Crime › Re: 17-year-old Peace Asukwo Commits Suicide Over Disagreement With Yoruba Boyfriend by nethacker(m): 8:48pm On Nov 08, 2010 |
darela123: Search Peace Asukwo and Tifase Fisayo that fisayo is using jesus pictures as profile pix but click on Photos to see confirmed |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Wake Up At 27 Years by nethacker(m): 7:42pm On Nov 08, 2010 |
ola olabiy: They are many in the UK. Often, they turn 'born again'.
They become more accommodating and usually have this lovely homely feel to their attitude. them plenty here for US too. these 1s sef dey use jazz join their own plus dem b nurse again  |
Romance › Re: Plz Beware Of Girls With Bids On Their Waist,they Are Evil.its Confirmed by nethacker(m): 10:15pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
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Romance › Re: Why Are Girls Desperate To Get Married? by nethacker(m): 10:04pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
madoba: Are we really desperate to get married? I don't know about other women I can only speak for myself, I am not desperate to get married. I honestly enjoy being single, I enjoy sharing a flat with my friend, paying my own bills etc etc
My core values are self sufficiency and independence, I grew up with a strong sense of these values and from the time I left school six years ago I have been driven by the desire to work hard and just take good care of my parents before I lose anyone of them. Marriage is often the last thing on my mind because I am practically consumed by the desire to cater for my folks.
In all sincereity (without any pretence) I haven't felt the need or that yearning desire to be married. I remember a conversation I once had with a male friend during my 4th year in school (I studied a 5 year course) he asked me when i would like to get married and I said to him that I didn't feel the need or desire to be married. He claimed I was only saying that because I was still young and in my early twenties BUT GUESS WHAT its been 5 years now and I still feel the same way I did the day we had that conversation.
Now the popular notion, is that the older we (women) get the more desperate we become, but I have grown older and my feelings haven't changed about marriage. Whether it happens or not my life goes on, I feel content and good about being single and I am not actively looking to be hooked or to become attached to any man. I know some of you here will say that when I hit my middle or late thirties I will become desperate. Don't know about that, but i will enjoy being single
Not everyone is crazy about marriage, I am not even sure i want to have kids of my own. But I love kids especially at their toddler age and i have no qualms with adoption. I am an African and Nigerian woman who is not easily influenced by western culture so don't think this is another black sister with western upbringing this is just my honest thought and feeling about marriage. Another consequence of too much of Oprah winfrey show  |
Romance › Re: Why Do You Love Slim Girls? by nethacker(m): 9:42pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Successful Ladies Marry Late? by nethacker(m): 9:16pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UCL: Chelsea Vs Spartak Moscow [4 - 1] On Wednesday 3rd November 2010 by nethacker(m): 8:48pm On Nov 03, 2010 |
na we dey win  |
Politics › Re: Pastor Tunde Bakare Vows To Mobilise 12m Nigerians To Campaign Against IBB by nethacker(m): 8:10pm On Nov 02, 2010 |
el-fayad: i dont no what this so-called man of god want again after agitating yardua most go now na ibb be his problem.all the offering that you collect in your church on sundayz don finish ko?pastor,go and mind your business nothing join church with politics bcoz the kind moni that this so-called man of god get no bi small wooh and i dont him to be a businessman,so where u get that money?no give me ansa bcoz i know.(zoning ko a mutu dan uban ku) u must be seriously insane and b suffering frm an incurable electric shock as a result of ur visionless n myopic tribal reasoning.r u so dumb  y cant we ever dream of moving forward in dat country? if u hv nothing reasonable 2 say,pls STFU!!!!!  Ndagisat4u: Pastor tunde are good christan or man of God?politics is not a religion,if you like campain for him,if you dont leave it ALLAH is controll this shows dat u were accidentally opportune 2 lay ur rotten hands on a keyboard 2 type. wen ribadu(a core muslim, i mean devoted one) stood up against bode george and tafa balogun(his former boss),did d yorubas complain? NO!!! cos we knew d truth, some of these uneducated goats up there notice everything except the obvious. Nonsense!!  Bakare pls let's go |
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Politics › Re: Ibb's Interview On Moments With Mo by nethacker(m): 3:49pm On Nov 02, 2010 |
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Travel › Re: Nigerians In The Diaspora Would You Move Back Home ? by nethacker(m): 8:41pm On Oct 29, 2010 |
hmmm moving back home na long thing, maybe if Oil coy halla me sha  |
Nairaland General › Re: Lottery:why Do Winners Squander Their Earnings by nethacker(m): 7:56pm On Oct 29, 2010 |
because he is possessed  |
Career › Re: What Is The Best Thing U Like About your Workplace by nethacker(m): 7:54pm On Oct 29, 2010 |
I am always d only 1 in d office and i browse all day  |
Travel › Re: General U.S.A (student) Visa Enquiries by nethacker(m): 5:10am On Oct 24, 2010 |
djunit1: Any body wey talk say make Ojap go back naija is not saying the right thing. Go back and do what? Make him go start to run after molue? Ojap like I told you before, your case is better. I have met other Africans I spoke with who came here with nothing, they slept in subways here in NY and today they have the papers with everything. Now matter how bad it is this place is better! I know many people will not agree but suffering and conquering to become successful is what makes a man! sebi u get my mail?inbox me ur number or tell ojap 2 give u my number. as per d situation,i cant shout.una no knw say these oyinbos wey dey where all of una dey go line up for visa dey read dis thread abi?make una just knw wetin una go dey come here come yarn oo,  |
Politics › Re: Fg Acquires 4 New Jets At $200million by nethacker(m): 4:30am On Oct 24, 2010 |
aircraft dey but infrasture n education na zero  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Man United Vs West Bromwich Albion [2 - 2] On Sat 16th October 2010 by nethacker(m): 4:55pm On Oct 16, 2010 |
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Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 10:25pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva:
 meaning [size=8pt]causons de sorte que nous ne serons pas détourner le fil[/size] |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 10:14pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva: yep i know we go jam one day  |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 10:01pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva: funny. . . . . 
I know its not like that everywhere but u know what im talking about. yea but d area i stay aint bad at all though some areas in d city ain't good @ all, there is such in college park too na  |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 9:54pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
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Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 9:36pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
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Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 9:07pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva: oh ok so why does your location say baltimore? as in na baltimore city gangan i dey  i mean inside d city  |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 8:56pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva: germantown area where? na city me dey |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 8:45pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva: LOL thats ok. DC is just a city that "acts" like a state. They have a representative in the house, but she has no say, really , thats why their license plates says "taxtation w/o representation".
ummm, im not in that area. UMBC is a good 40 mins north from me. I'm closer to UMD- College Park. my bad. i actually wanted to say college park, na all those germantown area b dat, anywys we go jam 1day  |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 8:19pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
naija_diva: Im in northern pg county, just outside of DC, literally on the border. all those areas dey confuse me , i dnt knw if DC is a state or a county?I hv heard of it as a state but d map doesnt reflect it, na UMBC u dey?  |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 7:06pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
vandops: i sent u a message there earlier but u no respond, make we talk tonight for YIM, did u send it to val2, @yahoo.com? inbox me so i go send u my number |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 6:58pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
vandops: so much fun around, rily missed this
whr in MD are u? whr hv u been? all of ya dat got d visa forgot d thread abi? anyway i dey baltimore, hit me up on my YIM |
Events › Re: Nigerian Parade 2010 New York Video by nethacker(m): 5:44pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
I really felt bad to have missed it  naija_diva: After watching the clip, i wish i was there lol whr in d DMV area r u ? |
Crime › Re: Why I Allowed Dad To Impregnate Me –16-year-old Girl by nethacker(m): 4:41pm On Oct 15, 2010 |
i will kill him if he were my in-law  wat a rubbish!!!  |
Politics › Re: Efcc’s Prosecution Of Corrupt Politicians ! by nethacker(m): 9:16pm On Sep 30, 2010 |
EFCC is a toothless bulldog  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City Vs Chelsea [1 - 0] On Saturday, Sept 25th by nethacker(m): 10:39pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
it will be like a dream wen after 90mins man city see 4 goals in their net |
Travel › Re: General U.S.A (student) Visa Enquiries by nethacker(m): 5:07pm On Sep 24, 2010 |
OjaP: @seniorak47,i am digging California too, You cant believe i have started working on my thesis already.Met my prof this morning and we went to the field together.How is Newyork?We cant wait to see you come over,alot of places for you to visit.I think Sanciro is still right even if he files far beyond the 90days.if he was to be given,what they will do is just hold his passport till when the 90days starts.that is not a red flag @ all.Seniorak47,what do you think about having a nairalander party in California?Does it make sense? OjaP, I am very sure u must have seen oyewolejos on this thread-one of the counsellors here- he is in california too, Los angeles to be precise. Where in cali r u? Concerning the nairaland party, Myself,femilangy and other NL lords have it in mind to host a party but the location is still d problem as we hv to consider logistics and proximity of d location to our respective states.In d mean time, we might meet at madison square(42nd street) in NYC b4 heading to where Nigeria@50 will b celebrated. If we will finally decide where to choose,i knw it wil be any of DC,NYC or Los Angeles, Send me ur email then we will relate, Nethacker!!! |