₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
The original mission appeared initially flawless but when you consider their history in bringing the same Christianity to other parts of the world, you would find that what eventually happened is to be expected as the religion has always— from its very foundation — been about the establishment of private enterprise. The same applies as far as Islam as well where the initial promise also does not compare with the reality of things at the end of the day. Sort of like what politicians do, after all, that is what religion is all about — politics of power and wealth.

2. There is nothing Jesus Christ about any of those religions because at the very root of religion is politics and greed.

3. Faith? The Catholic church — the father church of all your other churches today —has its own army of guards. If papa needs an army of them, why Pikin case suppose different?

Aside from the greedy and political aspect of religion...the doctrine of the bible is the best to nurture a child and have a saner clime....but it's so pathetic that it's only the favourable aspect of the bible that our religious leaders are using for their selfish interest.


*Orun nikan lo meni ti yoo la*


Sis Kobo...if you eventually have a child (ren) of yours... won't you nurture him/her with the biblical principles? Cos I'm 💯 sure you were never born an atheist.

Kobojunkie:
I expect you to tell me when.

I never replied because your question has its answers in it already and I don't want the topic to generate into arguing religion....

Talking about the catholic church...their impact on bringing the religion down here to us was initially flawless and it's 80% beneficial to everyone unlike their fellow Islamic counterpart whose religion preach war on infidels. According to them.

The primary aim of the CMS and Roman catholic in bringing christianity to us was to tell us about christ...but they found it hard to communicate with the locals which brought about the formal education we're both enjoying today...that same education brought light and both positive and negative impact on us....but as time goes by...the greed in human started monopolizing the religion and using the bible for their selfish interest.


The Jesus Christ we're all emulating never monopolize the gospel neither did he selfishly milk his followers dry but healed .... blessed and performed miracles according to the bible.


To my original topic;

Is it faith that we lack as human to be employing a guard or greed and selfishness that gives people the effontery to steal from the church?

budaatum:
Education and a job, to be precise.

Women these days are not settling for some ignorant teenage husband who can't feed himself not to talk of a woman and children, so women are educating themselves so they can feed themselves.

Pity for you ignorant teenagers is you now need to up your game to be worth marrying.

It's been a while ma'am...I love the pics attached to your comment.


Hope you're good ma?

It's because they know that marriage isn't all about having sexual intercourse only.


They believe they need to be responsible for the kids they'd be bringing to the world without them turning to almajiris.


They believe that education is light and d knowledge is power.....a teenager without quality education would end up wasteful to herself...her kids... family and society at large.


They believe that they're a growing child...not a bride at teenage.



My view.

Afamsi:
onuku you don't Know the name of your president abi

What's Onuku?

Kobojunkie:
During what point in time was Christianity not of private enterprise? Was it when Constantine endorsed it and made it the official religion of Rome? Or when the Catholic Church proclaimed itself, and its pope official representatives of God on earth? When?

Hmmmmmmmmmm

Kobojunkie:
The thieves already figured out that church business is nothing but that, business. They probably haven't figured out that the shrine business is likely pretty much the same thing. Plus, most shrines have next to nothing worth robbing.

The rate at which christianity is being privatized and monetized in Nigeria without giving back to the society saddened my heart.


Imagine members of a church can't afford the tuition fees of their kids in the same church they've been paying tithe.


Some mega churches will query their parish pastors during monthly returns if the money is incomplete.

There's much hunger and suffering in town...no mega church is doing or saying anything yet living large.


I just tire....God abeg!

Yet many are suffering to have a 3Square meal daily.


Aside from dunamis church that does some philanthropical works...none of this big churches are helping their members.... Jesus fed 5000 in his days.

This topic had been bothering me for a long time that I don't feel satisfied with the responses I get offline on it...


I want the scholars on here to please shed more light on this:

Thieves kept bulging into church and mosque buildings to steal electronics and money...after several praying and reporting to the police with no positive results...the pastor concluded on getting a guard...*vigilante corp* to help secure the church at night while each members pay for his salary.


Nobody dare enter a shrine to steal without instant repercussions...so I'm confused and need clarification Sirs/Mas.

Train a child in a way he should go...when he grows up he'd never depart from it.


Old age wouldn't be a problem should the man treats his wife well while they were still young.

Kids never forget...no matter how long the ill treatment is... they're only waiting for the right time to pay back for all the abuses.


Many modern men have started learning and adjusting to being there for their wives and kids...not financially alone but all aspects to safeguard their old age.

Be good to your family especially kids cos they are your tomorrow.

Reading through all the comments baffled me as to who the person breaking sincere women hearts are.....


Every commenter above kept painting women badly....how about we women that were used...jilted and dumped despite the sincere love ..sacrifices and commitment....na same women too?


This campaign about women being useless is becoming harsh on Nairaland that the few innocent ones are getting tangled up in the whole mess.... truly some women are bad but this generalization isn't worth it...have you dated or married all the women in the universe to create a yardstick for generalization?


Eniyan lon ko esin loro....esin o ni ika ninu..

abobote:
Exactly like following different men at the same time

I don't know about that....as I've never practiced such lifestyle.


Multi-task in raising kids... taking care of the home and spouse... functioning well in career and working diligently in the church and others.


Women are strong.

I'm proud to be one of them!

Ability to multi-task comfortably.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

jaksmillioniar:
I respect coco a lot she know dat. Even if I senior her a lot with over 6 years but as she marry b4 me born b4 me I give her dat respect. But dat dont mean she will do or say wrong and I will keep quiet my problem with coco is she keep supporting wrong keep attacking me and try to bring rubbish oyibo life in nairaland.why support gay. U are abroad but want girls to think wit oyibo brain wen it will cause dem pain as naija is diffrent.If a man make a mistake she begin to insult me dey talk dat der is noting wrong with divorce.u got bro and sis as u are growing up u fight somtimes did u now disowned them? why say a woman divorce her hubby if he do bad to her wit little mistake. Did she know dat most children dat Thier parent divorce are in pain so why support dat. I try to make her see dat as men do evil so are women too. Is a hippocrates dat will be crying in any blog were a man cheat or beat his wife but when a woman cheat too or kill her hubby coco wont talk but will be silent.if I attack her she will start insults.

I'm still very sure that she's a good person...I've known her for close to a decade on here.


You people should settle whatever disputes amidst amicably as an adult and stop calling yourselves out on here....... thanks

jaksmillioniar:
I Neva hate coco i see her as a friend even if we fight a lot.she mean a lot to me my problem with her is d way she react against men and advise she give against marriage and relationship

The more you see.....

Cococandy is one of the happily married ladies on here...her response to posts are not always bias...she states the truth at all the time..unlike the others.

She's not just a responsible wife and mother but a professional health practitioner which earns her more respect on here.

Kindly subtract her name from the list.

HopeSpencer:
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When I was married, wife stopped sex with me when she became pregnant. After delivery, I waited for many months. Then it became once in a month after serious begging. The only meaning I gave her action was that I was no longer worth someone to have sex with her thinking that I had become a nobody.

I just left the house one day and never returned till today. She's still visiting prophets, calling my family members to intervene.

This is the 3rd year I left her.

At first she refused to ask me for money. When subsidy problem arose, she started sending bills of what my only daughter needs to me. I send money to them according to my ability.

God no go shame us.

And you're sounding proud of your actions?

What happened to talking it out and going for counseling or therapy?

Labour can be traumatic on every women if she's not rightly guided... should we all think about the pain of the first child...no woman would want to have sexual intercourse to produce kids again....but thank God for healing the pain.

Moreso, marriage is not all about sexual intercourse only and shouldn't be the yardstick for leaving your family.


I'm sure by now.. she'd have learnt about her mistakes for begging people for intervention.. kindly forgive her and make your marriage work for your kid's sake Sir.

The heart of man is desperately wicked!

Imagine sleeping with a child you could father and still attempted murder on confrontation.

I weep for my dear countrymen.

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UselessBuharist:
What’s over madam, what do you mean? I don’t want to be rude please in the name of God what’s over

I was only kidding... there's no need for being rude.... nothing is actually over.


Smiles

UselessBuharist:
Humans can do anything whether able or differently able

Is it over already?

Creativity22:
You think diasporans pick dollars on the streets ?

LoL

Not like that....their dollar has much value whén converted to our naira...maybe that was the reason for the reckless spending.

Smile

This is disheartening!

The heart of human are desperately wicked!
What lesson is she going to teach her female daughters with such vengeance?
What if something bad happened to her on her way to Ghana?

Life no just balance sha!

Lol

The said Ex might be a diasporan who earns in dollars.

I doubt if a legitimate hustler in Nigeria will offer such amount to girlfriends....maybe because of my environment sha.

A wrong person in marriage is a man/woman who sidelined his/her biological kids... irrespective of what the situation may be.

PoliteActivist:
We can tell a fake DP sooner or later. Nairaland is big

Ok

PoliteActivist:
DP or we donbilivit

No probs if you're doubting me then.

What if I upload a fake dp?
My previous post should give you a hint.


If you still not believe... good luck on your unbelieve Sir.

PoliteActivist:
He's a man. Didn't see where this guy exposed him?

LoL....I don't fake things ...I've been on Nairaland over a decade...I'm a lady ... nothing to expose.

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I'm a lady...just sighting the obvious.

Nazgul:
Exactly.

This is one of the numerous action most females make in their relationships and end up remaining single.

Some girls might choose not to cook for a man, and he'll marry them and even hire a cook.

You might try it, and your boyfriend would dump you.

I know a girl during my university days, who cohabitated with her boyfriend from year 1 to final year. They're happily married today.

Some girls might try it and end up having series of abortions, STDs and a heartbreak.

The issue here is to understand your man, and make decisions based and what's best for both of you and not because another lady said so.

Never compare your relationship with others.

Spot on 💯

Don't forget to add that... things that worked for you might not work for others.

Following the above might cause more damage on many relationships.

It's easier said than done...we have many forming feminist on Nairaland yet living large offline with their boyfriends and sugar daddies.

Do what you feel is best for you and never live life according to another person's script cos you ain't same person...


My 2cent.

I'm a HSP(Highly Sensitive Person)

It seems weird to my siblings growing up and currently I'm enjoying every bit of it.....I easily know people within few periods of conversing with them... and lots more...it helps me not to get easily disappointed when people truly show their real intent.