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bigtt76:
I'm not saying she's worng in trying to correct the lady but

1. She got herself distracted from the church service because she did not mind her business. Do you go to church to look at others or be in the Lord?

2. By tapping the lady in full view of everyone, you are indirectly exposing her ills to the world. The bible did not recommend announcing publicly ills of your neighbor or brother but rather advises you call them aside and tell them what they did wrong, if they refused to change, report to a man of God for redress.

Being in the Lord doesn't mean you should forget yourself.
In fact, you're more conscious of your surrounding at that time.

OP explained how he tapped the lady(which could just be a beckon) and I'm certain he did it in a way not to draw attention hence the "signal look of why she was using her phone in church" which was obviously not using a digital bible.

Your mamma never cut eye for u for public before when u dey mess up abi? Why didn't she wait until you both get home?
Even if some mother's would, many I know wouldn't.

PrincessofDSS:
I never said so mind you…. You might be in church but don’t have the spiritual eyes to see what I can see from here

Not everyone in church with you came for the same purpose.. some are not e en humans

I guess you’re just a church goer….

You guess? you should've have said it with your full chest that "you know"

You're definitely blind spiritually if you can articulate the narratives behind what transpired.

Saintmary:
You went to church to look at people who are pressing phones, how are you any better than them?



Pharisee, remove the beam in your eyes before removing the speck of dust on another's eyes.



Na your type suppose chop resetting slap.

So there shouldn't be order in the house of God again abi?

OP hasn't done anything wrong by correcting her.

So someone should be answering a call in church near me and you'll expect me to mind my business?

bigtt76:
Its rather you that should've minded your business. If you had concentrated on what was being preached, I don't see how you would've been attracted to the lady. You got attracted because you had already judged her in your mind and saw it as a good meat for social media to devour.

Least you could've done was ignore her and after service, approach her in a friendly way and advise her and not try to show holiness in church by tapping her.

There's nothing wrong with what OP did.

Only a fool despises correction

PrincessofDSS:
Lol

My dear Brother, I will advise you mind your business anytime you’re in church

Everyone has his or her purpose of coming to church and yours might be entirely different from hers

A word is enough for the wise

If your sister came to your father's house to disrespect him, you'll ignore her abi?

Do you really think what she was doing was appropriate?

DevilSignature:
she should have given you a thick slap on your first so that next time you mind your fuckiin business

Whoever ignores instruction despises himself, but he who listens to reproof gains intelligence.

free2ryhme:
From the timestamp of this post you also violated because from all indication you should be focused on service yet you are concerned about making a post for nairaland regarding the lady's attitude to church sevice

If it was an ant that was climbing up her dress and the brother noticed it and yanked it off, averting a possible dance even without music playing that would distract many and to her own expense, would you also say the brother Lost focus?

SoapQueen:
Mind your business. You're forgetting something, the 1hr 45 minutes you spent looking at her, was also a waste.

Salvation they say is personal.

Assistant Jesus.

The post does not suggest he was focused on her the whole time. Reason am now.

Salvation is personal means you should let someone who's going astray continue in that path?

If she won't focus on why she came to church, which should be to worship, reverend and hear from God, make she dey her house.

olaniyi50:
Wisdom no dey this talk. Why do you think people can't press phone when been addressed by a chairman or governor Get sense.

Na u need to get sense. There's a way that seems right to a man. The end is destruction

pstJey:
Stop it, it's wrong.

At least show some respect for GOD.

I sat next to a lady that was visiting IG, reposting things on WhatsApp status and streaming another church's service in church.

My biggest grouse was that she did this throughout the 1hr 45 mins service.

When the sermon switched to why we're meant to correct people when we see them acting wrongly, I knew I had to do something.

So I tapped her and gave her the "why are you using your phone in church" look.

This lady responded so angrily it shocked me. Anyways, we were going to cause a scene so I let her alone.
At least I'd passed my message.

If you use your phone in church, please stop it. You end up distracting people around you plus it's disrespectful. Please stop it.

Well done brother.

Mayng01:
minding your business will save you a lot from negative lots

That's actually his business. To correct an erring person.

For she to have gone to church, it shows she acknowledges God as her father. He who tried to corrected her is also a son.

If you saw your bro or sis disrespecting your father, would you call them to order?

When the bible says "do not neglect the gathering of the saints" HEB 10:25
what do you think?

One of the benefits is checkmating and chastising one another to live uprightly

AntiChristian:
Which verse says it's wrong?

Will you press your phone if your local government chairman when he's addressing you? Make we no talk of governor seff.

Then na God presence you go take dey press phone ni.. warn urself o

KiNg0G:
I lived with my father's brother for a long time. he didn't work one day, all he does in the morning was to wash his mouth, have his bath then have his meal, awaiting his wife to come back from her trade in the market.. Then off she went to prepare another meal.. Staying With them was hell for me because sometimes there was hardly food in the house but my uncle hardly cares about that, it is either he is in one joint with his friends on a sunny day or he is at home listening to radio stations. His wife was the provider and never for once did she insult him...

This same character has gotten into me deeply, I can't help myself. I can't do thing's for myself.

My girlfriend cohabiting with me is the one providing almost everything we need all I do is to give her my G-15 in the evening. I'm always at home 24/7. She's never complained, I love it, for me to get a job and be answering Sir sir to people, I can't.

Stay fresh, bath, eat and sleep is the order of the day.

Few women are like this,
just the other day she asked me to come pay her bride price before the year ends, I asked her where would I see the money... baby girl told me not worry that something huge is coming..

I love this freedom, but sometimes I get a mixed feelings of been a liability, ants feeding on sugars. Anyway I'm enjoying myself quite well.

The real thing is my masculinity as the head of the house still intact.

One day, ya eye go clear

You go say; Shay na my eye dey pain me abi na wetin

protoncub:
I'm not asking for a friend.

Why is it that every time I masturbate, I fall sick? Please, I need logical explanations.

The interesting thing is, even if I have sex everyday for a whole week, I don't fall sick. In fact I get healthier.

At a point, I was servicing three girls together and doing several rounds daily. I never fell sick. But once I try to masturbate, its a combination of fever, sore-throat, diarrhea, fatigue etc.

I've searched Google for answers but webpage is filled with desperate people (especially the westerners) claiming that masturbation is perfectly healthy and there's no scientific proof that it has any harm.

Oboi... Just try stop am. E no easy, but try.
If nobody go tell u, me i go cap u

Just like the rest addictions (smoking, alcohol, gambling etc) it'll only slowly destroy you.

Note: This is how you'll know it's a addiction; hard to quit.

Bobochicago:
It all on your mind. There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation . I open a lot of thread on nairaland and I see people erroneously linking masturbation to various health or spiritual issues without any empirical data to back it up . I know people who masturbate every day, Monday to Sunday for the last 15 years , they didn’t lose weight, neither did they fall sick . You won’t know except they tell you and they are definitely one of the smartest peeps in school as well .
Bro , there is absolutely nothing wrong with you , and there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation. Don’t let any religion fanatic make you feel guilty after masturbating , that might account for the “sick feeling “ you get after masturbating

SAY YES TO MASTURBATION

Sick feeling Abi? Person dey cum dey go, u say na sick feeling

Did OP tell you he was cajoled into quitting by a religious person?
No matter how much you try painting the evil act, it's wrong. Dicck was created for pvssy and not your hand.

Drsnives:
Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.

I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.

Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?

Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

Modified: she's from obiaruku in ukuwani local government area of Delta State.

I'm Deltan. Na job dem wan job u so

It may not be the girl's intention tho. She's probably a pawn in the game.

Remember what happened to Jacob in Gen. 29. Laban had to marry the older sister,Leah first because of thier tradition and had to work extra 7years for Rachel.

In my own opinion, paying her mother's bride price means you're marrying them both.

The people who I think should pay the mother's pride price are the Late Husband's kinsmen.

yeah

Gasive:
Welcome back Boss!!
Been a long time.

na me be brooktarader

GabsonFX:
I mentioned last time that I had stopped trading for the month and profits withdrawal to take place on 20th. Here we go.
Both profit share and my fee refund landing

Still motivating someone out there, fx is is the sweetest thing I know

impressive

paulolee:
sure man...after sallah, he is d most inform African striker in Europe

senior man kelz nko.. wetin dey happen to am?

Mariangeles:
As long as it is sweet, there’s sugar in it.

Are you saying there aren't sweeteners without glucose?

jtech17:
see ehn even me sef no grab e done be like 8 years ago I even go gym... I know say I dey fit, sha... I can do pushups, situps and jogging, all I know is I'm fit,... .NO BE BOXING DEM DEY DO FOR Ultimate search auditions na, .... people you soppose fear na people that can swim and run even ppl dat play football..... na those ones I dey fear..... where I feel I can have issues na those 2 areas..... I can swim but I don't even know weda I'm fast when competing,.. I never do swimming competition before

If na water, i can mashup ...emi fish 4 water

jtech17:
updates on selection feedback or what? For selection I haven't gotten any mail same goes for a friend of mine who's a Boxer

Boxer keh... nawa o

when i dey think say na normal human being dey go so, not knowing say na trained sportsmen

dinodangana:
Download 'video panda compress and share' on playstore

Thank you

jtech17:
man dat aptitude test get as e be oo, before I could think twice 30 seconds done go... well I just fill d form upload my video n move ahead... fingers crossed... in God we trust

please, how were you able to make a 10mb video? I have tried all video compressors but to no avail

I have the sane issue..

Lalasticlala


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Friday 6, August, 2021
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