₦airaland Forum

Richtaiwo:
Man of his word yet can't keep to his declaration of remaining in apga, something he said under oath.

amili66:
I really wish I had never married this man. I dont know what is keeping me in the union but oh no, I dont have any happy time with him.

He is not committed at allllllllllllll, am in pain, deeply sad and sorrowful. He is promiscuous, have speech issues and maybe memory issues. Very had to please and make this difficult always.

He'd rather please outsider than me making me and the kids happy. When I got pregnant, I only received 100k from him to buy infants items as I had twins, I funded every other things and not that he doesnt have money. We build our house together but his family sees him as their Lord and this man train his cousins, nieces, and now had the mind to tell me again that he has adopted another child of his cousin to sponsor. He never pays our kids school fees 100%, I'll always have to balance the rest cos I do not want embarrassment from their school.

We moved abroad some years ago and no he says he'll drive my kids out of the house once they clock 14, but he is training his family children who are over 25 years old. Well, I don't have many, I can train them but I truly regret this marriage,

I am never going to advise anyone ot marry.

Coming abroad, this man would sit and call those in Nigeria for hours daily, he is never serious with his work and will chose to work form home until he got sacked and since then he's being struggling to get a job and I am getting blammed daily. He said his friends called him to warn him never to give me a smiling face, they dont know I have never had a smiling face from him and this man has gone from bad to worst.

You all who it to read social media comments over men who cry woes abroad, if I leave this one now and he comes on social media, you all will start to condemn the woman without listening to her. Am in pain, it has gone from worse while in Nigeria to worst here abroad. Everyday he says marriages dont work abroad, regret coming but go back he is refusing saying we must all go back with him. I cant, I rather remain here and cut off from all my friends and family.

Maybe I remained in the marriage because of shame from people around. And I am not from that loving family so they'll laugh me.

Am so sad; at times, I just feel I never said yes to him, I had many other suitors. but I considered him because he was nice then, things changed the very first day we got married, he started telling me all the evil advise his family had advised him.

I regret building with him; I should have invested on my own.

He has never bought even a shirt for his kids, shoes, toys, christmas cloths, nothing, i Mean notihng, never. when their school asked they buy laptops, he said they are not of the age, nothing. But this man dishes out money to others. I have been supportive enough, but still not appreciated. All i get is name calling, I have never since our marriage of 16 years received a gift, I dont know what it looks like. They have never owrn christmas dress bought by their father.

yinkus6750:
They will come and start blaming the first lady now.
There are policies and procedures for doing things.
Imagine preparing akara in an unhygienic environment.
By the road side, and beside an open major drainage.
No show glass to put the akara.
Follow and obey the rules, and nobody will seize your items.

Karleb:
My Guy is back!!!!!!!

I am discombobulated.

Righteousness2:
Awesome rebuttal speech from the US Ambassador..
That is a man of wisdom


Great to see that the American Ambassador had the Boldness and Courage to Rebut President Trump wayward talk.

President Donald Trump, you have been a great President, infact the Greatest American President in modern times. But we will NOT FAIL to hit you hard when you miss the track.

Your Speech today on ISRAEL not Existing without you and all that was the Most Senseless thing for any human to say.
Do you want to Destroy yourself and Nation?
Do you want to become the modern Day Nebuchadnezzer who went into the bush and became an animal for 7years because of his utterances?

Who the hell are you to utter such words on THE COVENANT NATION OF THE HOLY ONE OF ISRAEL.

ARE You not afraid President Trump?

I love you so much President Trump but I must tell you truth.
You have acted Foolishly in making such utterance.

You Must REPENT Quickly and come out boldly and reject such Utterance. Else you destroy yourself.

ISRAEL IS GOD ALMIGHTY COVENANT NATION, POWERED , PRESERVED AND VICTORIOUS BY TGE GOD OF ABRAHAM ISAAC SND ISRAEL.. not by a mere creature .

LabStores:
According to you and your pessimistic unpatriotic mentality

amancalledgodd:
So im increasing it to 500k monthly
Once she agress to 3x sex in a week

amancalledgodd:
Imagine when i go club i spend average of 1m just on friday.
My 3 month babe since i met her she hold me down i no dey club again.

Tenrack:
I second this. Spoil your woman make another man no snatch am. A word is enough for a fool.

amancalledgodd:
Pls try to get her
Women are really scarce and needs to be treated well. I put my babe on monthly salary 100k and this june is her birthday.
I have an upcoming surprise for her.
Make i no talk much she dey here dey read. Spoil your woman o

brightzstart:
Landlady oh.
E no dey ever happy if person no buy everything for her shop.
Even when she no dey sell better things

Privateworld:
I did traditional marriage may 2024 and this month makes it two years now. My main issue is my wife hasnt put to bed and i dont have patience anymore. I want a child and i dont want to be disrespectful by having an affair while been in marriage. I want to return her bride price and look for someone else.

I need advice on the how to go about the process of returning bride price. She is a calabar girl and I'm from Adamawa .

udofia234:
Lust.. really?

udofia234:
Not shallow brother .... Have u ever loved?

udofia234:
Just like I was advised by my niggas here to let everything rest, that she has moved on and our parts are now different.....


So I told her I've forgiven her from my heart, that I have one last wish .....


If only she can at least grant it for me for the sake of the love we once shared...... I know some might find this story fictitious, but I don't care, it's happening to me just this week....


Back to my wish......


I told her I wanted to have sex with her as a goodbye and we can now part for ever .......



She became mad at me and insisted she'll level up a charge against me....



Guys I'm only seeking an advise please....
Have I committed any punishable crime under the law? It was just a harmless conversation........



I never knew she has changed so much to a wicked and devlish nun....

After all she did to me she's sueing me... The man she kept telling 8 years ago that she loved with all her life.....

This show she never loved me.....


I got it was a joke until I was contacted today by court baliff ....... 😠😠😠
...


You can see how women change?




She even threatened to go to my parents parish to report them to the Reverend father so they'll be bared from holy Communion and worker..... Please is this not wickedness? How does this concern my parents?


I know I messed up! Was eaten up by unforgiveness now see where it's going for me now......


I'm thinking of also threatening her that I'll write and accuse her before mother General of seducing me into asking her for sex.....

I need your candid advise, this is my life line for now......



Legal luminaries in the house help me out......

Boladogailese:
Please ooo leave that number 10 o if you see my neighbors sexy Rottweilers

AlphaMale666:
Never open up to a woman or let them know your business plans and how much money you have! They are demons! They will spoil whatever plans you have or want to execute! They're deceitful in a nature! It's their nature to be like that! I'm talking from experience. If you have girlfriend or whatever, never open up to them! They're all bastards! They'll turn whatever plans you have into a disaster! I don warn you!

Ebawaters:
I Have been dating this girl for 5 months now, before i met her she was using an itel tourch light phone. I promise to get her a smart phone which we could use on Whatsapp because buying of airtime to communicate is too costly.

I felt maybe getting her a phone would kill boredom. After closing from work and on weekends she has something that will keep her busy.

Before buying the phone i thought she is that calm and responsible girl and giving me the girlfriend vibe though we have not slept with each other.

I bought her a brand new redmi phone on 2nd of April. But since i got her the phone she has changed drastically.

What she's posting on her WhatsApp status want to give me heart attack. I just new this girl didn't like me at all. I decided to test her. I called her a day before yesterday that am low on airtime, that she should help send me 200 airtime to buy data to open my bank app to do some transactions.

This girl said she didn't have 200 naira. She's looking for money to buy data for herself. In the next 2 hours i saw her online this the same girl that told me she didn't have at all. Omo i have spent for this girl. I love her. I think it is time to move on and count my loss. You see women matter count me out. She doesn't care i have been dating myself all along.

owobokiri:
These are the sort of reckless political actions that helps to heat up the polity and put democracy in dire straights...
Actions like these only showcase in stark terms the desperate tendencies of the corrupt bunch in power.
It is an abuse of the democratically process..

If you lived through the days of coups and countercoups in Nigeria, I bet you will be somewhere tightening your anus as the Presidency and their lackeys continue with these iniquitous and reckless acts of impunity!

Not even ex military Heads of States like Obasanjo and Buhari tried these. They could have done so easily, but they didn't. For a reason too; they knew how things can unravel quickly when every section of the country feel disenchanted. Those cheering Tinubu on should know that this path he and Wike have choosen, is fraught with all sorts of political landmines..

It is a democracy!
Allow the opposition to flourish!!
That provides the populace with some sort of escape valve to air their frustrations within the democratic environment. The very moment you seal all channels of legitimate political dessent, you leave all opposition forces with little options to operate legitimately.
That is a prelude to mayhem...

Lampy336:
One beautiful small girl is presently in my life thinking that she has met a very Mr nice guy in my mind knowing what I want which it was her kpekus

Freshtruth:
You meet a beautiful Girl take her number, you started chatting she said her sub will soon get exhausted you do 7gg for her. The next day you called her, she ask u if u Ve eaten u said yes, then u ask her she said no you ask y she said no money (but she ve a job) you send her 5k to get something. Next thing she told you she will give you a chance you became happy, smiling and you are in love. She called to check on u you are happy she told you she want to make her hair you send her 20k , then she called you babe your head began to swell and she said I want to change my phone my love then you support her with 60k , Frome there you buy her good creams clothes . Then she decided to sleep with you and tell you promise u won't break my heart you said yes happily. You start spending on her . Another guy sees her like her approach her that guy is more guided than you probably own a car and more responsible and presentable than you she gave him her number they start talking and she starts giving you attitude. Next thing you will hear is what have you done for me. You end up been depressed drink around . Maybe emotions will want you to commit sucide
.why the new guy is giving her new trips and knacking her and she is moaning. You have succeeded in helping her fulfill her dreams of meeting a guy she always dream of. Bro I never did this shit before if the billing done dey pass 5k I done loose interest . Me buy my girlfriend phone above 50k say wetin happen? Mind you am an offshore worker with a monthly salary of 800k