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pls is tstv better than DStv? and how much is Tstv?

man utd are shameless.

it's because u are idle,look for something to do to keep ur self busy. the thought will move out from ur brain gradually till u stop to masturbate.

Senegal

change ur break pad

Janina:
Have been a guest on this platform ... so I decided to open an account ...
Am a 20 years old lady ,

my parents exspecially my mom said that I shouldn't have a boyfriend..that if someone is coming for me it going to be Marriage anything apart from marriage should be cut off.
so I decided to stick with what she said... cos I love my parents parents very much I don't want to break their heart..
But has anyone have an experience like this

Ur mum gave u the best advice. Make sure u hearken to her words. Boyfriend will only destroy or distract u from attaining ur life goals and objectives. Wisdom is profitable,, be wise to listen to ur mum.

church can only change the character of a person within or inside the church only. Alot of people only pretend inside the church to be what they are not, but tends to behave differently outside the church. it's only God that changes character not church.

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

bro, take it to God in prayer. There's nothing God can't do. Don't give up on ur wife. divorce is not the best option here.

Mercychen:
What were those abusive words you said to her that she's finding hard to let go? You didn't state them so we can know how bad it is. Some words can be very damaging and difficult to forget, you know?

Again, was she really into you before marriage or it was a case of pregnancy "induced" Marriage? I mean if you truly love someone, no matter what, you'll forgive them, especially if it's someone you're spending the rest of your life with. I doubt if she really loves you.

Just call and ask her what she wants? If she's not willing to go on with the marriage, let her say. If it's time apart she needs, then let one of you take a trip for some time so that by the time you get back, the love will have rekindled through missing each other.
Some times, "see finish" can cause this of thing where couples just grow tired of each other.

u are correct here, I think they space each other for sometime.

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

It's the best to remain single , in as much as they are not financially stable. it's better they remain single than to have a broken marriage.

Buhari has failed Nigerians, APC government is a failure.

Putin is not carried way by the number dealth soldiers.

she also said she need some time to know me better.

She told me she is not interested, and she also said she is not ready for any relationship because of her studies.

Marriage is a blessing from God. He who finds a wife findeth good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord.

Udala

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Milesbillions:
I just concluded my service year on February 2022....barely a month ago and I'm still job hunting, although I have submitted so many applications but the job invites that are coming through are from lagos.

I'm currently in the east. Don't have anybody to stay with in Lagos for now. Now, I'm somebody that like to get a work in career or field that does not allign with my course of study, remember...I studied Animal and Environmental Biology and I came out with a good 2:1. In terms of job opportunities in Nigeria in respect to what I studied, it is very limited and chances of me getting in a job is very slim considering Nigeria factors as I don't have any connection.

A friend adviced me to go for my masters abroad and I told him, there is no money to do the initial processes although I believe in myself that I can get full funding if I apply but the money to write the necessary exams is not around, reason I'm trying my best to get a work of any kind that doesn't necessarily require what I did in school. So many people are doing it and if I ask them, they will say, they got it through graduate trainees and entry level roles in organizations and firms

I'm somebody that likes working in logistics company and as a customer representative but the major hindrance I'm having right now, is not having the experiences that will make me to work in those fields. Some, if not all of the job offers I always come across require for 1-3 years experience which I Don't have.

So guys, what's the best way to get through this? Just one month out of service and I'm already feeling bored at home doing nothing apart from helping my parents in the farm works and reading a basic course on UI/UX designing?

Please any advice of any kind is duely welcomed. Insults are welcomed too. I out here to learn because, nobody knows it all.

About digital skills....I can write but currently don't have a system to do the job again.

The mods please help me move it to the right thread and if possible, Front page.

bros take it easy with ur self. With time everything will be alright.

congratulations

truelly she deserves to be slapped.

Op, pls show her some level of maturity by leaving the shop for her and move on with ur life if what happened between both of u is irreconcilable.

congratulations man....

Tell him directly let him know simple.

Sheleads:
I am telling him indirectly, and he knows... He is a matured guy

Akpu and pounded yam

She deserves it.

Maguire is only covered by grace, not by merit.

2m is ok, tell the rider to pay it up within a year.

2m is ok

I agree with PDP

nothing can change the fact that they are inmates. no matter their beauty they all inmates.

Nawaooo, jobless Akwaibom youth killing each other.

The female inmates are doing fine in prison while the male inmates are suffering. The pictures above will tell u more.