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My dear you have done bad but not worst. I would Advice you tell your husband about the child but don't remind him about his own mistake and be ready for the worst. But at least you can have peace of mind. The worst he can do is to send you back home. Those calling you devil should come out here and swear that they have never cheated on their partners both married and unmarried.

My dear you have done bad but not worst. I would Advice you tell your husband about the child but don't remind him abouthis own mistake and be ready for the worst. But at least you can have peace of mind. The worst he can do is to send you back home. Those calling you devil should come out here and swear that they have never cheated in their partners both married and unmarried.

Boss I don't know you but you have been making sense since I started reading your post in this forum keep it up bro but our people should understand that over 80%
Of we staying abroad are finding it difficult in our host countries due to the crazy life styles some of us are leaving

omoiyamayor:
Nigerian want better lives and Canada got that standard you know but we need to build our continent as well,if we dont,the West wont,We need Vision to help people see the possibility of better future of Africa.

My brother you have done what a man I expected to do. From your explanation you and your father had approached you mom politely on this issue to no avail. I advice you assist the poor girl in your own little way and please do let the little child know that things will be alright and keep talking to you mom and let her know that neighbours are watching and have started talking let's see if you can use that to make her soften her mind

Miracle1991:
After the show up they will be packed back to the store.
BTW 1000 bags divided by 3000000(3million) people is equal to 3cups each person.

if can add your own 1000 bags they will get 6 cups

oshozondii:
https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-wike-has-no-right-to-order-arrest-of-pilots-says-aviation-minister

Mr sirika please any seating governor is the chief security officer of the state he is governing and you have no right whatsoever to Grant airline landing permit in a state that is observing lockdown please go back to school so that you will be able to understand the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria

What a false news I'm watching NTA and no such news they are just showing about giving birth and later a doctor by name frank udo came and talked about coronavirus or maybe NTA has two stations these people should stop deceiving themselves

lalasticlala:
President Buhari addresses Nigerians now

Watch live broadcast here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nZnCvxcsR3k



https://mobile.twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1244324368261545985

And it must spread to your household so that you feel the pains as well

LearnITsmash:
I love it to keep rising so that our useless pastors and politicians will have small sense

360degreess:
All i know is;North is hausa and hausg is North.

where is sani abacha

siraj1402:
I wish to know how much he paid to purchased it, a friend need one.

bad English you need to know how he paid to purchase it not purchased

*"I saw some unreasonable posts against Rev. Fr. Mbaka and I wish to ask these questions:

1. Was it Buhari or APC who hinted Fr. Mbaka about Abacha death? Who asked him to prophesy about Gen Sani Abacha's death?

2. Who leaked about Yardua's death!? Was that giving to him from statehouse too?

3. Who told him that Jonathan will become the president of Nigeria from a minority tribe?

4. How did he got to know that Peter Obi will become governor of Anambra State even when Ngige was announced a winner?

5. Who leaked about Orji Uzor Kalu's prison to Mbaka?

6. Who leaked about God giving twins to adorers last year to the Rev. Father?

7. Who leaked about Nnamdi Kanu running away from Nigeria?

8. Who leaked about Ohakim Gubernatorial defeat during his second tenure bid to Fr. Mbaka?

9. Who leaked about Rangers Fc winning premier league to him?

10. Who showed Him the Change he saw in December 2014 massage of I see Change!?

11. Was he told by Jonathan Government that Buhari will win Jonathan!? Who leaked that very important information to Fr. Mbaka!?

12. Who leaked to him that Jonathan will regret working with many of his aids when he stepped down from power?

I pray that God should open your Spiritual eyes to see clearly and abide in His ways. Otherwise, you will deny Christ on His return too."*

Credit: Joseph Johnson

Noerection:
Iyanmiris have started with their lies

if hope was paid for contract and he fail to execute it why was he not convicted this was a mere fallacy that rochas was propagating so that he can install his son inlaw as governor Abeg make I hear word

OZAOEKPE:
I'm a Catholic and I can say that Mbaka is a traditionalist, he should leave the church and go open his church...


I see people attacking me, I want to let you all know I served Cardinal Okojie as a bishop and as a cardinal. I served mass for over 15 years of my life. I still serve mass and I can say for sure, the greatest of all priests are those who obey their bishops, Mbaka is a disobedient soul

shame on you. You claim to be a Catholic but you know nothing about fr mbaka. In case you don't know tell the bishop you claim to be serving to contact bishop onaga of Enugu diocese about the preist you are talking rubbish about you agents of Satan. Because fr mbaka gave a fuffiled prophecy you gate of hell are seeking for his head go and kill him if you are big than the almighty God

AntiChristian:
This does not mean he's the most God fearing or the most prayerful person in the vehicle! His time never reach ni! Even Bonke die!

your profile has traveled who you are instead of thanking the almighty God for what he has done you are busy winning you mouth

ZombieTERROR:
Bode George

For APc presidential ticket

A 74 YEARS OLD MAN IS INDICATING INTEREST FOR NIGERIA PRESIDENT COME 2023 BY THEN HE WILL 77 YEARS OLD HAHAHA THAT NAME NIGERIA IS A CURSE

Better mind your business and let the sleeping dog be

They can not hit the ground running this January they are only busy drinking Panadol for another man's headache tomorrow they will look for who to blame for their failure. Nonsense

Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
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Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
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In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
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He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
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The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
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Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
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I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
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I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
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Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
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This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
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My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
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https://mobile.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10219109943432415&id=1021399118&refid=17&_ft_=mf_story_key.10219109943432415%3Atop_level_post_id.10219109943432415%3Atl_objid.10219109943432415%3Acontent_owner_id_new.1021399118%3Athrowback_story_fbid.10219109943432415%3Astory_location.4%3Athid.1021399118%3A306061129499414%3A2%3A0%3A1577865599%3A-5882944422975432997&__tn__=%2AW-R

if this guy swear an oath that he has never slept with different women since he met this lady I will support him. We Men should stop these rubbish you are far away in England doing all sort of rubbish still come back to vomit rubbish from your mouth that your girlfriend slept with another man which both of you planned. Tomorrow when nemesis cought up you you will start looking for one old woman that you will put all the atrocities you committed on by labeling her a witch. Nonsense

Biafrareform:
Good evening all. I need your honest opinion on this .

My elder sister was put in a family way 16 years ago. The guy responsible, his family rejected the pregnancy Infront of my family .

We took her in, cared for her and she gave birth to a lovable baby girl . Dam, she is so pretty and was well loved.

She grew to become my pet . I loved her with all my heart. Infact we all loved her .

My elder sister is married . She has told her daughter that her present husband is her father when she start asking questions.

She is done with her secondary school and currently running a fashion design program . I planned on sending her to the Uni once she is done with her program .

Just got on phone with my sister now and she is telling me that , the dude that got her pregnant family has been disturbing her to allow them access to the girl . That they are ready to train her to any level .

And she is considering telling her daughter the truth about her birth .

Can you imagine the nonsense. I have warned her not to do that not to talk of giving them access and I am currently furious right now . After 16 years of loving this girl, someone is now claiming father .

Please how do I handle this .

my brother please tell the innocent girl the whole truth of how her biological father and family rejected her mother and her and allow her to decide but make sure she is up to 18 years

GuyWise101:
Chai so guy this is the lady you ended up with


Had sex with her countless times in those days before dumping her dirty ass.... spits.


Well enjoy your marriage with my ex.

are u not a coward by posting this rubbish that you just posted You are still single she is married blessed with kids if you die now you will be buried in the bush yet you are bragging

Sorry bro just change the whole keys in the apartment may be someone has duplicated your keys

rusher14:
Nigeria is one funny country.

How you expect a leader to function without confidants must be the silliest thing I've heard.

The president would always have trusted aides he believes in and sometimes relies on to get the job done.

by telling all his ministers to report to Aba kyari instead of him Buhari

Sirmuel1:
Every King deserves a Rolls Royce!!! You deserve it African Giant.

I will buy my G-Wagon by next year.

a big amen

Hahahaha the prophecy good luck Jonathan gave you yoroubas is coming true next time you will learn how to support good things regardless where it's coming from you people thought that this anarchy and dictatorship will affect only igbos. We will all enjoy it

Why are they always falling sick once they are asked to give account of how they stole the money that is meant to better the lives of the poor masses in Nigeria please high time we stop being tribalistic and face what is facing us in Nigeria

soilsista:
Lol that tired line again? But I don't blame you, I blame my sisters who made you their demigods. Now you think ALL South women will throw themselves over you.

my dear I bet you have been bitten by a Nigerian before or swear that you have never had any thing to do with Nigerians you will die now

coolguy4christ:
My girlfriend and I had issues sometime last year which eventually led to a break up. Early this year, we made up. I initiated the make up because I still loved her even though, it was she who ended the relationship.

When we started again, I told her I wanted a fresh start and that she should come out clean with me of whatever I need to know when we were apart. She knows how much I emphasize sincerity as I hate lies. She confided in me, that she had sex with a guy whom she dated briefly when we were apart but that she used protection. I believed her and didn't really bother myself because we were not together when it happened.

Few months later, I proposed to her and she accepted my marriage proposal. Since then, the relationship has been beautiful and we have become better as we were previously before the break up. We are actually planning our wedding in a few months.

Yesterday, she confessed to me that she had an abortion while we were apart. That she lied about using protection and that she got pregnant and aborted the baby.

Since then, I have mixed feelings for her:

Firstly, I am strongly against abortion and she knows that. Secondly, She lied to me!

The second reason is actually why I am more angry with her. She has lied to me previously and I don't know if I can believe and trust her again.

She has been very remorseful and she told me she came out clean because she wants to set everything right before we get married.

The issue here is that I don't know how can I trust her again?

my brother the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know I bet u this lady will make a good wife. Remember why God said that David is a king after his heart because he accepts his mistakes my own opinion good luck

MDBrand:
You are very stupid

more than stupid

SendAbroad:
First Picture... Ringworm

2nd picture: Scabies

oga visit dermatologist

alBHAGDADI:
This is a pure rubbish teaching coming from a Catholic Bishop of gay kingdom.

Where did God order that we should do what this preacher said with our tithe? Nowhere. What God said in Malachai 3:10 is that we should bring the tithe to his house. He didn't say we should branch somewhere else with it.

Yes, the pastor's idea seems like a reasonably brilliant and kind one, but that doesn't make it right in God's eyes. Remember that the way man thinks is different from the way God thinks.

Man thinks it is a good thing to give the tithe to someone in need of it. But where did God say such about tithe? Nowhere. He only said to bring it to his house and from there it is distributed to the needy.

Think of it this way: You are on your way to the hospital with 100k to pay for your child's medical bills. Suddenly you found a needy man. Be honest with yourself, will you give the money to the needy man to the detriment of your child in the hospital?

I can bet you won't. So why do you now think it is right to give your tithe to the needy man? Remember, it is God's money and you have no right to decide how to help God spend it, especially when he gave you no such order.

Look, don't let people bamboozle you weird scenarios like the one given by the preacher. Always stand by God's command. The tithe is his, and the only thing you can do with it is to take it to his house, nowhere else.

They may even use your child as an example, saying what if your child is sick and the money needed for treatment is equivalent to the tithe money you have, which is your last dime.

What will I say in this case? Give that money to God because it is his. At this point many will be kicking against me. Little do they know that they are kicking against Jesus who said...


Mathew 10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Why do you think Abraham is referred to as a friend of God today? Because he obeyed God by proceeding to sacrifice his son Isaac as commanded by God. He didn't think twice. But people who are not worthy of Jesus are the ones who will disobey him by doing the thoughts of their heart instead of his word.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (KJV)
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

I won't call you names but read 1 Corinthians 6vs19 20 it said that our body is the temple OF God the priest said that we should save that temple with our tithe. If I investigate you properly you will be some of these criminals deceiving innocent people of God and robbing them of their hard earned money

Hobbsandshaw:
I need mature advice from nairalanders.

I got married to my wife December,2015. The marriage is now blessed with two boys, the 2nd boy came last month.

The issue now is that I just discovered my wife is HIV positive during this 2nd pregnancy.The woman that I showed so much love tricked me into marrying her knowing fully well that she was HIV positive. I'm not really angry because she is HIV positive,I'm angry because she has been playing me all along.

She was in the Uni in another state while we were dating.Almost to the end of her study in 2014, she called that she was pregnant after I visited.She came to Lagos with PT and scan results to prove her claim.She then pressured me into paying her bride price before the pregnancy become public.We did our traditional marriage and went to the registry.Months after the marriage,my wife said the pregnancy has mysteriously disappeared, blaming it on "village people",but the gentle man in me didn't allow me to read any meaning to the movie.She tricked me into marrying her with the fake pregnancy after discovering she is HIV positive.

She eventually took in(for real this time),she came back from antenatal one afternoon crying, when I enquired what the issue was, she told me that they booked her for C-SECTION,that the doctor said the baby's weight is below 2kg and will almost be impossible for her to have the baby by herself,I was there consoling her not knowing that the doctor opted for C-SECTION because she is HIV positive.She actually told them not to disclose her status to me.The baby was 3.6kg at birth.My son was giving Nevirapine.I did some search and discovered that the drug is an antiretroviral drug,I became worried but I still played it down.

Her lid finally blew when she started antenatal for this my 2nd son in a different hospital, maybe she might have thought to herself that at this point there is nothing I will do any more, she told me that the doctor referred her to a government hospital for HIV confirmatory test.We went and did the test,I don't know the trick she played this time, the result was non reactive for her, me and our son.I went to the hospital and made Alot of noise,we went home and celebrated.Seven months later, she had an accident and was admitted, the doctor not satisfied with result of our confirmatory test,took her sample and send it to one of the best labs in Lagos,all the kits shows she was reactive.Because of the scene I created earlier, the doctor called me and showed me the result.That was when I started playing back to the first pregnancy scam, the rush for the marriage and the Nevirapine that was giving to my first son and I discovered I was being fooled by this woman all along.

This woman has hid her status from me and have been taking drugs under my nose for over five years without me knowing.I and my boy have gone for test twice at seven months interval and we are confirmed negative. I was told at one teaching hospitals I went for the test last month that maybe I'm just lucky or we are "discordant couple"
I have been expecting her to show remorse, and maybe apologize but she is still doing as if nothing happened.

I can't discuss this with my family or even hers, she will be stigmatize.I feel betrayed,I don't know how long I will stay in this marriage, but then I'm concerned about my boys. I'm afraid she might get desperate and try other means to infect me,I don't trust her.
What should I do?

Brother if this is true please seek for divorce because your marriage foundation with her was fake and lies even in churches you can divorce your spouse if your discover that she lied to marry you