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Men/Women I am not asking your to be too proud, over zealous... I am asking you to be creative, not with your boring idea, but something you did more research on..

I have asked many people (adults) what do you want to be and they told me they want to be great, build big empires and make a difference..

I am like "so you were planning to be small before and you were planning to look like bolanle"

We are all planning to achieve success, great things, we all want to be the best doctors, big CEO's, or whatever we want or choose to be...

The real question is how much research have you done about it..

You want to create the most popular clothing line.. Interesting... if you don't know about how Your market (which may be Nigerians or Kenyans or Ghanaians) react to clothing lines.

You might want to create green energy... and yet you do not know how your market reacts to green energy or if they even care that the exhaust pipes of their cars is polluting the air.

What do you know about your market.. Yes you have the idea, because you sat down one day and taught someone books and you said that you want to be a lecturer, Interesting...

Do you think being a lecturer is all about just teaching (that is if you are planning to be like our fathers in the lecture field) Lecture has to do with something much more... Go and watch American teaching classes and you will get a glimpse of it.

Or you just showed your friends how to wear clothes in the right fashion and you say ooh ooh I want to be a fashion designer... So you think everyone wants you to pick for them...

If you are saying you want to be an entrepreneur and you don't know anything about Economics and Marketing and Statictics no matter the idea you wasting your time..

Because when you know your market and all other things of relevance, you wouldn't complain about the financial aspect of your business, because investors will be looking for you.. to invest in you so that they can make gain off your profitable Idea..

All ideas are profitable to the beholder, it might be to 100 people around you, but when you are talking about business you are talking about more than 1 million people or do you want to sell to your family and friends alone..

I am speaking to the open minded who wants to improve, and those who want to improve me.. .I would love for you to follow me so that you can share from the ideas I put down and also so that you share with me your idea..

The Moral of this Post:

It is not saying I am an entrepreneur and I have a plan, It is about saying I have a billion dollar idea, I have the right market, the right persuasive methods, the right staff, the right investors to make the right profit..

If you don't know this you are thinking too small... Too small

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Nigerian bloggers please tell us educative stuff like what I wrote above

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firstking01:
Hahahaha....improvements starts from the mind....btw, check my latest topic and give me your view, it's currently on fp.

I am impressed... Although the post carries no psychological text to provoke an impact.

But quite still I am not a lady.... and I know it is Perception (and low cognitive knowledge) that makes a Lady do what she does...

I am waiting to be improved... (psychologically)

One thing you need to know before going into blogging is Personality

nnaemekanwachuk:
why do you say so come to the north a jobless man has 4 wives

So that is why Nigeria has a high poverty rate

[quote author=datyrone post=50393604][/quote]I do all that and I will not consider myself a good guy to that social level

Kelluckom:
[I guess you are wrong , in fact very wrong cos this was the exact amount I was earning when my wife married me , I told her and she said no problem bshe even left her own job to come stay with me since it was different cities. but to His glory alone things have changed for the better my salary has increased, greatly form what it was and still growing. now we are looking at 300k per month with other benefits and she got a new job too. so I say faith has a lot to play.rquot author=Newbeginnings post=50357764]I don't think a man who earns such an amount should think of getting married yet..

Thank God for you...

So how many success cases?

Like 1 out of 1,000

Still talking about Nigeria's high poverty rate here

sanpipita:
Good i can also see you are an aggressive, hopefully you will reduce Nigeria's poverty rate single handedly like the man you claim you are.

an aggressive...?? rather interesting...


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sanpipita:
Im not in position to reduce Nigeria's poverty rate, maybe whenever i run for president make sure you give me your vote, i will do my best i promise

hahhaha... I now understand that you are a passive....

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sanpipita:
Thats pure misogynist and phallocentric behaviour, all i can say is goodluck with that.

Hope you reduce Nigeria's poverty rate... with your non-misogynist and non-phallocentric ideas and standards

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sanpipita:
Yes its true im not a billionare and im working on estabilshing myself, you keep missing the point never said im going into marriage empty handed or plan becoming an irreponsible husband, all im saying is my wife and i will have share responsibilities, and why cant a man clean his home or take care of his kids? Well i will be doing that for my family atleast on my free time, thats how you share responsibilities in marriage

You will never understand.. to you it is all about responsibilities and love.... To me it is all about being a man...

midehi2:
so unfortunate your brain is twisted, if not you will simply understand the logic of the question, it is a pity your medulla oblongata has taken over the work of your cerebrum, still SMH

my last quote to you on this since you lack alot, if not you won't write your very first comment on this thread

chao!

chai... why didn't you tell me you went to Oxford University with those big grammars.. .I can see you graduated with first class ....

Anyway... I am sorry that this is the last time you are commenting.... and quoting

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morayo3:
KILODE

Good day

sanpipita:
What makes you think i have no plans to build an empire or figure out ideas, and wonder why you think your opinion is right? Ever had about opinions differing? And seems you are a misgyonist cos your idea of a husband having all responsibility is for the woman to glue himself to him and maybe worship every step he takes, on my part even if im a billionare my wife must have responsibilities, i rather marry a woman who will keep me on toes than a woman who will attach her life and ambitions to me cos im taking care of her responsiblities

Reference to opinion.. I never said my opinion is right... You said that I have what I want to do and you have what you want to do... So in a sense you were saying we have different opinions, so that is how it should end, but I was saying you should think better than it is just my opinion and it is your opinion.

Reference to your big grammars....... hahahahhaahha.......... Something tells me you are not a billionaire yet... Wait is that true?.. Okay, I never said a man should have all the responsibilities, because he wouldn't be cleaning the home and taking care of the children of course.. She has to give him advise on finance and other things of course.. (I mean why is she my wife)..

But let me tell you something.. Go and establish yourself, first, and you can give a woman the world.. and she can give you her life.

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midehi2:
SMH

Hahahaha... I love to speak with people at my level.... So when you ask a better question.. I will consider you to be at my level

bitchcrafts:
I read all of that op ...cos I read anything.

That aside,did u really sat all your mental faculties down to scribe this metaphorical monsterous edifice or did you out of anger issues began to jab furiously at the keyboard just to placate your frustrations? Im just curious oh cos this is just ...ah kant ... ah kant describe it.. lol just joking ,Nice piece but you were somehow too verbose ,banterish and not exactly unboring for my liking.

Actually I sat my mental faculties to scribe my experiences, experiments and rules... anger issues never qualify or edify me in a describable form...

Although banterish is not a word (I will take what I understand about it) as for being verbose, well Nigerians need to hear it over and over again.. Unboring... Interesting ... Thanks for finding my company pleasant..

If you liked it you can just follow me for more

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oluwashedy:
I still insist that I tried all these wif my ex buh she still left me. I still don't know why she quit and wouldn't disclose her reasons to me despite my pleading.... One thing I know for sure is that Nigerian gals are all after money. Still searching and yet to locate the faithful few

Like I said to one of the readers... You lack value... A man with value will barely beg... (you said you were pleading for her to stay).... You value is incomparable... that is why you stand... and she will be the one to hold on to you...

Are you now searching for church girls?

Originalsly:
How many of you have perfectly understood how the female mind works? Bro... of all the stuff you wrote.... this one is not possible... not yesterday... not today... not tomorrow...even if you are allowed another lifetime. No man has ever perfectly understood a womam. Men are stable and predictable. .. wired like a car new car... women are unstable not as stable and unpredictable...wiring done by a local Kazeem!

But I do support your other points.... making your self invaluable to the lady would keep her trapped.... very unlikely to risk stepping out of the relationship.

So you know that their mind is unstable and yet in quarrels you expect her to calm down during quarrels and anger..

You see you know how the female mind works (that it is unstable ) but you have not yet understood how it works (that is how to work with unstable conditions)

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datyrone:
bros everything you wrote will make a guy end up in a very strong friendzone....av done most of them,but they always want to keep me in the friendzone room

No you don't have value.... If you do then every girl will want your value, they will want to date you so that no other girl can have access to the value that you have..

midehi2:
A man to marry with 50k income and a married man with 50k income, what is the difference mr. man bomb dey ya head

Read the question and ask me again... I am talking about bachelors here...

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sanpipita:
Im not waiting for any rich woman, and even if i get a rich woman as a wife responsibilities must be shared still, my whole point is totally putting responsibility on one side in a marriage isnt cool, but everyone to his own, i know what i want, im sure you do know what you want too.

This is why Nigeria's poverty rate is high... Because men are looking to settle when they are supposed to be looking for ideas...

It was the Bible who said there is time for everything...

Stop being entitled to your own opinion sanpipita and start being entitled to the right opinion

We are men, leaders, warriors, Kings, we re meant to lead and protect a family..

Didn't the Bible call us the head

Not split responsibilities 50/50 and be expecting a woman to keep up...

sanpipita go and establish yourself, go and build an empire and a woman will do anything to keep you... She will want to be responsible for you knowing how hard you work, she will want to make sure you are feeling relaxed when having a headache....... massage you so that you can be steady and ready... she will say you are hers....

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[quote author=SIRJENTLE post=50382533][/quote]Well, society has changed and humans have changed with it

MVLOX:
something u have to realize is that pple re different and have different ways of motivation. Have u ever asked urself y most guys get really old and can't settle down, in some other cases some get really old haven't still made d money dey have been looking for all dis while and then finally decide to get a family of their own. The true is that things won't get better so thing that u will one day finally make it and settle down is a mere fallacy. I rather get married to a lady who is hard working and probably have a business or a job than get married to a lazy blood sucking lady who hasn't made a legit 10k all her life. my friend who earns less Dan 40k finally got married to a young beautiful lady who in government just last week here. The young ladies agreed to marry him not because he has money but because he sees potentials in him. The truth is that she is married and happy too. But out there many more young ladies will get old all in bid of looking for a young man with good figure salary. Bro u can as well say guys who earn 50k or less shouldn't just bother to get into relationships and just remain virgins

Things wouldn't get better........... hahahahaha... Tell that to Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg who is getting richer by the minute (so things will get better, if you are an intelligent and cognitive planner)...

Once again I am not talking about ladies and their choices of men... It is their business...

I am talking about men and purposes and standards...

Just remain virgins, because many of the broken hearted girls all around are the handwork of guys like such.

sanpipita:
Marriage is beyond being legal responsibility of one person, what if your wife is rich and capable? Are you saying you wont allow her take responsibilities too, she shouldnt be just there to breed kids and enjoy your wealth

She can be whoseever she wants to be... She can spend money on me and shower me with gifts... But as an independent man I look out for her... and that is why I get enough for her...

Because as humans we begin to feel that we neglect each other when everything is coming from one side only, and that can cause a mark in an already married marriage..

Now sanpipita, stop thinking about (if)... Starting about will and that will is in your hands....

Or are you waiting for a rich woman to come and marry you?

excel101:
There are men that used to earn over #300k monthly but today they're jobless. What a wise woman looks out for in a man is not his present take home(salary) but one with the fear of God, determination to succeed with brighter future.

that used to earn ...

I never said anything about women (wise or foolish)... they can keep doing whatever they are doing.... I am talking to the men.. If you ave something relating to men then quote me

itzmejerry:
why would yu say dat? my dad earn #30,000 per month nd he has been able to train 3. children dont discourage the dude It's all about planning

So how was life growing up for you... I am sure you lacked many of the books in school, maybe you were sent to a government school to reduce fees... or maybe you were lived life to survive, instead of enjoying its fruitfulness...

You are allowed jerry to go and earn 30k a month and get married, just imagine training 3 kids with 30,000 in this generation

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sanpipita:
Are we saying only the man should provide, if 50k isn't ok, wonder what will be okay, sometimes you people make marriage look like a business venture.

To me marriage is taking legal responsibility for the woman I have entrusted my life and will unto... I will not want her to struggle in pain with me. But to enjoy the wealth I struggled to gain for her sake, for my family's sake and for my children's sake.

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smart0074life:
He should wait till Wen he becomes older abi?

No, he should wait till he becomes richer and able to afford the basic necessities for his wife and kids in abundance... Then he can get marrried

shenaxy:
you re not fit enuf to b in dis world. Think b4 u say anything....

Read, Understand, before you quote me

ahamonyeka:
white lie from the pit of hell.what's if he plans well?

Then he should sit down and continue planning well,

Planning well doesn't mean your plans will be achieved

Thylord:
are u sure u are ok

Are you feeling well this morning?

It must have been the heat... Nepa is not trying?

How are you?

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