on them sef living there as I had a bike accident and broke my femur and he got a loan of 400k to pay for my surgery...

I will always remember and. Love them cuz of the extra live they showed me...this happened about 10years ago

Guess what just last week my inlaw had his own accident and broke his tibia... I sent in 200k in support of the surgery.. that is. What family is about... We look out for ourselves, nuclear or extended

when you are there for a good reason the wife will love you even if ur presence inconvenience them she will understand.
but u see those in- laws who are there as entitlement.
Who feels this is my brother's house and l can do anything.they disrespect u at Will especially if d husband didn't create boundaries.

Emma2Seconds:
Guys Why Do Most Women Find It Very Difficult In Accommodating People From Their Husband Side Than Their Their Own Side

if u and someone no get along y would you be staying with them?

Some in-laws can frustrate the wife especially if they don't love her.

Y don't everyone stay on their own..

Devilagentcap:
just fairy tales, are you sure about this bro

leave them..

Lordofalmajiri:
Glo is the best bro, their 1Gb is 1Gb I can't say the same for empty hen and hair-tell

chai..
U no-go kill me here wit laff.

CreepyBlackpool:
My face.

I pray they don't inherit my face

funny you
Wetin happen for the face?

Sleekfingers:
And how is it your business, with how I live my sexual life? It is my choice. Even if I am caught, and she couldn't continue with our marriage. She is free to move out .....

let her know what you are doing naw..
No be to de make mouth online.

Y did u get married when you know she might not be enough for you.

When ua eventually caught and she moves out what do u intend to do?

Marry another and continuing the cycle?

Or go for second and third wife?



I am giving you assignment today
Tell ur wife what ua up to and see how she will react.

you have no idea how it feels to be cheated on.or the extent of pain cheating gives a woman psychologically and emotionally?
Cheating is a choice and evil

Repent now bc hmm

No woman wants to share her man..
Please tame urself and be a real man .


Marriage is a covenant which binds you to your spouse and demands loyalty.

Stop opening ur body for other women that can't go one inch with you to play with..


Respect ur wife..


If married couple would see the future and how their act of infidelity tear family and friendship they will keep their sexual organ under lock.

The spark never remain in love or marriage,it is left for you to spice it..

God bless you..

Sleekfingers:
Of course.......me self get couple of side chicks.....but my wife has never suspected......

Is like telling a man to be eating rice everyday.....pesin go tire na......

one day you will be caught
And that will be the beginning of the end of love and peace in ur home..

Cheating is evil and shouldn't be encouraged!