₦airaland Forum

rocknation62:
na propose you talk, which one be give her belle first?

If you give am belle. She no go get choice. Limited option, you don reduce her value.
Except she be hoe, she go move on.

VinnyBaba:
With ladies, age is NOTHING.

A Girl of 17yrs can have More Sense and Morals than a Lady of 29,30 years.

Infact from 25 Years upwards, ladies tend to be more AGGRESSIVE, Uptight, Paranoid and more Short-tempered.

Maybe because their Mates at that age, are getting Married and they are not.

Make we no lie the age gap much. They are both still young. Age still not a hindrance.

I know 16year olds who are more sexually active than some 20s yr olds. Make man just dey pray.

Me i can't handle juveniles sha.

yinkus6750:
@ 32, you busy frolicking with a 19 year old girl , that ought to focus on her education and future life.
You didn't see any matured or career lady of 25 and above.
No problem, continue with your suicide mission.
Just remember that you were warned here.

But if na ned nwoko or 1 rich baba alaiye, una no go fit say anything. Yimu...

rocknation62:
I will only propose to a woman who I’m 95% sure she’s mine. So before I make that move, I would do a lot of background check put her to test and engage her in an intelligent conversations to know if she’s for me or not doing this will save me the unnecessary embarrassment of she telling me no in public. But if at the end she said NO then the relationship is automatically over. No come stress me

No need to propose. Give am belle first.

Amotolongbo:
Most ladies have already made up their mind before a man shoots his shot. Only if a lady wants to stress you or doesn’t know how to reject your proposal, that is when she requests for time

Gbam

I have friends who are in the police force. If dem no hide like our padi in the post, i go use koboko flog them myself.

If you die for Nigeria, you die sara.
Hero my ass

BeautifulSolace:
Don't know, maybe because of some videos and stuffs I read online.

Tbh with you. Long distance relationship has never worked for me. I know what I'm capable of. I've done so much mischief that I can't trust anyone again. That's for me.

At the same time, i have several friends that can never cheat on their woman. It's a choice, we're not the same.

Do you know your man well?
If there's any bit of doubt, you should end it, if your instincts warns he's cheating, then he is.

Your sanity and self worth should come first

KBORN:
Women-whether single or married, hardly cook for a single man just for the fun of it.It's always a subtle greenlight of seduction.Believe me!

I agree with this. 100%

It's none of your business if she's in a serious relationship. Play along, flirt more. Give it time, you'll wipe her. Some women lie they are in relationships so as not to seem desperate or vulnerable. She might be testing you. Detach your emotions bro, she's all yours.

muyico:
Northerner no send u! How many u want kill self?

Asides that, they are more United and organized. They are not scared of death.

If na the other half of the country, fear go don dey body.

DystopianMuse:
Redpinler. Alfa mail. Read it very well you will understand. How can you even. This is not your usully redpill garbage. Nothing upstair except rhetorics on women

This is extreme.
Don't be so quick to judge.

You coulda broken it down for him.

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If you know you know.

Goodlady:
Seems you are now eating some kinda food that's resetting ya brain for better. Or it's this sapa that's controlling ya emotions?
Anyways we deserve the best from our men. But a good man is hard to find. Most of you are after sex in relationships!
You don't know how to communicate with a lady. You go woo person today, and ask her to come to ya house the following week. If she mumushiously gree you d initial sex after one hour of her staying there. Una fit sayske she sleep over as if she's homeless!
All una kobo-kobo tactics are boring. You all ll keep meeting people with low life, not women of substance!
Date for months, communicate, show dedication, love n care and we ll take you serious!

No Nigerian woman is worth going through stress for. Except she has a fat account balance or a rich network of friends.

Anashe:
Sorry to break it to you but most men are quite "undateable" let alone be taken seriously. They have zero communication skills, so casually unkind, astonishingly undependable, inconsistent.. I could go on. The worst part is that they think they’re such a catch and so have no reason to be better. Hilarious, isn't it?

It's two sided. Most women are like that too. They have unrealistic expectations and a fake sense of value too

Boondocxs:
I'm sure the "street ot is how to skone, drunk or join cult because that's what it mean

How about you let the young man be and stop enforcing your misogyny and nonsense ideas on him

Nah. It's just basic survival instinct, everyone needs it, especially in this Lagos.

No be we say make your papa no be prominent person. Some people don't know how to talk. So Herbert wigwe son that died alongside his parents is jobless too?

190:
No job

Abi?

Anny69:
Lmao! You're not bright at all and it's glaring. Lesbians don't need straight men either. It's a win-win situation love.

Take my words serious at your own peril.

Ayjay44:
why won't you want to work or hustle
Me I'll still work extra hard

Wetin my papa don work down for me.

Antivirus92:
marry from your place

You're not one to tell me

Anny69:
🤭

Of what value is a lesbian babe to a straight man?

Comot for here.

Men,

1) Don't date a woman in her 30s, if you're not willing to marry her.

2) Don't date a woman that is ahead of you in age, education, finance, and in mental energy.

3) Don't rẹ-date your ex that has gone ahead to date another man or men.

4) Don't date a woman simply because she's a virgin.

5) Don't date a woman goes to any religious place of worship more than she goes to her place of work.

6) Don't date a woman in whom you're not proud to associate with her friends.

7) Be careful with a woman that almost all her younger sisters are married & she's in her 30s.

Don't date a woman who talks bad of her father.

9) If her mother calls the shots at home, you may wish to be careful.

10) Look hard into her mother, that's your future if you wish to marry her.

11) If her mother calls you to ask for money, break up with her.

12) Don't date a feminists.

13) If she doesn't know how to cook the basic things & is unwilling to learn, you may wish to reconsider.

14) If you have been sexual with her, and she later says she wants to stop, start investigating her.

15) Don't date a woman that is always arguing to be right and not to listen to you.

16) If she has refused to create boundaries for you, after repeated warnings, break up with her.

17) If she has a male "bestie", it's a not a good sign.

18) If she's demanding that she needs girlfriend allowance, go and find another woman.

19) If she has intentionally dated fraudulent men, please don't even consider dating her.

20) If she doesn't show interest in what you're doing legitimately for a living, it's not a good sign.

21) If you've long left the university and now a working class. Please leave university girls alone.

22) If she's a single mother, please she should not be your first choice if you're not a single father, a divorcee or a widower.

23) If she's not modest in her dressing, and you correct her many times & she doesn't listen, she'll not be modest even as a wife.

24) If she has showed you potential red flags, don't try to be a captan save me. She'll remind you that she told you or showed you.

25) Don't continue to date a woman that is always comparing you with your firends or her exes.

26) If she's the first daughter from a struggling family were they depend on her, make sure you're capable if you wish to marry her.

27) If she reports you to her brothers more than she does to her sisters, it's not always a bad thing. She wants them to protect her.

28) If she pushes you to be better, please listen to her. Otherwise, she'll see you as a weak.

29) Watch how open she's with finances. But don't take undue advantage of it.

30) She must invest in you & sacrifice for you. She'll be more loyal to it.

Culled from Facebook.

What's your take?

190:

You and who joined in 2008

You must have me mistaken

I've gone to check your profile sir.

E don dey go o

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It's a mental disorder which psychiatrist call OBSESSION . A lot of guys are suffering from this mental disorder on Nairaland.

Abi o boss.
If them wan become gay make dem become gay.

Enough of hiding within the folds of misogyny.

190:

Count me out..

Only signed up on here just a few minutes ago

I have no clue what old days you talking about bruv

You joined 2008. You be agba ooo.
I was still in jss 1.
Used to hear older people talk about nairaland being the thing then. I joined 2021, post covid.

Women this, women that. Even me sef don tire. Let's all take a break abeg.

190:
Nah i loathe nigerian guys more

Reading y'all comments.
It's a like a reunion here. The good old days of nairaland we always hear about.

Jestin:
What is going on here or my eye is deceiving me

😂😂

Una never see anything

Fair skinned Ibo or Akwa ibom woman.

I'm Yoruba

thesicilian:
Even the statue of liberty will look like a needle inside the grand canyon

Gbam