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daretodiffer:
Who is going to be addressed by the names? You should be grateful that she is accepting to take your name sef.

see, If u won't take your husband's name or you're not even taking his if you're married already, good for you if he accepts....perhaps some dudes don't mind BUT with me, no lady is my only option for marriage, if the conditions aren't right to her,we split and another comes in.
I know most ladies are only forming feminists online as it's a way to show themselves strong but it's to me a way to show inferiority complex cos women have always had this strength over men so y claim some extra 'pseudo' strength through unrealistic feminism?...well,na una sabi

HaneefahRN:
Are u the one to bear the crap names? If she decides not to let go of her surname and makes it compound wt her own, what's her business if it's crap to u, she is the one to bear the name.

ma'am,the solution to the question above is right in the post I made....if she doesn't see my name fit to become hers,then she isn't fit to be my wife plus marriage to her isnt by force and vice versa.
my house, my rules.......no place for undue feminism with me.

ololadeajayi:
Please can someone re-schedule the interview, cos i got the message late yesterday and am presently in Abuja or can i go to their Abuja office? Thanks in anticipation

you can call the land line they used in contacting you and request a reschedule......hopefully they'll oblige.

Craven:
Hello. How long is the internship for?

oh....its u again lol...

I was told it's normally for a year but there'll be evaluation every three months so once you catch the scope of work in 3 months,you may be confirmed.

Craven:
I noticed you said 'compound crap'. That right there is evident of the way you see a woman's background; her father's name, the identity she's grown with for years - you disrespect these things because you feel your own name is superior. I think that is a very sad character for any man to have.

There are women who would choose to adopt your name though. I agree. But you seem to think you are the real deal; that you are doing women a favor by marrying them; that all other women would fall at your feet if you decide not to marry another woman. I find that very funny. You have your own preferences in a woman. And women also have preferences when it comes to men. And believe me brother, not all women are looking to marry men who refer to their father's name as 'crap' and who show a great disregard for their background.

But that is besides the point. The point is this: No woman on this planet owes you anything. She doesn't owe you her name, she doesn't owe you her virginity, she doesn't owe you her time, and she sure as hell doesn't owe you her life. If any woman chooses to give you all these things, it's not because you have a right to them, it is because she chooses to do so. Because at the end of the day, a woman, be it girl, lady, or wife, forever has a right to choose. No man, husband or not, can ever take that right away from her. So consider it an honor if a woman chooses to take your name, not your birthright. Because you were not born with a certificate claiming rights over any woman.

I should also add, because a woman agrees to the things I've said doesn't make her immature. It only means she understands her right and wishes to explore them. And I understand why most men would find it annoying; because they are so used to women living by their rules. Did you know Islam encourages women to keep their name? By this knowledge, what then would you say about a muslim girl living by the rules of her religion? Would you refer to the very act as 'crap'? Think about that for a moment.

Omo see epistle on top my head........u misinterpreted almost all of my post anyway
compound name crap doesn't mean her name is crap, it means a mixture of our surnames is crap.
anyway I noticed u were all out for my head, but my resolve is rigid, as long as it's tradition that she takes my surname and not me take hers, It has to remain that way or no marriage would take place......babes no be my problem sha I'll still maintain

I really don't 'put mouth' in this kinda matter on NL cos it's usually not worth it....BUT I will today....if she won't use my surname, then we aren't destined to marry

if she prefers to use it accompanied with her dad's and make a compound crap of the two,its fine....it only means she's still too young to get married by my standards so she can spend a few more years in her father's compound (that's the best compound for her) not my 'name compound'


P.S: there are so many babes for one to giv me such headache. And i'll be sure to raise this issue early in courtship judging by the comments from 'modern' girls around here.

I was interviewed for the position of solutions engineer intern last week Wednesday but haven't got a reply yet though got positive remarks on the interview day.... two accounts interns were interviewed too

sa

MarvelJ:
Yes they did and you cant do anything about it. If you re nt a shiite then keep quiet n respect yourself.

lol....this bros don vex oooo

I agree with u though

still available

Ayo081:
lol, u know bk den our parents bought lota Bible story books, even if I c judas I know am

loooool... reminds me of 'my book of bible stories'...

funny dude

Ayo081:
But he resemble Joseph na

na thesame primary school una go?...wey u take sabi how him look looool

dazdilijae:
It's a complete waste of tax payers money, as we speak not one road or hospital has been renovated in the state and the Govt is spending over 300million for music festival? The worst part is they there is gate fee so where is the unwirning as you guys choose to call it?

it would av been a waste of tax payers money if the government wasn't gonna make money from the event.....one of the numerous ways theyll do that is the gate fee!


and na N500 b the gate fee wey u dey complain about.....na wa oo

u better unwind and enjoy life.......cos that dude is a dwarf....

Zceesneh:
u are the one that is confused, idiot thnder fire u

.....and he killed the thread...

wonder why you won't be looked down on by everybody if u keep spoiling things this way and seeing everyone who means good for you as a potential enemy...smh

Seun, I beg lock this thread jare... there's nothing anyone wants to say in protest that can hold one ounce of water.

The rule needs no debate!

SA

Devil suppose come learn work for your side,OP

Still available

amjoseph19:
Are you ok It seems like you were deprived of such siblings love.

You called this suffering It is an opportunity. A very big one.

This type of scenario tends to create a super bond between siblings. As they are going to school everyday, they encounter challenges from crossing the road to fending off bullies. They tend to solve problems together, they sees their self as one. They may nag, quarrel and shout even fight with each other, but that's the inevitable process that leads to siblings love.
I bet you, this boy will remember this moment as one of the best moments in his life. In general, it seems that this type of moments becomes more cherishable as you grow older.


I was born is such home, my parents weren't rich enough to put me in a school that takes children to school by bus. I trekked home, going and coming. Gutters that I couldn't cross, I was helped by my snr siblings, when am tired, they backed me just like the little child being back by his brother. Such opportunity did contributed in the strong love we are currently enjoying amongst siblings. I am and will always remain thankful to God for given us such opportunity.

Bro, you missed a lot, such moments are gold, they are priceless.

What more can I say.....God bless you.

got the message some days ago too BUT I'm not interested(whether it's real or not)...if dem no fit help me become fisherman,make dem keep dem fish

IDGAF042:
wen will yu have sense?

but wetin the bros do u na?....lol

OgidiOlu3:
I remember muppet babies

now this is someone from my generation lol!

pweetychyka:
SMH for u too

okay oo...lol

pweetychyka:
People!... this lady right here says MrCork is trying to gain fame!!
Nne if you're on NL and don't know MrCork, deactivate your account biko lol

Lol.... @all, I dunno em cos ain't most tyms on d romance forum.

And to niceeric, I don't care if he's "Rich" n "Famous" cos Everyone is "Rich" n "Famous" too. He should jez try n make some reasonable points on topics rather than make everything a joke

English,English,English....smh

SimonPeters2020:
How do you know he is rich? Poor mentality

i'll blame your case on 2 things;I'll start from the most important:-
1. Your inability to read:- If you went to a good elementary school, you would have been taught Punctuation in English Language. You would have been told about words in inverted commas......you wouldn't have displayed so much stupidity in public with your post.

2. Naivety :- your post shows you're a jjc around here. If not,even if your knowledge of English language were as porous as a mesh you would av understood my post if you've been on nairaland long enough to av witnessed Mr Cork's 'declaration of wealth' a few times.
Your case is a sorry one man...look before you leap in future.

pweetychyka:
Lol.....
I guess he's trying to earn familiarity with u or possibly trying to gain fame on nairaland

the guy is very very popular here on nairaland already u know?

plus he's 'rich' and 'famous' lol

IamMissMarvel:
I trust my pple.

Its either you post the baby's picture or you don't.

Which one be leg wey she dey post?

Abi na Cartoon Network's "Cow and Chicken" parent born am?

Na pple wey dey clamour for the baby picture na him I blame.

Even with all the Instagram filters, I love the shoes on that child. Very sleek.

or Muppet babies' mama with the stripped socks lol

still available

I need to add,before doing the above,u av to restart the system first

Jazzygrafix:
You don't get it, i can't even boot past the logon screen. Nd it doesn't even show anything at all

then u got to boot to last known good configuration...m immediately system comes on,strike f8

but if not,then follow these steps:- Click on the Start button.
In the Start Menu Search Box type msconfig and press enter on your keyboard.
The System Configuration utility will open
make sure normal startup is the one marked under startup selection
Then Click on the Boot tab.
You will now be at the Boot options screen
UNCHECK the checkbox labeled Safe boot
Press the Apply button and then press the OK button.
You will now be presented with a prompt stating that you need to reboot the computer to apply the change.
Click on the Restart button to reboot your computer.