₦airaland Forum

Despite the risks in this act people kept doing at at the slightest opportunity.....I kept saying it is poverty and greed that caused all this.

Being poor is the worst thing that can happen to someone after an incurable illness.

"Ona ofun ni ona orun"

Jeon:
Crash landing on you.
Royal gambler..
it's okay not to be okay.
One ordinary day.
Hyde, Jekyll, Me.
She was pretty..
kill me, heal me.
School 2017 ..
Fight my way.

Due to my working routine...I barely have time for leisure...I just finished watching the episode 24 of the royal gambler I downloaded.


I'm grateful for the referral... I've learnt more on that Kdrama.


I'd surely watch the others no matter how long it seems.

Listening to this young lady's speech pierces my heart.

She's so used to all the sexcapades that she never felt ashamed narrating the shameful ordeal.

The havoc wrong use of internet had wrecked on our society is beyond control....no moral decadence again.

I weep for what our society is growing into.

SMH

UselessBuharist:
Is this coming from you? NOBODY WEY NOT FIT GET SENCE SHA

It's been a while big bro!


Hope you're good sha?

This space is 4 sale.


Order by CIA

Humanity,Peace of mind and sound health supercede money.

Jeon:
Crash landing on you.
Royal gambler..
it's okay not to be okay.
One ordinary day.
Hyde, Jekyll, Me.
She was pretty..
kill me, heal me.
School 2017 ..
Fight my way.

Thanks so much for your swift response Sis
I'd start trying them one after the other.


I wouldn't mind if there are more.

Good evening family!

I'm actually studying a course relating to guidance and counselling in one of the federal universities.... being a Korean movies lover... I'm thinking about going into watching more of their movies that centered on counseling...just like I've watched that of crime... medicine and law in the past.


I don't know if anybody has referrals on the ones I can download to help strengthen my knowledge about my field of study.



It might also be an American movie too .....I need your suggestions Sirs/Mas.



Thanks
Cc;
Mindlog and others

Benekkk:
True, true. The value of a man’s life is not in the things that he possesses. Vanity at best.

The annoying part of iphone is... before December... they'd update like 3more versions and the newest one would become stale.....I wonder why people got freaked out over such possessions?

maybe it's because I haven't gotten to that stage of spending lavishly in life.

There is no end to all this updated version....the rich keeps getting richer while the poor getting poorer.


Many would do all sort of illicit things to acquire this beyond their means.


Contentment and godliness is a great gain.

MSN1:
When I told u that an average Nigerian is wicked, u said No; it's because of hardship.

listen, whenever Fuel or any other hike that affects the Nation, it simply means that every sector MUST follow suit but as wicked as we are to ourselves, we won't agree to increase even when are enjoying the increment.

How can a school owner increase school fees but refuse to increase workers salary?
is this not pure wickedness?

Not until the masses (Majority) come together irrespective of religion / tribe; then we should be ready to remain like this forever.

May God heal our land.

MSN1:
Civil servants salaries were increased by 10k this month in my State. But the Govt. can still do better in order to reach out to the masses.

One thing we ALL should also know is that; Nigerians are very wicked people!
They use every opportunity to hike the prices of things unnecessarily without considering the fellow poor masses. A lot of people are using the opportunity that; Things are expensive to deliberately rip others, THIS IS VERY BAD.

The increment only affected the government workers....how about we..private workers?


We work like elephant and got meager salary.


We can't truly blame the masses for increasing the cost of their products...no matter what they're selling...they'd also buy fuel..pay school fees and other bills like any other Nigerians.

Depression is on the rise ...hungerbis in town and people do all sort of illicit things to make ends meet.


A cup of rice is now #200-#250


This was the amount I was buying a congo of rice during GEJ regime and people were abusing him then



I learnt dollar is now 900+....which was around 250-300 in GEJ regime

The subsidy he planned removing in 2011 then resulted to massive protest in Lagos then that brought out prominent celebrities then.....today we're buy #800 per litre and everyone is cool about it.


If things can be this rotten within 8yrs...I wonder how our tomorrow would look like.


Many Nigerians are suffering in diaspora... some went to prison..some engaged in all manner of job and illegal acts to stay away from this country... some had even done change of citizenship and refused to be identified as a Nigerian.



The question is...for how long are we going to live like this?


I weep for my dear country!

APC had brought us nothing but pain.

It's we salary earners I pity most in this present administration.

Salary doesn't increase but prices of commodities kept sky-rocketting.


Lord , please heal our land!

DenreleDave:


Just checked too

So you never decode my *owe* in the first mention?



Your monicker made me believe you'd understand.


His was all female following too

Anitatunde:
It wasn’t easy paying the loans but I was able to sell some property but in Nigeria and Tanzania.


The business folded the same day of my arrest.

I have been japaing since then

Bravo!


I doff my hat ma'am!!


True definition of "when we fall...we rise again"

DenreleDave:
Walai I don't know that owe oo

Lol

Did you actually check his profile too?

His comment prompted me to check him up and my instincts were definitely correct!

Hmmmmmm


Nice thread!


How were you able to pay back your loans back here in Nigeria?


What happened to your business over there after deportation?


What was your family's reaction on your deportation?


Should you have another opportunity to "japa" again... would you oblige?



Congratulations on your freedom.... it's worth it.

jaksmillioniar:
I think u shd mind ur bizness u follow most people cos dey are my friends and dey mean a lot. Ive chat with most before d fact u dont chat with dem again does not mean u stop to follow dem.no big deal about it small thing u all shout simp shey u no go get married to woman.

WOW!..

Here is where the Yoruba adage plays out.


"Omo elefo gbe efo e wa....ah! Efo mi dara kiise ti aatan "



DenreleDave....am I correct?

Bravo!

I'm impressed with your write-up.


Are you a linguist?

History would never forget him.


His name is written on a solid golden rock.


RIP patriot!

DaddyCoool:
Wow! So it's all about you and your possible guilt?! The fact that he is meaninglessly suffering greatly to certain death means absolutely nothing!
Besides, the discussion is NOT about you or any other person, only the person suffering - wether it makes sense for that person to end his suffering by committing suicide. You haven't given ONE logical reason why not.

Smile!


What exactly are you expecting me to type Sir?

DaddyCoool:
Non of the reasons you gave is LOGICAL.
I'm also against suicide biblically, but this is an intellectual exercise. So you have failed to give one logical reason why someone in great pain and guaranteed to soon die should keep on suffering

As for doctors, their advice would be euthanasia, but it's illegal

Being logical here means to help or watch him in taking his own life....but I said I'd live with the guilt of being aware of how he died...I might suffer greater depression for letting him go.

I don't pray for such pain that would require suicidal thoughts to anyone close to me cos I can't handle the trauma...I guess I'm too timid .

spencekat:
Remember that Adolf Hitler, shot/poisoned himself.Well,I can't rule out of village people,taking Nigeria or Africa as a whole as a case of study.

He killed himself with gunshot and his one day old wife drank cyanide.....due to the fear of the aftermath of the ongoing war.


This happened many years ago...how many wealthy person has been recorded commiting suicide?


It's rare.

spencekat:
It can't be all.Young?..No.Naive?...No,Greedy ?..No.Life is not just about having money.

What could make a wealthy person commit suicide if not for the afformentioned or village people?

Season of expensive books.... school fees...new everything (bag ... shoes...underwear s)..... school fees and Xmas eyeing one at the far corner.



May God bless all responsible parents IJN.


E no easy.

spencekat:
Some of those wealthy people have committed suicide too.

It happens truly...but not all.


Majority of the wealthy people commiting suicide are either young... naive or greedy.


Real wealth would taunt you to live more and enjoy the wealth.


Should there's a medication that extends lifespan and younger growth...many people... especially our politicians would go extra miles to get it for themselves and loved ones.



Life is beautiful and sweet but sweeter when money is involved... though I haven't experienced it sha.

#smiles

DaddyCoool:
My friend "social being" will not bear the horrible physical pain that makes you wish every second you were dead and would give ANYTHING to be dead and rest.
Ok, here's another question for you: what exactly would be the point of not ending the pain if you could?

Number one reason is..... it's not biblical


Secondly... I'd live with the guilt of advising him/her to commit suicide when I eventually see people healing from same pain he suffered from in the future......cos... nothing is new under the sun...some people would have gone through same thing he's passing through and others would still go through it.



Thirdly.... I'm a fighter...I don't like quitting...I believe the doctors should know what is best for such person than I do.

DaddyCoool:
And if they don't have a "loving family who truly cares"?

Hmmmmmmm


Humans are social being... there's no way he/she wouldn't have someone who would truly care.


Despite the hardship and hurdles in the country...we still have people with big heart.



Suicide will never be my advice to anyone.

DaddyCoool:
I thought you said you asked Google? See below

I don't know how to attach pics on Nairaland...I typed is euthanasia legal? And read.

Worldwide, euthanasia is legal in seven countries: Belgium, Luxembourg, Canada, New Zealand, Spain, the Netherlands and Colombia.

DaddyCoool:
It is PHYSICAL unbearable pain. And euthanasia is illegal. So what's your answer?

Physical and unbearable pain... like disease or cancer?

I don't still agree to suicide.... physical pain is more endurable than pain from within.


If such victim has a loving family who truly cares and loved..... they'd help make the pain bearable through genuine love and care coupled with pain relief medications until he dies a natural death.

DaddyCoool:
Euthanasia is illegal and doesn't necessarily involve family. You are making up stuff

I'm not making up stuff...I rea up whatever I don't know about.... euthanasia is allowed and legal based on the country terms and conditions.



You can enlighten me more on what I don't know....we learn daily.

DaddyCoool:
Euthanasia, ekanesia, they all same - ending someone's life before natural death!

Euthanasia is carried out by a professional after several failed attempts to heal or cure the illness


But suicide is done personally and are usually in a cruel manner.


The victim wouldn't know the excruciating pain he'd leave his family and loved ones... especially his/her mother.
.

Suicide is tragic and happened unknown to the family members of the victim

While euthanasia is carried out after several consultations and consent of the victim's family members.




So...I doubt they're same words although synonyms to one another.