₦airaland Forum

tpiadotcom:
The story is fake, as in it's recycled gossip you heard and brought to nl.

There is no woman who will react strongly at the news the husband is bringing wife #5.

Op your tale is not well written.

Lord have mercy.

It's not all posts on nairaland are fake, simply because it does nt appeal to you. Please, if you can't drop ur advice, leave the thred for others. Am telling u something I know and am chatting with the woman now. The situation is even worse than I wrote. Get out of here, pls

85% of the roads in his Ijaw speaking areas of the 3 states

lilmax:
She knows what to do

What?

Please, a friend of mine, Mrs. AB got married as a virgin to Mr. B when she was about 22. Both of them are christians. The marriage is about 17 years old now with 4 fine and brilliant children( all boys). One is about gaining admission into a higher sch. My friend married this man when he was a mere council worker, but rose thru the ranks and by providence based on where he came from, he became a Council Vice Chairman. This is where the problem started. This man started womanizing at will and now not only has he married about 3 women outside his marital home, the latest is that this same man, as am typing this post is in his village celebrating another girl whom he impregnated as well and the girl's parrents hurriedly packaged the girl's marriage to the man. The main wife , who is my friend, is in another city where they live, the 3 other women live in separate locations and now the new wife is in the guys house(a house he struggled with the first wife's effort to build) in their village(they are both from the same place). My friend, who is the authentic and senior wife is helpless and dying in silence. The husband does not show love to her anymore and for more than a year now, no intimacy between then, no caring for her and children and he can even stay for weeks without coming home. We have been advising the woman not to despair, that God will intervene. Now, the woman says she is fed up with her husband womanizing and keeping of 4 other women outside. Worst still is that the husband do not care for the children; she takes care of the children alone, pays their fees and other welfare from the meagre salary she earns from her office. Now, ths woman needs constructive advice from me on what to do. As for me, I have, as I have always done for the past few years that her travails started, advised her to take it easy that God will intervene and she will laugh last, but she is refusing to take it anymore. She is thinking of divorce, but she fears what the world will be like for her and her children when she divorces. I, along with other concerned persons have bene advising her against that option especially because of the children. Today when she heard the news of her husband's new wife, she fainted again, she is feeling really downcast. She can't stop crying now. Before she takes bad option(s), pls leave you palliative advice here, which I will convey to her. Who knows, your comment can save a home and save souls.

Invitation at short notice! Oshiobaba go don give this girl belle

Inernet frausters, the only whipping boys of our so call anti crime agency

TOo bad! Rest in peace

Mr. President sir, these projects(The Abuja Light Rail project came all the way from the OBJ govt., the Abuja road projects were awarded and started by Yar a'adua) are not your projects. The same way you inherited them from previous govt and continued with their execution, the same way Buhari will continue with them.

Rest in peace

NCOIM:
Thief.nubu Should steer clear The National Assembly

What's wrong with That frog-Eyed Ediot?

He wasn't Elected,,Yet,,He's Trying To Control the elected officers

Naija,„„Which Way now?

calling someone, especially an elder, that has not wronged you or caused you any harm insultive names, simply because one or two persons do not agree with him politically, means you are drawing the wrath of God and you may not live to see old age.

Costee:
Is your car transmission cvt or conventional A/T? If in doubt upload a pic of the gear lever console (area).

Thanks you. Here is the pix

Mungu don pay

Kashif:
What does your manual say? Well, I think its the NS1, not sure.

The manual is written in a foreign(Netherland) language. I don't understand the contents

Pls, I need to flush out the current gear/ATF oil in my Nissan Primera P11. I need to chose between Sea horse dexron III, Oando Dexron II and Nissan Matic D. The issue now is that I can't afford Nissan Matic D now becuase of the cost and I can't find Oando dexron III around. The option now is between Seahorse Dexron III and Oando dexron II. Advise me on which one to use between the two. I also want to know if the Sea Horse brand is a good one. Thanks

5minsmadness:
You cannot make a generalised statement like this about benue girls. You need to court her properly and know the kind of person she is.


Having said that I've been to benue just once and in that visit I was offered a wife twice.


Just saying.

someone's wife? For what?

Please your candid advice and suggestions are needed for a friend of mine who has a Benue girl(mum is Igede, dad is Idoma) that he wanted to marry. Now he is afraid to go ahead because, according to him, one of his friends narrated to him that Benue married women date other men even while they are married to their husbands. He cited an instance where he said he dated a lady who did not reveal to him that he was married, but later discovered that the lady has a husband for whom she had 2 grown up children and they are still legally married. Not only that, the woman's friends mostly from Benue engage in such extra marital affairs to the extent that some even keep more than one boy orman friends and can change to another at will. These women at times travel with men but will tell their husbands they were going to either friend's events like birthday or wedding whereas they were going to spend night with their men or boy friends. The funniest things about these women is that they like dating younger men 'sugar boys' and another older man who can provide for their needs while still in their husband's houses. That at times when their husbands get to know of their acts, they will only threaten or bark at their wives, but would be helpless(like charmed fools) to take action. Curiously, my friend said he has asked several people this aspect about Benue women, but always get the shock of his life with answers like "na so Benue women be", "Benue women no dey forbid", "Benue women are good but they like men and sex a lot" Please, advise my friend, he is really disturbed and wants to abandon the Benue girl because he would not tolerate his wife cheating on him.

Serious business from the Nigerian military this time around. No more disjointed and uncordinated operations

Channels TV just shew a video footage of the oil vandals holding all manners of weapons incluidng AK47 rifles, singing in Ijaw language and shooting incessantly.

Oyibo people na wa!

45 Siena cars for aggrieved people and 100 billboards with the 200 million Naira. Can you see how they used the president's campaign money for personal use?

Good historical review

You are right, Sen. Bruce. I thought you were closer to Jonathan to have given him this advice? The advice would have gone a long way in shaping Jonathan's government.

I prefer Dr. Ogbonaya Onu. He is calmer, loyal and has been in opposition since the rebirth of democracy in 1999.Moreover, ANPP descendants in APC deserves SGF, CPC having produced the President and ACN Vice President

Who will stand for the poor man who stole a pot of soup or goat and gets a 10 or 20 years jail terms? Who will give them option fine for stealing a goat?

This excludes all manners of allowances, such as earned allowances, exam and supervision bonus, etc

This excludes all manners of allowances and bonuses, such as earned allowance, exam bonus, etc

He allowed dollars to bring him down. He is one of the greatest victims in the current political dispensation. Before the elections, I saw the way he was running his mouth and even said he has written a book to counter the one(my watch) written by ex president OBJ. Because of dollars, he jumped from the 'change' train to the 'dollar' train. He lost out. I pity him