mmababy:

after dating a guy who promise to marry her for 10 years,and she is 35 now the guy left her and got married to her best friend

That's a really long time. . .hello? I believe every woman should know what she wants. . .If a year's gone past and the future of the relationship isn't defined. . .then sis pls start looking else where. . .ain't got such time to waste.

@sistawoman

your advice really made a lot of sense and meaning to me. . .very wonderful advice there.

Thanks Topup. . .But even if he comes back i don't consider taking him back. Because i always wanted to move on. . but never got the courage to do so. . . but now I've got the courage. . . am glad i did. . .because i was never happy with him. . .he's done a lot of things to hurt me . . .and i kept tolerating him because i was in love,

Now that i can see more clearly. . .i realize he wasn't worth all the love i gave 2 him. . .I know it won't work out between both of them. . .because he's here and she's in US. .that's like a totally different continent. . . and he's not the distant kinda of person. . .so he's definitely going to cheat on her. I also know he would be back by the time she leaves. . .but then it would be too late.

I've already decided to move on. . .let go of past hurts and just have fun with friends and family. . .at least those who i know care about me so much. . .and they really making it easy for me. . .because ever since i broke up with him. . .i haven't missed him and i find myself growing stronger each passing day. . .I kinda of hold no grudges against him. . .because i know everything happens for a reason and he was never the one for me. . .He only walked out to give a better guy a chance. . .so am all cool.

I took everyone's advice. . . to walk away. . , and moved on. . . .and i must say i feel so much better. . . .I'm even wondering what ever i saw in him. . . .he ain't worth the stress. Thanks for all your advice. I appreciate it.

ok, i never thought i would do this, but i just need a honest advice, My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of problems for the past few weeks, we have been dating for seven months,

he's been communicating with his ex since last year November and only told me in feb, He says he finds himself thinking of me more than he thinks of her, and he doesn't want to loose me, I know he cares about me because he shows it, but its so difficult because it hurts so much,

He said he wants to get married this year and is considering his ex, because am still young(20) and not ready, he last saw this girl six years ago, they never broke up, she was kinda of his first love, the girl's family just took her away to US because they didn't want her to be around him, they from different tribes, now she's 26 and she's planning to come see him and they would hang out, like he's gonna tour her round the city,

Now i know the best thing for me would be to move on, but i love this guy and its so difficult, and i wanna let go, but he's making it difficult, and doesn't wanna let go, I can't see myself being second best

we live in the same city (Singapore) and this girl lives in the US, He keeps saying he doesn't wanna just throw away what we have together, and i should give him time to fix it, like after she leaves,

Am thinking, whether he wants to see if it still works out between them, and if doesn't then he can have where to lean back on, but what if it works out, where does that leave me

Am confused right now, what do you think i should do, Pls no insults just honest opinions and advice. thanks,

please am looking for "chocomilo by faze" please does anyone have the song?

Please, i need to know how to get over a broken heart. am in love with a guy who claims he loves me but does not appreciate me. instead he enjoys hurting me.

I cant count the number of times i cried on my pillow. my heart feels like its breaking into pieces.

i wish it were easy to walk away.

i've been crying all day and he doesn't seem to care.

i need advice please.

@LUCABRASI

Did you actually call Singaporean police, poverty stricken? 

Now that's so hilarious. Because i lived in Singapore, and i can authoritatively say, those men are far from poverty stricken. In fact they one of the highly paid police officers in Asia.

And not only that, they provided with all the latest technology, to make their work easy. so the comparison is simply void.

Am going thru that now, and just wish i could just quit it all. but its so hard. Its not that he doesn't love me but i just think he's totally wrong for me. i just wish it were easy,

Please i know this is a wrong section to post this thread, but i need to know the current black market exchange rate (22nd Dec 2008) of the dollar to naira. thank you very much.

Thank you.

Hi, I am doing a school advertising project. We are expected to advertise ourselves to a potential employer.

They gave us a concept of a natural water fall flowing into a river, now i need like a sentence to describe this concept.

Suggestions would be highly appreciated.

gaddafi81:

Yes you can: Two different Televisions

then you must have a psychological problem.

Hi am a Nigerian student studying in a foreign country. My Mass Media law lecturer has asked us to come up with an essay related to censorship problems in Nigeria. Since am not to familiar with the problems regarding the censorship board in Nigeria, i just need some assistance here. Would be really grateful. thank you.

this is crazy.

I know age has got nothing to do with maturity sometimes, but i need to know which is preferable to date. am 20years old and i broke up with my boyfriend of 0ne month, because he wasn't matured enough to handle a real relationship( he's 21) so i need to know which would be preferable, all the guys between 26 - 30 who you can trust a bit to be in control and know what to do, or all these young boys who know nothing about being in a relationship or treating a girl right?

if u really want to get back to your roots, then go back home!

lmao. this is serious matter ohhh.

There ain't anything difficult about getting a first class degree, if you read well. then it ain't big a deal. congrats to all of them,

funny how people can pretend so much,

lmao, whao, are you peeps that gullible, cant you see that pic is an online pic, duhhh,

1 MAN ARMY:

FOOTBALL IS A GAME LAST YEAR AC MILAN WON THE CUP,THIS YEAR IS OUR TIME WE HAVE TO CELEBRATE,ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN NEXT SEASON IT CAN BE CHELSEA OR ARSENAL OR EVEN REAL MADRID.PLEASE LET FOOTBALL NOT WORRY YOU,SOME OF US ARE ABUSING PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT SUPPORTING THEM,THAT IS VERY BAD.I HOPE IF IAM NOT MISTAKEN NONE OF US THE MEMBERS OF NAIRALAND ARE GAINING ANYTHING FROM WATCHING FOOTBALL,WE ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN IT,BUT TO SAY THE FACT WE ARE WAISTING OUR TIME.NOBODY IS PAYING US AS FANS,IT IS ONLY THE PLAYERS THAT ARE GAINING SINCE THAT IS THERE OWN SOURSE OF INCOME.WE ARE NOT IN THIS WORLD TO PLAY AND WAISTE OUR TIME.I CANNOT IMAGINE SOME BODY IN AFRICA WILL FIGHT HIS FELLOW COUNTRY MAN BECAUSE OF WHAT IS GOING ON IN EUROPE.IF FOOTBALL IS TEACHING ANY LESSON THEN THAT MUST BE UNITY.PLEASE BE UNITED.
FINALY AS MAN UNITED FAN I THINK I WILL SAY CONGRATS TO ALL ONE UNITED MEMBERS.
WE HAVE TO JUBILATE,
MAN UNITED YOU CAN`T BEAT THEM,YOU CAN`T JOIN THEM.YOU HAVE YOUR CLUB SO LIVE UNITED ALONE

Thank you jare, haba, all these swearing and cursing, because of wetin, na wa ohh, shooo, , has it come to dat, may God have mercy.

lol, what funny kids . but sometimes even though we think kids are talking silly, there's actually sense and truth in what they say if we only take time to listen.

TOYOSI20:

"Mission unaccomplished"

Na real mission unaccomplished.

What sort of denture?
should have told her a long time ago.

May God have mercy on you.

That was like 3years ago.

@topic
I see nothing wrong in telling a guy how much you love him.

Lol.

Sometimes shit happens, just move on.

wondering how the meeting would go tomorrow.