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Wahala be like bicycle

One man's poison is another man food indeed.

I wonder why Akeredolu is always having issues with his deputies.

IyaTola:
Who knows you the most
A. Dad
B. Mom
C. Sister
D. Brother
E. Partner
F. Friends

C. My one and only Big Sis

I downloaded this movie last night on nkiri....*highway Family*

I only saw one episode which lasted for over 2hrs and I doubt if this is the only episode....has anyone else seen this movie?

It's interesting and tragic...any link on how to get the rest?

Jeon please show face here.

Money that is capable of changing the story of a whole village.

Hmmmmmmmmmm.....God abeg o

All this personality would fly when you start having your own kids.....no space is yours when kids are involved LoL.


Those beautiful creature can make an hostile mom become friendly by force.

Congratulations Sir!

Your wife is not only good... it's a team work.... two can only work when they agreed


Keep doing what you both did to have a long lasting marital bliss.


Yours would be a motivation to many Nairalanders considering not getting married due to all the sob marital stories on here.

Thumbs up!

Majority have said it all....it is showoff that causes such actand inferiority complex.

Many of them spending like that are usually doing so to gain publicity and likeness.

Genuinely wealthy persons don't handle cash in such manners...*Omo ojuorolari loman so Omo re ni Olaniyonu*


Then the aspect of church being a major influence on this such act proves the words of God in Revelations.....many Christians are just church goers today and their pastors sees pastorial ministry as a Poverty alleviation scheme... they'd even sideline you once they know your worth financially and start ass-licking the rich ones irrespective of their illegitimate source of income.


I only go to church to worship God not show off...and I'm good at ignoring people that loves showing off...u buy a new car...phone or wears and started feeling fly... I'd just look away as if I never noticed the changes In you.

pansophist:
No, it doesn't take humility to beg. It takes shamelessness, greed, and the intent to swindle to beg. Most begging is not genuine, and you may notice that the person you've been giving money to ten years ago may still be beginning you ten years later.

I still have people who begged me for money twenty years ago, still begins today. I just stopped responding to one two months ago. Is that humility or shamelessness?

Hmmmmmmmmmm.

Maybe their personality differs sha and they're shameless.



I feel dejected anytime I'm left with the option of begging for anything.... because I would have tried all my possible best to work hard for that which I beg for.....it is just pathetic how my little efforts is not enough sometimes.



An adage says "bi a ko ba reni feyinti.....bi ole laaari"

To me personally.... it's shameful begging cos I priotize my ego and detest see finish.


I pray God in his infinite mercy....provide for all our needs according to his riches in glory.

*Adiye kuku n laagun...irun ara e ni ko jeka mo*

Mummyimbecile:
Thank you, I'll take the advice. The truth is that the guy is greedy, he doesn't know what we pass through here.

It's damn cold here, cos Connecticut is a damn cold state, we are at 6 degrees, we fit enter 2 degrees tomorrow... You can imagine how cold it is.

I will work under the cold, and one nigga will detect to me how much to give to him. It's crazy.

Anyway, I will continue to help folks with the least I can while prioritizing my family.

It is all shades of wrong to dictate the amount of money you'd send him....if money is that easy to make he should get a visa and try going or stop procreation.


I received several mentions on my previous comments on 1st page which I can't reply all.


The people turning begging to a profession are the ones who made it difficult for genuinely needy persons to receive help.


Just do your best and ignore the greedy and self centered ones.

An adage says *oun ti aye ba so e da...oun ni won ma fi bu e bodola*

*It's same people that contributes to one's setback in life that first castigate us when we're down*

Mummyimbecile:
The truth is that it's not easy here too... I've tried d the blackout style, but folks still find me come Facebook, dey fill my inbox with all sorts of financial requests.

I do help when it's convenient for me. The one wey vex me pass na last week when my old time school mate chatted me and told me that his wife just gave birth, that he needs any financial assistance I could render him. The thing touch me she, I gave baba 60$ to manage, that about 67k in naira...

Instead of this guy appreciating me, he told me that the money is too small, that is it not dollar that I'm earning, that if I give him 400$ that it won't remove anything from me. That talk alone angered me and I blacked him out. Baba dey do exchange rate for me.

It's not easy anywhere, that the fact. We also get numerous bills to pay... Car insurance, electricity bills, gas and water bills, house rent... The truth is that most of them asking for money cannot even work the number of hours we work here just to make earns meet.

It's 2.09am here, and I've just finished clocking my hours, getting ready to go to my house.

This is pure wickedness and gluttony....such friend deserve whatever I'll treatment you gave.


No matter how little a person gives the needy is expected to be highly appreciated and commended because you never worked for him and wouldn't kill him should he say no.


Just do what is best in your capability but don't completely shut people out cos tomorrow is usually a misery.

When your lots become wealthy you look down on others as if you own tomorrow.

It takes total humility to beg for anything... should everyone has...no one would ever ask others for help cos it's shameful thing to be begging and we all have ego in us.


The best thing is to do your best and leave the rest.


It you eventually close your eyes till eternity today...all that you try hard to conceal and not share would belong to others that never laboured for it.



Oun ti ko to si ma po.

Come let's switch places...I don't like crowded places from onset.... I think that isolation fits my personality.

Garri

DesChyko:
🤣🤣🤣

Now that I think of it. They always drop their album when December is around the corner 🤣

Xmas jamz den

1. You go see danger! Wahala eh!


2. Oh! Oh!!

E get as e dey do me! Do me! Do me!!!

3. Psquare oh! We run things o !! Things don run we o!..with your busy body eeeh!

4. E no easy eh!

4.
5.Alingo!

6. Chop my money

7. If na you...tell me wetin you go do for being your best friend?...omoge timo feran..tiya mi feran....tiya mi feri...omoge mi ati padi mi eh!
Wonti semi nikan ti ko daaaaa

8. You say your love no dey die....u say ur feelings no dey fly ah! Se me girl I dey cry eyahh..oh no!

Their beats are always a hit with beautiful dancing steps.........not all the pangolo wahala of this days.


Happy birthday Peter and Paul dem be one no be 2


Memories

What a pathetic way of living one's life?

After the few little years of fame.. enjoyment and lavish living...now you're pleading for assistance on a failed kidney.

I'm not preaching neither am I a saint...but I hope this your story enlightens many youths out there on contentment.

All the money must be made crew...all the get money or die trying crew....be cautious of your doings as this life we're isn't ours...what do you want to be remembered for when you're gone?

Please change your ways.

Shalom.

Contentment and godliness is a great gain indeed!

Thank you Lord for the personality you gave to me.

Obavoh:
This morning, after buying airtime from my bank, I shook my head and laughed after I saw my account balance ₦2,350

If I die today is this what my 5 children will inherit?

The truth is I don’t care about leaving behind worldly possessions for them to inherit. I have given them

•the gift 🎁 of life
•raised them up with love
•teach them morals
•basic education

Which to me is more than enough.
I will stay and perform my role as a father till I take my last breath as a man.

My uncle in Netherlands wanted me to leave my family in Nigeria come and stay with him to work over there as a taxi 🚖 man but I refused!

I can’t leave my wife alone to take care of 5 children even if you offer me $1billion monthly. God forbid!

My wife is 22 years old and the wicked men in my village could easily manipulate her to have access to what is between her legs.

I rather stay with my family, money or no money, at least we have love and peace.

I am happy with my ₦2,350 account balance

I don't know why I'm laughing out loud reading this your post?

LoL

Are you sure you're staying behind because of those excuse you made or for sexual intercourse sake?


A responsible father would do anything to give his family a better living...22yrs old with 5kids is not something to be boastful of as the journey ahead seems so far.

Take your uncle's offer....work and earn money to secure those 5innocent kids future and forget about your insecurity.


If she's promiscuous in nature...she'd get shagged on your matrimonial bed right there in your arewa village....... monitoring her wouldn't stop that.

Psalme91:
I am tired of my marriage my husband has no consideration for me or our children he cheat like there's no tommorow he insults me like I am a piece of dirt . I am tired of treating infection all the time I am scared he may infect me with hiv soon. I am just tired of the marriage I want to leave I have a business but I am scared because I don't know how will I cope with 8 children all alone my business will not be sufficient for me to take care of 8 children alone. My health is at risk now because of my bp is high and the doctor advised me to stop stressing myself to avoid having a stroke. But I cant even rest because of my husband habit and both families are aware of the situation in our house but my husband isn't ready to listen to anyone.
please how do I go through this ? I need your candid advice.

You've done a great job at 18yrs...by now I don't expect his philandering nature to be a problem any longer to you...my advice is for you to step up in your being protective in sexual intercourse with him and detoxify yourself regular.


By now... your kids are teenage and wouldn't be an interesting new life...... don't quit your marriage ma'am.


He'd definitely outgrown the act or nature retires him......


Marriage is worth working on for the kid's sake..... Please stay and work on it ma.

[quote author= post=127006842]Yes, they call it beef Jerky abroad

The first image you see below is home made beef jerky,
That particular size,
It is equivalent to #34,000!![/quote]#34k!


I can imagine how newly immigrants from Nigeria would be calculating the prices of commodities and doing conversion to naira and feeling sad....until they blend and get used to the lifestyle.


Unlike Nigeria where you'd do haggling of price...theirs is fixed prices

Omoh!

TV and home wey be another person prayer point na im dis one take vexination destroy over lack of self control and after-thoughts....she even requested for a video to go viral for her stupidity.


Nothing Musa no go see 4 gate.

I'm not an Igbo person...but I detest the generalization on this thread Sir.

*Ko si ibi ti a o tin ko adiye ale*

It happens in all tribe... personality makes it different.

What do you say about men that abandon their kids and shy away from responsibilities only for the kids to grow up and they'd appear claiming rights?


Marriage is not a bed of roses and can only work when two agreed to be one.

If only a part is working for it's survival and the other feels selfish and unconcerned. ... then the high rate of divorce is certain....Amos 3:3



"Tackle the issue and not discuss people"

uwuana:
Today I took a stroll around the neighborhood and I saw people rushing to one particular spot, me self waka go there to have a glance,omor see better fresh catfish yakpa for ground,na so I grab two, the woman say #2500, I transfer the money sharperly because the fish worth more for this kind time wei price of everything don skyrocket. I carry am go house and prepare my bachelor stew with the tomato I bought yesterday.

I almost thought you were my neighbor until I saw the tiles on the floor.


That wall tiles is the exact tiles used for all the kitchen in my house.

#smile

Recent happenings had made me to realize that the Nigeria we are in today is a jungle....only the strong survives.


I wonder why there won't be high rate of crime.. prostitution and illegallity with the rate things are.

My only advice to people like myself earning 30k+ monthly is to diversify our income or shun salary earning jobs and start a business...no matter how little it is.... because....I see no hope in this present administration in the next 8yrs.

Na capital dey hold me down like this....I 4 don drop resignation letter tay tay.

So sad

One billion dollars is too huge to spend alone as someone whom had seen shege in life.


I'd firstly do giveaway to genuine needy families especially private school teachers... like one million naira each to 100 families

I'd set up businesses for my siblings and parents

I'd relocate my kids and I out of Nigeria to live and study abroad..

No matter how much the amount of money or wealth one accumulates....it is rubbish if your family and genuinely needy person's around you can't be a beneficiary.

[quote author=sheycrown post=126918304][/quote]Thanks for the comments ... I'd keep the advice in mind...I might need to save towards the coalpot in 2024...God willing.

Tolu181:
whats the meaning of tolu in yoruba guys


na for abroad dey born me

Tolu doesn't stand alone in Yoruba language... there's either a prefix or suffix in it.

Example...
*Tolulope ...i.e God's worthy of appreciation

*Toluwanimi ....i.e I belong to God

* Mojetoluwa..etc

KingCold:
And they're even taking it abroad

You just ruined my weekend with this gory pictures....like wtf is this!?

People are extremely heartless...those pictures mde me weep for human race.


Where's their conscience?

Akposy:
Soaking is not bad. I heard it is actually good for those who react to beans. You discard the wash and cook

Thanks for your response chef....I feel honoured seeing your mention.


It actually reduces my kids farting whenever they eat beans... LoL

It's faster to cook...saves gas and appeared very soft.. so I was worried cos no shortcuts without side effects.


Seeing your comment...I know our belly is safe.

Smiles

Scrit:
Buy this modern charcoal stove.... They advertise it on nairaland, it's also on jumia. You can use it in your kitchen, almost smoke free

Hope it's pocket friendly?

The heart of man is desperately wicked!...

Reading this alone sends shiver down my spine!

Many people are just masking good personality outwardly.... inwardly...many are beast!

Preservedfish:
Charcoal or firewood is your best option

I have no space for charcoal or firewood in my apartment.


I live upstairs...each apartment with their space... going downstairs to arrange such is intruding on other flatmates space.


I seldom make use of electrical cooker too but trust our PHCN people to always disappoint.


Soaking looks great and faster but just worried on the side effects.

Within 30mins...beans is done after soaking overnight