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I learnt that laziness brings one to poverty.......Hardwork, contentment and godliness is a great gain.

Being grateful in every situation is dope.

Yorubas would say..."adiye tio ku sima je agbado"

Heads of chicken is better than eating empty meal without protein... while empty meal is better than drinking garri all day... while drinking garri is better than starving all day or eating people's leftover.....the list is endless.

Igba o lo bi orere...toba koro o sima dun.

Misplaced priority.


You can survive without all the items bought.....as worse as the economy is...that 76k go buy foodstuff of close to 2months.

chatinent:
Money is everything.

He also brings love in exchange for respect..

He keeps making sure there is money in the relationship until he goes six feet yonder.

It's been long I saw you on here man!

Hope you're doing great?

We miss your educating posts...u and explorers.

If you're at the redemption city say hi


My Boss later approved my letter of permission.


I'm here and it's been a glorious Thursday service all day.


Glory!!!

safarifarms:
Very mature and civilized response to a non-deserving entity. Happy to see that we still have a few well brought up people on Nairaland. Keep it up and may God send help your way.

Thanks so much for the compliment Sir.


The havoc those scammers had wrecked on here has turned everyone else to a suspect.


O da lomo degbe....egbe kiise ile Omo...ojo tosi ro loje ka ko eyele po mo adie.


I pray the fraudsters desist from their illicit ways one day to avoid the wrath of karma on every evil stories they tell to fraud others IJN

youngrichnigga:
So why the tribute by the OP of the topic

LoL...the post was originally posted in July....there was a fire outbreak then...this new comment is another event that is making reference to the previous occurrence.

PotatoSalad:
See your head like toilet brush

LoL


Compliment of the season Sir.

youngrichnigga:
Was this reported in the mainstream media

It wasn't reported because there was no fire outbreak...thank God


I know about it cos I live here.

Khd95:
The unfortunate thing is that we never learn from our mistakes or mistakes of others

If people could still vote and defend APC even after 8 years of demonic rule, be rest assured that if another tanker spill in that same region again, people go still rush am.

This is not the first time tankers dey spill and this is always the result, anywhere across the country, let’s not blame govt for this none but peoples stupidity and ignorance

May their soul RIP

You were actually right here Sir.


They scooped en mass today also....awuf dey run belle.

I got to realize today...that Nigerians are our own enemy.



Another tanker fell in Ore this morning and people still have the guts to go scoop fuel.... despite how many were barbequed few months ago due to this insensitive act .



I was so furious passing by and watching them happily scoop fuel from a tickling bomb.


It's so annoying

oliverwrites:
Bro Goalminded1 I will try hard not to reveal myself on this forum but a little background

I was a hard guy, a very hard guy. My IQ level is high, I am a AA+ student. I can smell fraud from afar. I used to work for a certain UK..... and as a result antenna is always up.

Truly she approached me but she is certainly not a fraud. Investigating people behind them is so easy and she herself will be shocked to know what I already know about her. She is definitely not a fraud just a victim of toxic idiotas.

8 other people contacted me on that thread for help, I ignored 7, I intend to help one other guy even though I haven't replied him but he is legit.

My experience in my 37 years in this world is never to judge someone because of what other people do. Not everyone is the same. Some are just victims of circumstances. I grew up in a poorly very pauperized family and know what people go through.

Thanks so much for your input Sir.

I appreciate it.

Mavinsoladele:
@Newborn27 I'm angry at you. Why?

You dignified him with a response this long 😌. There are a lot of bitter people everywhere and you don't need to reply him.

@Goalminded1, try not to generalize, please. Don't just judge anyone by what others are doing.

That's the kind of response she should have given you 😂

I'm sorry for making you annoyed...I only replied him to clear his doubts ni.

Thanks for your input bro!

Real cultists don't carry all this objects of sacrifice to Ogun.



At 27...his mates are struggling to get their grounds In life .....he's forming local champion.

I wonder how many innocent he'd have hurt with his delusional heroism

Goalminded1:

All these people hiding backstage on NL to be doing their own...
The other day, you were in the thread that had the father of two girls asking what he should get them for the Christmas holidays. I was just seeing the tactics you were using, till you eventually came out plainly with your request to him for monetary assistance.

Your are truly wise, though. Lol
But where yours ends, another person's begins.

Women will always vilify us men, but still ask us for favours and receive the favours. But see the way most of you drag men on this forum, as if nothing good can come out from men.
Aiit...que sera sera.

I never hid backstage to do anything Sir.....the person I mentioned here Mavinsoladele was commenting on my usage on the Yoruba proverbs on the thread..."cook in your kitchen and post it here"


After replying him twice on the thread...I realized I might be derailing that thread being an old member of this great forum over a decade....I replied him on an old post of his to continue the conversation which he requested for my contact.



My advice to the man planning to gift his kids is genuine... asking him to go back to his wife and kids but he gave tangible reasons why that isn't in sight and I respect his opinion.


Check through my previous posts on here and show a single place I've ever dragged a man ok here..... despite the bitter experiences life had taught me at 29yrs old...I never resulted to being bitter....I don't do feminist or red pill things cos I hate generalization....that a man betray me doesn't mean I should start seeing all the male gender as evil... I have a father... brother... friends... lecturers...pastor's ....bosses and mentors that are exemplary male...I don't drag no one....I always say the true as it is.



In the aspect of asking oliverwrites to remember my kids and I in the spirit of his yuletide's celebration was not a fraud nor lie....I wouldn't abuse him if he choose not to as I never worked for him...as a single mom I can't confidently say I can do it all...the shouldering of responsibilities especially in this dispensation of high cost of things....I sometimes plead for help when it's becoming choking rather than sleeping around.....at 29... I'm not writing myself off to see men as bittered person...I will still get legally married and have a balanced home if God is willing... kindly get your facts right before calling people out Sir....you can prove where I drag someone on here too.


Shalom .

How I desire going....but the odds are against me.


Nothing beats self-employment

2010

13yrs

MTN ought to reward we old customers

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

This your story is disheartening Sis

For all the gory experiences you've been through...I want to say sorry ma.


Kindly note that.... there's a purpose for everything under the sun ...those bitter experiences shaped you into a matured adult.....this is not the right time to be vendetta.


Nemesis already caught up with her for begging you for help


Let go of the past....help her for humanity's sake and never make a mistake of trying to accommodate her kids...you can show your generosity from afar just like mindlog already advised to avoid stories that touches the heart.


To every woman seeing this.....that child you're maltreating cos he/she isn't yours might someday grow up to become your life saver ...treat people aright irrespective of their status ....karma is always a bitch.

Mindlog:
Help if you can BUT NEVER have any of half-siblings live with you....help from a distance.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

A woman of substance!

Ori gbemi naa ga....make kin baye maa fowotii!

Mavinsoladele:
I agree . I got the contact. You can remove it now.

Thanks!

Kindly modify your quote to erase the contact Sir.

Mavinsoladele:
Newborn27

It's a pleasure. I don't know if you mind being in contact on socials (WhatsApp), just as friends to learn from each other.

I always love meeting new and wise people .

I'm actually not wise...only God gives and has wisdom.

Mavinsoladele:
FHG signifies Faith Heroic Generation Global Enterprises. We are a group of network marketers and online freelancers all over the world who help people achieve financial independence and also provide solutions to health challenges in the society.

I'm actually a member of RCCG too and I'm based in Akure, Ondo State.

I love the fact that you back up your points with Yoruba proverbs. That proverb is most times used in our organization and that was why I asked.

I have a lot to learn from you.

I'm flattered!


All this for me?

Biko..na pikin I be o... I'm still learning a lot about life too.


FHG?

I haven't heard of it in my over a decade of my living in Ore.

I guess your group ain't popular.

I'm just being my proudly omoluabi self on the proverbs .

Thanks for your compliment sha.


Make I no derail our beautiful food thread.

Mavinsoladele:
From the quote (ajumobi o kan taanu...eni Olorun ran sini lon seni loore), are you a member of FHG?

FHG?

Kindly write the full meaning....I don't belong to any society but RCCG parish.


I'm used to the act of using Yoruba proverbs to buttress my point.


It's a norm for me both offline and online.

Lamanii22:
So guys, my sister met a man like a year ago that is divorced, right now he wants them to take it to another level, like wedding level…. My sister is a single mother though, educated, working class, successful…. But my mom doesn’t agree to it, she’s only seeing the bad side…


So I would like to know if there’s anyone who has gotten married to a divorced man before.. I would also like to know the pros and cons…

This said man has been truthful so far though…

Waiting for comments! Thank you…

For the fact that your mom is seeing the bad sign should be a red flag.


Being a single mom is a big deal on it's own to add another problem to hers.


She shouldn't rush into any marriage soonest and give it time...no matter his pretence or one sided story....the truth always prevail.


All she need now is to work on herself to avoid falling the second time.....she shouldn't make a new mistake trying to correct the previous one.

She should try and do her background checks well and weigh the pro and cons before proceeding.


How old is she anyways?

oxiide22:
ok sis thank you for this encouraging words

You're welcome Sir.

With God on our path... we'd surely overcome whatever we're all passing through someday.

Honestly...things are hard...and harder on single parents but I pray God crown our little efforts with success soonest IJN.

Be strong Sir.

oliverwrites:
Clout chasing on a faceless forum. I work at least 12 hours a day, I have no time for such nonsense.

Hnnnmmmm....I commend your efforts truly.

I hope she someday realize where the fault is and make up for the kid's sake.

Your assurance that she'd be yours forever is also an indication that you're actually a good person.




In the spirit of your yuletide plans...kindly extend your generosity to my kids too Sir

I have a boy9yrs a girl3yrs whom I shoulders their responsibility ..... we'd live to appreciate your help in this perilous times if you're willing to help Sir.

oliverwrites:
My daughters ( 3 of them ) have been through a lot this year. They are not used to daddy not being around ( Me and their mother are currently separated but I am hoping she would change and we would be back together ), so far the seem to be coping fine but I want to make this Christmas an awesome one for them and need gift ideas.

Please give me gift ideas.

I have a budget of 200k for each of them. This includes 100k each for their clothes and shoes for Christmas and New year.

And another 100k to buy them gifts they will like. They all have ulesson tablets so tablets are not options.

They are 7, 4 and 3.

If this your post and budget is not clout chasing.... I'd definitely give you a big kudos for being the real man and father.


This is an indication that there are still responsible men out there whom knows their rights and responsibilities in life.


I pray God continue to bless you and make those kids grow up to fulfill destiny and make you proud.



I would've loved to suggest gifts for them but my thoughts had been wired lowly... I pray God change my status someday.

I'm sure they'd appreciate whatever you end up getting.

Thumbs up Sir!

Many people hasn't seen garri to drink...be grateful for what you have and work harder for a better future.


Things are hard everywhere...no one is smiling...the few people that ought to help would either call you a scammer or lazy youth.


Fight poverty with every breathe in you.....ajumobi o kan taanu...eni Olorun ran sini lon seni loore.

Owo wogbo!

Did anybody see our lovely ahnie?

It's been long I saw her post on here.

Mama Zino we dey miss you... your food and vibes on here

I hope you're doing great wherever you are ma'am.

Fighting!!!