VEHINTOLAR:
I can relate with that man's resolve to be truly committed to his wife. I can't even think of cheating on my wife; she is just too good to me as a wife and mother of my beautiful children. If that's the definition of being a "SIMP",it feels really good to be one !

God bless you..

kenodrill:






Sad truth my sister!

There is no truth.
Ur decision to leave will have a negative impact on u,ur children,ur siblings,ur parents and others too.
No matter how much money you have u can't take a place of man in raising ur kids.
Can't u find it in your heart to forgive him?

My husband will block me kneeling
" Find it in your heart to forgive me'
Are u saying after months of begging u will still leave?
I'm happy l was able to forgive him.and m happier now than ever bc.

Romanoff:
Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

MODIFIED

Y'all can quote me till thy kingdom come.

There's of course a few exception to the rule but most women who left cheating me had their own source of income and could do well without the man.

Check out the "I'm staying for the kids" crew,na because them no fit take care of the children and themselves.

sis,
U put a lot of things in consideration before u make a decision.
If d man is not repentat the u can leave.

Children needs their parent love and care.
When u HV a man dat loves you and he cheated and was remorseful wouldn't u give him a second chance?

I forgive my h.usband bc that is what is best for us.
Honestly l HV not regretted it bc the love between us is renewed.
If there is another life,l will marry him again

Romanoff:
Women will stay with a cheating man as long as he has money.

All the "I'm staying for the kids", na wash.

Baby girl,
I disagree with you,the level of my husband cheating was too and way high but l let go when he showed he was repentat and remorsefully begging.
It was a long journey,a couple of times l packed my bag but l couldn't go ,firstly l wondered how they will cópe
And l HV a couple of other reasons for letting go.and the children is d number one.

Nedangel:
Other things like her self development..
Abeg stop putting thoughts in my head.

l honestly think u need divine help.
U need God to tame those rubbish tendencies.
Get closer to God..

pocohantas:


This would be VERY traumatic for me.

u funny..

thorpido:
Children no dey house?

na boys
Is normal to them but sometimes they hide themselves and HV a good laugh..

November24:


Lol... Better for me sir... Let him just open it

him go say he Dee him house.
And honestly someone needs to free himself especially after wearing wearing the whole day..

What of a husband that doesn't wear anything?
I mean totally naked walking round the apartment.
Abeg free d guy..

walemoney007:
From MTN or from a third party?

third party

walemoney007:
Good one

But make dem reduce the price of their data

By now, 1.5GB for one month no suppose pass #600.

l buy 1 gig #300

bigiyaro:
so what happened after you caught him, you called the police?

God arrested him..

Saintmary:



'God did the Miracle'




He doesn't do magic.



Btw, how did you resolve the matter?

He couldn't deny it bc l saw most of his activities.
At d end of day na begging and promising it will never happen again.

No be small journey to recovery
I freaked out countless times bc l never believe he could hurt me dat much..
But he kept assuring me dat he is a changed man now..

I have my husband back
We started all over again
He is the type of man every woman prays for..

If l continue to brood over the level of d cheating and disrespect l will never forgive him.


He is a changed man now and alot of things changed too..
however l don't take shit now the way l use to.

Enemyofpeace:
Yinmu! Can you finish it?

let me tell u something:
This our life is spiritual believe or not..
And we have different destinies and destination.
There are some things some people will be doing and always get away with it.but some once the try they Wii be caught instantly.
Some people cheat and nothing happened
But some it hinders the blessings of God in their lives.
If l tell u the whole story l' m sure u will not be asking if l can finish it.
Life and living is a mystery..

Zeel007:
Tell us how you caught him, seems very interesting

very very interesting.
Is a long and freaking story..
is heartbreaking finding out but l have forgiven him.
We started afresh..

smasher1:


God doesn't do magic. it's Satan that does magic. God does miracle.

ua right.

Enemyofpeace:
over wetin only you no fit chop finish. Mtcheeeeeeeeew

do u think it's easy knowing that someone u love is sharing himself/herself with someone else?.

neo25:
Hi all a friend of mine tells me he sees his wife always in dreams with another strange Man like she is married to him and he as the husband would stand by and watch them both like a stranger in that dream.
They both have been married for 10 years now but these dreams have been occurring at least every week since last years November 2021.
Can anyone please advise, both the Spiritual and Physical implications. Thanks.

might be seeing another man.
Check well
Naso l de dream about my husband then .
The dream will be so real that when l told him he will say which girl.until l caught him.
Pray God will expose whatever it is.
Naso l do 3 days prayer bc on my own l couldn't have caught him d way l did but God did d magic.

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Thanks..

Ulunne777:
Couldn't care less.
Let everybody stay on their own.Said he's visiting on Sunday to take his kids for val not me.
Our Quarrel continues

chai
Baby girl,u guys should sort things out.

there are no boundaries in marriage n also is nt bad if both partners read dere msgs but i fink the men hates it.i dont bother mysef ova hubby's fone or inbox cos i prefer stayn out of trouble.

naso l de stay out of trouble
I don't pick his calls or check his phone, until one day he gave myson phone to charge, l reluctantly went through and found out my loving husband of 13 years was having a deadly affairs.
Since dat day till now things have really changed.
Is been 15 months now,l freak out always bc of d unbelievable things l read.
Heartbreaking.
If l didn't read all those l will never believe that he could do all that.

PointZerom:


Will you keep kwayet.

You're a one chance goal keeper.
Your magic bottle failed you but Mendy saved one penalty and that was enough to make you cry like an orphaned he-goat.

l think say na only me see d bottle carefully wrap in a towel.

Mrkumareze:


You fear she may cheat , oga travel first, relocation is another wahala of its own. When you settle, study the wellbeing of your self and family there before bringing them along (if u think it ll be ok).. meanwhile, na dog wey we see sh*t for him mouth we dey accuse of eating sh*t, that no means say others no dey chop sh*t.. be careful, chop n clean mouth well.

chop clean mouth?
Cheating is evil,
Don't support it..
Don't encourage it..

TVTKOKO:
I dey read your pathetic story dey vex! You are the sole cause of your problem and if you want a change, it gotta start with you!

She's supposed to break your head actually because if reverse was the case, you'd done worse!

God bless u Jare..
Cheaters are pigs..

Yale9:
what is more reasonable to do?

1. Walk out of the marriage, since you do not agree with his ideals or personality.

2. Become a violent and viscous animal and start destroying things at will

not good to destroy things.
Everyone react differently.
I hate cheaters!!!!

Lasunray01:
Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

repent from ur cheating habit.
Is painful to find out that the only man u love and can take a bullet for is disrespecting u .
I honestly hate cheating pigs..

moralistic:
.. Bros , I beg you in the name of God or Allah; which ever One you like....

Please don't take her with you...

Settle things with her, sit her down and talk, tell her parents to caution her, report her attitude to her pastor and a whole lots of bullshit people will advise you....

Don't listen to them, your wife no fit change at all, the best you can do and you have been doing is the fact that you don't get physical with her.....

But when it comes to your survivability, your prestige; which is the money and freedom you have..... imagine you loose your freedom and money ....haahhahhhhhhhahhhh... that will be a brain factory reset..but it may be too late...


I think I am typing too much...incase you don't know, I am married too.

condemn his useless cheating habit.
When a good woman loves u dearly and all u could do is to be cheating on her.
Is heartbreaking!
Cheating means those girls sees u,touch u and do all sort and u give them money and then u go to ur wife and sleep with her and then tell her u love her.

pte author=Lasunray01 post=110039712]Good day nairalanders. My first time post in 5yrs.

Will try to summarize the issues and seek sincere advise please.

I’ve been married before but got divorced within a year due to genotype issues(it’s a long story). So I remarried 2yrs after and with a child now, and that’s where my issues started from.

I know I have some bad sides too which I’m trying to change, which is flirting with single ladies, and this has caused multiple fight with my wife.

Whenever we have this fights, not physical, just verbal, but in her anger she breaks virtually anything around, cups, laptop, speakers etc. she can be madly angry. I’ve warned, petted her severally to desist from this act especially infront of our kid...but she won’t. It’s getting worse by the day. Now she reports me with blackmail to her parents and friends making me feel I’m the worst husband in the universe, calling me unprintable names. Calling me weak cos I don’t beat.

Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you[/quote]stop cheating
Do you really think is fun or funny knowing ur spouse shares intimate moments with strange women?

Orente21:
Thank for this motivation.
I am a private school teacher, but I ll try my best.i appreciate. He must find favor by fire by force.

cheating shouldn't be an option.
Hold hands while praying with your spouse and children if u have any,
God will answer u..
Telling u out of experience

Massab:
What is URGENT about a said RELOCATION SALES posted without prices

funny you
U made me laugh..

HenryDion:
If you're wise, you'll bail out now. A crying woman is a manipulative woman and can never be trusted.

a crying woman is not manipulative.
Some are too emotional.

Carchoice:
No matter what you people post about marriage. you will not discourage me from getting married when I am ready.

I want to marry two wives on the same day.

l doubt two will be enough..
Step up a bit.