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Israel5:
Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.

My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.

As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.

The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.

A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.

I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁

I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.

Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.

When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type.
I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.

Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?

Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business?

Israel5:
Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.

My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.

As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.

The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.

A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.

I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁

I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.

Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.

When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type.
I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.

Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?

Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business?

G0odharddick:
That 7k too much. You for make am 1k

U for no beg am. Never beg a woman for s3x. Women want it more than we do. They enjoy it far more than us but good at pretending. Learn to ignore women. Only chat or call her when you want her opueh

helinues:
You guys would soon detect the sinking Titanic with this una pettiness

Nnamdipapa:
Not me bro. I will still thrive in Nigeria even if there is an all out war. I have staffs in Nigeria , I have trained my mind to take advantage of the good and the bad. Lots of people became multi-millionaires under Buhari as worst as his regime was. I was in Lagos three years ago and I see million of Naira opportunities every where I looked.

Nnamdipapa:
No but I cannot wait to live in Nigeria.

Nnamdipapa:
It is actually cheap for me as I eat once a day. No breakfast and no dinner. I stopped dinning out as I used to spend about $300 every week outside in restaurants. I lost craving for food and snacks and feel healthier. Today, I will make beef liver, steak, shrimps and five fried eggs in butter or Ghee.
I am yet to have my breakfast and I already walked about two hour today. I still have so much energy and will be making my only food after my class.

VillageGuyArts1:
Hello guys, I'm still trying to recover from the trauma. This is someone who I trusted. It's messed up how people can take advantage of you just because you let them into your personal space.
It happened last week and I just summoned the courage to speak up.
I was home when my sister's friend came to visit, she comes around sometimes. (she's like family to us). So when she came I was busy working on some artworks in my room. My sister wasn't around so she came to my room and we talked. At some point I felt sleepy and decided to rest a little bit because I didn't get enough sleep the previous night due to the artworks I was working on. (It was stressful)
But here's the part that shocked me to my bones.
I woke up, barely opened my eyes and I was hearing some funny sound beside me. I turned around, Lo and behold, she was watching a movie on my laptop. I sat upright and looked at her, then I asked her, how come there's a movie on my laptop?
(I don't use my laptop to watch movies) Then she responded and said, "I installed Netflix and downloaded a lot of movies". I was so shocked.
I decided to check my data balance, only to find out that she had used almost 40gb downloading movies. Anyways, I told her to leave my room because I was disappointed. So guys, I don't know if I should forgive her or make her stay away. Let me know.
Anyways, here are some of the artworks I was working on when she came.

Biqsahm:
Guy, marine girls are real bro n i av my share of experience with them. Case 1 :back then in the 90s a family friend use to carry everybody on our street to bar beach during easter, one crazy occasion like that a girl that decided to follow us, immediately she got to beach started crying that the water was calling her true story bro no jokes, she was taken back home immediately Case 2 dis case was my turning point in life make I share am wit u , I just got admission then into the university me b better OG back then I no dey dull on top woman matta. My elder sis was the spirit koko type she dey skool b4 me, she later went to mountain with her group ,came to my apartment that same day n told me God spoke to them about me on the mountain that a marine girl was coming to seduce me,I believe in God back then ooo but as she drop d.news my body just Dey sweet me say I go lash bastard fr d girl body marine or not then all my focus was on a girl wey get big everything I bin think say na she b d marine girl wey God Dey talk bro make I no dull u na one innocent girl wey I Dey open my door to anyhow , things later sup between us n we started dating I offended her one day n something crazy happen to me even my close pal suffer join d story long bro but one day me n d girl dey program wey heavy worship Dey happen first a message came out during d worship that someone was not welcome here n d person should leave immediately, omo when I open my eyes na only my babe they miss oo cus fr that program we no even plenty like that so I sabi everyone wey come fr d worship next a message came fr me that I dey romance with death see personally that time I was having strange dreams , I once caught her talking to some one I could not see wen I left her in my apartment but fr wat ever reason I decided to spy on her, d story long bro. But then we have cases where pastors make false accusations too ,we hav marine guys too no b only girls oo but na just girls own plenty pass .

jmoore:
Where's the paper to prove the agreement?

Where's it?

Deepspirituals:
Chai ! U no Love Her Be dat Oooo, Just because of Money,U want to Release the Love of Your Life Like that ... there is god oooo

Wordsfrombimpe:
I will also like to say this

I know some guys will be like oh here will go again dating profile and she wanting to settle down

I am glad that on the forum they defended me to my sup-rise because na so so banter we Dey do those years 😂😂😂

In as much as I love

Marriage and want to settle down in three months and in as much as I love big gbola and I say this in all authenticity without sugar coating I still also say that I have been celibate for years and I don’t regret my sexual discipline journey

I am the still the same babe

Who can go in for a man and I can choose to detach from the same man

I am the same babe that can be loyal to a man and I am the same babe that can take my loyalty from where I am not valued or appreciated or understood

I am not obsess over a man , neither am I desperate

I am not the type that fight over a man neither do I date Married men

I am the lady who loves men but don’t carry men on her head as you can see from my profile either you Google me , ai me or you listen to me on radio 📻 & podcast

I am the lady who focus , ambitious

And want the best and improves to be better and I am focus on growth and that’s why I level up and my skills counting to 40 breaking milestones and not just I still want to work with nasa and top brands be an inventor

So don’t get it twisted

And whoever will be that lucky man

I hope we build great legacy not just for ourselves but for our future generations

And lastly to wrap it up if you think you want to use relationship to get to me

Trust me at the end of it na you go suffer am

That’s why you should try to be genuine and intentional

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galantjoe:
Even where am not owing landlords, I have children with my wife, am in a middle class. Honestly I still need that money, that N800m. Beautiful ones are not yet born.

In fact I will give immediate go-ahead. I will always remember her in my prayers. I will make her my deity.

babajero:
Ambode.

babajero:
it was delayed because they removed the man who has the vision to fast track it and put a man who is like a puppet unto their bidding.

Nazgul:
Bro even hard working guys do this. I know someone who works with Nigerian ports earns about 350k and gives his girlfriend 150k every month as upkeep money.

Most Nigerian mean are weak.

JAWBONE:
What is Israel's interest in Syria and why can they enter a foreign country and carry out strikes just like that

frog12:
same game he started yesterday with pms daily consumption rate. he is trying to monopolise everything. he wants to be the only player.

IJAYA001:
Why are you answering all these obi - tuary followers, they hated him during his life time and still continue the hatred in the grave all because of politics. They should continue 1--7 will be a child play.


SHIOR.