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space is the reason why some countries dont have lunch together.

Fortunate_

". . . if i were a girl . . ."

trying to 'gerraout' and be on my way home.

aha: an expression/exclamation luved and popularly used by D'banj.

". . . aha, i'm D'banj, or skibanj like my jamaican friends call me . . ."

Dependent

INK u'd like that.

i like to see 'things.'

hmm! probably a comedian.

wachovia

weekend with me in paris or night-out with me in las vegas?

hmm!    the profile pix changed, but still looks familiar.  howdy! 

_{call me next time u want take a shot of urself, cos i dont mind having a copy.}

who? me?

explicitly

so wetin dey happen for ye?

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaa!

starving

saturnjay:
. . . and i will tell you how to help her without confronting her, i will tell you how to make her feel guilty and confess to you.
please get back to me: adenijitajudeen@yahoo.com

hmm! dont we all want to learn?

pls share publicly and a lot of peeps could learn. _{abi e get another koko wey dey behind the pepper?}

the choice is yours!
what do you see in da guy?
is there hope for change?

uh cha!

@ dem ladies,

dont wiggle it or advertise if u aint selling cos there would always be peeps willing to buy.
dont just dress cos u think u'd look good/sexy, consider the message u'd be spreading. 

sistawoman:
I hope I am not stepping on toes here or repeating what has been said because I did not read all 7 pages of this thread.

Here is how I feel and understand i am speaking in I statements.

No I am not complete w/o my other half.

I function better as part of a r/s. Does that mean I cant do it alone? No, I have done it alone for many years. I DONT want to do alone and dont feel whole w/o my other half. Does that mean I settle for less. NO.

I need a man to teach the boys how to be men and show my daughter what to expect from a man. I want a man to take the lead in the house and make the decison and run things. I want a man to do the heavy lifting so i wont break my back doing it. I need to feel his strength so that I can lean on it.

I have been there done that. I have been the head of my house, paid the bills, raised the kids, provided for my family, made the decisons, did the heavy lifting, been my own support tower and everything else that man does; but I dont LIKE to do it.

I function better in a realtionship. I love to cater to my man. I love to tend to my family. I love passing that weight to his shoulders, because his shoulders were designed by God to carry that weight and mine were not.

my! my!! my!!! u're who some men are looking for right now. ^{I wish i were into advertising.}

@ poster,
the people have spoken! gbam!

osareimwen:
na wa for una o
i dont understand anything here
i real wan know, becos i like him too much

do u like him 'too much' to consider marrying him when you're, say, 21? ^{let the real Jim Iyke's GF pls stand up.}

i dont think 21 is bad, but are u mentally/emotionally/physically/spiritually ready to enter marriage?
have u guys discussed careers paths for both of u. yeah, u said he has everything, but what plans does he have to ensure that he always has everything or at least almost everything.

why not try marriage counselling?

my 2 cents! best wishes.

i think it's a thing of choice and understanding. (all my sayings are with the assumption that we are discussing completeness within the context of marriage not outside marriage)

1. have u identified ur purpose in life?
2. do u truly comprehend ur purpose?
3. what's ur purpose for marriage? just the sex? or do u have other reasons?
4. the choice is solely urs. no one should force u into marriage.

my 2 cents.

wow! i agree with what some of the members of the house have said: "it's wrong to have extra-marital affair(s)"

however, your telling her or discussing it with her is the issue.
1. what's ur relationship with her like? cordial? and i mean how she takes u, not how u take her.
2. do u see urself discussing the issue with her or just telling her that it's wrong?
3. do u think the situation can change or u just want her to know that it's wrong?
4. have u being praying for her since u discovered the happenings?
5. are there kids in this family?

anyway, with whatsoever information u have, the motive, presentation/packaging and solution/suggestion/follow-up would determine whether the result is good or not.

my 2 cents.

@ poster,

it aint fair for u to send me somewhere else to find out what the situation is so i'd base my judgement on the info u left here.

@ topic,

lied about what?
1. the hope of something good happening later on.
2. that there was actually a break-up.
3. the information you'd been sharing during the supposed get-back-friendship period.

hmm!

just wondering _{is this for real or just a joke?}

granted, but since goats are deemed to be stubborn i undo ur wish. (or which goat did u have in mind) http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/goat

i wish you a lovely weekend in paris.

SeanT21:
I will buy Shop Rite

I think shoprite is a privately owned company. (the idea is to buy public properties presently owned or ran by Government: fed, state, local or other).

wunmilyn:
ok, i wil buy Aso Rock  and build a b/q for the president

or beta still i will buy nigeria nd drive evrybody out. 

afterall dreams come true

nna, u harsh o. (anyway, your business decision)

Amigoz:
I wil buy all institution of learning nd mke it free 4 all

I'd buy university of Lagos. Gbam! 

^singing "i'm in luv with 2 women, and i dont know which one to take! . . ."

ma guy, na lie. Search within urself for what u truly want from life and reconsider ur seeming predicament,

_{Abuse is inevitable when purpose is not defined.}

na who get the cyber cafe wey una dey from communicate? because i no believe say una dey work or school.

if una papa cash una!

MrCrackles:
Ofe Nsala

Pounded Yam with Edikaikong

Efo Riro with Cassava

Afang Soup and Eba

Beans and Rice and Yam!

you call these 'lazy meals'?
you must be one of those peeps who throw parties everyday and it takes about 8hrs to prepare meals.

nna, for the above lazy meals you're hired! my kitchen's @ . . . [color=Black]_{(thumbing thru his diary)}[/color]

so join in and catch fun.

singing "ilo lala ilo . . . ilo lala ilo . . . lai lolo