₦airaland Forum

jerseyboy:
Free yourself first from Ibo aggression. Ibo wars are coming to the Niger Delta after Yoruba exit from Nigeria. Prepare for Ibo territorial wars. Ibo envy of Yoruba landmass and sea access will lead them to march Southward and Westward. You have been forewarned.

entire South will join ijaw to resist u hopeless & arrogant lots, u re not likes anywhere here in Nigeria, can't u see?

AlexBells:
Na your turn to take off oo, Nigeria belongs to Igbos, anyone that dont like it should pack and leave, you never seen me shouting referendum, I'm a unionist AKA Zikist, now go check if there's rat poison for your flying monkey

U re a mad & confused man, u entire lots of ipigs. Thought in 2019 u guys was shouting "Biafra or death!" Another headline here read: "Boycott election in Biafra land. no one tells the truth, no one care". Now u guys re say Nigeria belongs to u guys alone?? I am glad d voting powers of d north wil supercede se, not to tal of sw. U definitely not get g any vote from us d ss. Make we see how obi wan be president.

mystery22:
If the ikwerres like let them learn their lesson,the fact will remain that they are a tiny minority local govt,even the ijaws and akwa iboms have more stake in South south than them and by the time other tribes in rivers take over the leadership of river state their eyes will open more...
From obaseki to atiku to tambuwal and now okowa,chai they really dealt with wike

get lost with ur disunity. Ss is a United brave wal of minority tribe banded together as one in concord, we re not discorded igbos, we re understand brotherhood like hausas & stand strong. Begone from us u demonic ipigs afghaneastern terrorist!

AlexBells:
Amechi could have gone further if he was more serious about his Igboness, he could have been more serious with Ohaneze, attend Igbo meetings, work with Kalu and the rest of Igbo APC members, they could not have abandoned him, and since he is likely the president's heart, he could have at least put up a better fight, the fact is that South South Igbos don't know what they sre missing by distancing from South East Igbos, Ikwerre does not even qualify as a minority but the Igbo is a majority no matter how you look at it.

As for Wike, forget the drunkard Rivers Man, he's a Benin man, Ikwerre would eventually understand the Igbo effect.

let me correct u here: nothing like [b][/b]South South Igbos. Oyibo & Igbo etche & ndoni people of Rivers state re at d boundaries with ss & se. They re completely irrelevant to our politics however. Yes Ikwerre is a minority tribe of ss. With 3 LGAs we ss don't want tove anything dodo withuguys, is it by force. U guys don't attempt to force urself on akwaibom & Crossriver which is right in ur middle as such, avoids them atoll costs but won't let Rivers state rest. Its not by force naa, we don't want u guys. Yes Ikwerre is an ancient bini tribe here in Rivers state, just like brothers ogba & ekpeye. Not ibo tribes pls. Take note.

Joezinho:
Olori Pelebes, bunch of many unserious unrelenting clowns.

Their kind of politics is mostly well diguised bigotry hidden in emotional tantrums. These Pandora's supporters are hateful trolls...

But I love what Pandora's miscreants are doing to Omokri. You called abacha a kleptomaniac buffoon. Said Oby Ezekwesili is ugly. Abused Ooni of Ife.. Told us Tinubu has yellow smelly teeth. Insulted nigerian ladies and daily insults Buhari yet you want to cry because someone gave you a dose of your own medicine? Thunder fire you, Reno...

Bloody hypocrite!!! The young man was only exercising his right to free speech. So STFU and swallow your L.

but oby ezekwesili is truly ugly na,, u nor get eyes? Why she live herself to look that way? Yes Tinubu teeth is ugly. Why can't he go for scalling & polishing naa. Mild teeth whitening is there. Also, he should go for face rejuvenation & lift surgeries. Na wa. O. He has done, yet chosen to look that way.

Dsalvo:
Who does not know that Igbos are violent fundamentalists and intolerant bigots? This is only the beginning.

As campaigning gets in full flow and Obi is losing steam, making it obvious he cannot win, you will begin hearing "Peter Obi or Nigeria burns" plus "Deny Obi and we will make Nigeria ungovernable" etc , etc.

We know Atiku will never do such but Tinubu should give Igbos a referendum when he becomes President and let them go. Their wahala is three much sef. Lol.

it's not or "Nigeria burns" They can't do it. It will be or igbo lands burns. the entire 6 southern States doesn't give them that power to operate in our lands, we re strong & very brave people. Or is it north?? That one is no-go area. It lazy yoruba that ve let non indigenous overrun their lands , thus overpowering them that will burn

Voice234:
Mbaka why?

All these so called “god of men” posing as men of God, defrauding the gullible and Unenlightened. I am an Igbo man and hearing/watching all these theatrics by Mbaka is making me wonder if there’s God and if there is, why will he allow frauds like Mbaka ridicule his name

there's d real God of d bible. Yes he allowed it to settle a claim Satan made against him concerning job & all mankind. Check for d fruitage of Yahweh's active force its lack in dubious men like mbaka & d rest. See d entitlement & arrogance displayed there. But d people re too blind to see it.

lastmessenger:
Mbaka is Gradually getting mad. I see his downfall very soon.

he is delusional & entitled. A stark illiterate

vasel15:
I agree, only the North can enforce that statement

thanks u dear one.the language alone, is concord. Not matter if d speaker as at grave fault against d none speaker. Including yoruba too.

OyeofIkoTuN:
An attack to one igbo is an attack to all
Bring it on

that's a black lie! u guys wish. Its northern Nigerians that can lay claim to dis statement & its d truth. Ibo tribe is d most disunited tribe in d entire Africa. Its ur Language when spoken outside ur region summon brotherhood?? Answer?? unlike d hausa, yoruba & idoma tribes. Which is nothing but brotherhood outside their regions.

Beverlyjean:
And what did Tinubu do with lagos state funds and still doing with lagos state funds ... he forcefully grabbed 20% of lagos state and controls it ...if u don't agree to his bidding, he removes u as governor or speaker... he is still milking lagos as I type this and u hv the guts to label peter obi ... u really have no shame ...or u are a programmed robot

so we should continue with such norm right by voting d likes of tinubu such as obi & alike right we should not look at other honorable citizens who ve our interest at heart. Such aisha yesufu. @justadeotun, sowore right?? Or fella durotoye right?

Bonesbreaker:
how many times have tinubu flew economy flight mention one

he doesn't want to, his money, his choice

43Ronin:
Sowore contributed in bringing this calamity called buhari. Maybe he thought he would be rewarded with a political appointment but got nothing. E dey pain am since..

but he has repented na

Oysters:
A good man for a good people.

Unfortunately the Nigerian people have proven themselves to be useless and undeserving of a good man/woman.

like sowore & ayesha yesufu

TheDemola:
It's so annoying. Our leaders and the elites are our problem in this nation. That's why we need to get it right in 2023 else, struggle continues

it sure will after u all sentimentality & once more foolishly vote lying & heartless obi Pandora, entitled, murderous & compassionless Tinubu & selfish Atiku. Rather than brave, compassionate, & selfless sowore & aisha yesufu. una eyes go clear.

TheDemola:
It's so annoying. Our leaders and the elites are our problem in this nation. That's why we need to get it right in 2023 else, struggle continues

yet u want to still vote stupid obi Pandora & hopeless tinubu, rather brave & compassionate sowore & aisha yesufu.

Penguin2:
Unfortunately for you and your ilk, he has millions of Yorubas and other non-Igbo people who call him papa and would not hesitate to cast their vote for Obi simply because he mentioned his name.

So, it’s not Igbo issue.

That tribal card won’t work.

it's religious sentiments, u guy should continue to ve high on religious opium oo dis obi that is loyal to a cacus, a cabal , his pockets & his lineage, not Nigerian u all ce forgotten sowore & aisha yesufu. Continue

DMerciful:
On Peter Obi will God build Nigeria and the gates of corruption shall not prevail against it!

foolishness again & sentiments on d loose. Dis same obi Pandora, dis same once who refused to effect d 30k minimum wage? Dis same one that health worker was on strike for over 8months in his time & he was unmoved cos he doesn't use d hospital nor does his entire lineage that re still alive??

treesun:
Same way all these people shouting Obi!

they never learn smh. I thought they will all go for sowore & aisha yesufu.

omoadeleye:
So what about Pastor Tunde Bakare

And Reverend Chris Okotie

these re 419ners & d politicians knows dis.

kenbee:
Yes! Peter Obi is a good example.

I am sure u re with him in his office. & in his house. U see every thing he does that we dont.

Abilistic:


Five police officers for one lousy musician?

officers under d payroll of d federal government, paid with tax payers money?? Nigerian can't be good.

Moonshine101:
Hello Everyone!

I have a family issue but I don't have someone to speak to about it, so I'm very grateful for your inputs on this matter.

SOME BACKSTORY (You can skip this if you want):
I'm the youngest of my two siblings (26M). I have a sister and a brother. My sister's kinda okay. My brother (35) is a selfish, toxic and entitled person. He dropped out from the university, doesn't have a job and he steals from my parents like my dad's watches or property or my mum's jewellery and then sells them to buy weed or something.

One time he sold my mum's car and after some police and legal issue that basically went nowhere, she basically had to steal it back (The guy who bought it, passed away a little while after, so I guess that case is closed..), he once took my phone while I was sleeping because I refused to give him a different phone I had, that belongs to me after selling his own phone or something. It's like he acts solely on impulse. My dad (who's in his 70s now) is almost always on security alert when my brother is around. As for my mom, she just straight up enables him and bails him out of trouble every time, saying things like "He's your brother" or "God will change him" when I talk to her about it. My brother and I got into a fight, like a year before I left for university, because he wanted to look around my room to see if I had his usb cable despite me telling him I don't have it nor have I seen it. That was the last time I willingly spoke to him.

My family moved into a new house and I finally left for school (my brother stayed in the old house and my sister moved in with her husband after marriage, so it was just him over there). During my 3rd year, I called my dad, asking him for some money because I was broke, and during the phone call, my dad tells me that he's at the hospital cuz my brother and some girl just had a kid. okay.. I came back for holidays and found out that his baby mama (who's also toxic and insults people alot) and kid, my nephew, are staying with us, with my parents providing for them while my brother stays in the older house, renting it out to people (who messed up the house and compound to the point it just became a disgusting place to live in) obviously without permission from my parents (who don't even own that house, it belongs to my uncle). By the time I graduated and came back home, he was now living with us in the new house because free food and no bills, I guess.

I haven't gotten a job yet so I'm stuck here.

Recently, he's been staying away from me because I don't talk to him or even look at him.

BACK TO THE TOPIC:
Around a year ago, I had a serious wakeup call and decided that, if I was going to go forward in life I would have to better myself so I began a journey of meditation and self-improvement, and I think I've made some good progress. Now the issue is my brother---earlier today, I saw him scouting our house (after my parents went out) and I could instantly tell he was up to no good. I was cooking when I began to hear some noise from upstairs like he was hacking at something. He came downstairs and readied his car while my cousin who stays with us (19) carried the AC unit my brother was planning to sell.
Usually I'll just mind my business and avoid him because he's an adult-child (narcissist) and I think he'll just put his vindictive sights on me if I interfere, but this time I don't know what came over me..

I called my cousin and demanded where he was taking that AC to. I then asked my brother (first time in years I've spoken to him) why he was taking it, he just gave one nonsense flimsy excuse then I told my cousin to return it. When he tried to explain whatever, I didn't acknowledge his presence, I just ignored him and ate my food. He just stood there staring at me for like 3 minutes before he left while murmuring something.

The main reason I've been avoiding him for long is because he's toxic and I decided that family or not, toxicity is still toxicity. He's very exploitative and once he familiarises with someone it's like an opening to trample the person's boundaries. I think I confronted him today because the more you ignore bad/evil the stronger it becomes and eventually it will come for you except now it'll be stronger from all the experience.

The issue is, I don't want to relapse into my old life of toxicity by further engaging him if he decides to steal from me on get physical because he's the kind of person that only listens to actions, not words.
Please, what do you think I do?

check dis page on ig @afriproud, sho talk about awareness for mental & emotional health as well as gaslighting abuse.. u could even consult with her. Meanwhile get ur pepper spray. Take no chances. Malignant narcissist re cold & calculated they do not care. Go completely grey Rock since u still live under d same roof with him.

thorpido:
Abasi! A man actually did this to his wife?
You sure say no be cult attack?

Yes there re men out there who can attack their spouse like that rather than let go off her.

Canvass:
This picture is too graphic. A gory sight indeed. Maybe everyone getting married should be subjected to mandatory mental evaluation and drug tests. People are becoming very aggressive and extremely violent nowadays.
I wonder if the guy that killed this woman remembers they ever smiled and shared quality time in the past. If it's not working any more, death should not be the only option left.

there tell tale subtle signs that a man or woman will diabolical abusive, that he or she isn't human but these re often ignore an seen as romance. Know the sighs people. Follow @afriproud or simply check out her page for more insights

Miracle2020:
You are paying soldiers 42k. In that 42k the soldier must buy boots,uniform,transportation,and also feed his family. Even ordinary gate man is collecting 50k while the soldiers that are dieing in the bushes are collecting 42k as salaries.
In a country where a senator collect more than 38 million in a month. A country where a delegate is paid more than 30 million naira just to vote.
That same country is paying 42k to it soldiers, this is wickedness.
Even when the colonial masters were in charge of our military,our soldiers were not treated so badly the way these politicians are treating our gallant men that sacrifice everything to serve their country.

diabolical wickedness I must say.

SWATMan:
Airborne terrorists? We are in real trouble. How come our air defense system didn't spot an enemy craft in our air space or is this a dress rehearsal?

money for such technological advanced gadget has been eaten. Na wa o. Nigeria isn't even investing in her military its all right.

Imstrong2:
Both apc and pdp will sink come 2023

Amen!

Ginaz:
At end, the true men of the living God will be made known.

they been made known in d holy bible pls

SugarGirl44:
Their northern governors should invite them back home for immediate employment.

Lagos is not a refugee camp abeg.

but it is in d actual sense of it.

Goldbw122:
Nope he is alive

& well.

InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

if u re online on ig, tall to @afriproud immediately she will advise u on steps to take ur wife is being passive aggressive. It a firm of emotional abuse. Not telling u what u did wrong, but expects u to keep grovelling at her feet for forgiveness is a toxic behaviour. Do not loose urself. Chat up @afriproud